I’ve been sitting, staring at this blank page for about 2 hours now.
Granted, I’ve taken a few breaks to peruse Buzzfeed, watch a Korean makeup video, and get ready for bed, but let’s face it. I’ve got writer’s block.
Which royally stinks.
So I’m going to go back to my roots here tonight. Return to why I started this blog in the first place.
Sometimes, when I think back to when I was in the throes of anorexia, it catches my breath. Thinking about all the ways I was ruled by this menacing dictator in my head: ED. Days were calculated to the minute. Choices and moments were heightened, inducing high stakes anxiety attacks. I was in the most extreme vortex of panic, all the time. About food. Exercise. Movement. Calories. Body image. Fear. Stress. Routines. Schedules. Secrecy.
I was trapped. A prisoner in my own disordered mind.
And honestly, thinking back to how entrenched I was – truly, in every sense of that word — completely consumed, suffocated, — I honestly cannot believe that I escaped. Because during that time, I would have never thought that freedom from that state of strangulation was possible. The thought of being recovered, it was simply unimaginable. Overwhelming to consider. It seemed completely unattainable.
And I don’t think I’m alone in that. For a lot of girls trapped in an eating disorder, imagining a life free from ED is downright impossible. Just the thought of the next meal is enough to send you into a full-blown panic attack, so the thought of a recovered life where you eat without fear, have a healthy body, and accept who you are…it’s simply out of the realm of possibilities.
So how then, did I do it?
I think that’s the question I get asked the most. How did I break free? How did I embrace recovery when I was so sick.
And I know, the answer “It was God” is enough to give you eye strain from the severity of the eye roll it solicits.
But here’s the truth.
It only takes one baby step. One decision. One choice: I am going to begin the journey of recovery.
One moment of looking up and saying, “help.” Because that’s it – you don’t have to have all the steps figured out yet. You won’t. Guaranteed. You won’t know what you will need, how you will do it, what tools/strategies/methods/obstacles/detours you will need along the way, but that’s okay. You don’t have to.
Because that’s where God comes in.
That’s what I mean when I say, “It was God.”
All I had to do was make the decision to try. To begin. To start.
It’s like that scene in Aladdin (I know, I’m a sucker for classic Disney. Don’t give me none of this Pixar crap…)
Aladdin takes a step off of Jasmine’s balcony, and as he’s about to fall, the magic carpet swoops in and gives him footing.
God will give you what you need for the journey. He’ll give you everything necessary to succeed.
But I had to give Him my “yes.” I had to choose to begin.
Were there days that I slipped up? 100%. Heck, I had a period where I relapsed. Hard.
Where was God then?
Well I’ll tell ya. God’s not the welfare system. I mean, He is...Grace is the biggest “government” handout we’ll ever be privileged enough to receive.
But – we have to actively work, too.
I had to make the conscious decision every day to stick to recovery. I always have. Always will.
But when I choose to make that decision, and ask for help, I get it. Every time.
So that how “I did it.” That’s how I broke free.
I said yes, He provided the way.
Now…back to those Korean make up videos…
*And a huge thank you and shoutout to Fr. Mike for being my inspiration for this piece 🙂
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279 responses to “How Did I Recover?”
Great post for someone with writer’s block 😉 Thanks for sharing this today, I needed some inspiration.
Thank you friend:) I really appreciate it. Big hugs xox
Awesome! Thank you for going back and remembering for all of us. . . What an inspiration. I don’t have ED; however, my plate is full, so to speak. I face my own demons . . . everyday. And your blog is such an encouragement! Thank you.
Thank you so much 🙂 I really appreciate your kind words! It’s true – we all are facing our own “stuff” but we’re all in this together! 🙂 so glad you stopped by! big hugs xo
I admire you for recovering and coming back stronger from an ED. Like you said yourself it’s not an easy thing to do at all, but here you are blogging about it! I’ll let you get back to your Korean make-up videos now 😉 (wanna send some along to me?) Jk jk. The only makeup I own is an eyeliner pencil.
Thank you 🙂 haha oh yes! they are so fascinating to watch! If you’re looking for an awesome vlogger, Pony is truly transformative in her makeup. But for regular stuff, I really like KathleenLights and Tati 🙂 haha yay for eyeliner 🙂 lol!!! big hugs to you! thanks for your encouragement! xox
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Good post. Did you ever find out what caused you to take the step into ED? I know you say thoughts in your head but did you ever discover who planted those thoughts? It’s important because you learn who your adversaries are. Just like Paul teaching us how to spot Satan’s deceptions, we learn. Then we can point out to others how to spot a deceiver saving others from the pitfalls we missed. You are beautiful and you are a princess in God’s eyes and mine.
Thank you so much! Wow what a kind thing to say:) you know, it was really a combination of a lot of things. Mainly pride and striving for perfection. So now I definitely have learned to let those things go. With God anything is possible! Hugs and love xox
Awesome testimony and affirmation! So proud of you for sharing your journey! You are awesome and inspirational! Thank you !
Thank you Rick! I really appreciate the encouragement 🙂 So glad you stopped by! Have a great night! xox
I like your blog posts, and I like your videos. And I admirte your candor and your willingness to share yourself with us. In my opinion, all those little video clips you insert detract from your message. You, my dear, don’t need anything extra at all to embellish your beautiful testimony. I just scroll through all those things and read what you write. The rest is wasted on me. I don’t know, maybe your other readers love them, and I’m just the old misfit, but I’n in one of those tell-it-like-it-is zones tonight.
In Jesus’ precious name Steven Sawyer stevesaw@gmail.com http://stevensawyer.wordpress.com/
On Thu, Sep 29, 2016 at 7:00 PM, BeautyBeyondBones wrote:
> beautybeyondbones posted: “I’ve been sitting, staring at this blank page > for about 2 hours now. Granted, I’ve taken a few breaks to peruse Buzzfeed, > watch a Korean makeup video, and get ready for bed, but let’s face it. I’ve > got writer’s block. Which royally stinks. So I’m goi” >
Hi Steven! Thank you so much! And I appreciate the feedback. I’ll definitely keep that in mind for future post:) so glad you stopped by! Big hugs xox
I think this is my favorite post, that you have ever written. I loved it! Love and God Bless, SR
Thank you so much, SR! Wow that’s such a kind thing to say. Seriously, I’m smiling right now because of you! I’m glad you enjoyed it:) Hugs and love xox
I am glad I made you smile! You have such a beautiful one, anyways! We all need one good smile a day, don’t we? Love and God Bless, SR
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Love this person. Love them. So faithful.
Thank you so much for the reblog! Hope you’re having a great night! Hugs and love xox
You’re prettttty. 🙂
Awww you’re so sweet! Thank you! Glad you stopped by:) big hugs xox
Thank you for this, for me and for all the other people who need a message of inspiration, to know that we can do this.
Thanks friend. So glad it resonated with you:) yes! We CAN! Hugs and love xox
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Hey Mike! Yeah, i definitely loved Toy Story and Finding Nemo:) haha thanks for reading! Hugs and love xox
I thought so. I mean, come on, “Toy Story” I was fighting back the tears so my kids wouldn’t tease me.
Haha I know. Woody and buzz will forever hold a special place in my heart. Oh–and mr. Potato head too 🙂
“Lemme put on my angry eyes” best part of the movie 🙂
And Sid burning that mark on Woody’s head. Too funny. That movie brought back so many childhood memories. Darn it, now you’re going to make me go find the DVD. I’ll never get to sleep.
I know! Haha oh gosh! I’m sorry!! Time well spent though:) ❤️❤️❤️❤️happy watching!
I soooo needed to hear this. Thank you.
Thanks friend:) glad it resonated with you! Big hugs xox
Love you girl! Such courage and strength you give to others! You have been called for a purpose Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Thank you so much Elizabeth! Aw what a kind thing to say:) yes! What a comfort to know that he really does work all things for good. Thanks for the encouragement! Hugs and love xox
So positive. God is good all of the time even when we feel we don’t deserve it. Thankfully He’s so loving and forgiving and never gives up on us when He knows we are truly ready to take those right steps whatever they may be. Keep up the positive work. BLESSINGS.
Thank you Corrie:) so true-especially when we feel we don’t deserve it. Thanks for this awesome perspective. As always, your wisdom is so appreciated:) Hugs and love xox
I would never have guessed that you had writers block. Great post. Beautiful is what you are inside and out. When you say yes to God he does the rest.
Thanks Lesa:) wow, your words touched my heart:) amen to that! God is good! Hugs and love xox
Awesome! Because you broke it down to the simplest answer, “Help me God!” That’s it… that’s all there is to it, the beginning anyway:) Then we apply what God has said and promised. Everything else just fits into place:) Bless His Holy Name and God bless you too!
Thank you so much:) you’re right-that’s it! He will uphold us. And thanks again for sharing this! I’m honored:) Hugs and love xox
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Thanks for the link up! Big hugs xox
Of course, I’ll help you anyway I can God bless you sister.
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Great post! The other day via a Facebook generated link my life quote was ‘be kind to everyone you meet, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle.’ This so so rings true – have a great day xx
Hi! Oh wow-Facebook can be so wise sometimes:) hehe thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox
If only my writer’s block could produce something like this. You make God accessible and beautiful, something a lot of religion has a hard time doing.
haha thanks David. That really means a lot 🙂 glad it resonated with you. hope your Thursday is going well! big hugs xox
Nice job. God bless.
Thanks 🙂 I appreciate you taking the time to read! Hugs and love xox
Wonderfully encouraging! Thank you!
Thanks:) you’re always such a great source of encouragement. Hugs and love xox
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Thanks 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Of course! XOxo…
❤️ happy PreFriday!
Funny you say that, I’ve been thinking it was Friday off and on all day. Ha! Thanks Beauty…
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Haha tomorrow! Woooo!!
So close, just settling for the night
Waiting for Friday around the corner.
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Beauty*
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What?
Well she is Mermaid…
Ok, okay you are too…
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I can relate so much. When I decided to get help, my therapist challenged me to only weigh myself once a day (unheard of for me who typically weighed myself 10+ times a day). Anyways, I wrote Philippians 4:13 on my mirror that night and didn’t weigh myself the entire weekend. The help of the Lord is crucial for recovery in my opinion as well. Xoxo
Thank you so much. I love that verse too. So awesome. You’re a warrior. God is good and I’m so glad you’ve found freedom too! Sending massive hugs! Xox
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Thanks Jeffrey! Can’t wait to read it when I get home! Hugs and love xox
“I was trapped. A prisoner in my own disordered mind.” Such a relevant quote for me as well when I look back on myself before I received the right treatment for my mental illness.
Thank you so much for this. I’m sorry you can relate personally. So glad you’ve found freedom too!! Hugs and love xox
I always get something out of your posts. Thank you for sharing. Things have been challenging for me lately. Both in good ways and not so good ways. Still, a clean life is very good, even when it ain’t so hot 🙂
Aw thank you so much thommy! I’m so glad they resonate with you! I’m sorry things have been challenging lately. Hang in there. You got this 👍❤️ big hugs xox
Love it!
Thanks Doug! Appreciate it:) Hugs and love xox
Great share, love that you mentioned relapse….. it’s not always a smooth path to recovery…
Thank you so much! You’re right- lots of bumps along the way. Thanks for the encouragement. Hugs and love xox
Please keep me in your prayers…
Definitely will do, Pi. Hang in there. Hugs and love xox
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God’s grace comes without any action on our part. But we can miss it if we’re not an active participant!
Thank you for the reblog! Hugs and love xox
It only takes one baby step 🙂 Thats cute 😀 He is the Way, but we have to trust and to walk. With every marvellous and epic baby step haha
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Yes! So true. We’ve gotta walk! Big hugs xox
One thing is certain: you love hugs 😛
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You know it!! Haha
Growing up my dad and my little inside joke was that we’d always say, “my hug meter is low” and then bring it in for a bear hug:) precious memories ❤️
Amazing memories! Your dad is grest. You have an infinite free hug coupon from me 😉 (valid forever) and you are always welcome, if your hug meter is low.
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And by the way … I loved Aladdin too 😀 and Jasmine! I always wanted a Cat with the name Aladdin.
Usually when I want to leave a comment on someone’s post, I read the post over a couple of times to gather my thoughts.
This one, however, required only one read-through. I knew exactly what I wanted to say in my comment. It isn’t much, but it is so much: You are blessed and God is good.
May God bless you always. 🙂
Awww thank you so much:) that just make my heart all warm:) hugs to you friend xox
Hugs back to you! 😀
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Glad you fought through your writer’s block! This was such an inspiration to me … just get started! Thank you!
Thanks Shelia. So glad it hit home with you! Big hugs xox
You are a beautiful young lady and an inspiration to all who read your posts. I am so happy that you decided to recover and asked God to help you figure out your path. I too gave up and asked God for help and got it … once I let Him help me.
Thank you so much Parca. What a kind thing to say:) me too. God is good. So glad you received his grace too! Hugs and love xox
Once again, truly inspirational and makes me think of the struggles in my life that I had to overcome. Reading through this three times over, and thinking back on my own life, it actually brought me to tears a little bit because I began thinking about how, when I truly realized I needed God, I turned and I did not have to go find Him, He was just there, waiting for me to turn to Him, ask His forgiveness, and He embraced me. God doesn’t leave His children, He follows after them, subtly imploring them to turn to Him, but He waits for them to make that decision, but what’s truly amazing is that He WAITS. He was extremely patient with me just as He was extremely patient with you–just waiting for you to say that you can’t do anything on your own and you need God to pull you up.
Caralyn, your scars don’t define where you’re going, only where you have been. Just think on how Christ bears the scars He received from his death–and those scars only tell us what Jesus has done for us. If I might quote another Disney reference:
Stay beautiful in Christ, Caralyn! Always praying!
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Thanks Tom:) I can always count on you for such powerful insight and thoughtful encouragement. I’m so glad it resonated with you and that you too know the merciful and saving hand of God. Amen : by his stripes we are healed. Can’t wait to check out the video. Big big hugs xox
Glad I can do it! And I should be thanking you, you definitely know how to reach people and touch their hearts. You definitely have a gift of healing and wisdom!
Hope you’re having a good night! Have a great Friday and a great start to your weekend!
Same to you 🙂 xoxox
“I had to make the conscious decision every day to stick to recovery. I always have. Always will.” – That is the only way. Faith. I have yuppie flu. I am now 52. My “illness” started when I was around 30. I will never stop believing that I will beat this phenomenon. See http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2972865/Proof-yuppie-flu-real-illness-Study-finds-chronic-fatigue-commonly-seen-professionals-not-just-mind.html
Thank you Cheetahs. Yes. Faith! Looking forward to checking out that article. Thanks for passing it along. Living in Manhattan, I definitely see a lot of cases of the “yuppies.” Thanks for stopping by! big hugs to you friend xox
I absolutely love your analogy of Aladdin and the magic carpet. That is perfect- just taking that first step and God does the rest when you cannot yourself. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts always, sweet girl. I admire you beyond words! <3
Hey Mack! Aw thanks:) yeah leave it to Disney to give us powerful life lessons:) Aladdin was always one of my favs! I really appreciate your kind words, lady. So glad you enjoy the blog:) sending massive hugs! Happy Friday! Yay!
Right? Disney is the best. Sending hugs right back atchya. Have a wonderful weekend. <3
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Thanks for sharing. God helped me through depression and my experience of His help was as you described; I had to say yes, God, I need your help. But honestly, I had to be brought so low before I was willing to say that. But He was always there even when I turned away from Him bitterly.
Thank you friend, for sharing your story. So glad you’ve found that freedom too. God is good. 🙂 big hugs to you xox
Great testimony of strength. Thank you for sharing your story. In things like shame and insecurity that keep people beaten down, you have found the right perspective and found your strength in overcoming your challenges with strength from God. I’m always encouraged and refreshed in my own spirit to hear stories like these.
Thank you so much! Yes, God is God and I owe everything to Him! Thanks for the encouragement! Hugs and love xox
I hear you! While ED is decades behind me, I’ve discovered in the years since that my dependence upon God’s strength, mercy, grace and healing has continued in pretty much every aspect of my life. ED was just one battle in the war of mortality. That said, lest I sound morbidly depressing, life is not just a war zone; life offers love and joy and beauty as well. But I have learned this life is about struggles challenges and growth of which I simply am not in control and thus cannot conquer without God. I’ve come to recognize this is His design, His plan; a plan which brings about His purpose.
Thanks GD! That’s so awesome-yes With God’s strength, anything is possible. Thanks for this powerful perspective:) Hugs and love xox
God could and would if He were sought………….
Hi Mike, yes, God is good! Ask and we shall receive! Hugs and love xox
Hallelujah! If he is love and we were made in his image, then aren’t we supposed to be receptacles for love? Drink it up, drink it up, drink it up!
Thank you Brian! Haha yes! Love one another – last time I checked that was pretty important to JC 😉 Hugs and love xox
Excellent post. In reality how you found freedom is how we all find freedom. Whether it be an eating disorder, fear, worry, whatever. This is how I’m finding freedom from fear. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much! Wow that is such a powerful perspective. So glad you’ve found that freedom too! Big hugs xox
Thank you! God’s blessings!
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Very nice 🙂
Thank you so much. Hugs and love xox
Your story is inspiring. God turns a simple “yes” into more than we can ask or imagine.
Thanks Brandon:) I really appreciate it. Big hugs xox
Very touching story…thank God for his grace, the greatest welfare system…love it!
Thanks for this comment! Yes-God is good! Hugs and love xox
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Thank you so much for the share!
Hi beautybeyondbones, I’ve enjoyed your blog and you’re always so bubbly and encourging to others that I’ve nominated you for the Sunshine Blogger award.
Thanks Connie! Oh wow that’s so kind of you! What an honor:) big hugs xox
(HUGS) right back at you!
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You are a warrior and an inspiration. Anorexia is one of the most difficult things to battle. As you are probably aware of, the success rates are not usually great. Your blog I hope will help to change that. Having been on both sides of the scale there is criticism no matter what size you are. Trying to be happy with yourself the way you are is a difficult achievement. Good luck and keep writing.
Aw thank you so much Darie. I really appreciate your encouragement. Big hugs xox
Amazing <3 God is good!!! 😀
Thank you so much 🙂 glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox
When I was going through what seemed an insurmountable situation, I told God often that it was HIs to handle. Too big for me. It turned out better than my wildest dreams. I’m with you, sister.
Thank you Kay:) isn’t it amazing what God can do when we give Him the wheel?! Hugs and love xox
You are such an inspiration to those who are going through the same thing, and inspiration to us who need to know that we can indeed do the most difficult of things. Congratulations!
Oh my gosh thank you so much Connie! What a kind thing to say:) yes we can! Big hugs xox
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Beautiful!
Thanks Alex:) I appreciate it! Hugs and love xox
Thank you Alex for liking my blog. You’re the first non-family member to like. I am spanking brand new to the blogging world and have a ton to learn, but like you said in this post…you just have to start! Thank you for sharing with us.
You’re welcome! Welcome to the wonderful and crazy world of blogging! Glad you stopped by! -Caralyn xox
I’m so sorry, I called you Alex…oops. I mean Carolyn!
Haha no worries! I just came out with my name a couple weeks ago ❤️👍❤️👍❤️👍
Amen! Genuine truth spoken.
Thanks Cheryl:) I appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
What a hard question to answer! I’m surprised you only suffered two hours of writer’s block when trying to describe such a tremendous and personal struggle… Something like a journey through ED recovery defies the limitations of language. If I’d known what was in store for me when I first walked in to see a psychologist for help with my depression, how I would gradually reveal all of my secrets, and the total destruction of my life that would follow (which was necessary before the reconstruction could begin), I never would have taken that first step. In the Catechism, it says that God reveals himself to humans gradually, because if he revealed himself all at once we wouldn’t be able to bear the tremendous was and awesomeness of his power and glory. I am so glad that he also only shows us enough of the path ahead that we can *just* take the next step. If I knew everything that was coming, I think my head would explode! I really loved reading this post. What honest reflections on a topic that defies words, and a wonderful reminder to trust, to surrender, and to let the one who creates us do just that – keep creating us. Thank you!
Hi Lulu-you’re so right. We would fall over at how amazing He is! Thanks for this thoughtful reflection. Hope you’re having a great weekend! Hugs and love xox
OH MY GOODNESS. I’ve only just discovered your blog today, and already I’m sitting here reading closing to all your posts. Your writing skills are very down to earth, conversational whilst also getting be plain truth across.
This is helping me to see the logical side of my ED obsession, and already I am so thankful for every word and the quote you’ve contributed. You actually make me want to read MORE, rather than being triggered half way through an article. Thank you kindly, friend!
Thanks Friend! So glad our paths crossed and that my posts have resonated with you. Sending massive hugs oxox
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Wasn’t the response I was expecting but alright.
Sorry! What were you expecting? 🙂
Something a little less generic. Everything always sound so impersonal and surface.
I’m sorry you feel that way! I guess I’m just a little confused. I don’t know what “Beauty Beyond This” is… is it a book?
Lol! That was honestly kind of cute but no, it’s just the title of the poem. “Beauty Beyond” is referring to you and “This” is taking about WP. The poem is about/to you.
That’s why I was disappointed by your response…
OHHHH! Oh my gosh I had no idea! Lemme go read it 🙂
Hey! I just read it. Wow…very powerful and I am so touched that you wrote it:) thank you. Also: I hope I have not hurt you in any way, and if I have said/did something that offended you, please accept my sincere apology❤️ sending big hugs xox
Also, I written quite a few poems for you. If you ever see a poem titled “Beauty Beyond” whatever it’s for you. Lol
Aw:) that is seriously awesome. I’m so touched:) thank you xoxoxoox
You’re welcome. I used to have the biggest crush on you. You were a good muse. You’re were so perfect to me. I loved how much you loved God. But then I realized you weren’t even following me. So then it felt like everything you said was artificial; a front. That was upsetting. I did my best to show you all the support and love I could but it just didn’t feel like you were genuine anymore. I don’t know what I expected. It just wasn’t that. I accept your apology though…
I could have sworn I was following you! That is my mistake. I just corrected it:) Chris, I’m sorry that you feel I am artificial. That actually really makes me sad because I have poured my soul out and have been as genuine and vulnerable and un-artificial as I could possibly be, and I mean every word that I say, every response I reply with, every like I press– it comes from my heart. Truly. And I am very sorry that you don’t feel that. Hopefully I can earn your respect and trust in the future:) know that I have/do/always will appreciate your support and kindness. Your friendship is important to me:) thank you for accepting my apology. Big hugs xox
Don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t talking about your posts. You’ve been very brave in sharing your recovery and personal life. That’s what make you so amazing but there people out there that fall victim to all the likes and follows and put on this persona that’s not necessarily true. I just felt like you might have been one of those and that was disappointing to me; I just think you’re so much better than the hype and desperately kind comments from people. But make no mistake, I respect you. I respect you a lot. I’m just brutally honest and “real” sometimes to a fault. But I’m only like that with people I really believe in.
Well, thanks. 🙂 yeah, no persona here…just weird ol’ me! Haha
You’re not weird. Lol I’m sorry if I seem like too much. I can imagine this all probably caught you off guard…
Totally off guard tbh! Hahha but it’s cool 😎👌👍🤓
I’m sorry…
no worries! 🙂
Friends?
absolutely!! 🙂
Good 🙂 I’m glad we got all that cleared up.
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I don’t think I’ll ever get used to you. Lol
Hah I guess that’s a good thing 🙂
Let’s hope so… lol Have a nice day and stay blessed. It was really nice talking to you.
P.S. I still watch your videos! 🙂
In such like situations I’ve always found it best to in a sense sleep under my shield of positivity. Your fears are more than often worse in your waking hours, so its best to sleep under your shield and to be on the ready for these early morning and waking hour attacks.
Stay strong in Jesus.
Above all take the shield of faith wherewith ye shall be able to quench all of the fiery darts of negativity.
Thanks for this terry. You’re right- the shield of faith is where to find our strength! Big hugs xox
I’m so glad you said God, because when I mention God to others I get the eyes rolling. That’s Ok, because surrendering to God is the biggest step, think of what others are missing out on by not accepting God and His Son Jesus into their lives. God never goes back on His promises,with His Son Jesus on your side, you will triumph and Jesus will give you the strength for each step of the way. Kudos to you Caralyn.
Thank you so much:) you’re right-strength for each and every step of the way. Thanks for stopping by! Big hugs xox
“God’s not the welfare program.” I love that. Yes, we do have to do our part. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks Nita:) I appreciate that. Yes. We have to do our part too. Big hugs xox
Press God, he is the answer to all our problems. It’s just that simple 😊
Hi Cristalle! Yes! Allll our problems:) big hugs xox
Btw thanx for stopping through and supporting my little blog page 😊
You’re so welcome! 😃😃😃
God is amazing isn’t he? We can conquer anything with him by our side!
Hi Morgan! Yes! Such a powerful truth:) big hugs xox
I am so proud of you Caralyn, you are such a blessing to us all, comfort in trials and a huge encouragement to us all! sending you lots of love (& maybe some butternut squash ice cream) 😀 xx
Thanks Benjamin! Haha oh my gosh I’m literally eating some for lunch right now! Haha thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox
bless you haha! its 7.50pm here I made myself a hot chocolate and might have some muesli 😀
Nice! Enjoy!!
I also posted my blog if you have time to check it out and would mean a lot to get feedback from you and for you to share it <3
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All HE does require of us is that we acknowledge the fact that we’re in need of help (and that’s the first step) – His help – and like the “Magic Carpet” you mentioned, He swoops in and saves the day. There’s this saying my priest – Fr Jude – is fond of: “God who created you without your consent, cannot save you without your consent.”
Really good post
Hi there! Thank you so much!wow what a profound statement from your priest! So cool. Thanks for sharing:) Hugs and love xox
Well, I guess that’s why they are theologians and philosophers. 😂
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This was beautiful to read. Thank you for sharing. I was so blessed.
Thank you so much Lydia. I really appreciate that:) thank YOU for taking the time to read! Big big hugs xox
I agree that chasing after perfection sets you up for failure, shame and guilt! Chasing after Christ not only frees us from the guilt, shame and feelings of failure, but He replaces all that JUNK with life and truth! Keep up the good work!!!! I love your blog and your new open photos of yourself as you reveal more truth about yourself and your relationship with Christ.
Yes! Amen to that: life and truth! Thanks so much for your kind words and encouragement. It means the world. Hugs and love xox
I definitely get it! When I struggled with food, God is definitely the one who brought me out of it too. It’d be so nice to say, “Oh, hey, I took this magic pill and suddenly all my struggles were gone…” That’s what people want to hear sometimes. But there is no magic pill. It’s deciding to move forward with your eyes focused on the One who can walk through any storm with us. It’s a journey! But it’s definitely a journey worth taking. 🙂
Hi Nicole! Thanks so much for this reflection. You’re right-there is no magic pill. But amen to that– a journey worth taking! Big hugs to you xox
Thank you for all your support on my blog. It’s not going unnoticed. You are such a blessing and encouragement. A God sent. We have similar stories and you have a real gift for sharing the truth. Thank you so much.
Thank you so much Lily:) I really appreciate your encouraging words. Glad it resonates with you xoxox
Was there ever a time in recovery that you had to completely refrain from working out? If so… How did you deal with it? Im battleing quite a few aspects in my recovery… Trying to really get the idea of what real meals look like. Right now… They just look like a chaotic mess to me. Any advice you could give would be amazing!
Hi there! Yes there was. For an entire year-11 months I was actually on bed rest for my ulcerative colitis. And that was really the test for me because I had been clinging to outrageous workouts. And I had to go cold turkey and it absolutely changed everything for me. I learned to trust my body. And I now no longer am enslaved to exercise. I want to encourage you to try it:) know that I am cheering for you and believe in you:) big hugs to you beautiful xox.
I honestly love reading your blogs, you are an amazing writer and a true inspiration. I don’t know how hard your struggle has been but I do have a husband in his own recovery (for Drug addiction) and me, sort of in a recovery of my own. Keeping sharing your story, you have such a strong message to carry. Thank you xx
Hey Sadelee! Oh my gosh thank you so much. What a kind thing to say. Sending love and prayers your way:) know that I’m cheering for you in your recovery:) xoxoxox
I am happy for you for your progress, your freedom. Your trust in God. Who can do things on their own without God’s help? Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.Unless the Lord watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain.
I like your Aladdin illustration. I watched Aladdin many times. I also like the song “I don’t know about tomorrow…but I know who holds my hand. Take care. You are an inspiration to a lot of people.
Thank you so much:) yes-God is good! And it is through Him that we can do anything! Woo woo! 🙂 haha feeling a little spunky this morning hehe Hope you’re having a great morning! Big hugs xox
I don’t know if it’s actually a biblical quote, but I remember hearing something about trusting god but keep your hand on the plow. Excellent work!
Hey Roger! I like that – strong imagery. Thanks for sharing! Hope your week is off to a great start! Hugs and love xox
Our God is amazing!:)
Yes He is! Thanks for stopping by:) big hugs xox
Thank you for this! Blessings !
You’re so welcome! Thanks for reading! Xox
This post really pinpointed my health and weight journey – even though mine was on the opposite end of yours – overeating and obesity. God has been my strength and I’m giving it all to Him everyday. I love to see how God works in and through our lives. God Bless!
Thanks for sharing your story:)! So glad you have found strength in Him too! God is good. Big hugs xox
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Thanks for the shout out! Big hugs xox
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Thanks for the reblog!! Hugs and love xox
Love this. If you take one step, God will do the rest. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks Tikeetha! So true..God will do the rest!hugs xox
Grace & hard work. Yes. I recall reading an 18th century sermon some years ago (what I do for fun at night…), in which the Episcopal Bishop of Charleston, SC, Robert Smith, preached on the topic of whether we are saved by Grace or Works. His answer was, “Yes, both”. Grace was not a free-pass to continue sinning. Doing good could bring someone to understand grace. Enjoy the gift.
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Hey again Oscar! I’m glad I’m not the only one who listens to sermons for fun! haha But that’s so true – yes, both! hope you’re having a great night xo
What you say is so true for anything you want to change. You just need to start walking away from it and God fills in the gaps, the potholes along the road. Looking at it from a mathematical point of view, a few steps might not be a huge change. However, as you keep walking, the gap between where you are now and where you would have been, has noticeably changed. I am not a maths person and I have dreadful spatial awareness but for some reason, that picture has always spoken to me.
xx Rowena
Hi Rowena, thank you so much for this beautiful reflection. I love that – God DOES fill in the gaps and potholes along the way. Powerful perspective. So glad you stopped by! hugs xox
Thanks very much. Take care and keep those feet moving xx Ro
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Hi I read this post and found you a brave person, I know when someone is brave and we don’t have to do big things, sometimes the tiny things we try to do ourselves to recover from an illness or condition it always requires strength and it is indeed a long dark path to foloow; I might be wrong but when I look into your photo I see dark sad eyes, somehow empty and with sorrow… at leat you are brave to post a photo of yourself 🙂 . You know, as for writer’s block, oh dear I have for a couple of years now, can’t manage to finish to write my two novels nor write my poetry 🙁 . Just keep fighting, you’re not alone here and as far as I can see you have a lot of support from readers which is great. Wish you all the best
Thank you so much Chez. I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond! You’re right. And thank you for your reflection on my photo! I hope I don’t give off an empty sorrowful vibe, because I am definitely full of hope and joy and gratitude for the healing I’ve received! Haha but I can see how that may have come across. It was more of a stylized photo haha I was having fun with my new camera lol glad you stopped by!Hugs and love xox
BBB sometimes what we think we feel is not what our soul shows, some days I think I am happy but my eyes are still sad and full of sorrow… and when I said that it wasn’t in a negative way, you look great really just the look is sad.. have a lovely weekend xx
Gotcha gotcha:) so true — definitely something to really think about. Thanks again for the food for thought. You too! Happy Friday! Big hugs to you xoxo
I missed reading your post for a week and was really missing it. I say every post of yours is an inspiration. I am too begging God..to give me that strength to fight a battle. I firmly believe that he has held my hands, its just that the time probably has not come to lift me out of it. I know I have to really work hard.
I like the quotes above….they mean so much to me and talks of my situation. Thank you love, stay blessed.
Hi Raastha! Aw that’s kind of you to say:) you’re right-we’re safe in His hands:) so glad this hit home with you. Big hugs xox
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Thank you for the link up! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for your honesty and sharing so candidly – faith all the way ..not always easy but when I can turn to it and not away from it ….. 🙂
Thanks Paul. It means a lot:) so glad you stopped by. Hugs and love xox
Saw you liked one of my poems and instantly followed your blog -very uplifting and glad you’re on amazing journey !!! Your blog is a light and glad I can follow along with a similar journey to my healing process !! Thank you !!
Thank you so much! What a kind thing to say:) hugs to you in your healing journey:)
Anytime !! I know what it’s like so the support is absolutely there 🙂 and thank you !! 🙂
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I saw you like one of my post and instantly followed your blog! Your blog is a light and just by reading a few, it has given me hope to continue my journey in healing and I know your journey has been an amazing one and still going. Again thank you for both sharing your light and appreciating mine -xoxo
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I salute your bravery and honesty. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story. I wish you all the best. With this, I nominate you for a 3 Days, 3 Quotes Challenge. Please see my blog for details: https://exploringmama.wordpress.com/2016/10/11/3-days-3-quotes-challenge-day-2/
Thanks! Keep Inspiring!
Thank you so much. And thanks for the nomination! sounds like a powerful challenge 🙂 big hugs xox
I’m so happy I’ve read this because it makes me feel like I’m not alone thanks so much babe, xoxo
Thank you so much Rachel 🙂 I’m so glad it resonated with you! big big hugs xox
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thanks for sharing this! hope you’re having a great day! xox
I really love this. I have lived with bulimia for a very long time and have been in recovery for several years. Daily it is a struggle to not allow myself to fall back into old habits, and trust me it would be easy to do so, but I take each day as it comes and don’t condemn myself in the times that I have relapsed. Thank you for sharing your story x
Thank you so much:) I really appreciate you sharing your story. I’m so glad you’re living in the freedom of recovery. You’re right-it’s a difficult journey but One day at a time:) big hugs xox
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Thank you so much for the link up! Hugs and love xox
always impressed and moved by your work. your real gift that inspires is your creativity and delivery, so each piece really reaches out. I wonder about the road that leads someone to such a terrible place, as you were in, in the first place. How does someone come to slip into such a situation? x
Thank you so much Adrian. Wow what a kind thing to say. Thank you so much. I just like to remember the gratitude of freedom. Hugs and love xox
Great post that applies to any change a person wants to make in their lives. Btw.. what was wrong with the old Jasmine?
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it! Haha aside from her head-to-waist ratio being humanly impossible, nothing! Haha
You know, I started out here on WP.for totally different reasons, and am not sure how I came across your blog. Doesn’t matter. My daughter is an amazing, smart person. She has a very limited diet, but she plays a team sport and I think her diet is holding her back. I think reading some of your posts drove home the point that it is maybe more than a “food pallet”. She pushes herself so hard from the minute she wakes up while school is in session. She literally is going for 15-16 hours straight between school, sports and homework…about double what many working adults do in a week. I know she is very hard on herself, and I am going to start making it a point that her hard work is appreciated, but it’s ok to make a few mistakes. For that matter, she probably learned as much from me about how not to live…made my share of mistakes. Only difference for me today is that I’m not AS MUCH of an idiot today, and don’t dwell on my mistakes for as long now. Anyway I digress…it was sitting here in the quiet morning reading your post that made me think about my daughter. All that to say you have a new follower.
Hey again friend. Wow thank you for this thoughtful response. Gosh, I can definitely relate to that. There were days during high school that I would have to be at school by 6:05 am for various student athlete leadership committees and what not -it was unceasing. And today it’s even more so. The pressures kids face today are unrelenting -and add to that the fact that it’s all broadcast online!! My heart goes out to your daughter. Know that she is in my prayers. I think that’s really wise. Creating an environment where it’s okay to not be *the best* or where messing up is a “step in the growth process” rather than “failure” — that is so vitally important. And thinking about my past-my parents never placed those “perfection” expectations on me-i placed them on myself. If I could tell my high school self one thing it would be, “get B’s and drink a dang beer.” (Not that I condone underage drinking, but for me that went along with the “perfectionism.”) anyway this is long now haha but it sounds like you are an amazing parent and that you have an incredible daughter. Your heart for your daughter is shining so brightly -it is truly beautiful:) feel free to reach out anytime on my email too! Beautybeyondbones@yahoo.com xox
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The truth her speaks to how we as Christians overcome whether sin or failure or an ED and more!
Thank you so much for the reblog! Hugs and love xox
I loved your come back story. I know there is so much more to come for you.
🙂 gosh I feel so empowered right now. Thank you again! Xox
You nailed it:
“It only takes one baby step. One decision. One choice: I am going to begin the journey of recovery”
Thanks Rob:) yeah, sometime that mantra is what gets me through the day! Thanks for stopping by! Happy Sunday! Hugs and love xox
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