I’ve gotta say, I never thought karaoke could be so meaningful until just this past weekend.
If you follow me on Instagram, then you know that earlier in the week, I shared this video, which I will post below.
This weekend was Steven’s late father’s birthday, and his family threw had a family get together to celebrate his life. It was incredibly beautiful and special to be all together.
Rewind for a moment to when Steven and I got engaged.

You may remember watching the video that’s at the beginning of this clip, where I was completely taken by surprise.

But there’s a back story behind that video. If you listen very closely, there’s a Filipino song playing in the background called, “Ikaw at Ako” — which is a beautiful love song that means, “You and Me.”
I’ll paste the lyrics at the end in english so you can read them.
But through out Steven’s father’s battle with cancer, singing karaoke would be one thing we would do. We’d position the speaker so that he could hear it from his room. And during that time, I learned how to sing that song in Tagalog, the language they speak in the Philippines.
And that song became kind of a sound of hope for us, as we walked that journey with him.
And so, when Steven proposed with that song in the background, it made it all the more special, as Steven’s father was there, witnessing the proposal.

It was such a beautiful moment, and now you can understand the overwhelming amount of tears in the video.
Well, fast forward to the present moment, and at his Heavenly birthday party, we all whipped out the karaoke machine again, I was able to sing that song again for him, with his brother singing the male part of the song.
I will always cherish that song, and remember him when I hear it, and Steven and I are trying to think of a way to incorporate it into our wedding next June.
But anyways, I wanted to just share that with you.
I think it’s amazing how the Holy Spirit can move through music — it really is a powerful thing. Afterall, God is the creator of all things beautiful – and music sure is one of those beautiful things that reflects the Maker.
And as mentioned, here are the lyrics to the song.
You And I
They say that someday, what you’re wishing for will come
And when it came, I couldn’t hide my prayers.
The hope that I find in your eyes
And the fear of the thought that you’ll disappear
And now, you’re here
I can’t explain what I feel
I’m ready for forever
I won’t lead you on
I won’t hurt you
From then
Until now
You and I
And finally I’ve found What I’ve been wishing for
I promise you, I’ll put you first
And I won’t deny
The fate I’ve found In your love
Is what will cause this love Of ours to last
And now, you’re there
I can’t explain what I feel
I’m ready for forever
I won’t lead you on
I won’t hurt you
From then (from then)
Until now
You and I
And now, it’s here
I will always hold Your hands
You won’t be alone anymore
For better or for worse
I will love you
From then
Until now
From now
Until the end
You and Me
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18 responses to “The Story Behind Our Engagement”
A beautiful story, guys! ❤️🙏🏻☺️
An old love song
Air and Angels
BY JOHN DONNE
Twice or thrice had I lov’d thee,
Before I knew thy face or name;
So in a voice, so in a shapeless flame
Angels affect us oft, and worshipp’d be;
Still when, to where thou wert, I came,
Some lovely glorious nothing I did see.
But since my soul, whose child love is,
Takes limbs of flesh, and else could nothing do,
More subtle than the parent is
Love must not be, but take a body too;
And therefore what thou wert, and who,
I bid Love ask, and now
That it assume thy body, I allow,
And fix itself in thy lip, eye, and brow.
Whilst thus to ballast love I thought,
And so more steadily to have gone,
With wares which would sink admiration,
I saw I had love’s pinnace overfraught;
Ev’ry thy hair for love to work upon
Is much too much, some fitter must be sought;
For, nor in nothing, nor in things
Extreme, and scatt’ring bright, can love inhere;
Then, as an angel, face, and wings
Of air, not pure as it, yet pure, doth wear,
So thy love may be my love’s sphere;
Just such disparity
As is ‘twixt air and angels’ purity,
‘Twixt women’s love, and men’s, will ever be.
So beautiful Caralyn! So special and meaningful. It reminds me when my mom was bedridden with dementia earlier this year (she passed away 8/1/22), she sang a song to me, Open My Eyes Lord…. Help me to see your face, open my ears Lord, help me to hear your voice…. We chose that song to play at her funeral Mass. So beautiful❤️
Wow…it’s amazing how small things in life, can mean so much, and make you feel like you’ve got all the world’s happiness…
Congratulations
Love,
Aadya
What a wonderful way to celebrate Steven’s father. The song is beautiful. Hugs and love! ❤️🤗
It could be the song for your first dance. We love, enjoy, and are honored to have you share these precious and awesome moments with us. Hugs and Love 🤗 & ❤️!
So precious!! I am so happy for you both! God has rewarded your diligence with this beautiful union and extended family. So precious! Love you! Hugs! XO😃❤️
I’ve enjoyed the music on my many trips to the Philippines and living there for a while. The people are very musical by nature. Unfortunately I almost cracked my ankle trying to negotiate the bamboo stick dance. LOL
Thanks for sharing. I’m not much for love stories, but you two definitely have a good one. I’m happy for you.
You so beautiful
Goosebumps!! (Literally) Blessings, Carlyn!
Beautiful! So special! 💖💖
So happy for you. Congratulations
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
thank you Dawn! 🙂 i hope you’re having a great start to the week! Hugs and love xox
Lovely. Thank you for sharing. God bless.
What a sweet way to get engaged. I am so happy for you.
aw thank you friend! Hugs and love xox