Read This First

If you’re reading this, I’d like to welcome you and give you a hug.

Maybe you’re the parent or loved one of someone suffering with an eating disorder. Perhaps you’re in the throes of anorexia yourself. Maybe you think you may have the beginning stages of disordered eating. Or perhaps you’re on the journey to recovery.

Whatever has brought you here, I hope that through the story of my brokenness, and redemption through the Lord, you are able to find hope, encouragement, advice, healing, support, and comfort.

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This blog chronicles my journey from severe anorexia to recovery, and every twist and turn along the way. The blog posts are meant to be read from beginning to end, as a book. (( Glorious Wounds is the Introduction.)) So I would suggest reading “up” — starting from my oldest post, and working backwards to the most recent. This is my first post.

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I must warn you that the beginning is very dark — intense, raw, and despairing. It is an uncensored view into my mind when I was deep in my anorexia. However, I chose to be vulnerable and share that utter brokenness — that wreckage — in order for you to truly grasp the gravity of the disease, and how sincerely meaningful freedom through Christ has been in my life.

I also hope that you’ll find the resources section of my blog helpful. If you or a loved one is suffering with disordered eating habits, please seek professional help.

With that being said, I am not a doctor. I’m not a therapist, dietician, counselor, psychiatrist, etc. I’m just a girl. Who had a severe case of anorexia. And who is journeying through recovery, one day at a time. I’m just sharing my story with the hopes that it will help even one person.

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2,012 responses to “Read This First”

  1. I follow you on Instagram. Also, I have been thinking about going through your blog. Would it be triggering for me? I’m scared because I never suffered from being severely underweight and sometimes hearing about extreme anorexia is super triggering.

    • Hi Madison,
      Thanks for checking out my blog. So here’s my thoughts: I think if you are easily triggered, the beginning of my blog, where I recount my experience in the actual thick of the disease may be hard for you to read, as I discuss numbers and really get into it. It is very dark. However, if you start reading at my March 18th post, “How I Actually Got Better,” you will find those posts from then on helpful, encouraging, and not triggering. I hope that helps and I hope that you find comfort and encouragement here. Thank you for stopping by. Stay strong love. 😘

  2. Well, I started here about two days ago, and now, I spend almost every free moment pulling out my smartphone and reading the next installment. My brother’s wife was diagnosed earlier this year, and is now in rehab (although just diagnosed, this started when she was 15. She’s in her mid 30’s now). Though I don’t know her well (they live in another state), much of what I’m reading sounds just like her: very intelligent, athletic, perfectionist, has everything together, etc. Before I started reading, I did not understand ED. I knew that it was more than just “Can’t she just eat more?”, but had no idea. Until I started reading this. Thank you. I obviously still don’t understand from the standpoint of ‘been there’, but I’m beginning to understand the bondage, the utter helplessness, self-contempt, despair. When I got to “How I Actually Got Better,” I was in tears. I’ve tried reading about it on some other websites, but it was all so clinical, I couldn’t get a feel for what she (and my brother) are going through. I appreciate your very personal, candid account. I want everyone who knows her to read it. Thank you.

    • Hi Monte,
      Thank you so much for these thoughtful words of encouragement. I’m sorry that your sister-in-law is going through this. I’m glad she’s getting help. And I’m also glad that you’ve found my blog to be helpful. That’s why I wrote it: because in talking with my loved ones, the overwhelming theme was that no one really understood what was going on. So I wrote this to shed some light on what their loved one is going through. What I wish I could have told my loved ones during the thick of my disease. I will keep you, your family, and your sister-in-law in my heart and prayers. She’s lucky to have a loving and caring support system by her side through this difficult time. Please, don’t hesitate to email me with any further questions: anorexiarevealed@yahoo.com

  3. It takes a lot of courage and faith to let others see your wounds, but when they see a restoration and see that there the hope of overcoming and that above all there is someone that understands.
    And having it in a written format that they can read in complete privacy and let all those healing tears flow is priceless. I pray God blesses you every step of the way and uses you to shine light so others can see their way out of the darkness.

  4. Thank you for recently visiting my blog. I wish you all the best in your full recovery, healing internally and physically as you make your way through this process and pray the Lord will bless you and your blog as you share from is in your heart to the hearts of others who desperately need the same help. God bless and keep you in Him.

  5. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. I have found in life that not only is sharing our stories therapeutic for us but for others as well. Paul said it like this in 2 Corinthians 1:3 – 4:

    [2Co 1:3-4 NASB] 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

    May the Lord continue to bless you and those who you provide strength and comfort to with your story. Thanks for visiting my blog.

  6. Thanks for your recent “like”. May God continue to uphold, heal, and use you to shine His light for others going through similar struggles. Blessings, KD

  7. Thanks for the read and the like. I am following you now. I have had binge eating disorder nearly all my life and my sister leans the other way, tending to lose weight very easily and having difficulty eating when upset. I enjoy your writing style and look forward to learning what it’s like in the other direction of disordered eating

    • thank you. i’m sorry that you and your sister are suffering from ED. I hope that you will find hope and comfort here. thanks for stopping by, and keep fighting the good fight! i believe in you! xoxo

  8. Hi How Are you? Im so glad that I have found this page. It sounds like you have such strength in the Lord at the moment it is so amazing. I suffer with Depression and Anxiety myself but I have recently found the joy and grace of being save our Lord and Saviour. He is starting to bring such stength to my life. dispite losing a stone in weight and people noticing I have started to feel more peaceful within my self through the spirit. I do look forward to read more and talking to you.
    god bless your life and the recovery that is ahead I hope you get chance to read my blog it would mean alot

    Benjamin

    • Thank you so much. God is good and will mend hearts and heal spirits. I am so glad He is working in your life. I will pray for your recovery, Benjamin. Thanks for stopping by!

  9. You have such a beautiful and inspiring blog! I’m so happy I stumbled across it. My journey with nutrition and my desire to become a dietitian stems from a past of disordered eating. I love your approach to recovery! Thank you so much for taking the time to read my “Moderation Movement” post too! 🙂

  10. Thank you so much for liking my poem False Prophets on my blog WordMusic. It is for people like yourself who are struggling with issues toward recovery that I needed to confront the sacred cows that make it all so much harder. There is nothing so rewarding as dealing with someone who helps others find their spirituality and cooperate with it and nothing quite so scurrilous as others who hide behind spirituality to take advantage of those sufferers.

    Brent Kincaid

  11. Welcome home to the loving arms of the Lord. May you remain there forever and draw others to the same place. Remember his powerful words, “Do not be Afraid.” Thank you for reading about the Servants of Charity, it has brought me to your amazing place. Thank you!!!

  12. Thank you for sharing, I pray the Lord continues to shine his blessings upon you and that many will be saved from eating disorders through the guidance of the Lord.

  13. God bless you on your recovery road. May the bumps smooth out and the forks easily show the right path. I’m working on my addiction to food. I don’t want it to rule me anymore. It is a daily battle. Good luck to you.

    • Thank you so much. I appreciate it. Yes, addictions, no matter what form they take, are tough, but thankfully we have a God who will see us through and give us strength. Thanks for stopping by xx

  14. Thank you for the “Like” on my blog. Your blog is very inspiring. your writing and thoughts are very uplifting and comforting for anyone. I started following you. I look forward to reading more posts 🙂

  15. Thank you for sharing your story. Finding courage and strength in God’s power to change your life is a wonderful testimony. Sharing your process so others can find hope is awesome!!! Wishing you God’s best! -abundantliving-NOW.com

  16. Hello.
    Thank you for liking, “Equal, Honorable Standing” on lifehelps.wordpress. I hope you come bac to check out some of the practical tools I share.

    I have been free from an eating disorder for 24 years now. Jesus gets all of the glory for that. I really mean I’m free; not simply in recovery: I have fasted since then without relapse; things that would have set me off don’t.
    I am very impressed with how openly you have been able to share. It seems that most of us who walk through things like Anorexia are not able to express much about our experience. God clearly has given you grace for this. Blessings on you. Hannah

    • Thank you so much Hannah. Wow your story is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing that. God is good. So good. Thanks for stopping by and your kind encouragement. Xx

  17. This is a great way to serve the Lord. Thank you for your witness. May God warmly and richly bless you, and Mother Mary take you as her special daughter, and care for you.

  18. Thanks for finding my blog. Don’t know how you found it, but without your ‘like’ on an article I wrote, I never would have found your blog and I have the sense this is going to be a deeply rewarding, encouraging, and inspiring journey. May God continue to be your strength and help you to continue to serve others through your personal testimony.

  19. Praise God for you and for your Christ-honoring site here! I came to check it out as you had “liked” a post on “thelordiswithus”. Our testimony of Jesus as our Healer and the Lover of our souls is so powerful for each other. May all believers who read this join me in praying that our Lord continue ministering His glory through redeemed sinners such as ourselves to everyone who is weary and burdened, that He may give them rest also! Bless you!

  20. Dear friend. I had given you my word that I would make a effort to look into this disease. Perhaps it sounded presumptuous (I don’t blame you for thinking so) nonetheless I have written a piece that I would love for you to look at. We don’t have to discuss it. I would like for you to read this article. Please. I know this too is taking some silent points for granted and imposing. https://andnowmiguel.wordpress.com/
    Please forgive me, for I know little about protocol in blogging. It is titled; “Beware of triggers; Anorexia”
    Indulge me. Sincerely; MAO I didn’t know of another way to contact you.

  21. Thanks for stopping by my blog, I try to visit every one who visits me. I know that we have both been on very different journeys, but we share the same God and the same LOVE He has given us. I’m praying for you, sister, on your recovery adventure.

    God is good!
    <3 Ashley

  22. First of all, a big thank you for liking one of my recent blog posts! I’m so glad that I have found you and discovered your blog and your story, and I am looking forward to reading through each of your posts from now on 🙂 You are such an amazing, beautiful and inspiring young lady and the work you are doing is incredible. I really admire that you have chosen to be so brave and have allowed yourself to be vulnerable in the hopes of encouraging and helping others who are going through the same kinds of things. I loved your last post “Right Where We Are”. And I pray that God will continue to work through you and turn what the enemy intended for harm around for His glory.
    -Jeremiah 29:11

    Lots of love, Emily <3 Xxx

  23. Thank you for liking my recent post in ephesians2v8.wordpress. I know how hard it is to share something so personal and can appreciate your risk. Your blog will help so many!

    Best wishes,
    Tracey

  24. I too have been revealing in my addiction and the path of recovery in my blog. I don’t though, to be honest, what or if my blog has a purpose. I tend to think that anyone in recovery has a desire to be of service to others and whether that is based on self preservation or a desire to care for others is probably not important as, to me, one seems to lead to the other.
    I find that anyone who has been to the “edge” be it sanity, social acceptance and/or death has a relationship with God that is unique and inspiring.
    its nice to meet you on your journey.
    Tommy

    • Hi tommy. Thank you for this comment. You’re right, God has definitely been to the edge and back with me, and as a result our relationship is pretty unique. But thankfully God is like that with everyone – no matter what his/her story. I’m glad you stopped by. Have a great day.

  25. If you get a chance read my blog entry “We Are Not Our Mistake”. I think it shows how some of us, like you, are willing to embrace our “mistake” and in doing so find a wealth of knowledge and growth we wish to share with others to help them on their journey.

  26. firstly– thank you for the like. 😉 so glad to have found this blog [in such an ironic way]. my sister & i both struggled for years from EDs which ultimately inspired me to help friends along our roads to recovery. not here to share my story. i simply wanted to say ‘you go girl!’ on your recovery journey. i will certainly be reading your story. xx

  27. Thank you for visiting my blog today. Funny how like minds find each other. As I briefly mentioned in my first post I have recovered from a severe eating disorder as well- and it was not through my own strength but the strength, healing and comfort of the Lord. Glad to have found your blog!
    cheers,
    J

  28. I’m thankful to our Lord Jesus for helping us find each others blogs. And I’m more thankful that you’re recovering with Him. Thank you so much for sharing yourself-it’s not easy being naked in order to be used to help others. And I’m so glad that you’re here, dear one. 🙂

  29. Your blog will no doubt be helpful to many people! While I personally don’t struggle with an eating disorder, I have bouts of body image issues (among other things).
    Keep sharing your story and inspiring others!

  30. My mom dies 2 weeks ago from Anorexia, she had a very long battle and in the end was unable to beat it. She was 58. It is hard to explain to people that it wasn’t vanity, it is a very complicated disease and it is also a hard disease to watch someone go through. In the end I had to stop fighting her as I knew I couldn’t make her go for the help that she thought she could do on her own. She was hospitalized 3 times in the last year. The time before she died they had sent her home because she was able to walk with help, that was 4 weeks ago. 2 weeks later we were back at the hospital and she dies 4 hours later. My mom had suffered since I was a child but it got its worst last year when my brother died. I hope that you keep strong with your recovery as I know it will be a lifelong battle for you. Just remember you are beautiful and that this disease scars you and also your loved ones so please always get help, talk about it with loved ones and doctors and phycologist.
    Sorry for the long post, haven’t talked about this yet.
    Take care.

    • Hi Alicia. Wow, thank you for sharing this. I am so sorry for your loss. Gosh, that just breaks my heart. You’re right anorexia is not a vein disease. It is a lifelong battle with ED, who wants nothing less than to steal everything from you. I am so sorry that your mom had to endure it. She was lucky to have you as a daughter. Thank you for those words of encouragement. Like you said, it will be a lifelong battle of staying focused on my recovery. Thank you for reminding me that it’s not just me that it effected, too. But also my loved ones. You have seen that first hand. Oh Alicia, I’m sending you a big hug through the computer right now. I appreciate you opening up about this. Please don’t hesitate to email me: anorexiarevealed@yahoo.com if you ever need to talk. Sending love❤️

  31. Thanks for liking one of my posts. I’m sure you will help many people with your very inspiring blog. You have real courage to open up and share so much of yourself. May God use you mightily to His glory.
    Blessings,
    Tricia

  32. Thank you so much for visiting my site somehow. And thank you for your your examples of faith. You’re a brave faithful girl! 🙂

  33. Fantastic blog! ❤️First, I love that you are healed! Sadly not everyone is able to find their way and 2nd I love that you have chosen to share your testimony to help point those in need in the direction they need! What an amazing calling you have! Thank you so much for stopping by my blog saltvault and liking my post Keys to the Kingdom today!

  34. At least you are not in denial (not a river)! Little poke at humor. Alcoholic, myself. Went away to college at the age of 17 and developed a drinking problem. A computer science major, I wrote my best code while drunk off my ass. Sobered myself up at the end of my sophomore year. Won’t even touch thee stuff anymore (helps my multiple sclerosis medicine can’t be used with alcohol in your system).

    Parents used to accuse me of having your difficulty since I refused to stuff myself like they did. I eat what my body needs for survival. 3 small chocolate squares are a daily MUST for me! No more, no less.

    You probably didn’t choose to have this difficulty. Regardless, you have it now. Keep following your doctor’s orders. If you don’t get along with your doctor, find one that you do! Just keep hanging in there!

    • Thank you so much. It sounds like you’ve had quite the journey as well. I’m glad we’ve both found freedom:) thanks for stopping by and sending love and support for your journey, friend 😊

  35. Thanks for liking one of my posts and I pray the Lord to strengthen you in your journey as well.
    God bless you!

    Jim

  36. Blessings on you! As the Bible says, we are to share with others the grace that we ourselves have received. You are doing that. More power to you!

  37. I have a sister who is a recovering anorexic. She was diagnosed backed in the 70’s when she was just a teen. She will be 60 this October. It’s been a long road, not just for her, but for the family. When she was diagnosed very little was known and treatment was archaic. Thank God my Mother persevered and didn’t except the suggested treatment of shock therapy. I commend you for your willingness to document your journey. I’m sure it has not been easy.

    • Thank you for sharing this, Mariann. Yes, thank God that she didn’t undergo shock therapy. Wow. It sounds like your sister is lucky to have such a supporting and loving family. Thank you for stopping by. I appreciate the support. Hugs to you.

  38. Thank you for stopping by my blog and liking a recent post! I really appreciate it. Although I have never suffered from anorexia, nor know anyone personally that has, just from reading your most recent post I can tell that there is much to learn regardless. 🙂

  39. Hi, I have never suffered from an eating disorder myself, but I had a friend at school who had anorexia and I saw how much of a hard time it was for her, but she came out strong the other side, just like you have! What a fantastic thing to write about it, I’m sure you have helped so many people in their journeys. I will be coming back to read more of your story. And thank you for stopping by my blog and the like on my Sunday post! 🙂

  40. Hi dear, just reading your introduction is an inspiration. Continiue to fight the good fight. I’m sure your blog is a hope and inspiration for many struggling out there. (on a side note, your instagram link is having some trouble). Keep writing and doing what you’re doing! It’s beautiful.

  41. What an important blog and cause – thanks for being a shining light and illuminating the darkness so many are sitting in. Thanks for visiting my blog and keep up the excellent work!

  42. Thanks for liking the poem I wrote for my sick mother.
    I pray the Lord will bless you in your efforts to grow stronger physically and spiritually, and that you will be a blessing to others, also.

  43. I look forward to reading your posts – Glad I found you ….. when I was young, I was hospitalized twice for anorexia, trying to get down to a “model” weight. That was years and years ago and since then I have learned how to eat (I know SO much about food and health I should get paid to teach people hahaha). But anyway, I eat gluten free and vegetarian. It seems no matter what size I am the “anorexic” thinking has to be battled regularly….. I have to daily remind myself I am made in God’s image and I am beautiful …………

    • Thank you for sharing this Mrs. ReneD. Praise God that you’ve been able to move forward and embrace and enjoy life! And you’re so right: it takes daily reminders. Because we ARE beautiful. Thanks for stoppi by xx

  44. God bless you for your honesty and courage. I look forward, as you invited, to reading your posts from earliest to most recent. Praise God for His healing work in your life and through your life. Thank you for liking one of my posts. I appreciate your taking time to read/respond. Every blessing! Take care.

  45. I’m truly impressed by your story…AND by what the Lord is doing in your life! All glory to Him!
    Thanks for checking out my blog, “Letters from Lady Ezra.” I am a new blogger and have a long way to go, so I truly appreciate your taking the time to stop by.
    Blessings,
    Allison

  46. Hi. Thanks for stopping by my blog.
    The whole food obsession of weight and energy and diet and all the other asdfkl stuff is a battle for many, whether that manifests itself as a disorder or whether we realise earlier. Gah, that sounds bad – I in no way am demeaning your struggle and that of others by saying that I hope.
    God is a big presence in my life too. 🙂
    I’ll keep an eye on this blog, thanks.

  47. Thanks for stopping by and Liking The Visit. Truly thanks.
    Your visit prompted my visit here — having just blogged since March, I’ve found one amazing thing about this little corner of cyberspace is the “Return Policy” — as in you drop by and I get to come visit you! 🙂
    I’ve read and read, gone backwards and backwards in your posts. What you’ve given others here is profound. An honest vulnerability unmasked that will provide help for so many — those with ED and those parents and friends who stand on the periphery trying to “get in.”
    Your “pay it forward” is indeed a gift. May you continue in your diligence and recovery….may your beauty shine for those in need of hearing your journey.
    Lillian

  48. Thanks for dropping by my blog this morning or I would not have discovered you! Thanks for your honesty and courage. We humans are such vulnerable little critters, hidden behind all the “stuff” of this world…material and non-material…and it always takes pain to “dive into the wreck” and find what is Real. Thanks.

  49. I wanted to thank you for taking time to read my blog “When we live history”, I appreciate you liking it!! I’m fairly new to blogging and despite I have so much to say & share I’m leading into it slowly. I hope you have a great day and thanks again!! 😊

  50. Thanks for dropping by in my blog and as i read a long your blog. I get inspired to write more and inspired other people to be alive! Thanks again you made me smile.

  51. Your blog look great! Thanks for stopping by my blog the other day. I’m so glad that you have found the healing, but also that you decided to share the pain and suffering. Society has a tendency to focus too much on the body and not enough on who someone really is. It seems like you are someone who has grown stronger because of all you have gone through.

  52. Thank you for liking one of my posts. I am always pleased when a read find pleasure in my writing, strokes my vanity, if you will. I did bother to take the time to read one of your posts and I found it most interesting. I can understand not wanting to go to an exclusive fashion show. It’s like a recovering alcoholic refraining for attending a private concert that is held in a bar. It’s not so much the temptation but the reminder of what had been, particularly the pain of a former existence. I applaud your decision. Overcoming vanity is half the battle.

    • Thank you so much for taking the time to read. I appreciate it. And yes! You hit the nail on the head. That’s exactly what it’s like! Thanks for stopping by. Have a great day☺️

  53. Thanks for your like on my blog! I hope you will continue to visit for your “daily dose of inspiration”.
    I give praises to God for your healing. Blessings on your continued journey of recovery.

  54. Thanks for stopping by and for liking my post. I appreciate your realness in your blogpost. So glad for your healing and recovery,so that your experience can help others. <3.

  55. Thank you for visiting my blog and for liking today’s post (https://butawomanwhofearsthelord.wordpress.com/2015/09/17/the-evidence-of-things-unseen/). I have had a journey that, among other self-destructive behaviours, has included bulimia. I don’t talk about the reasons behind it very much but, having recently experienced an incredible breakthrough in my life (which prompted the starting of my blog) and having read some of yours, I may take some of your courage and share some of my story in the future. Declaring God’s blessings and peace beyond measure over you today and always xxx

    • Thank you so much. EDs are definitely hard to talk about, but it’s so important that we do. I found my healing in the Lord, praise be to God. Thank you for stopping by and for sharing this thoughtful and reflective comment☺️ blessings to you

  56. Thank you so much for stopping by Mothers With A Mission. It gave me a chance to see what you are doing here and I love it. I too have a history of an eating disorder and found healing though grace and hope in the Lord who redeems and restores. Thank you for bringing light to this subject and hope to its sufferers.

  57. You are a fantastic young lady and such an inspiration! God has blessed you with many gifts. One of which is your love of people. The ability to share even in the face of demons. I know these posts were not easy for you and I am so glad that you shared this part of your life with the world because there are many, far too many, young people facing these exact problems. I’ve no doubt this will impact them deeply and aide them in their recovery. May God continue to bless you and keep a hedge of protection around you all the days of your life. To God be the glory and to you be the millions of thankyous that you deserve but may never hear in person. Thanks for your candidness and generosity to share these things. Love your site. Thankyou for liking mine.
    God bless you.

    • Thank you so much, Georgio for such kind words. I am truly humbled. Thank you. That is my prayer: that these posts help even one girl who is in the depths of despair. Jesus has the power to heal. Thank you for stopping by. blessings to you

  58. beautybeyondbones, I am visiting your site because you left a like on my “Why Didn’t We Talk to God About That?” Thank you. You have a beautiful blog and I’m sure you are a blessing to many who have suffered in ways as you have. Hope you will come over to my place more often.

  59. Hi, thank you for stopping for a moment on my blog, there’s something amazing about yours that fills me up with hope and belief that God is always with me even when I feel all alone. Big hug x

  60. You know….i’m not going to read this but I’m going to celebrate your recovery by coming along side you. I know nothing of these types of illnesses, just of the presence of the ‘Devine’ to heal them all and make us, humans, willing tools to introduce others to him for the drinking in of his life…. your straw hat is an emblem of humility/ at least it is to me.

      • Hey, 🙂 thanks for the like, and not only that but I love your blog, it’s pointing to the One who heals…when we tell ‘our’ story it’s a part of ‘His story’ it’s pretty neat how that happens isn’t it?

        I graduated from Mercy as you know from my post, and it’s odd in a good way full circle I have to as the scriptures say ‘renew your mind with the word’ there is a reason for that, I’m a thinker, a deep one (I think you are as well) and the helmet of hope, of salvation is the one of the most important armaments I (need to, remind myself to) suit up with daily…

        Anyways, I won’t make this a novel :-P, I love you as a sister in the Lord…take care doll

        -Hannah C.

      • Thank you so much Hannah. You’re right. We must put on the armor of God everyday. What a beautiful reminder. Thank you for that:) so glad you stopped by, sister 🙂 blessings to you xx

  61. I think you are touching many people with your openness about anorexia, how it affected you and how you struggled to live with it. Keep it up. Oh, and thank you for liking my blog, Reflections of a Lay Catholic.

  62. Thank you for visiting my blog, and I look forward to reading yours. I also have a long, ugly history with eating disorders (I’ve written a novel about a bulimic character) and consider myself to be fully recovered–or as recovered as any woman living in today’s society can be. I believe that by sharing our stories, we become stronger and help others become stronger too. Very best to you!

  63. Well done for doing this. I know exactly how you feel – God has helped me recover from anorexia too. It is possible, it IS achievable. Just remember the Footprints story, through the hard times, he carries you. I am so grateful that I am at uni right now, not in a hospital, a healthy weight again – and that I’m actually able to trust myself with being self-catered and completely in charge of what I eat now. That’s how far God has brought me. I pray that you will look back and see how far you’ve come, and not despair when you feel you’re not moving ahead fast enough. This journey can be slow, but it’s going to make you STRONGER not weaker. I promise 😉 bless you lovely, if you ever want some encouragement feel free to add me on facebook (https:www.facebook.com/charis121996) and thanks for the like – I’m definitely going to follow your blog now xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  64. I love you, I love this blog, I love that you are spreading the message to so many girls who desperately need it. I was too one of thos girls trapped in the grips of the enemy and dying both in flesh and soul. I could only recover with God and nothing else ever helped me. It is awe inducing how differently I think and how differently i live now because of having Him as the main reason for my life and for living. It is true that through Him we become new, and that He washes away all of our wickedness and makes us clean again. Again, I love what you are doing. Ever since being recovered, I always wanted to this too. I am glad that someone out there has such a great outreach to girls struggling with this eating disorder, because this is the only way they can ever get better. Keep posting! 🙂 <3 May God continue to bless you in this and in everything you do.

    • Thank you so much Fiorella. I am humbled by your words. You’re right, living for Him is completely life altering in a good way! Thanks for stopping by and for your encouragement and support! Xx

  65. First, thanks for liking my recent post, “New Glasses, Anyone?” Though I don’t have an eating disorder, I have enough food and stomach problems to make me struggle – sensitivities to plenty of foods and celiac disease, to start. Becoming more aware of the struggles of others is a privilege to me, and greatly increases my empathy and compassion at least in prayer, if not in tangible ways. I will be returning to your blog to read from the beginning, and pray for you now, because I understand how emotionally draining it can be to “re-live” tough times you write about. May Christ’s strength and love for you be more evident to you with every post and every comment!

    Blessings!
    Kay

    • Thank you so much, Kay. I really appreciate the prayers. So much. God is so good and I am thankful that He saw me through this. Blessings to you, friend. Thanks for stopping by.

  66. Thanks you for visiting my blog space. It allowed me to visit yours. As the mother of a young woman who has lived with an eating disorder your openness in sharing your feelings and drawing Christ’s teachings to yourself is remarkable. My daughter, too, found peace as her faith grew and she drew strength from God. I am passing on your blog space to Francesca. Keep sharing for sharing you will touch many lives. Blessings

    • Thank you so much. I’m glad your daughter has found strength in the Creator. He has been the source of my recovery for sure. God is good. Thank you for stopping by and for your encouraging and kind words. I will definitely pray for your daughter. Blessings to you and yours xx

  67. Thank you for liking my recent post on my blog, I decided to come and check yours out on there and find myself intrigued. I was once battling it myself and I would love to see everything you post. Looking forward to it!

  68. Wow. I had come here to thank you for liking one of my blog posts. Reading this though, has left me nearly speechless. You’re an incredibly brave person, and I’m truly inspired by you. I struggle with the some of the same issues, and have a feeling I will find encouragement through your blog. Thank you for sharing your journey. God bless, sister 🙂 <3

    ~Rose

  69. Thank you for your blog. I have much to learn from you. it is such an important topic to shine the light on as too many people, especially young women struggle with it. A cousins daughter fought a eating disorder for many years. She is doing well now. She is now married with a young child. Blessings Roland Legge

  70. Thanks for stopping by my blog, and for liking my post. I wish you the utmost success on your journey, and salute your bravery in sharing it.

  71. Thank you for stoping by and to introduce your blog to me.

    Congrats for the courage of being vulnerable. I’m sure you help and inspire others to go through their own wounds with the right attitude.

    If you ever feel like sharing an inspiring story of your life in my blog http://eightforachange.com/, please let me know. It would be something special!

    Happy Sunday and keep on going!

    Love,
    Julia.

  72. Hi! I’ve chosen you to receive the Blogger Recognition Award. If you would like to accept this award, the rules are: 1. Tell how your blog got started. 2. Give some advice to new bloggers 3. Choose blogs that you would like to pass the award on to and let them know. You can read the award post on my blog.
    – Jim 🙂
    (You might have received this recognition already, If so, feel free to ignore!)

  73. First I want to thank you for liking my first ever blog post! Second I hope to be as brave as you in conveying truth on my blog. Thank you for sharing your struggles before Christ and your walk to freedom with Him. Continued blessings on your journey!

  74. First I want to thank you for telling your story. You are brave. You are helping to set the captive free! Second I hope I can tell my story as a new blogger in such a way to bless, encourage, and inspire. Third I want to thank you for liking my first ever post! And lastly I pray you continue to walk in wholeness and shine brightly in the darkness.

  75. Thanks for the visit, allowing me to find you. Just want to share that I also found the answer, like you did, in Jesus Christ. Peace be with you. Always.

  76. Thank you so much for liking my last post. I love your blog. I think God has given you a ministry to bless those who are struggling with a very dark affliction. I am so glad the Lord is healing you, and using you to help Him heal others. May you one day find this time to have had a gift inside–it already is a gift for those you are helping. You are a very lovely writer too.

  77. Hi! First, I really wanna PRAISE GOD for you are such an amazing and brave woman for you to reveal something about your life that could help and impact other people. Thank God Indeed for your heart. KeepThatFaithAliveInYOU!!! Second, I wanted to say Thank you for liking and dropping by on my post.
    https://uniquelygrace.wordpress.com/2015/10/22/an-open-letter-to-all-my-loveones-and-to-all-the-people-who-got-to-know-me/ May God continue to BLESS YOU!!! Keep inspiring others. 🙂
    GOD BLESS! ~ graceT.

  78. So, reading your words was like making part of the journey; it was interesting, instructive and tender at the same time.
    Thanks for visiting the “wise recipes” section on my blog.
    Hugs from Italy, Mirna

  79. It takes a special courage to write about your remarkable journey and how faith has helped you on the road to recovery. It seems to me that you have been blessed and it is good that you now share that blessing with others. I wish you well. Thank you for your visit. It was much appreciated

  80. Love the concept of being utterly open about your deficiencies. I have found in my life that is the only way and in doing that the door is open for others to find healing and encouragement as well. I am glad you are doing this thank you.

  81. Hello! Thank you so much for reading my blog post and liking it today. It is good to see new readers!

    I hope that your fight with Ed is going well. I dated a girl once who struggled with it, and now she is doing a lot better – thank God. But I am always more attentive to this subject now, and I will always stand up for those struggling with this.

    May the Lord bless and keep you forever in His loving arms.

    -Jon – lambtheology.com

  82. Thanks for visiting my blog! Wishing you every success and pleasure) with your blog. To your continued good health. Keep it up.

  83. Thanks for stopping by and liking my post. And THANK YOU for bearing your soul so we can see how the light of Christ penetrates even the deepest darkness!

    Grace and peace,
    Vanessa

  84. Thank you for liking my post! Can’t wait to read more about your journey and how Christ is working in your life.

  85. You’ve created a brave and beautiful blog about a subject close to my heart. I suffered most of my life with a poor body image, while someone near and dear was anorexic. God’s love carried me to a healthy, realistic self-perception and He’s carrying my loved one. I added BBB to my prayer list. I take that seriously. Prayer inspires most of my writing.

    • My goodness thank you so much. You have no idea how much that means to me:) thank you. I take prayer very seriously as well too! My posts are written in prayer as well. I always say, this blog might have my “name” on it, but the words are not my own. They’re His. 👆 thanks for stopping by! God bless xx

  86. I Thank you dear for liking my post. In the process of going through what you have written I have become your fan. You are very brave and your strength appears through your words. God bless you.

    • Gosh thank you so much. I appreciate it so much. I just pray that someone out there going through something similar may find hope here. That’s the whole reason for this. Thanks for the support friend. Blessings to you ❤️

  87. Wishing you the best on your journey to recovery and beyond.

    Have you ever read the Desiderata? If not I encourage you to Google it and read it. Despite the 60s kitsch it has many many truths.

  88. This is a beautiful and brave blog. Thanks for the like because it brought me here. I’ll be having a good look around now I’m here. 🙂

  89. Thank you for liking my blog. I do hope you will check back from time to time. I also love the mission of your blog- it is at the heart of the work I do as a clinical social worker and a human being.

  90. Thanks for liking my post. I don’t get many of those. I hope you’re finding freedom from those old compulsions, and finding true peace. God bless!

  91. Beautiful well-written blog that makes me want to read more. Appreciating your passion to enourage and help others, directing to the ultimate source of healing.
    Hugs back atcha. And thanks for stopping by!

  92. Great introduction to your blog. (: If you don’t mind me asking, were you ever self-conscious by your body which led to an eating disorder, or did a series of other factors make you depressed to the point that eating wasn’t important at all? I understand if you wish to keep it to yourself. God bless and have a good day! (:

    • Hi there thank you for asking. Great question. One misconception about eating disorders is that it’s not actually about the weight. The weight loss is merely a symptom of an internal battle. That being said, I was never depressed either. It was a battle of perfection. Of self worth. Self love. The weight loss is merely a symptom. Hope that helps. The actual blog details this in much more description 🙂 blessings friend! Thanks for stopping by!

  93. Hey, very nice wording in the first picture. Recovery takes: perseverance, endurance, courage, time. Definitely true. Let us together remind each other of His Greatness and be cherished with His blessings 🙂

  94. Thank you for recently liking my post House on a Rock. May the grace and truth of Christ in you bring victory in your life. – Helena

  95. Thanks for the like! I recommend Pastor Tim Burns’ teaching, which you can find by googling “Calvary Chapel Tyler YouTube.” I can’t necessarily vouch for guest speakers, but you’d be hard pressed to find a better Bible teacher than Tim Burns. Thanks again, and grace be with you.

  96. Bravo – on confronting and overcoming anorexia. That takes insight, and much courage and honesty in self-examination.

    I have a question that has puzzled me for some time:
    In reading anorexia chat forums, anorexic women refer to anorexia with pet names, as if the affliction is a person. Why is that?

    • Thank you so much Dr. Eowyn. I appreciate the support! Great question. We refer to the eating disorder as “Ed” or “Ana” because recovery is a fight. Truly we are warriors. And personifying the disease as Ed, we are able to channel our focus to beating “him”, conquering the bad guy, defeating the evil one who is trying to kill us. It just gives the woman a specific goal to think of. Hope that helps. Thanks for stopping by!

  97. Thanks for reading something from my blog. I thought I would get to know yours and so read this entry. I’m impressed and relieved that you’ve committed yourself to writing to this issue. It’s important. Such disorders damage many lives. Our culture offers so many hindrances in dealing with these positively. And about our body shapes, overall. Thanks so much for your good work.

    • Thank you so much for your kind response. You’re right, our culture is so toxic for young women especially (although men too) on body image. It’s an important issue to give voice to. Thanks for stopping by! Have a great evening

  98. Honesty is hard. The truth hurts, but there is a saying in my faith:
    Truthfulness is the foundation of all human virtues.
    Nothing happens without truth.
    Thank you.

  99. What is love that one would lay down their life for another. In a very real sense you are laying down your life, the life with this condition as well as the redemptive process that you are following. It shows a real desire to love and care to which I pray will bless you richly as well as all who come to read this amazing blog. Thank you for stopping by hisnamebpraised, reading the post and taking the time to “like”. Continued success on your journey. All things in His Name. Doug

    • Hi Doug, wow I am humbled by your comment. Thank you so much for such thoughtful words. I really appreciate it. God is good and I am forever thankful for His work in my life and in my recovery. Thanks for stopping by. Blessings

  100. I have seen a few people on here with this disorder who have found my blog for some reason so I must be compelled to answer. My cousin had this disorder and I believe it was due to parents who were just too much. She would have cookies in her dorm room for visitors that she never ate. They were only for guests. She overcame it with help from group therapy but she still exercises a lot.

    I believe in balance and hence my blog about food drink nature and travel. I must mention exercise as well because if I don’t do that at home I will do it in nature which is great. Find exercise you like and healthy food will follow. Keep things in moderation and enjoy the world around you. When you feel good about you then you won’t need to listen too much to outsiders. Follow your passions.

    • Hi Jane, thank you for your thoughtful comment! It sounds like you’ve found a recipe for you! That’s awesome 🙂 You’re so right – balance is everything! hugs! thanks for stopping by!

  101. Your story touches me deeply. I spent time battling the other end of the spectrum and it takes so much courage either way. My prayers for you that you will continue to savor the beauty within…God’s loving presence and acceptance of us no matter what.

  102. Thanks for stopping by my blog today! From the looks of it God is using your testimony to reach many people. Keep up the good work, keep pressing on toward the goal. I appreciate your transparency. Blessings!

  103. Thanks for visiting and liking my post. Through that I’ve just found your blog and started reading your story. I lost a dear friend to Anorexia many years ago and so your story has resonated with me. I look forward to reading of your story and pray and hope that you continue on the path to recovery. I send you blessings from Australia.

  104. Thank you so much for visiting my blog. Your truthfulness about your journey will bless so many people who are just starting the journey to healing and feel stranded in their own dark places. You are truly a blessing.

  105. Thanks for liking my recent blog, The Meaning of Christmas, on my site BigSisterKnows.com. I LOVE your site and appreciate that you focus on how God restored you to health – it was not something you could do for yourself. So many people are in the same situation, and they need to know that God really is the answer.

    My sister struggled with clinical anorexia due to complications with diabetes. It was an extremely painful process for her and for us. There was actually a time when we weren’t sure if she was going to survive it. Through God’s grace, she recovered and now has a very powerful testimony. Have you ever hosted a guest blogger to give a viewpoint of a family member of someone suffering from ED? I’ve been wanting to find the right place to share my thoughts on this, and if you’re open to it, I’d love to send you a draft for your consideration.

    I look forward to reading more of your posts! May God bless you and keep you in good health, and may your testimony continue to bless Him.

    Ashley

    • Hi Ashley, thank you so much for reading and for your heartfelt comment. I am so sorry to her that your sister battled anorexia. Praise God that she got through it. God is so good and he is our strength no matter what. What an interesting idea. I will definitely let you know if I decide to blog about that! Thanks again for stopping by. Hugs and love to you xx

  106. A close friend lost her sister to this frightening condition, and her parents were left with a 3 year old to bring up in their retirement. Many of will never understand Anorexia, but we surely appreciate it when we hear those who manage to make a recovery. Bless you.

  107. You may just be a girl, however, one that has experienced the difficulties associated with eating disorders. You bring a world of experience to the table. As a physician, I have listened to people like you to obtain as much as I can to help better understand the ROOT issues at hand. Thank you for your willingness to share and help others in need. Please feel free to comment on my blog site to help spread your message. This is an important issue and people need to realize that others (even strangers) care.

    • Hi there! Thank you so much for this comment. It’s physicians like you who hold the key 🙂 And I am so appreciative of you reading and taking the time to dive deeper into the root of EDs. ED is definitely a sly and cunning beast. I would absolutely be willing to answer any questions or offer any clarification if need be. I am cheering from NYC for you, and your efforts in this area! You could be a catalyst for change 🙂 So thank you, truly, from the bottom of my heart.

  108. Thanx for “Liking” my “Anaïs Nin Quote” on my “BoBo’s Two Cents” blog. How did you come across it? I Didn’t think anyone would find me as I’ve only just set it up & am still learning how to get it out there. Glad you did, though!

  109. Your first post on life with anorexia is harrowing. I had bulimia, with cocaine addiction, which could have killed me every time I made myself sick. Thankfully I am now in recovery like you but I still struggle with accepting being a normal weight and want to be thin! http://bit.ly/1ER5cLY

    • Hi Caroline, thAnk you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad that you found freedom from bulimia. Send love hugs and support on your journey. Stay strong warrior. Thanks for stopping by xx

    • Hi there, Amy! Thank you so much for that encouragement. That is my deepest prayer: that even one person will find hope here. I appreciate the affirmation. Hugs and blessings to you and yours. thanks for stopping by!

    • Hi Anne, thank you so much for sharing this. Praise God that we’ve both found freedom through Christ! And what a beautiful post. I love the poem you shared. I appreciate the encouraging words:) hugs and love to you!

  110. Thanks for “like”-ing my post at brokennesstobeauty.wordpress.com ! I think your blog will help a lot of people, based on my own experience blogging during breast cancer treatment. That’s what led to my forthcoming book! Hang in there with Jesus, sister,

  111. I’m praying for you girl. You know that all things are possible with God through Christ, and that your struggle is now one of your greatest testimonies. Please keep letting God use you. Many blessings.

    *ps I sooo appreciate you stopping by my blog!

  112. Thanks for the like 🙂 on my blog. I am in the process of learning to do this and learning to be in the kitchen more. I am looking forward to reading your story. I ready the first blog and I want to thank you for being so open and honest. This will encourage so many who struggle in this area…and others!

  113. Hello, Thank you for dropping by and reading some of my posts on my blog. I’m glad I came over here to your blog. I will be looking forward to reading what you share and starting from the beginning. 🙂

  114. Thank you for visiting my blog. My first personal, healing encounter with Jesus was when I was 21 years old (ages ago), and I love to read how He continues to touch young people with healing and light and grace. Blessings on your journey.

  115. Thank you so much for being such a diligent and permanent “liker” of my posts – it means a lot to me! And I hope from my heart that I can and could give you something you could use for your healing with my articles…they are meant to empower you to become strong, whole and healthy again.
    What I noticed and liked a lot about your posts is the radical truth, openness and vulnerability, in which you are showing yourself to the world… raw, naked and beautiful!
    This is the way to be loved exactly for who you are!
    May you keep living the truth of your soul…
    Anke

    • Hi Anke! You’re so welcome! I always look forward to your work! Thanks for stopping by:) I appreciate your kind and affirming words. It means a lot:) thanks for stopping by! Have a lovely day!

  116. Thanks for visiting Count it All Joy 123. And thank you for sharing your journey. I believe that if more people would share their stories of overcoming and getting through and living on, more people would be saved from utter destruction! 🙂

  117. Thank you for checking out Discovering the Rainbows. I am pleased to meet you and pray that the You are Invited posts may encourage you from time to time when you visit. You are on a wonderful journey – thanks for being so honest. It is evident that what you write is helping and encouraging many people. God bless you.

  118. Hi! Thanks for visiting my blog. I’m glad that it led me to yours! I’m looking forward to reading more of your writing. Wishing you well during this holiday season.

  119. Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking one of my posts. I pray for the Lord to strength you and empower you as you follow Him!

    Blessings

    Jim

  120. Thank you so much for the like. Because of it I was able to find this beautiful blog. I hope all is well and I wish you many blessings as you continue on this journey.

  121. My niece almost died from anorexia/Bulimia. She spent Christmas in a children’s hospital last year (60lbs and going into heart failure). She’s doing well these days, but still struggles with the disorder, I believe. I think I may send her this link.

    Thanks for sharing your experiences…

    – Jay

    • Hi Jay, oh my goodness. That breaks my heart to heart that she had to suffer through such a horrible disease. Praise God that she’s better and on the road of recovery. Yes, please do. And feel free to share my email with her as well. I’d be happy to talk. thanks for stopping by. hugs and blessings to you and your niece. <3

  122. Hello, thanks for stopping by my blog (:
    I read a bit of yours and you are such a strong, courageous girl – it’s amazing! It takes a lot of guts to share your story publicly and everything that comes with this horrible disease. Stay strong and believe in yourself… big hugs and blessings (:

  123. Thanks for stopping by A Movable Marriage and your like. I know a bit about anorexia from family and friends, and thank you also for speaking out. Blessings and best for a merry Christmas and happy and healthy new year.

  124. Thank you for taking the time to visit my blog. You are writing about a very important subject matter and I am glad to learn that you are out there. I will recommend you blog to people who I know will appreciate reading it.

  125. Beauty, I’m hopping in here to give you a personal Merry Christmas wish and tell you thanks for the times you leave likes on my “stuff.” They are encouraging. I admire you as a Christian model of an overcomer, and I admire your ability to write in ways that invite those who struggle with various addictions to “go with Jesus” who helps one be free! May you be blessed in 2016 as you enjoy your ministry of blessing others.

    • Aw thank you so much Oneta! Merry Christmas to you too! Your words bring joy to my spirit. Truly. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Sending so much love to you and yours. Blessings❤️

  126. I wish you well in this. Fortunately, I, nor anyone i know, have suffered from these things. I just wanted to stop by and thank you for popping on over to my photography blog. i appreciate it very much. 🙂

  127. Thanks so much for visiting my blog, creativeopenion. I appreciate it very much. I encourage you to stay the course in your walk with recovery. It is so worth the effort.

  128. And takes great courage to share as you have. Well done, not an easy journey.
    May it attract more of the light and love that you have given to yourself.
    Happy New Year, let it be filled with the wisdom of that love! 🙂

  129. Thank you so much for visiting me at thewritesteph! I really appreciate you sharing your story with all of us and daring to be vulnerable. May God continue to bless you, especially during the up-coming year, 2016!

  130. Thanks for stopping by Dr. J’s Apothecary Shoppe and for the many “likes.” I appreciate your encouragement. In reading the responses that you write, I see that you are one who offers great encouragement. . . a kind of female Barnabas–whose name means “son of consolation or comfort or encouragement.” I guess you would be a “daughter of consolation.” I may be stretching the point, but you are an encouragement to me and so many others.

    May the New Year unfold like blossoming rose that continually opens with exquisite “beauty beyond bones.”

    • Hi dr. j, wow I am so humbled and touched by your words. Truly. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. That is my deepest prayer: to offer hope and encouragement to those that need it. God has been such a healer and friend to me, I just want to share that with others. Thanks for stopping by and for your kind words happy new year. Blessings and joy to you in 2016!

  131. Thank you for stopping by and liking the post on hisnamebpraised. Continued blessings to you and all who come and visit the site in 2016. In His Name, Doug

  132. You aren’t just a girl, though…you are very brave, and you’re wonderful, and strong…sharing your journey is important, for others, for yourself… Well done. Keep it up.

  133. I have now read 2 of your articles! Awesome reads! I look forward to reading through your blogs as time permits. From one person’s journey to another, similar yet different. Thank you for stopping by and liking my post today! Encouragers through Christ, that’s who we are. Sister, you are a kindred spirit, I can feel it in your writing! Have a blessed day!

  134. Thank you for stopping by and “liking” my blog “Hopeless or Hopeful”! Sending many blessings to you for continued success in your journey to beauty! Leave those bones behind; you are a beautiful daughter of God!

    God bless!
    Avanell

  135. Thanks so much for stopping by on my little blog that it’s in it’s infancy. I’m obviously in a very different place, but I’m going to read through your blog for inspiration. I need some.

    • Thank you so much! I appreciate you stopping by:) I hope you enjoy your time in my dusty little corner of the inter webs 😂😎🤓 I look forward to reading more from you! Hugs!

  136. I think we can learn more from someone who has walked in the shoes than someone who studies shoes. Thank you for sharing your story

  137. I LOVE the title of your blog! I stopped by because you stopped by :), (oh, the wonders of cyberspace), and while I don’t have any need for your information, as a pastor’s wife, I will keep your blog in my files! My daughter-in-law suffered from anorexia when younger and didn’t think that she would be able to have children. At was stage in a relationship to you tell a young man about this? I still remember that call from our son. That’s when “trust in the Lord” becomes a mantra! Now, nine years and three children later, we are just praising the Lord for His delivery! Bless you!!

    • Hi there! Oh thank you so much for these uplifting words. I cannot tell you the joy it brings my heart to hear that your daughter in law was able to have children. God is good. Thanks for stopping by and for your thoughtful response! Have a wonderful weekend! God bless!

  138. Hi and thanks for taking a look at my blog. Your blog is very inspiring. Using your lived experience to be a guiding light for others is a wonderful expression of the life that you are learning from. We are all rescuing ourselves from believing in this illusion that we must live in the dark, create pain for ourselves and when we do so we hide our light. Your light is shining brightly. I wish for you that it gets easier and easier to know this.
    Carolynne .

  139. Your journey, because you were so brave to share … you will help many. My Mother has had an eating disorder since a teenager. She never reached the point that you have. Thank you for taking the time to share your story. You are a soldier in Gods army. May God bless you richly.

  140. Thank you for liking my posts!

    https://modelrailroadsblog.wordpress.com

    I am the writer of several blogs, and in each one I try to convey something positive about our future and our past. I believe in humanity, in “us”, and sincerely respect all that we can become. On a grand global scale. And during our most intimate and possibly most insecure moments, which can often be that moment of greatest personal achievement and self understanding.

    I wish you all the best, unconditionally.

    Hans Carl Clausen : Mr Model

  141. Thanks for liking my post. I am a newbie just dabbling my toes in the writing world. I am looking forward to diving into your blog. (Just trying to keep the metaphor consistent).
    Love your title!

  142. Hey girl! Thank you for liking my recent posts, I just wanted to say thank you for being such an awesome encouragement to myself and so many others. It’s so amazing to see God take our brokenness and use it for His glory. I look forward to reading your upcoming posts–Perhaps we can work together one of these days! I’d love to guest blog for you! 🙂 God bless!

  143. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I am now reading your posts. You are great! Thank you for sharing your life. I look forward to read more. Take care! Hugs/Anne Kaarina

  144. Thank you for stopping by my blog and “liking” it. You seem like so a courageous and honest soul. I look forward to following your journey and I hope you’ll share in mine. Blessings.

  145. Dear Beauty, I started out as a classically-trained stage actor. Left that long ago for personal reasons, but that’s another story. I read your intro and it caught my breath. From theatre, I’ve known a few who suffered as you have. God has led me to different things and saved me from more than one pickle. I am always looking out for other people’s experiences in Christianity – each member of the body contributes and builds up the other.

    I hope my posts can give you something useful Try my very first post, True Love, 4/13/14. My focus is on where the bible intersects with the world; it has always seemed to be separate: bible history and church history, cause and effect, etc. In the meantime, I look forward to reading more on you. I just find it inspiring to hear other people who came back from one brink or another with God’s help.

    Be well Beauty!

    • Thank you so much for your beautiful response. I look forward to checking out that post. Thanks for passing it along. Hope you have a wonderful evening. Thanks again for such positive encouragement. Xx

  146. Thank you so much for stopping by my newly launched blog today! You were the first to follow me. Thank you, thank you! From your information, I see you are a champion of giving hope to eating disorders. When my daughter taught Family and Consumer Sciences several years ago, she was surprised at the number of students (female and male) who openly spoke of their ED. She had a friend who was part of the Miss Indiana program that had an ED education platform. She went to school leaders with the thought of bringing her to the school. She even had found people to sponsor the school assembly. Administration turned my daughter’s idea down–“we don’t have a problem here at this school.” Although she was able to bring this program to school, she plastered the hallways with ED posters…if she could just reach one person. Thank you for being a voice!

  147. Love your blog!

    I’m starting an online mag called Imperfect Life, would love you to share some of your stories. We share ‘realness’, imperfection, and life experiences that have challenged or changed lives; big or small. Please feel free to send me an email at admin@imperfectlife.com.au

    Thanks 🙂

    • Hi Denise! Thanks you so much! What an awesome idea! I’ll definitely keep an eye out for your mag! And thanks for the invite. as soon as i get home from vacation, i’ll definitely check it out:) hugs

    • Hi friend, thank you for this question. For me, the only way I was able to find the strength, courage, perseverance, follow through & desire to recover was though God. Because I did not have the ability to love myself enough to do those things for myself -feeling unworthy- but I relied 100% on His love for me, which then helped foster and grow in me a love and respect for myself. For me there was no other way. I do respect your religious views though. And I would say, you need to just dig deep into your soul to understand at a core level that you really do have worth as a human being. And that worth does not come from any achievement, number on the scale, or outer appearance, but from who you are as a person. And for me, I found that worth because i was created by God and am His daughter, which gives me worth. I hope that helps. Best of luck on your recovery journey. Know that I believe in you and am rooting for you ☺️ sending you so much love xx

  148. You are my first visitor on my blog. I have another blog “The Unstoppable Optimist”, but I wanted to create this one where I could focus on the topic of having a healthy life style. I have worked hard on mine…I want to share. I’m glad you visited…I’m looking forward to reading your blog posts. Thanks for visiting my blog and being the first!

  149. Your blog is beautiful. Very stirring, very inspiring, and very loving. You can feel your love for those who share your struggle. It makes my heart sad that you had to suffer so much, but rejoices in that you found answers and are now (very bravely) willing to share those with others to help them out too. IT IS AWESOME! Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my post. It’s so important to learn from each other, strengthen each other, and share what we’ve learned as we journey through life.

    • Thank you so much! Aw, you made me smile☺️☺️☺️ I agree- building a supportive and loving community is so important for so many reasons. Thanks again for stopping by. I hope you have a wonderful week! Hugs!

  150. Thank you so much for taking time to check out my blog and “liking” my post. You have quite an inspiring one going on here. Looks as if you care a great deal about others, this blog reaches out.
    Best to you~

  151. Thanks for the recent visit. Admire the honesty and good will in the post above. Hope to get to some of your other posts soon. Just wrote down some eating resolutions today, not that I’ve faced anything quite like you have. My brother has drummed into me how intensely important it is to get this part of our lives right. As “God’s image bearers” we have a real duty to honour the body, which holds the imprint and guise of the divine. A well considered diet is a significant part of a worship. A fundamental responsibility. Part of respecting God’s property.

    • Thank you for this reflection:) You’re so right, taking care of our bodies means taking care of the temples of the Holy Spirit. What a great reminder. Thanks for stopping by! xox

  152. Thank you for liking myblog……..anexdrunksviewfromthedrivingseat…i’m a novice so to receive such an accolade from an experienced blogger is praise indeed and your words are an inspiration.

  153. Hi, LaVancia here…This page brought tears to my eyes as I realized these past few days I have been turning myself into a casino zombie…I have been playing some of the free slot machines for literally hours at a time…when you mentioned Christ becoming the center of your new life, I recognized the need for me to do that as well.

    As the tears silently flow, I will confess to you it is so difficult at times for me to believe; yet, I have had a tug at my heart to really put forth an effort to writing my book and sharing my story. I want it out there to not only bring insight into the development of schizophrenia and it’s long road to recovery, but also to hopefully prevent someone from taking the life of their child, as my schizophrenia did to me.

    I cleared my other craft desk off completely this weekend, in anticipation of working on my story in there and then later bringing it to the computer desk in my living room. I am tired of making jewelry and gifts that are just temporary beauties that will someday be broken and buried six feet under like my son.

    I want to make a permanent mark as a spoke person for people with mental illnesses who are more specifically tied to the criminal justice system. I don’t want my son to have died in vain. His death is what brought me back to Christ (even though it took a good 10+ years…). Anyways, wish I could read more, and I will try because I want to establish a good support system through my blog/website.

    However, as of now, you read my coming in of the 3s post and I have my hands full of not only that, but the budgeting and meal planning for next month to tackle I will be busy; however I want to set aside like 3 hours twice a week to simply reading other’s blogs. Thank you so much for your kind support and prayers. God bless you! LaVancia Phoenix

    • Hi LaVancia, thank you so much for sharing this heartfelt response. Wow. I am so inspired by your testimony. It sounds like God is really working on your heart. Praise Him for that. I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain you use have felt, losing your son. My heart just breaks. Know that we will one day be reunited with our loved ones in Heaven. And that brings me comfort. I am praying for you, me friend. It think it’s a really noble task you’ve taken on and I for one would be honored to read your book. Thanks for stopping by. Sending so many hugs and so much love right now xox

  154. Thank you. I was not expecting something less when I saw your blog name. You are simply courageous.

  155. Thanks for stopping by a second time on my blog page. Thanks too for liking myblog post about “The Villain,God and Us”. Tomorrow we will be talking about “Destiny” Stay tuned…how do three criminals face eternity.

  156. Your courageous blog will help others through their journey with eating disorders. It takes courage to be vulnerable and put yourself out there.

    • Thank you, reading my post for ‘lastdayzrhere’ And, having read, but a small portion of your story and struggles with a serious eating disorder. I am completely struck and blown away by your candor, frankness and honesty. You are one of a kind and surely one of Father’s true warriors. A vessel of honor, Jesus is using in these end times to be to stand being courageous to tell your story and of how be is still get delivering you. He promised in Joel 2 that he would indeed pour out his Spirit upon all flesh. May the Lord continue to be praised through your life and testimony. And may he strengthen you and continue to bless and lift you up as you lift up the wonderful and glorious name JESUS the one who died and did it all for us. Let your lifestyle song of Him!

  157. This is so so beautiful. I have had a slight case of anorexia (skipping meals a couple times a day, only eating 2/3 granola bars a day) a few years back. This is so amazing, because you are so brave. Proverbs 31:25 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and laughs without fear if the feature.

    • Thank you so much. I love that verse. So much truth. So glad you’ve found freedom from that. Eating disorders steal ones joy. Praise God we’ve both found new life❤️ thanks for stopping by ☺️

  158. Oh I’m glad I saw your blog. I myself is suffering from negative comments from people about my skinny body. I would love to read your journey but I stumbled upon your page late at night so I’ll start tomorrow. Just reading this post itself already gave me an idea of how strong of a woman you are.

    –Walking with Favor–
    walkingwithfavor.wordpress.com

  159. Your beginnings and end have all been orchestrated through our Lord. Your journey has resulted in your blog that God will now use to help others. May His blessings and wisdom be with you always.

    • Oh thank you so much Russ. God is so good and he can use anything for good. It’s all Him! I’m just the broken mouthpiece. Thanks for your affirming words! Hugs and blessings to you xx

  160. I am exploring your writings because you ‘liked’ my essay titled “With the help of God and Gladys,” posted on TheViewfrom5022.wordpress.com. My personal struggle has historically been with bipolar disorder. Alas, it seems with age, bipolar disorder can burn itself out (or be healed by Jesus.) I invite you to read the About post of my former site AWARD OF JESUS. The spiritual healing exercise I went through was truly amazing.

    I look forward to reading your pieces.

  161. Thank you for liking my blog. Your comments about your life are very sensitive and caring and responsive. You seem like an angel whose wings were once broken and God has enfolded you in his larger enveloping love to heal and nurture you. If you read my blog you will see that I feel God because of the depth of my sin has had to turn his back on me because I turned my back on him when I had full knowledge of the kingdom of God and the way of salvation. I can tell just by the way you write that you are on your way to heaven I hope you won’t follow my terrible example. But I definitely do draw encouragement from your blog and wish you the best.

    • Oh my gosh thank you for such affirming and kind words! We all have things in our pasts that are cause for remorse, but how comforting to know that we have a loving and forgiving father who is rich is mercy and loves to forgive 🙂 thanks for reading ☺️

  162. Thank you for your honesty and courage. You will help many people coming forward like you have. I don’t have an eating disorder, but I know that Jesus is the Way, Truth & Life and the answer to all questions. By His stripes we are healed. I praise Jesus for your healing & for sharing your story with others.

    • Thank you so much for these kind words:) thankfully i am “over” the disease and have reclaimed my life in recovery. But you’re right, it is a daily decision and action. Thanks for reading☺️

  163. I’m excited to read about your journey. My best friend has been suffering with anorexia for over 10 years. I’m hoping your posts will help me understand her side of the story better. Thank you for being vulnerable and willing to share the brokenness in your life. You will truly help others. God is so good!!

    • Thank you so much for this note of encouragement. I’m sorry to hear that your friend is suffering. I will definitely keep her in my prayers. She’s lucky to have you as a friend. Sending so much love and hugs xox

  164. This is a wonderful thing that you are doing. So many people silently suffer in the darkness. I pray that you grow stronger and stronger in the Lord and continue to walk in victory over this. God bless.

  165. I had a friend who was anorexic that I spent years trying to convince that what she saw in the mirror was nothing more than the container for the beauty within and in itself is worthless. The real beauty is inside and is the soul of the person. There are too many that fail to understand that appearance goes with the years.

    • Thank you for sharing this. I’m so sorry your friend differed from this horrible disease. Sounds like she is lucky to have s friend like you to speak the truth to her:) thanks for stopping by. Hugs

  166. I suffered with bulimia in the 1980s. After counseling, and placing my trust back into God and Jesus, I finally recovered. More than 30 years later, I can say that my beauty comes from being a Christ follower. Thank you for your courage and speaking up about eating disorders. God bless you.

    • Thank you so much for sharing this, Lori. I’m so glad you were able to find the freedom of recovery and the freedom in Christ. His embrace is the best place to be. 🙂 Sending so much love to you, beautiful warrior! hugs xox

  167. You recently liked a post of mine at chaosandclarity.com. Glad you found me as it gave me a chance to explore your site. I love your beautiful images and your message. Was looking for a way to contact you with a question…..

  168. Thanks for liking my “Crossroads.” Some hope for all those with EDs: I’ve had 30 years of recovery! That’s through three successful pregnancies as well. Recovery is possible. I’m still working on body image, but I have been the same healthy size (when not pregnant) all these years. My beginning of recovery was “acting as if” I loved myself. Hugs.

    • Wow 30 years! And children!! Oh my gosh how incredible. What an inspiration! That’s for this encouraging perspective. Sending so much love to you. Stay strong, beautiful warrior xoxoxoxooxoxkx😘😘😘

  169. Good for you, honey. Sending my best wishes, and thanks for stopping by eve’s apple! ~Marisa (mcproco.wordpress.com)

  170. Thank for stopping by my blog today. It means quite a bit to me. Your words are amazing and strong. Keep on keeping on. Prayers and blessings all around.

  171. Love everything you are! Thank you for your love of our glorious Lord & Savior and thank you for sharing your journey so openly and lovingly!

  172. I like the way you express yourself. That is what I’m searching for, too….to say what I need in as few words as possible. But, to get my message across, without being poetic or flowery. No what I mean? I used to write that way, but it no longer suits my style….or me. I’ve become very direct. And that is who I am now. Much like John Lydon. Speak your mind, say your piece, them move on. Take care, will talk soon.:-)

  173. Hi! Thanks for liking my blog post 🙂 I’d like you to know that I took it as an encouragement. I need a little push like that esp because I’m still a beginner. I love what Stay brave and confident in and for Christ. Your mission is definitely blessing a lot of people! God bless you in all you do for His glory!

    xo, Christine

  174. Thank you for reading my post on HospitaliTEA! 🙂 I love what you are doing and how uplifting your blog is to others. I pray that The LORD continues to bless you in this ministry! 🙂

  175. Bold and brave only just touch at the most scant edges of your strength. There is a certain fortitude that comes from vulnerability, and it is clear you are on that path. Remain vulnerable and be stronger still.

  176. Hi,
    I see that you have been a regular visitor to my blog, so just wanted to thank you for taking the time to read and like some of the postings. Sometimes I think ‘outside of the box’ that modern day society would have us believe contains the truth concerning the mysteries of the human race.

    Note that you have had (have) personal challenges to overcome. Just remember that the past does not have to be a part of the coming future. Keep your mind tuned to the right frequency (easier said than done sometimes!) and other less positive frequencies will be blocked – they will find more receptive ‘receivers’.

    Warmest regards
    John Graham

  177. Hi Beautybeyondbones, I’ve read some of your posts and your story is really touching, kudos to you for sharing. May the Lord continue to strengthen you to victory!

  178. My friend, Rebecca Burton wrote “Leaving Jetty Road” about her experiences dealing with anorexia. Although aimed at a teen audience it may still resonate with you.

  179. Thank you for visiting me at Trigger’s Horse. Many years ago my husband starved himself into heart failure in his quest to “get healthy”. Anorexia is so dangerous on many levels; I wish you well in your return to health. Thank you for sharing your story. – Fawn

    • Oh my gosh Fawn, I am so sorry about your husband. That absolutely breaks my heart. I wish I could give you a big hug hug right now. You’re right- anorexia is so very dangerous. Thank you
      For reading. So much love and hugs to you friend xoxoxoxoxo

      • You must be a beautiful person to share your deepest thoughts which can be far reaching. I facilitate deep level prayer healing and I have seen broken people and after they had tried a variety of treatments, prayer was what worked the best. Physical and spiritual trauma cause deep wounds and they manifest in different ways such as:- anorexia, sleeplessness, obesity, promiscuity, gender confusion etc….. The enemy hates everything God has created and what God loves and he will try to destroy, kill and harass everything he can latch onto to. Prayer and the covering of the blood of Jesus Christ will overcome any assignments the enemy has installed. May you always be covered by the power of the living God-JC.

  180. Thanks for your openness and honesty. Too often, people try to sweep things under the rug and pretend they don’t exist. Judging from all of the comments, it would seem that you have struck a chord with many, many people. I believe that it is your honesty that has inspired them. A broken vessel pours more water. Keep up the good work, and keep pouring yourself out for God.

    • Hi Joshua! thank you so much for these words of encouragement. God is good! i owe everything to Him, so how can I not sing His praises:) but truly, thank you for these kind words. it means a lot. hugs and love to you xox

  181. People always say our tests become our testimonies. We don’t want to hear that as we go through. Your true testimony even if you are still on your journey, is that you’re finding the strength to tell it for the whole world to see. See you open. See you vulnerable. See you honestly. For that my love. I am sending you love and more strength. One our at a time. 💜

    • Thank you so much! what a beautiful reflection. i really appreciate it 🙂 you’re right – we learn and grow from every experience we go through – both good and bad. thanks for stopping by! hugs and love to you xoxoxo

  182. You are very courageous! In sharing your story, you help bring awareness to others who suffer from and those who love and care for sufferers of eating disorders. Thank you for taking time to like my blog post. I’m going back to start reading from your beginnings.
    Blessings to you,
    Clara

    • Thank you so much Clara. That really means a lot. It is my deepest prayer that even one person can find hope here. So thanks for this encouragement. Hugs and love to you! I look forward to reading more from you! Xoxox

  183. Dear BeBeBo:

    Thank you for visiting my blog and liking my recent post. Your own personal story is one of the most impressive and glorious I have seen on WordPress. Please continue to celebrate Him and know you have yet another fan in me as well.

    God bless,

    Jay Pochapin

  184. Transparency is such a necessary tool. I am inspired and encouraged by you sharing your story. Though I have never suffered from an eating disorder, I think many of us can relate to a distorted image of ourselves, a head space where we never feel skinny enough or curvy enough or pretty enough. So,thank you for documenting your journey and being a vessel for God to use. I pray you never forget that we do not walk alone but always with Christ inside of us. God bless you.

    • Thanks so much Jasmine. That really means a lot. You’re right, we all have our different “things.” How comforting to know that Jesus is the source of our worth and loves us no matter what. Thanks for this encouragement. Hugs and love xox

  185. Thanks for liking my last post, but really thank you for being so real and honest on your blog! As the father of a beautiful little girl, the idea of her going through this terrifies me. I got a little choked up reading about you seeing your dad through your ED. It’s awesome to see God’s redemptive work in action. Keep up the good work!

    • Thanks so much for this reflection. Yeah, my father is an absolute gift from God. I am so blessed to be his daughter. My mom too. They are my rocks. 🙂 thanks for the encouragement and taking the time to read. Have a wonderful evening! Hugs xox

  186. I see you liked my post so I felt compelled check yours out.. We both realize that in all our trials, God brings beauty out of ashes. Thank you for being brave and sharing how He is walking you into the beauty He sees.

  187. You are such a strong human being you inspire me. Thank you for the work you are doing and for stopping by my blog and liking it. Please keep up the good work. You have so much to give.

  188. I love your rawness. Not only are you writing and healing yourself but your work indirectly is helping to heal others as well and that is something that is special. I wish you the best.

    • Hey Symone! Aw, thank you so much! That really means a lot. It is my deepest prayer that even one person can find encouragement and hope here. thanks for stopping by! hugs and love to you xox

  189. Stopped in to see who just liked my most recent blog post. I’m glad I did, as your blog mission speaks of something I relate to. To look at me now, one would not know I once spent years in the bondage of anorexia. My heart (literally speaking) bears some effects from it, but God, in his love and mercy, has done so much healing in me– spiritually and physically. I hope His love shines through in what I share when I blog. And I look forward to following you as you share of your journey.

    • Hey there gdhayes. Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad you’ve also found the freedom of recovery. God is so good! Sending you lots of love and hugs. Keep fighting true good fight, my friend☺️ xox

  190. Thank you for stopping by my blog and for the “like”. Your courage in “putting it out there” is an inspiration. God is still the God of the miracle. Be Blessed.

  191. Thanks for checking out my blog. What you are writing on your blog is surely inspirational to others. May God inspire you to continue. Grace and peace from Ray Gough, Ray of Hope Ministries, “Todays Enlightenment blog” rohmnj.wordpress.com

  192. Hey, I just wanted to say I think you’re absolutely amazing for starting this blog (and a total warrior for overcoming what you did). Not only do you have amazing and insightful thoughts about such a dark and troubling topic, but the way you’re able to express them is warm and comforting. Thanks so much for checking out my blog, and I look forward to checking out more of your posts.

  193. Thank you for the like to my post.
    I wish you much success and the continued strength that only God can give, abd i look forward to reading your blogs.

  194. Good Afternoon BBB from a grey old England! You are a faithful friend to Agnellusmirror and that is much appreciated! Your work is sure to be of help to some of your readers, so keep it up! WT

  195. I wanted to thank you so much for liking my posts daily for the past several weeks. It really blesses me, especially when I think so few are reading. Hope you are blessed!

  196. Thank you for so clearly, honestly, and informatively writing about a difficult subject. I have a friend who struggles with similar issues to yours, and I think your blog will be quite helpful. I’m looking forward to reading more. Thanks, as well, for stopping my my blog. Hope you continue to enjoy it.

  197. Thank you once again for stopping by my blog post (Tumbleweeds) ..it was an encouragement…just wish I knew how to get my comments box to work like yours.
    Will keep working on it…there has to be a solution.

    Keep writing! God bless.

  198. @beautybeyondbones thank you for the very first like on my blog! I admire your courage and willingness to ENcourage others. I happened to wake up in the earlier morning hours today, and thought immediately about this new challenge I feel like I’ve been nudged towards in seeking and sharing God each day for the next 30 days, and I thought, “Oh I hope at least just one person has been touched by the beginning of this effort, just one!” I prayed a quick sleepy prayer just asking God to show me a little light, if He saw fit at this time, in that hope. I took a quick look at my phone screen, and there was my notification of my first “like,” from you. Just want you to know it was so encouraging to me, and it was evidence that folks are seeking God. Thank you, and I look forward to keeping up with your success. You are doing a blessed thing. If I can ever pray for you in any specific way, I’d be honored if you’d let me know. Carry on, and blessings to you. –Rilla James

  199. Hi BBB, when trying to make a blog read in sequence like a book it’s a real problem but by using the pages feature you can do it. Each page can be a chapter or entry and they are static, never changing location. WordPress is great for this. Thanks for your blog and for visiting mine. C U around!

  200. Dear Overcomer and vulnerable one, I have known and loved quite a handful
    with food disorders – such a painful journey. I am new to this blog world, but appreciated your liking my welcome. I will take reading through your blog slowly as this topic has left scars on my heart from walking with others in this darkness. May I ask where you are in this wide wide world? May you daily shine in the knowledge that you are princess of the High King, loved and treasured. blessings and prayers, mama g.

    • Hi Mama G! Thank you so much for this beautiful reflection. I’m in NYC:) Amen to that-what a blessing to be His daughter:) thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox

  201. Only scraping the surface of your story and feeling grateful already that you have chosen to share.
    Thank you for liking my story, it’s been a tough year and one thing that I didn’t mention was that my now-ex boyfriend kept referring to how skinny I was getting, even as we broke up, without thinking maybe it was the stress of everything that was happening that had something to do with it.
    I look forward to reading the highs and lows and knowing that it’s okay to struggle with control over food, especially when I’ve lost control over a lot of other things in life.
    If I may I’d like to save some of your pictures, if that’s okay 🙂
    Sending positive thoughts your way!

    • Hi Katie! Aw thank you so much. That’s so kind of you to say:) I’m sorry you’ve been going through a break up. That is always so hard. The right man is out there for you☺️ thanks for stopping by! Sending big hugs and lots of love xox

  202. Thank you for liking my post on my blog! I just want to thank you for being so open and honest. It really helps to not hide the illness away, but to give it a voice. Being open is better 🙂

  203. Thanks for liking my blog… really, I am thankful, because it led me to you. I was once where you once were. I am forwarding your blog on Facebook because of women I know who are caught up in the madness. Thank you.

  204. Thanks for liking my posts! I haven’t had the same struggles, but certainly have had my own, and family members with substance abuse issues, etc…it’s great you are encouraging folks who may feel all alone in their struggle.

  205. Thank you for stopping by hisnamebpraised and liking the post. Praying that you have a most blessed Easter Season and continue to be blessed on your journey of healing and discovery. In the Name of Our Risen Lord Jesus Christ. Take care, Doug

  206. Wonderful blog! Thanks for the comment and like! Together we can help topple these issues that make so many people feel alone. #ChangeTheWorld

  207. This is a wonderful series. No one close to me has had eating disorders, but they do have anxiety disorders and other issues. This open and insightful look within is extremely enlightening and helpful to anyone who wants to find a way to let others know that they are loved and valued as they fight their demons. It is also a great reminder of what Christianity is about, of finding one’s way to the love that was always there, and sharing that love not for selfish reasons or to receive gratitude or admiration but just because it is what we are meant for. Thank you.

  208. Looking forward to reading your blog. I have an eating disorder, but it is the opposite of anorexia. It’s not bulimia either because I don’t vomit. But I don’t eat too much just because I love food. I will eat food I don’t even like just to be eating. It is some sort of self-destructive impulse that I have never been able to fully come to terms with. Perhaps I can find some healing in your words.

  209. I know a few people with eating disorders. Hang in there. There is hope. Societally, we push women to be overly body conscious. What women do understand is that men, while visual, see the best in the girls in their life. Don’t see yourself through your eyes. Find someone who loves you and see yourself through their eyes.

    A wonderful incredibly beautiful dancer friend of my daughter gave up just days before being accepted to a clinic. This young lady, athletic, beautiful, energetic, loving, felt she was getting fat. So she started purging. You know the rest. She couldn’t stop and she couldn’t take it anymore. She hung herself two days before the letter came. I’m not her parent, but my heart still weeps for the loss to the world of such a wonderful soul.

    • Hi Christopher, wow, thank you for sharing this tragic story. Oh my gosh my heart is absolutely breaking right now. I am so sorry for your loss. That is so sad. You’re right, we have to see ourselves with eyes of love and acceptance. My goodness, what a sad story. I will keep her and her family and you in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for stopping by. Sending so much love and hugs xox

  210. Hi there! Thank you for dropping by my site. 🙂 I just went back at it again. I’m recovering from compassion fatigue and it’s inspiring to be walking alongside someone who has recovered from her own wrestling with life. It’s an inspiration. 🙂

    Love and light,
    Kathy

  211. Kathy – thank you so much for liking my most recent post at Letters from Coach. I have enjoyed touring your blog. I know about disorders. I have a couple. I run my butt off, but I eat a ton and not always what is good for me. Mostly pizza. Were there a pill for that! Anyway, thanks again.

    Just followed you! Kick ass!

    John
    Letters from Coach

  212. You know as I was reading this I was thinking about your title, “Beauty Beyond Bones.” There is nothing more beautiful than a beautiful soul, spirit, and heart. You possess all three of them. You need to recognize that about yourself, first and foremost. Then the other “beauty” is, your willingness to share all three of them with others. You are willing to do it to help, to share, and to give hope. Doesn’t get much better than that, does it? Oh my goodness, am I confusing you with Jesus? Love and God Bless, SR

    • Oh my gosh, thank you so much. Hah that’s funny. Seriously though, your kind words just touched my heart. Thank you for that. God is good. To Him be the glory❤️❤️❤️

  213. Thanks so much for stopping by my blog. I do a lot of teaching of the 12 Steps in my spiritual formation classes and love Richard Rohr’s comment that we are all addicted to something, even our own thinking. We all need the process of surrender and letting go because without God’s help we are powerless. I am learneding that recovery from any addiction – even stinking thinking – is possible!

    • Hi there! Thanks so much. You’re right-it IS possible. And yes, without God we are powerless. How comforting to know that he is our strength! Thanks for stopping by! Xx

  214. Thank you for visiting my blog and liking my very first post. I came to read your blog and it’s such a relief to find this place. You are so brave. I started my recovery less than a month ago, and have no support from anyone around me, so it’s comforting to read your words. It gives me hope. I just wrote your title in my journal, as a reminder to myself too. I’m not sure how to keep a ‘recovery blog’ and started one impulsively, but I’m glad I did, and I’m glad I came here. Thank you for fighting – and for sharing.

    • Hi there friend! Aw thank you so much. I’m so glad you’re embarking on the recovery journey! I’m cheering you on! There’s so much freedom and joy in a life free from that prison! Thanks for stopping by! Stay strong warrior xox

  215. I am looking forward to reading your story! Thank you for stopping by to read my post on Invisibility on Between The Detours! Christ and the redemption He brings is an amazing thing!

  216. Thanks for stopping by and liking my poem A Vengeful Prayer. Reading confessional poems and non-fictional accounts is something that I love and take inspiration from. Looking forward to reading your articles. Hugs and bravos!!

  217. All day today, I’ve seen posts which say things like “people cross your path for a reason” or “no one you meet is by chance”…….I don’t know how or why you came upon my blog post, but here I am within yours, and I can’t explain how serendipitous it feels to be here……

  218. Hello BBB

    I am sending back a thank you for your several post likes on my fledgling blog; much appreciated. While I was never diagnosed with anorexia, I was certainly questioned on my eating habits and other things I am sure you are familiar with. There were some statements that you and some commenters made that resonated deeply with me.

    The area I have covered on your site has been quite encouraging. You write beautifully and with passion. I like what I have seen, especially the Scriptures and all glory to God. And to be clear, that is inclusive of the Lord Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Thank you for this.

    Cheers

    Laurabeee

  219. I have suffered from anxiety a few times in my life and still haven’t found the courage to share my story as unfiltered and raw as you have, here in this blog. I take inspiration from you and the fact that you have fought some terrible demons and are now in recovery pouring your heart to give hope to others.
    God bless you!
    Lot’s of love and good vibes your way!

    • Hi friend! Thank you so much for this note of encouragement. God is good. I hope you do share your story one day. It will help lots of people! Thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox

  220. I don’t have someone in my life with an eating disorder right now, but I plan to keep you in mind, should I meet someone, or should someone I know start down that path. So encouraging to see what you are doing!! Blessings.

  221. How beautiful your steps are. Christ is such a gift, and I am so happy that you have found healing through Him. God bless your journey sweet sister, I know that He has tremendous plans for you!

  222. I absolutely love your blog. The name itself has so much meaning in so many ways! I suffered with bulimia in high school for two years. I overcame it with support from my family and peers. We all fight battles every day, whatever they may be. We are also always on a road of recovery of some sort, with detours and bumps all over the place. It is up to us whether we make it our final destination (and God of course). You are very inspirational. I love to see when bloggers share their growth and glory with the Lord. He is bigger than ALL. I blog more to vent, not really to reach people per say. I have only been on a few months, and I find a lot of knowledge and inspiration from other people’s stories. Maybe one day, when I have a direction, I can work on inspiring others, as you! Even if it is just one person! Jesus was but one man, who saved the world!!! Continued blessings to you.
    Jenny

  223. I will enjoy (in a painful way) reading your posts. I overheat to compensate for my pain. Like you I have been on a journey of recovery. It started through a family programme as my husband had a severe problem with alcohol.

  224. An eating disorder that one develops as a young child can and does affect the person throughout their entire life. Healing takes place on a daily basis, even if one doesn’t notice it (the healing), as long as one stays focused on what truly is important in life.

    Sometimes the media can sway us to be distracted in life. What I noticed is that muting commercials on television is good medicine for what ails humans

    Really seeing what’s happening, really “noticing” life, seeing things clearly, is what helps a person stay healed and stay headed in the right direction.

    Just one opinion here.

    • Thank you for this reflection. Healing definitely is a very personal thing and everyone is on their own journey. ED and the repercussions of it definitely can pop up in other areas of life, but I fully believe that total heal is possible! And that’s a great idea about muting the commercials! We don’t need to have the media prescribe to us what we should value. Thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love. Xox

  225. Thank you so much for stopping by my blog and liking my post. I will take time to read your posts one at a time and thanks for letting us into your world.

  226. Thank you for liking my blog post. My Christian book. I hope to try and read your story as my middle daughter has an eating disorder and it would be helpful to read how you managed to overcome yours. God bless Margaret.

  227. Hi, Thanks for visiting my blog. I hope you will recover soon. in the meantime smile and enjoy the day’s sunshine. lots of love…

  228. I really admire your decision to start this blog, I think it shows how determinted and motivated person you are! Happy to have found you! (+ I love the layout and pics you post! 🙂 )

    • Thank you so much. That really means a lot. And thank you! I love making the pics! They’re a bit of a labor of love, but I really do enjoy it. Thanks for reading! Hugs and love xox

  229. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I am happy with you that you have found deliverance through Jesus Christ. Thank you for reading and liking my posts on “God’s Word.” I wish you many blessings. LaShea

  230. Hi, thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my post on the benefits of emu oil. I hope you found it useful. Congrats on your progress in fighting your eating disorder.

      • God bless you for your courage and self-less compassion while sharing your journey. Without a doubt these chronicles have, and will continue, to benefit others. The Holy Spirit will see to that!
        Oh, and thanks for liking my post about my brain tumor ( I forgot to give it a title).
        It’s quite validating when someone acknowledges your experiences,don’t you think?

  231. Hello! I just wanted to say thank you for liking my post about my momma’s crowdfunding campaign. Just stopping by to read it means the world to me and my family. Please share our cause wherever you can. I just know it would make a HUGE difference.

    – Christopher Michael

  232. Hi, I’ve read a few of your blog posts, and you mention “ED,” what is that or who is that? Thanks for sharing your story. It’s very motivating & empowering to read.

    • Hi friend, thank you for this question. ED stands for Eating Disorder. In a lot of recovery inpatient centers, they personify the disease as ED, as a way to help you visualize standing up for yourself and fighting something, rather than just an abstract notion of anorexia. It is a recovery method. At first I thought, “boy this is seriously silly/stupid” but it actually helped a lot! hope that helps!

  233. Dear Beauty Beyond Bones,

    Thank you for dropping by and liking some of my posts. When you get a spare 5 minutes, I’d strongly encourage you to read the following online cartoon:

    http://www.chick.com/reading/tracts/0001/0001_01.asp

    Just scroll down with your mouse to see the pictures.

    It’s about God’s free gift of eternal life for all people, regardless of who they are or what they’ve done in life.

    May He bless you.

    Kind regards in Christ,
    Naomi

  234. So I just realized that this is the first of your blog posts of this series (it’s those blonde hairs that I have). So I’m really looking forward to reading the rest! I love when people are just honest and open, being real, and you seem to be that way so I know I’ll appreciate your writing! I was in a pretty long relationship (almost 6 years) with a girl who had an eating disorder and from just loving her it hurt me so much. It’s something I never really understood at the time so I’m looking forward to hopefully becoming more familiar with it through reading your posts. Plus I’m going to be going to counseling school and will hopefully one day be able to help people find healing through Jesus from things like this.

    Thank you so much for sharing!

  235. […] BeautyBeyondBones If you or someone you know is suffering with an eating disorder or on the road to recovery, I invite you to visit this blog where will the blogger will share about her experiences on Anorexia and how she found her freedom through Christ. Also check out her Resources page: https://beautybeyondbones.com/resources/   […]

  236. I just stopped by to thank you for liking so many of my posts, you have my support in all you are doing, it is so needed.

  237. Thank you for your courage and kindness. It takes a special person to sip an unfair amount of life’s bitter cup and not become bitter. Also, thanks for the like on my website.

  238. I’ve been meaning to say a big thank you for reading our blog but also how inspiring and engaging I have found your writing. It is full of faith, life and hope and also gives me as an educator a real insight into ED which I am sure will help me understand and support young people in our care in the most compelling way – so put simply thank you!

  239. Thank you for “liking” so many of my blogs. Seeing you there, especially so often, really means a lot to me, and gives so much support to my being open and brave about sharing many of my so very deeply personal experiences. We are, all of us who support each other, family of the most wondrous kind. Connected by the heart. I wish you the best with your much continued learning and growing. – Mr Model : https://spiritguidessaintsguardianangelsghostsandevenaliens.wordpress.com/2016/05/04/floating-over-our-bodies/

  240. Hi! THANKS SO MUCH for the like on my post. I truly appreciate your kind comment. I have read your “Read First” post as well and found it to be AWESOME. It was a reminder of HOW GOOD God is and HOW MUCH HE LOVES US. Thanks for sharing your story with the world. God Bless YOU!

  241. I admire you for persevering through the tough times, and for having faith. I know that God will never leave you, and He loves you ALL OF THE TIME — unconditionally. Thank you for liking my post “Words of Jesus.”

  242. As a new blogger, this is an awesome layout! I love your story and am so thrilled to see other young women of God sharing their struggles and victories alike. Keep it up!

  243. I love your blog – you are so genuine and I also share your values in general. So glad you conquered the anorexia – a false friend even though it’s easy to understand how somebody can get a right buzz out of it for quite a long time before it starts being the boss of you instead of the other way around. God bless.

  244. Hi! thank you so much for your ” like” on my “Stay Focused” article! Oh and you are so on target…we must love our-self! We are fearfully and wonderfully made!

  245. Hi, Beauty! (don’t know your name, but Beauty is appropriate I think!) I’m not recovering from any type of disorders, or illness, but I am former bullying sufferer and adversity overcomer! I love to read any story that ends or continues with someone fighting the good fight, embracing God’s healing love, and using their experiences to help others! You are a true Beauty!!! 🙂

    • Hi friend! oh my gosh thank you so much for this reflection. I’m so glad you’ve embraced His love, because you’re absolutely right: it is healing to the core. so glad you stopped by! hugs and love xox

  246. I noticed that you liked my post today. Thank you! How interesting, too, that we should cross paths. I spent my 15th birthday, and 4 months after that, in a mental hospital, being treated for anorexia. That’s over 35 years ago, but it’s still a vital part of who I’ve become. To note the seriousness of the disease,the girl in treatment with me died a year later. To offer hope, while I still deal with depression, I have remained healthy and strong – something very necessary for a mother of 2 boys. Thank you for offering encouragement to those in recovery. It’s important work.

  247. I look forward to making my way through your writing. Although I am not yet comfortable writing about my disorder, I’m inspired by your honesty, and I applaud your willingness to expose such a difficult, raw part of yourself. Thanks for the like on my blog as well! Take care!

  248. I am so thankful to God for you, that He has blessed us with you. And I am thankful that we have connected. If just one person is aided by our testimonies, then that will have been a success. 🙂

  249. I’m so proud of you! I will be sure to refer anyone struggling with an eating disorder, to your blog. Thank you also, for reading “The Silver Lining” at angelaslittleattic.com. It’s important to share our times of suffering, so we can give hope to others about finding a light at the end of the tunnel. Though I never had a full blown eating disorder, I did flirt around with very bad eating habits in my college years. I had a warped sense of what I looked like. I was thin and vibrant and beautiful, and I never felt I looked good enough. How I wish I could go back and tell
    that young girl that there was absolutely nothing wrong with her at all! May God bless you and your blog, in Jesus’ name!

  250. Grateful to be able to share a bit of your journey! Appreciate your willingness to be real! Blessings and great love to surround you and illuminate your path.
    And thanks so much for liking my blog posts! This is a new beginning for me of sharing my story. Kinda scary but am determined to allow the bitter past to be a shinning lighthouse for any struggling along the way.
    God’s got it!!

  251. Wow what an awesome way to reach people! God truly has people working in every matter so there is always somewhere for his followers to run! Love that you have this!

  252. Firstly, big hugs back at you. Thanks for stopping by my blog and the like. I’m looking forward to reading through your posts as it’s a subject I don’t know too much about and reading your first hand experiences I feel will give me a better understanding
    cheers and love xx
    mary

  253. Thank you for liking my blog post, I must say that I am truly humbled. Blogging your recovery from anorexia is truly courageous and inspiring. Bless you.

  254. Thank you so much for visiting my blog and liking my post about the strawberry festival. I’ll be uploading parts 2&3 this week. Feel free to follow me too 🙂

  255. Thanks for stopping by the blog. Looks like you are doing some brave and incredible things for those that are struggling. As someone that works with teens, your fight is needed and appreciated. God bless.

  256. Thank you for your like on my page IAMSTARLIGHT. We have different paths but sounds like we are sharing and caring, and that can make a difference in the world, I firmly believe.

  257. Hi! I nominated you for the 3 Day Quote Challenge! Hope you participate. Stop by my blog to see how to participate. It’s easy…and no rush. 🙂

  258. Well hello there! Thanks for stopping by my little space. You are the queen of memes! I love it! Makes me want to be a better writer and illustrator to my own words. 🙂 I wish you all the best.

  259. Thank you so so much for liking the most recent post on my blog. I’m so new to this and I love discovering other bloggers’ worlds through their intimate writing. While I am not recovering from an ED, I am fighting, surviving and thriving through brain cancer, which struck in the prime of my life. No matter what our “diagnosis” we all share so many common emotions, experiences, etc. I really look forward to reading more! Xoxoxo

    • Thank you so much for this comment. You’re so right, we’re all in this together. Know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers during your fight. Thanks for stopping by. Hugs and love to you, warrior xox

  260. You have the most rare and magical beauty – -that which shines from the inside out! Enjoying your posts, and very much appreciate your like of my blog.
    In His Service,
    Dee

  261. I look forward to reading your posts. I was a clinical social worker prior to retirement and I know how hard eating disorders are on people. You sound very brave to put yourself out to the world in order to help others. I hope for you many blessings and continued healing.

  262. I look forward to reading more of your posts. I am a retired clinical social worker and have known people who struggled with eating disorders. You are a very brave person to share with the world in order to help others. I wish for you many blessings and continued healing.

  263. Hi there! Thank you so much for liking my posts! I’m glad that I ended up checking your bog and reading this first. Thank God that you’re in recovery! indeed there is healing and victory in Jesus! I’m a medical student from the Philippines by the way… 🙂

  264. i so love the way you write. you make it so easy to read. yes, i’ll go thru your blogs slowly, as you suggested. God bless you, beauty!!!

  265. Hello! Thanks for the like and for taking time to read my blog. I look forward to reading about your journey. Blessings and God’s grace to you!

  266. I saw you liked one of my posts. Thank you for that. Then I looked at yours. I’m glad I did. Wonderful work. Keep it up. Don’t stop – even in those low moments we have. Those are the times we speak from the heart.

  267. May Jesus continue to uphold you, walk with you and continue to deepen your faith every step of the way. He is our great physician and our Healer – continue to feel His Presence in your life as your beauty rises out of the ashes.

  268. Thank you for your like on my blog, it has encouraged me greatly. God bless you in everything you do. You are a wonderful testimony to others. When you visited my blog you saw that I had Christian mysteries but I also have Christian Poetry that is very good for the soul. Psalms for the Soul, if you are interested.

  269. Dear ‘beautybeyondbones’

    It’s numb‧knuckles and I want to thank you for your support over the past few weeks. It’s a delight to your icon on the blog =) Thanks again and happy reading!

  270. Hey there, BBB,

    Thank you for looking and liking at my blog. I’m new on WordPress and not finding my way around very well. I hope to come back and find out more about your blog and your journey.

    I know a little about anorexia as I have a friend with it. He’s unusual – as that pronoun makes clear – but doing OK. It’s stacked on top of a whole load of other problems for him, too.

    I wish you well, and thanks again.

    GB.

  271. Beautybeyondbones, thank you so much for dropping by my blog – Plant a seed deny a weed.
    I love the name of your blog. I am so happy that you made the sacred journey of thriving beyond anorexia and have chosen to help others. Here’s a cyber hug of TLC from me {{{ ♥ }}}.

    I have a Facebook page you might enjoy – Caregivers Self-care Movement. I post weekly ways for us to practice guilt-free self-care.

  272. Thank you for liking my post about Noah. While I don’t know anyone with anorexia nor do I have this disorder, I understand somewhat because I have an eating disorder called gluttony. I am overweight so I struggle too with food.

  273. Hi… my turtle say thanks for your like 🙂 I read this article your blog face a very important and current topic… but I think you are a positive person too and I like your way to write 🙂 Sorry for my english but I’m italian so I don’t speak very well your language! I’d like very much if we could follow each other! Hugs and kisses… Gí

  274. The Lord also delivered me from anorexia. It is truly amazing how much He can heal! Keep loving, trusting and fighting. Sometimes it is exhausting to fight the disordered perceptions and thinking but He is faithful. It has now been about 7 years since I started my recovery journey. I have two beautiful babies and sometimes during and after pregnancy I would struggle more with thoughts returning but I am able now to get back on track because of Jesus. I never truly made any lasting progress until He got ahold of me 🙂 Love and Hugs to you!

    • Hi Jenny, thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad that you’ve also found the freedom of recovery! Praise God for that! And yes-His faithfulness and mercy are incredible. So happy that you’ve been able to have children post ED. That is truly something to praise Jesus for. Hugs and love xox

  275. Thank you for visiting my blog and enabling me to find you. What comes to mind after reading this first post is that in opening up, and allowing all to see your vulnerability and stuggle – in a sense you are ‘laying down your life for your brother.’
    May they be a blessing to all, not only to those who need them, but to those who seek to understand.
    Susan

  276. Once again I thank you for liking my blog post “Those Pesky Deadly D’s”…and brokenness is one of the end results of them unless you ban them with the Power of the Holy Spirit! Blessings to you as you recover.

      • You are welcome 🙂
        I meant it.
        I don’t often have time to comment on things I read (I am on the final edit of book 4 in The Apostle John series – fiction) but your post resonated – there are so many damaged people in the world. I’ve been there, the characters in my seies of books all have their struggles. It’s part of our walk. Sharing the struggles helps and encourages those who need it. People who respond negatively – don’t need it, or don’t want to hear it.
        God bless – hugs and love back at you. Now, back to work on that manuscript. My editor is waiting. Not only to edit it – but she is longing to know what happens next.
        Oh – you can find out something about me on my website
        http://susanprestonauhor.com
        Till the next time’
        Susan

      • Hi Susan. That’s so true-sharing our struggles makes this journey a little easier. Good luck with your writing! Sounds like an awesome manuscript! I hope to read it one day xox

  277. First and foremost, thanks for liking one of my articles. And I think I am fortunate that you did, because your stories are sources of inspirations. I probably wouldn’t be able to read your articles from start to finish, but I know the little I read will be a potential form of incentive. May the Love of Christ continually abide with and in you. God Bless. xoxo

  278. I liked going through your pages in a sympathetic and appreciative way, and I wish you a very speedy recovery 🙂
    Also I would like to thank you for reading one of my posts. Follow my page for more such pieces. 🙂

  279. Beebs, it’s me. I thought I’d stop by to pee. I mean, thank you so much from the bottom of my hell-filled heart. Your comment about the virtues of vulnerability on twitter has been twiddling like thumbs in my head ever since I read it. I want to thank you and advise that it may be wise to stop reading this now and block me…As Green Goblin would say, Now, you’ve really pissed me off! As cavalier as your comment on twitter, I have been given the assignment by a friend to inspect you thoroughly for any more such cavalier comments or perspectives shared to pollute the sum goodness of this world. If am allowed, I shall proceed. Otherwise, block me. I intend to go back to school and to make your blog platform my locker, my hallways, and my classroom. I intend to join the debate club along with all my classes at this school and refute everything you say, first and foremost your false virtual hugs and virtual love. From my calling you a “Jesus freak”, this is where we have come…I’m a very dedicated student, valedictorian of my class, twice state Academic Decathlon overall gold medalist. I don’t say this in any other way (prideful or otherwise…) other than to admit my dedication, my drive, and my persistence. Do block me now, because I will take article for article that you have written and refute every argument by way of assignment from my friend. I discussed your twitter comment with him, and this resolution is what came of it. You are my spider-man, and I am your Green Goblin. Can Spider-man come out to play? Remember, no matter how much you do for them, they will still hate you! You chose the way of the hero, and I the villain. Well, to each his own. Itsy bitsy spider went up the water spout. Down came the Goblin and took the spider out! I’m not saying you are evil for what you put on Twitter. I just call competition life’s sweetest treat, better than sex. You and me. This is gonna be, Beebs. Any questions of my virtues and vices, you can ask my friend. He will vouch for me. He’s already promised. He’s known me since we put our hands together in first grade Red Rover. Red Rover, Red Rover, send Beebs on over!

    • Or, how about we join forces and take on the psychiatric and rehabilitative services of this world? Think how much we could destroy: Psychiatrists, Doctors, Counselors, Psychologists, Two-face Hypocritical Sycophants every last one of them. They prescribe what they would never choose to endure. How about it, Spider-(woman)? Are you in or are you out? The world will tremble while you decide. You know it. I know it. You’re a bad-ass, and you know it! It’s time to show it.

  280. Hello BBB, I thought to stop and thank you for liking “Unconditional Love, Unconditional Respect” and all the other posts in the past. And thank you for sharing your heart on this blog.

  281. Thanks for liking my post ‘not even water’. I am looking forward to reading your blog. Peace 🙂

  282. Extremely well written blog! Thanks for sharing your journey – I admire your courage and determination. I will visit and continue reading as time permits.

    Many thanks for stopping by my place!

  283. Dear beautybeyondbones, Thanks for liking my blog Searching for GSOT and the post on Fundamentalism. Your posts are engaging, very well written. Your story seems to be one about how God’s will for your life and your own will become indistinguishable – and beautiful. Yet the world of science and medicine in which I grew up and have worked for many years often considers will to be an illusion. Not so! We need to hear and read more stories like yours (and from you). Fundamentalism is an inappropriate response to the challenge. Your words from the heart speak to the heart and awaken a yearning for a new kind of living.

  284. Hey there, thanks for visiting by my blog. I’ve had friends with eating disorders and seeing an experience not dissimilar to theirs written about so eloquently is wonderful. It takes courage to talk about this stuff (especially in such a raw and meaningful way) and combining it with religion is a new, interesting angle. Keep it up BBB! Believe in you 🙂

  285. Hey. Thanks a lot for liking my recent post, I’m glad. You’re doing well with your posts, I like them very much. I’m new here so I would be glad if you share the post you liked. Thank you once again 🙂

  286. Thank you for visiting my Blog. I want to say what a brave soul you are for sharing what must be a challenging journey! Keep on keepin’ on!
    Hugs!

  287. Hi there… I am, as you know, rubenesque… part of that is because I often turned to food for comfort, due to my past… Comfort/emotional eater… I don’t claim to understand or know at all what your journey has been like…

    I want you to know I will be praying for you…. You are incredibly loved by the maker of the universe! … How awesome is that?!…

    I kept having to remind myself of that this last month as I came to terms with my sexuality…

    He loves us all, just as we are, in all our brokenness, our weakness, our darkness…

    Blows my mind some days…

    I just wanted to say hello….

    The Rubenesque Rambler

    • Hi friend, thank you so much for this reflection. I really appreciate the prayers. You’re right – He loves us just as we are. How incredible. thanks for stopping by xx

  288. Thank you for following our blog, BeautyBeyondBones. Granny also had AN when she was young, but there is hope to overcome the problem, she did! 🙂 Wishing you all the best, you’re doing well. So good to write about the struggle. Extra Pawkisses for a Happy Weekend 🙂 <3

  289. I am loving your site and your writings. Thank you for sharing rawly, honestly and with such authentic vulnerability. Your strength and light shine through!

  290. What a powerful story you have! May you continue to have the strength & courage to be an inspiring light 🙂

  291. Hi BBB, I read through some of your posts. I like your style of writing and your honesty. God will honour your faith. We all have disorders of one sort or another and we all go through trials. Yours is not an easy one but through God’s grace you made the connection to Jesus. There is a reason. May God richly bless you in your journey. God loves you more than you can imagine, literally. Rest in His peace. Love in Christ – Bruce

  292. Hello! I work with many different youth groups at my church and am interested to learn more about eating disorders just in case one of the students find themselves suffering and needs some support. I was excited to see a Christian blog regarding eating disorders and wanted to thank you for your honesty- you can help so many people through this blog.

  293. Thank you for stopping by and liking my post. I appreciate it. 🙂

    Baruch ata Adonai, Eloheinu, Melekh ha Olam. Lord bless and keep you, b’shem Yeshua. 🙂

  294. You have been a loyal supporter of my site(s) from the very beginning. You don’t know how much that means to me. Now that I’ve been given the opportunity to express my appreciation for all that you are and what you are trying to convey through your writings, I am pleased to award you with The Liebster Award. You can read about it here on my blog: https://spiritguidessaintsguardianangelsghostsandevenaliens.wordpress.com/2016/07/15/the-liebster-award/ I wish you much continued inner peace, outer exploration, and moments of quiet joy and vibrant laughter – forever. ~ Mr Model.

  295. Sending a hug right back! Thank you for sharing your voice. Much love and light -Christian

  296. Hi BBB! Thanks for visiting my blog and liking my post, “Postscript: Whither Turkey Now?” I had severe bulimia in my teens and twenties, which I finally recovered from. And my best friend from high school almost died from anorexia when we were in college. I visited her then in the hospital: she looked like someone from a concentration camp. 🙁 Happily, she did recover, but it took a really long time and lots of medical and psychiatric treatment. I am so glad to read of your own recovery! I hope that you will read more of my blog. 🙂

    • Hi Timi, thank you for sharing this. I’m so sorry you went through that. Praise God that both you and your friend recovered. I appreciate you stopping by. Hugs and love xox

  297. HI BBB,

    Thanks for liking my latest blog. Like some in this thread, I am fairly new to using wordpress & blogging (although my actual account would say I have been here longer than I have used it). I am still learning the ropes, and probably need to redo my page already fairly soon.

    When I was a younger woman, food & I did not have a very good relationship, it was also combined with a bad time in my life. I will come back and read all your posts when I have a little bit of time.

    I wish you good health, and I hope like me, in the future, you and food can better your relationship x

      • It’s refreshing to see someone courageously open up about their struggles. Most Christians feel ashamed of admitting weakness. It is this hypocrisy that turns people away from Christianity. Thanks for your courage and for visiting kingservant.com. Come visit again.

    • Hello!!

      The words above could be mine. Likewise, thank you for liking my latest and most significant blog thus far. I too am fairly new to the blogging world, or the social media world for that matter. Parenting has been my priority and with only one child at home (out of 6) and the only daughter I am able to focus a little more on my writing.

      I love your honesty, something I put out there also in my writing. I think it is necessary for the healing of this world. The majority of this nation, if we’re honest, needs healing and I believe it is through stories such as ours that this will come about. Being the warriors who have first gone through the darkness we are capable to open our hearts and minds to help others follow a similar, but unique, path.

      I have only read your first blog and skimmed the last repost, but will definitely be back to read it all.

      Best wishes, stay strong, and keep the faith. You are the change!

      Namaste,
      Denise

  298. Thank you for your bravery and authenticity. As someone who has struggled with disordered eating and still struggles with body image issues, it’s helpful to read the story of someone else’s perseverance. xoxo

  299. Thanks for like ,and visiting my page. I guess I kind of misguided you to latest post about my deal with God. To be honest , am not a believer. I stay away from the believer. But , I have decided to follow you. I have to read you ,read you more. I hope I can see what you see in God 🙂

    • Hi Hira, thanks for sharing that. And thank you for deciding to read my story. I really appreciate it and I hope that it resonates with you. Feel free to email me if you have any question or want to talk! Hugs and love xox

  300. Thank you for checking out my blog post on The Worldly Fool. Just to refresh your memory, I was the one who wrote a quirky post about how a zombie apocalypse simulation/fitness app called Zombies, Run! changed the way I saw fitness forever.

    I’ve started reading some of your blog posts, and I can relate. When it comes to body image issues such as anorexia, we’re bombarded everyday by the media and TV with false images and false expectations. It’s hard to distinguish what is healthy and what isn’t.

    Back in high school and college, I used to get acne. I felt as if the real me was buried beneath this skin condition that I couldn’t get rid of no matter how hard I tried. I never went to see a doctor about the anxiety my acne gave me, but I think if I had gone to a psychologist, I have no doubt I would have been diagnosed with BDD–body dysmorphia disorder.

    However, my skin condition was a gift in disguise. I gave up all dairy, which is known to cause hormone-related acne flareups, and I’ve cut down on rice (which is not easy for an Asian, trust me!) and processed carbs and sugars.

    However, it wasn’t enough.

    For me, my acne is caused by multiple factors, including stress, diet, excessive sunlight exposure, and exercise. My acne was a sign from my body that I wasn’t loving it–or myself–enough. I’ve been taking much better care of this body ever since, and it’s been taking care of me.

    I started becoming bolder with my appearance. In college, I shaved my head one-inch all around, partially as a social experiment on how society views and treats women that don’t fit the Western standard for beauty. Needless to say, people started looking at me and treating me differently. If you check back on my blog at the end of the week, I’ll likely have a blog post about my experience posted by then.

    I know what you’ve gone through, and I wanted to reach out and just wish you the best and lots of love.

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  302. Hi BBB! Thanks to taking time to read my blog, StayingInStep. It takes courage and persistence to journey on the road toward the City of God. I read your story. It tells in your words what Jesus came to do: rescue and restore. Well done Princess of the Eternal King.

  303. Hello beautybeyondbones,
    Thank you for liking my blog post and have to say your blog is looking great! Keep up the inspirational story. Above all, keep writing!
    Nathan A Emery

  304. Hey there thank you for liking my poem Spring is Forever in Bloom. Your blog looks really interesting and although I’m not in the same situation that you were I too am using blogging as a way to recover from the problems I’m facing. You seem like an incredibly strong individual and although I’ve only just stumbled upon your blog I must congratulate you for your bravery. Thanks again and I look forward to reading your posts. 😀

  305. Hi BBB,

    Thanks for liking my blog – that really means alot to me; you’re the first person on wordpress to read and like the blog and for that I’m appreciative (it’s the little things in life that makes the most difference). I loved your Hello video and I’ve read your introduction and another blog of yours – very inspiring, I love your sense of humor and so glad for your recovery, that’s a blessing!!! I am now following your blog and can’t wait to see what else you have in store – I’ve been blogging for way over a year now and have decided that I wanted to do podcast (still shy of showing my face) so you’re very brave! – maybe I’ll get there one day too. Can’t wait for the next adventure you’ll take us on. Take Care. Blessings ~

  306. Hi,

    Thank you for liking my blog post. I hope you will also continue to find your passion in blogging, as well as glorify God in sharing your story.

    Blessings!

    P.S. You’re always welcome to visit my blog ^_^

  307. Thanks for dropping a Like at Rivertop Rambles. As a male anorexia survivor (I had it as a kid and am much older now!), I find your story quite amazing and am glad you’re doing well at this point. My “savior” was keying into the world of nature and putting the madness of the human world in its place.

  308. Hi dear. So glad that you liked my Jonathan’s Way post. I am excited to read what you have shared about your road to recovery.

    I was once headed for 450 pounds, myself. But now I am headed down to 200 pounds and less. I was wearing a 34/36 dress size now I am wearing an 18/20. Never to return that way again. I feel good about my journey, too. The Lord is able to sustain us through every change. He will remain faithful to His children.

  309. Hi BBB,
    God is having some fun with me. When you liked my blog post yesterday, I clicked on your blog to check it out. I didn’t really read through it at all, so I assumed it was some sort of beauty/lifestyle/Christian blog. This morning, I uploaded my second blog post and this one was all about eating disorder recovery through Christ. I checked your blog again to see the CRAZY COINCIDENCE that your blog was a lot about recovering from anorexia and finding freedom through Christ. You are a beautiful blessing and I praise God for leading me to your blog. 🙂
    -PC

  310. Dear Denise,

    Thank you so much for liking my recent blog post on Parallelaphors. I deeply appreciate getting to know others who have unabashedly shared their stories. It encourages me to continue. Cleary you have encouraged many others as well – you’ve given us a great gift. Looking forward to following your blog. Hugs!

    Miriam

  311. Dear Caralyn,

    Thank you for stopping by at my blog.
    Wow, it takes a lot of courage to write so open and vulnerable about an eating disorder. I’m sure you inspire and help a lot of people who are struggling with it eating. I wish you health and I hope that you will enjoy food the way I do someday.

    I will stop by every now and then. Just to see how you are doing.

    Take care!

  312. I have never had an eating disorder but have had friends and family members who have. I so appreciate your transparency in sharing your struggles and successes as it is helpful for me to better understand those who do have eating disorders and how to approach trying to encourage and help them.
    For those of us who have never experienced the struggle it is hard to understand them and therefore makes it hard for us to give the understanding and support that would help and worse yet may keep us from responses that may even make things worse. Understanding and prayer are essential to being effective in understanding and ministering to those with eating disorders in a way that helps them and glorifies God.

    • Thank you so much for sharing this. I really appreciate your support and encouragement. Yeah it’s a tough thing to grasp from the outside, but thank you for seeking to understand. You have a beautiful heart. Hugs and love xox

  313. Hi beauty! Thanks so much for visiting again and for the like on my post. I hope you are doing well and above all enjoying life and finding reasons to be happy.

    Peace be the Botendaddy

  314. Thank you for your like on one of my posts! What a “coincidence” that I used to suffer from anorexia in my early twenties, too! God has sent me my now-husband to “do the groundwork” and I got the chance to fully recover. At one time (2007, before I started therapy, which I quit after 10 days, stopped the pharmaceuticals I had to take from the psychatrist, and got over it all by myself, of course with God’s help – it took until about 2009) my mom told me not to go swimming at the lake, because people would look at me and knew what was going on. She said “People pity you!” and that wasn’t what I wanted at all… I didn’t want pity, I wanted to dissapear and be seen at the same time, kind of hard to explain.
    But, I also learned so much of this disease and I found that even when you’re totally at your lowest, there is still reason to live, and to love life. I don’t want to dissappear anymore. Anyways, Blessings from Germany & all the best luck in the world to you!

    • Hi there Frau, thank you for sharing this. I’m so sorry that our pasts connect is but I’m so glad that we’ve both found freedom! You’re so right- there is always a reason to live. Big hugs to you friend xox

  315. I can’t imagine what it must be like to live with a problem like you had. It must really have been horrific! I’m glad you found help, and especially that part of it was with God. The best of recoveries to you, along with the Lord’s blessings!
    Sunshine

  316. Thank you so much for honoring me with your presence and support on my blog. You are a beautiful woman and I admire your courage and that you have this fantastic site to give others support and encouragement.

  317. Thanks for liking my post! I want to say that you are a brave soul. I have not suffered from an eating disorder but a dear college friend of mine did and watching her struggle before coming out the other side was heartbreaking. I wish you continued recovery and health.

  318. Hey just to let you know I have nominated you for a Liebster Award!
    I really enjoy your blog and wanted to share it with my readers so they could enjoy it too!
    Check out my Liebster Award post on my page!

  319. Hello BBB!

    First, thanks for the hug! Second, thanks for visiting our site and reading our article The 5 most common misunderstandings of evolution. Here’s the link for those reading this comment and interested in reading the article and visiting our site as well:

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    We do appreciate your patronage. And we also empathize with your challenges and endeavors. As Winston Churchill once said, “We must endeavor to persevere.”

    Again, thanks for reaching out. We are looking forward to building a relationship with you!

    Have a great Sunday!

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  320. Thanks for stopping by my blog. Total newbie on wordpress! I wanted to say though, congratulations on your blog and being bold enough to talk about something many women do not.

  321. My best friend struggled with Anorexia for years and my cousin with Bulimia. I remember nearly everyone wrote them off and treating them like they “just did it for attention” even their family, nobody even tried to understand what it was like or see it as something that needed to be addressed until they ended up in the hospital. Thank you for sharing your story. This topic is very dear to my heart.

  322. Thanks for visiting my blog and liking my post. It is great that you share your very personal experience with others. Not everyone can do it. I’m sure it is helpful for many people. Way to go!

  323. Dear Caralyn, thanks for the like on my blog. You are to be commended for your courage and honesty. I am sure your posts will be a blessing to all who visit. I really like the style of writing that you use, very down to earth and warm. God bless!

  324. Hi BBB,

    Thanks for liking one of my first posts. Only a week into it. I struggle with certain parts of my life and your post gives me courage to open up more and not hold back.

    Best,

    The reawakening of dad

  325. Thank you for reading my post and liking it and thus connecting me with you. I have only begun to read your posts (93 year old man was first now this) but will now begin in sequence as you request. Sorry you have to travel the path you are on now but so glad you can make the way easier for those who come behind you and those struggling to stay on it.
    Please stop by my site again when you have the time.
    blessings and healing

  326. Hi! Thank you for visiting and liking my recent post. I did not experience what you have experienced but I think we all have different stories in life that made us a better a person. I’m glad you find your way to recovery through God’s grace and mercy. Because whatever bad experiences and problems we encounter, we will get through it if we only have Christ in our side and if we only entrust everything to Him. I have not yet read all your posts but I know every person who will read it will learn things from you and I know you will be able to help others through it. God bless you on your journey!

  327. Hi BBB, I could not find a ‘contact’ button so I am posting here instead. Hope you don’t mind. I have been ‘following’ you for sometime from my blog – hope in the storm. I have merged that blog site with this one – http://youaregodsblessing.blogspot.co.uk.I hope you will follow it as you did my previous one.

    I love your honesty and have watched you grow over time. Thank you for your inspirational blog.

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  328. Thanks so much for liking my blog. Your blog is amazing – what a beautiful site about overcoming such a scary and dangerous disorder! Keep up the great work and keep sharing your hopeful and powerful testimony.

  329. My wife and I sat in our car today and I read your “Read This First” blog entry. She exclaimed, “That’s beautiful” and asked me to send it to her. Thank you for your work.

  330. I tried to leave a comment last night, but the combination of tired and newbie defeated me. Giving it an other try!
    Back in the late seventies or early eighties at work one night someone yelled across the warehouse to a friend that the singer Karen Carpenter had just died from some disease that caused her to starve herself to death. That was how I learned my cousin had died and learned about anorexia. Many years later a family member told my mom that I must be anorexic after I lost about 30 pounds in a few months and Mom freaked out, No, I had struggled with my own addictions, but that wasn’t one of them. It was working 2 jobs and still too poor to eat more than twice a day! If I was lucky, I might add.
    Thank you so much for sharing your pain and journey back to Wholeness with us and I look forward to reading more. Brightest Blessings to you and your loved ones.

    • Hi there friend, thank you so much for sharing this. I am so sorry that you had to go through that. That breaks my heart, but I am glad that you have overcome those hardships and used it to grow. You are an inspiration. So glad that you stopped by and I’m sorry that there were issues with the comments section!! sending big hugs xox

  331. Thank you for liking my post ” Pet Sitting the Furgrandson” on OUR RETIRED LIFE.
    You are doing a great thing with your blog.
    Have a nice day. 🙂

  332. I’m on board … My intent is catch up, and stay up todate with your posts. Based on your wriitng in this post, your heart is good. I appreciate your faith, and I want to read more, learn more. Redemption, in our brokeness, and redemption comes out of our brokeness.

  333. What a great mission you have now found yourself on. That you have found strength in what was once a big challenge and now using that power to help others is a true testament to your character. Bless.

  334. Because you were so kind as to “like” one of my blog posts, we have now met. I’ve read little of your material, but tell you now I admire you greatly. Our histories are nothing alike, but all of us face challenges in life; strength and bravery are two of the attributes we must grasp in order to effectively live our lives. A common bond we do share is our faith in Jesus Christ, the righteous. My love and blessings.

  335. thank you for dropping by my blog and liking my recent post. I haven’t read beyond your introduction due to time limitation but I really would like to come back for more reading. For now though, I’m leaving you my prayers that you’ll continue to stand firm with the Lord as He had stood firm and will continue to stand firm by your side, especially when you are down. God bless!

  336. Thank you for visiting and liking my own blog, 10forJesus.com . It is amazing the multitude of ways God can weave himself into different life stories. I want to add that, though it is obviously geared toward alcoholism, many people struggling with eating disorders find the book 12 Steps and 12 Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous helpful, and there is an offshoot called Overeaters Anonymous, too, which provides free help.

  337. Hi! Thanks for liking my latest blog post. I’m looking forward to reading more of what you’ve written about what God has been doing in your life.

  338. Thanks for your like on my blog, Rooting for Truth with Friends. Whether one is rooting for ones ancestors or whatever, it’s great to have a little help from friends.

  339. I am glad I came across you. My story is, that I was broken for 15 long years being depressed. And now my story is, since over two years I have, “Completely recovered from it, being said I have come back to Normal. A word I never thought I would hear” The biploar/mood disorder is also completely under control now and I am working, studying and leading a fully normal life 🙂
    Thanks very much for writing your story to inspire and guide others. If there is anyone who like to know about mental wellness please do have a look in my site too. Its Not to add likes but My intention is to spread the message of mental wellness as much as possible as I am living proof of having recovered completely from depression. Thanks for all your information. I wish you The Very Best of Luck in your journey. Love Light and Healing energies from me 🙂 <3

  340. Hiya,
    Your blog has inspired me to nominate you for the 3 day quote challenge as my day 2 was about self love.

    If you chose to accept the challenge then all you need to do is to post a quote a day for 3 days and nominate 3 other bloggers each day to do the same.

    You can see mine here.. https://thatgirlcalledc.wordpress.com/

    Thanks for inspiring me 🙂 xx

  341. Hi!
    First, thank you for finding my blog and liking my posts! You were the first one, and I am forever grateful to you!

    I want to honor you for your work on this blog, to be so open and honest in all aspects. It takes great courage. I am very proud of you!
    Throughout my life, I have known several wonderful people with eating disorder, and I have seen close up how it affects them.
    Thank you soo much for sharing your story with the world. I am certain that your blog do a difference in many lives.
    My very best wishes for your journey in life. I will share your blog forwards.
    I see you here on your blog too.

    Have a wonderful day!

    Love,
    Elen

  342. Thank you very much for liking my post, “Big brother I”; it was quiet a surprise. Just read, “Read this first” and I anticipate enjoying and learning from every other post I read here from now on…

  343. Yeah, I have that disorder where I just “forget to eat” when I have other pressing matters to attend to. I generally don’t eat until my body is shaky and cannot function. I’m not recommending anyone do that by any means, and it is probably what is contributing to my “pooch belly”, but I sort of know what you mean.

    Keep on keeping on, dear friend.

  344. Hi! Thank you for visiting and liking my recent post. I did not experience what you have experienced. I’m glad you find your way to recovery. I used to lack confidence due to heavy bullying. Now I’m the happiest I have been doing journalism at Glasgow Clyde College in Scotland. Hugs to you.
    Regards
    Sean McAngus

  345. I’m new to recovery (120 days! (four months!!!) today) and new to blogging about it, but not new to writing. It’s been interesting and really cool to experiment with the candid nature of telling my story unfiltered.

    You were one of the first people to stumble upon my stuff and like it. You’re also someone who’s religious and political perspective, it seems, completely don’t align with mine; but it’s teaching me so much about loving people even if they don’t meet you where you think you need them to.

    We are in recovery together, and we are in the world at the same time with the same mission–get better and live through it. I’m feeling so much love and sending it your way.

    Do you have any advice for helping me grow a base of readers? Thank you for your support so far 🙂 <3

    Cait

    • Hi Cait! Congrats on your recovery! Know that i am rooting for you! Yes! Let’s journey together:) just be on all social media platforms! That’s the best way to get your stuff out there! Hope that helps! Hugs and love xox

  346. I think it’s great that you are sharing your experiences. I believe many will find what you have to share very helpful.

  347. Thank you, my girl! I was so touched by your story and by your courage! Such problems making us sober and our tiny concerns dissapear! God bless you!
    I’m hugging you,
    Vagif.

  348. Yes we all survived her broccoli diet and bubble gum… my daughter at 30… we all embraced her in high school (brothers, mother, and I) with understanding and her futile facade… pelvis bones prominent … has now re-covered, (with pride as a woman) still feeling conscious of her butt because she has gained a little weight (always has and still is beautiful), has a great personal friend and 2 beautiful children.
    It’s a story I understand and the victory of self acceptance with the surrender of illusion.
    ZQ

    • Hi ZQ, thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad that your daughter has embraced recovery and is living a full and vibrant life. That warms my heart:) thanks for stopping by:) big hugs xox

  349. Fortunately, I, nor anyone I know, has an eating disorder. However, I think you’re wonderful for what you’re doing with your blog. If I run across anyone, I will send them to your blog, as I favorited it. I just wanted to thank you for stopping by my f-stop fantasy. I appreciate your Like.

    • Hi Cris, thanks for the encouragement. I’m so glad that ED has not touched you or your loved ones lives. That is definitely something to celebrate. Thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox

  350. It’s amazing what you are doing with your blog. Turning your pain into positive power is a beautiful thing to see and read. Keep going and I look forward to reading more of your work.

    Stay blessed,
    Lydia x

  351. Hi, I hope you are in good health and spirit.
    My blog was nominated for a “quote challenge” – 3 quotes for 3 days while nominating others. It seems like a nice way to share some inspiration and some of your favourite blogs. Do you mind if I nominate your blog?

  352. It is so wonderful that you’re doing better! You are such a strong and amazing person; it takes a lot to climb out of an eating disorder and begin to embrace your (truly beautiful) self. I am so thankful that you give glory to God for your recovery!
    Thank you for beginning this website as a means to help others who are going through experiences similar to yours. You are such an inspiration! God bless you! <3

  353. Wow, I’m totally blown away by your story. I was born with a body type and high metabolism that prompted doctors, teachers, and friends to question me as to my eating habits. (pregnancy and motherhood fixed that, haha) While I didn’t deal with the internal issues you have battled, I did have the social stigmas and was constantly stared at wherever I went. It’s wonderful how you have worked to take care of yourself and shared your story.

  354. Awesome testimony! I too have struggled with an eating disorder. In my early twenties I developed bulimia out of a desire to be thin coupled with an addiction to food. It was a vicious cycle that lasted for over a year. I know this seems like a short time compared to others but I remember feeling like I would never get out. I have never felt so trapped in my life. One night at a church conference the preacher called up people struggling with eating disorders and I struggled so much with if I should go up because I was afraid that people would judge me. Well, I did go up to the front and God broke the chains right off me. It took months to get full freedom but after I did it was like I had never struggled with it in the first place. God is faithful! I remember that right after I had been delivered of this God brought my future wife into my life. God gave me my greatest earthly gift in my darkest hour! He is a good God! I was even able to give my testimony of how God delivered me to the entire church some 7 years ago now! Praise God! Anyway, just thought I’d encourage you with my journey. Keep pressing on!

  355. Hi, thank you for stopping by my blog. And thank you also for sharing your truth, raw and real. It’s courageous and I am sure you will help people by doing so. The world needs more realness. Wish you much strength in your recovery!

  356. I am glad that you found your way to recovery. Happier still that you have found a positive way to share your experiences with others. Though I don’t have an eating disorder I am a recovering alcoholic and can appreciate how hard a road recovery can be. Thank you for visiting my blog and letting me know you’re out there.

  357. Having just begun to read your blog, I am very gratified that you would “like” my blog entry “Life is Good”. You know very well that life is not good because you or I want it to be, or make it so, but because God is good. Not only are we all scarred but we are all recovering from something. In the most general sense we are recovery from the ravishes of sin. An eating disorder, an anger response habit, on and on I could go. The most blessed, glorious solution to it all is God’s grace. That is what we need to focus on and go to every time temptation or failure looks at us. We can overcome and improve and heal because God’s grace through His Son, Jesus, empowers us to do so as we cling to Him.

  358. experienced this secret infliction through a now ex. a terrible pain & unfathomable chasm to cross. i wish u well in your part of the universe. stay strong, mentally & physically. may you smile more than u give up! 🙂 best wishes & happy smiles from the UK. 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 x

  359. You hear that rushing sound? …it’s the simultaneous intaken breath of thousands of folks in their forties and fifties who are astonished that a young gal like you would be so stark and honest about her personal life in front of random internet strangers! My mom is mortified that I blog.

    But it’s so necessary. So necessary, and you’re courageous for doing this. Our generation is a basket case, but on a serious note, we have so many wounds. To find out that we’re not the only one is a huge blessing from God. Thank you for your bravery.

  360. Thank you for checking out my blog. And for the likes on different posts. I thank God for your boldness and courage to share your journey. I haven’t started reading the beginning yet, but I will be back. I pray more and more grace for you as you continue this walk in Him. May the Lord bless you.
    J.

  361. Hi, I was happy to have you visit me. What a wonderful, positive site you have. My main contact with an eating disorder was my best friend;s lovely daughter. Sadly she did not recover. If she had had a more supportive environment, such as what you offer here–who knows, maybe she would have made it.
    You have my best wishes and prayers for your continued success.

    • Hi there Pilgrim. Oh I am so sorry to hear about your friend’s daughter. How incredibly tragic. Yeah there is not a day that goes by that I don’t realize how lucky j am to have been able to recover. Because sadly that is not the case with everyone. Thank you for your encouragement. Hugs and love xox

  362. So glad you liked my latest blog. Even more glad to have found you and your site. My daughter was a psychiatrist specialising in anorexia so I can understand what you have gone through. You have enormous courage to be able to suffer and survive and go on to share those experiences. I live in the mountains of North Wales and I started my blog 18 months ago in protest at the things being done in the Church in Wales – a separate Anglican church from the Church of England, which has problems of its own. Now, as an old lady, I blog about all the things going on here and in the States that seem to me to lack any common sense or are totally bizarre. I loved your blog about your father. Cherish him, there aren’t enough men like that about. If the child who has just been “frozen” over here and then been sent to the US had had a family like yours I think her end would have been very different.

    • Thank you so much for you kind words. Yeah he really is a great human. I don’t take for granted the wonderful upbringing I had for a second.i look forward to reading more from you:) Hugs and love xox

  363. Hi again. I just wanted to say thanks again that you’re you. I enjoy your blog style and I confess I have adapted it into my own posts. So you’re like my blog muse or something! It’s an honour to hear your story and I like to share your posts from time to time. Thanks for liking my stuff, too. God bless you, always.

  364. Thank you for checking out my blog earlier! I’ve had problems with eating in the past (and still do), to the point where I’ve been hospitalized. I’m proud of you for being able to share your stories so honestly. Keep up the excellent work.

  365. Wow, you are so incredibly brave and strong! As someone who has battled with chronic illness I can appreciate how hard it is to talk about. The difference is where I am not race enough to talk most of the time, you are. I cannot begin to truly imagine how hard it must have been to go through what you have gone through, but you have clearly owned your eating disorder, and not let it owned you. You are an inspiration to us all 🙂 Jen xxx

    • Thanks so much Jen. What a kind thing to say. I’m sorry you can personally relate to chronic illness. Know that I am sending you so much love. Thanks for your beautiful encouragement. Hugs and love xox

  366. Very well done, blog! I am a counselor and what you’ve done here is a testament to your recovery, survival, and genuine Awesomeness! Great Job!! I will be sharing your blog with client’s that I feel could benefit from your words. Thank you!! Have an Awesome day!

  367. Hello beautiful! I just wanted to let me know how much you have helped me, how inspirational you have been to me… I’m 20 and I’ve reached a BMI below 14… I’ve had an ED for more years than I can count, and yet I was unwilling to accept it until practically now. I thought I was being more holy by fasting and offering it up to God. But I’ve realized I was just lying to myself. Gluttony is a sin because it makes food the center, and temperance and fasting are about putting the center back in God; well, the ED (although not a sin) is actually very similar, it also puts food in the center of my life. That’s why my new sacrifice must be recovery. And finally enjoy food as a good gift from God.

    In fact I’m just full of fears and chains. But that is over. I’ve read all your posts about “the truth of…” (weight restoration, exercise, bloating) and a lot of other ones and I feel totally identified, and you have helped me to overcome many of my doubts. Part of me is still screaming inside, what you call the voice of ED. I’m terrified to start making changes. Today I’m going to tell the full truth to my mom and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But I want a new beginning. Please pray for me, I know I can’t follow this new path without God’s Grace and Mercy. I hope one day I can see everything that has happened from your point of view, from the “after” and not the “before” point I’m in now.

  368. Thank you for sharing your story, you are certainly a courageous person. I thought of a scripture as I read through your post that I’d like to share with you:

    “Yea, I know that I am nothing; as to my strength I am weak; therefore I will not boast of myself, but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I can do all things; yea, behold, many mighty miracles we have wrought in this land, for which we will praise his name forever.”

    You seem to be doing exactly that. Thanks again for visiting my blog, and I will be sure to start following you!

  369. Thank your for liking my post! (Gods Photo Album). What you are doing is powerful. God bless you.

    “Jehovah bless thee, and keep thee: Jehovah make his face to shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: Jehovah lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace.”
    ‭‭Numbers‬ ‭6:24-26‬ ‭ASV‬‬

  370. I’ve just read this and I’m really looking forward to reading the rest of your blog. I personally haven’t had this battle, but I’ve been there firsthand with one of my closest friends (in a bittersweet way her illness is why we became so close.) But she has recovered amazingly, of course she has her days, but it’s brilliant of you to open yourself up and show people what it’s truly like. It’s not a fashion statement, it’s a serious illness and I hope more people wake up to that. One day at a time xo

    • Hi there! Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond. I’m so glad that our paths crossed. I’m so glad that your friend is doing well. You’re right – I pray that people see that too. Hugs and love xox

  371. Hey 🙂
    Thanks so much for stopping by several times and liking :); much appreciated. Grateful to God for such a courageous heart as yours, being vulnerable to the entire world, just to help total strangers. God bless you so much. Warmest regards, Lydia Ndagilaya x

  372. Thank you for liking my post…I am thankful that the abuse I endured early on in my life didn’t cause me to develop an eating disorder.
    I’ve only read “read-this-first”, and some of the testimonies here on this page. I pray for you all. It’s encouraging to see the fight that “beautybeyondbones” has and continues to fight. I’m glad to know that you are here. If I come across any that are suffering with eating disorders I will point them to your blog. Helping one another is what I’m all about.
    I was happy to see that ‘looking to’ God is celebrated here and not looked down upon. 🙂
    Jesus loves us all and wants us to be in good health! Keep fighting, don’t give up!

    • Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am so sorry that you had to endure that. You did not deserve to not be treated with the utmost respect and dignity, because that’s what you are worth. My heart just breaks to think that someone did not honor that. thank you for the prayers. know that you are in mine as well. Thanks for stopping by. hugs xo

  373. I just wanted to thank you for your visits to A Couple of Stars and a Happy Face. It is truly encouraging! I have been encouraged by your site and hope my site has also encouraged you!

  374. Thanks for the Like on my blog. And wow, just wow. You don’t pretty up the ED battle at all; yet somehow your writing pulls in the reader with its honesty. This is a far uglier fight than most of us can imagine, and the truth is, you never fully win. Rather, it is a matter of beating the odds every day. I don’t know if the word “enjoy” is the right one to use as I read your posts. Yet they are extremely difficult to stop reading.

  375. Thanks for the ‘Like’ on my blog “If you fall in love with the process…”. I’m new to blogging and really appreciate your encouragement. Keep building a better life girl, from what I’ve read hear it sounds like you’re doing an awesome job! xx

  376. Also very new to blogging. Thank you so much for liking my posts—very encouraging. My wife and her mother both had anorexia when it was little understood, and they would have benefitted a lot from your blog. So glad you’re sharing your heart so helpfully. Bless you, Geoff >ᴥ<

    • Hey Geoff, thanks so much for sharing this. I’m so sorry to hear how this disease has personally touched your life. I appreciate you taking the time to read my words and offer encouragement. Big hugs to you xox

  377. 90% of the world’s economy is based on making rules for others, that are unfair or against nature. A FRAGILE world we live in, isn’t it.
    What are your rules you enforce on people, that make em ugly??????????????????????

  378. Hello!
    I hear you sister. And I think that, by reading Leoshine Blog, you heard me. How blessed to find a kindred spirit in the Spirit and I wish you all the best of God’s honour.

  379. Thank you for liking my blog post. I am a husband of a wonderful woman who suffers from an eating disorder. Please share if you think it may help others as well. Thank you for being so brave and vulnerable by opening up and sharing your story. You are an inspiration to humanity. God Bless!

  380. Hi BBB, thank you for liking my recent post on Murakami’s 5%. I’m so glad you stopped by, so now I know about your blog. It’s such a lovely testimony!

  381. You write with real honesty, with feeling and integrity. It has been well said that the way of faith (and meditation for that matter) is not about leading an extraordinary life, but learning to live life extraordinarily well.
    And thank you for looking at my blogg earlier, on the first day of its existence.

  382. HI! Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my post on Fitness Fun. I am enjoying visiting your little corner of the blogosphere.

  383. Thank you so much for liking my post about overcoming my CP with faith! It means so much!! Never forget how strong, amazing and loved you are ❤

  384. I just want to say Thanks! I have been reading your posts for some time, but have never commented. I just read your most recent post on your vulnerability and cost of what you struggled with earlier on in your life. Your story is rich and valued and I appreciate the “real” I read in your posts. May God Our Father bless you for sharing your wounds and healing process with the world through your blog. Brandon (EsseRealis)

  385. Hey there! Just thought I’d visit & say, Thank you! 😊

    I also thought you might be interested in my new blog, Neurotypical is Overrated. All things related to mental health. I was also hoping that perhaps I could invite you to be a guest blogger on that blog. The address is http://neurotypicalisoverrated . wordpress . com.

    If not, that’s fine. I really just want you to know that I appreciate you.

    Blessings,
    Lillian

    • Thanks Lillian! And I really appreciate the offer! I’m honestly pretty slammed right now with taking care of my mom and writing my book, so I think right now during this particular season, I’m going to have to regretfully say not right now, but if things change, I’ll let you know! Thanks so much 🙂 hugs xo

  386. Beauty- ( If I may call you “Beauty” )
    First, thanks for your like on my post “I Am In The Force, And The Force Is In Me”, on Jonathon D. Svendsen.wordpress.com. It was a deeply personal post that was hard to write for a lot of reasons, so it meant a lot to get even a simple “like”.
    Second, browsing through your blog, I can’t help but admire you for your candor and openness. I always respect when a person is “real” and not some overly made-up super model. Thus, in reading through what you’ve posted so far, all I can say is you are indeed, so incredibly beautiful
    Thank you so much for sharing your journey with all of us. I hope you will share in mine as well on my blog.
    May God continue to bless you in all you do.
    *hugs*
    Jonathon

  387. Hi my friend. Thank you for like my post. I saw awesome posts in your blog. great going.. i am very happy for your appreciation also. And all the very best for you..

  388. I always love all of your posts and your blog. I have nominated you for “The Versatile Blogger Award” because you are so awesome. Here is my link to that post…. https://myloudbipolarwhispers.com/2017/04/12/i-am-very-honored-to-be-nominated-for-the-versatile-blogger-award/ Please complete the 5 rules as soon as you get a chance. I am eager to see your responses and nominees. Hugs and blessings to you always and forever. <3

  389. my best friend was severely anorexic bulimic for a long time. Sharing your story is so important, and I wish you so much strength + light for recovery!

    • Oh gosh, I’m so sorry that you’ve walked this road. Friends and loved ones go through just as difficult of a season as the sufferer. Thanks for your encouragement. big hugs xo

  390. As I have had my own struggles in life, I can understand. I never faced an eating disorder, but I have faced a life long struggle with PTSD from an early age, and moving into an adult life with far more traumas then most people face. Thank you so much for your insights, your life, and your testimony and love of Christ.

  391. Thank you for liking my post Nature Resurrected .
    And here is a Big Hug back. You are a Beautiful Human Being . Thank you for sharing your story.You are an inspiration.

  392. Thank you for liking my post (the title of which I have already forgotten, but it was about gifts of passage and a blossom I picked up, and my musings about faith). Have you read “Daughter Arise” by Sheryle Cruse? Curious as she’s a personal friend & the battle to survive eating disorders is her God-given passion. If you haven’t , you should. And you should connect with her on FB. 😀
    ~Jaci

  393. Hello BBB, and thanks for the like on my post yesterday. I started my blog a couple (few?) years ago and it’s been sporadic and fun, but it has, at east for a time, become like yours in that it’s a place for me to share my journey in hopes of helping others. It’s not about anorexia, but about my own experience and how I’m walking through it as I try to remain abiding in God.

    I did deal with anorexia and bulimia years ago, and some of those root causes affect me today, but God has done so much healing and transformation in me that I’m amazed that I’m the same person. I really love who I’ve become and continue to grow into. It’s just who he created me to be. 🙂

    • Hi Victoria, thank you so much! I’m so glad you also know the power of writing out your heart. I’m sorry that we have that in our pasts that connect us, but I’m so glad that we both have embraced that freedom in Him! Thanks for sharing this. big hugs xo

  394. Thank you for visiting my blog. I wish you to get well soon! Nothing is impossible in this life. And you are still young, beautiful and you have a lot of discoveries to do, there is a big world out there waiting for you. Good Luck with everything!

  395. Hey, thanks for liking my posts on revival and thanks for opening my eyes to your blog here! I think it’s awesome what you’re doing here. Being a full time missionary to America’s college campuses, this is something I see day in and day out and you’re doing a number to combat the epidemic of how women view themselves. It’s really inspiring stuff! Keep the great content coming! Much love from https://illuminatethenations.com !

  396. The honesty and kindness in your written voice is purely amazing! Thank you for visiting my blog and for liking my posts! And for giving me the chance to discover your impressive writings! Looking forward to read more of your journey.
    Best regards,
    Claudia

  397. Thanks for liking my post, I like the title of your blog, sums it up perfectly. As a teenager I suffered an assault, the trauma of which made me stop eating..and lose a lot of weight! God helped me through, so thanks for helping others with your experiences here. God bless.

    • Hi Jean, thank you so much for sharing your story. Gosh I’m so sorry that you had to walk that road but I’m glad that God helped you through it. Big hugs xox

  398. Thanks for liking my post, I like the title of your blog, sums it up perfectly. As a teenager I suffered an assault, the trauma of which made me stop eating..and lose a lot of weight! God helped me through, so thanks for helping others with your experiences here. God bless.

  399. Thanks for liking my post, I like the title of your blog, sums it up perfectly. As a teenager I suffered an assault, the trauma of which made me stop eating..and lose a lot of weight! God helped me through, so thanks for helping others with your experiences here. God bless.

  400. […] If you are not familiar with her, Caralyn has just celebrated her 10th anniversary of recovery from anorexia.  She has blogged about her recovery since 2015 and is inspirational.  25,000+ followers think so.  I wrote an article about her IN January 2016, Beauty and the (ED) Beast, in case you’d like a fuller description.  If you really want the full impact of her ministry, start at the beginning. […]

  401. Hey Caralyn, I have a big ask. You how I’m always right? I have a youth mental health workshop coming up on May 27 (details at https://www.come2life.net) and today I had a brainwave and I believe I’m right about it.
    Would you please be wiling to create a short video (less than 3 minutes) that tells your story? I’m thinking highlights: struggle, turn around, recovery journey today. The emphasis would be on help, hope, and healing. We would then include your video in our workshop to encourage youth to ask for help and give them hope – we would be changing lives, setting captives free!
    This would be so valuable I am even willing to offer you some funds, keeping in mind I have no budget and it would be Canadian funds. Please, please, please.

  402. Looking good Caralyn, You, lol, who would have thought eh? and also the great work of hope for others starting to take shape here. Your courage in being open will empower others to follow suit and be set free.
    God Bless and thanks for all the likes. Nanny.

  403. I’m remiss thanking you for visiting my site and liking a couple of my posts. It means a lot to me, I’m still quite new to blogging and it feels great to have pieces liked. You are clearly doing important work on your blog, being very open and vulnerable about your experiences to help others and that is something to be incredibly proud of.
    Best wishes,
    Leslie

  404. I appreciate you liking my blog and the feeling is mutual. The fact that you would put yourself out there to help others makes you a beautiful person, both inside and out.

  405. Hey, this is a beautiful blog. I’m looking forward to unraveling the gems you’ve poured all over it.:-) It so accurately reminds me of my own struggle with depression.

    PS: Thank you for liking my post. It means so much.

  406. Hey Caralyn, I don’t know if you remember but last year I posted my Essential Meditations over at “the Grace Apparatus” blog which is no longer there, sadly. You had liked some of the devotions and I wanted to let you know that I have a new site up now. I’m also getting ready to publish those devotions as a book. Anyway, not to be sleazy in self-promoting, but I wanted to invite you to come take a look if you’re interested. My site is http://genebrodejr.com Thanks!

  407. Just a great blog! I was able to refer it to some of my friends via email, and I know it’ll help them as it does others! 😀 Thanks for liking my post, I’m a new blogger so everything helps, and thanks for ultimately leading me here.

  408. […] Beauty Beyond Bones is a blog written by a young woman named Caralyn who is recovering from anorexia.  Her posts are always inspirational and uplifting, especially if someone you love is a victim of this terrible disease.  Her most recent post is called Something’s Gotta Give and I encourage you to read it right now. […]

  409. Hi! Thanks for reading some of my devotions. I’ve started reading your story and it was hard to stop reading; I need to get to bed now but I hope to finish reading it soon. Your story is incredible and you write very well. Thank you so much for your devotion to God by ministering to others through this blog. I praise God for you! Keep up the great work. Blessings in Christ!

  410. Thank you for liking my post. I’m hopeful in reading yours as I myself have just come into recovery, not only from alcohol but from my first life. I wish you much luck in your future. 🙂

  411. Hi, I have noticed that you enjoyed several of my post over time. Thank you for your interest it is greatly appreciated.
    Have a fantastic week!

  412. Thank you for liking many of my posts at reflectionsofalaycatholic.com. I’ve been reading some of yours and you have a fine blog here! You’re helping a lot of people and I like that you’re not afraid to let it be known that you had help from the Lord. Keep up your good work and God bless!

  413. Thank you for checking out my blog. Much appreciated. I love the honesty of your blog and the way you’re bringing things out into the open. Good job.

  414. Hi Beauty!
    I want to thank you. You’ve been such a faithful supporter of SCW. I really appreciate you. Your blog is awesome, very inspirational the pictures of you are great. Be encouraged! Keep up the good work.

    God Bless You!

    SCW

  415. I’m so glad that you liked my posts which in turn led me to your blog – what a blessing! I’ve also struggled with eating disorders in the past and I’m looking forward of reading your posts as you share your journey:-)

  416. Thanks for visiting my blog. Your story of becoming whole is spirit directed. It takes courage and confrontation to let go of what no longer serves. Bless you and many blessings on your work and journey. I write psychological and spiritual poetry and published Winters Mystery-Time To Go Within:Spiritual journeying. It is my story journeying towards wholeness.. prblumhagenauthor.wordpress.com

  417. My ex-girlfriend suffered from an eating disorder, and no amount of me telling her that she was beautiful, regardless, could persuade her from her reckless path. The more people who hear stories such as yours, the better we will all be for it.

    Stay strong, and hold happiness wherever you might find it.

  418. thanks for visiting realoveforever ! and liking my post. you have a nice blog dear very glad to connected with you.

  419. You are an inspiration! What you have been through can be seen from so many different points of view, but you choose to give glory to God for freeing you. As it should be! You go girl! You have big rewards waiting for you in heaven. Keep spreading the good news through your desktop ministry!
    xx Hugs xx
    Heather

  420. Caralyn, you are truly inspirational. I’m sure you coming across my blog was not a coincidence. We have both suffered and survived. You with anorexia, me with combat PTSD. I want to send you a big hug and thank you for the wonderful work you do. With people like you in the world, there is hope for us all. God bless you.

  421. Thank you for liking my post at knowledgeandproclamation.com You have a great blog full of content I will be sure to check back often.
    Thanks Again,
    Rob

  422. Wow… I’ve been a great fan of yours and I can’t just stop reading your posts… they are fun and at the same time serious! Kudos

    P. S: though it’s a little bit late, I’d like to thank you for liking the prologue of my ‘Double Beginnings’. I’ve also written a sequel *sheepish*

  423. Hey! I found your blog as I am currently awaiting referral to an eating disorder clinic (yay…!) and spending my summer stuck at home while my friends are off interrailing (double yay..) I love your writing style!
    I have just started my own blog exploring being a teenager with an ed and all things dating, life and everything in between so if you could check that out and maybe give it a share as well as offer any tips on blogging that would be SO appreciated.
    I am so in awe of what you do, you’re an inspiration.
    Thank you and all the best,
    Amy 🙂 xx

  424. I believe that every woman has struggled with an eating disorder at least once in their lifetime. I was walking in the mall yesterday and I noticed that almost every mannequin in the store window showed an unrealistic expectation for a human body. I am so glad that blogs like yours exist to combat the unhealthy obsession with beauty that our society has, to the point where women and girls wake up despising themselves instead of realizing that they are the treasured princesses of our Father in heaven.

  425. Hi thanks for liking my blog It was nice to know that someone actually looked at it. I think you are a very brave and beautiful person for telling your story I can only imagine what it was like for you. I think the greatest triumph is that God called you to himself. May He continue to bless you with good health and a long life

  426. Wow! You are beautiful! And, I don’t just mean physically. If I had time to go through and read/like all your posts I would. Keep writing! You are helping so many people. You’ll never know how far reaching your words have been.

  427. I really appreciate for liking my blog, you are the first person who liking my blog although i write in different language ( i mean, Indonesia language). And I come to your blog. what a beautiful blog. God Bless You

  428. Thank you for sharing your story, being vulnerable, and giving hope to others. You’re very courageous. God bless you in your journey as you reach out to help others. It’s a tough topic, but nothing is too difficult for our God!

  429. Thanks. Going through your blog and reading your about page has just encouraged me to be real. I like the fact that you always acknowledged God where it was due and you are not ashamed or afraid to let God show in your life and writings.

  430. Good afternoon! I’ve been following your blog for a short time but wanted to say I appreciate your openness and willingness to share your heart and story! You have a message girls of all ages need to hear and I know you will inspire and bless others. as a mom of two young girls I look for role models like you who have struggled but have over come and become such a wonderful and beautiful woman both inside and out. I am always excited to rest.
    I nominated you for a blogger award. you can see it at
    ittakesasaviortoraiseachild.wordpress.com/2017/07/11/the-versatile-blogger-award-my-1at-blogging-award/

  431. Thanks for the like on my post BBB! I never expected the blogger an inspiring story of recovery to visit my blog on science and society! 🙂 But thats the magic of the blogosphere! Nice to hear from you… and yes we’ll be in touch! God bless!
    PS: Since you also write about/against feminism, maybe you’ll like this post too: https://abravenewscience.wordpress.com/2017/02/03/the-paradox-that-is-ada-lovelace-the-motherof-computer-science/

  432. Thank you for the like on my recent blog post. It’s tough to be out there blogging again, but as you well know, we all have stories that need to be told. Although your blog is very new to me, I’m inspired by your authenticity. Thank you for liking mine so I could discover yours!

  433. To beautybeyondbones, I think this is a very worthwhile site, where others suffering what you went through yourself, can find some help, advice and guidance, and will be able to see their is hope for many, going through hard times. Good to see you are mainly recovered yourself. Also thanks for checking out and liking a recent post, I appreciate it.

    Michael.

  434. Thanks for reading my post. I admire the premise of your blog. Three years ago I set out to do a similar thing, but on a different topic, and importantly, while I had no idea what I was afflicted by. As I helped myself out of the abyss, I eventually realized that not only did I lack the power to help others, but even if I did, there are very good reasons why no one else chooses to do so in the way you are doing it. So I respect you for being both willing and able to be an example for others. It is a rare opportunity and choice.

  435. My sister is a recovered anorexic. She is my hero – so courageous! I am so happy for you that you’ve found peace with food through our Lord. You are an inspiration – a light to others! I am a high school English teacher and plan to share your blog with my students!

    • Thanks you so much Sharon. I’m so glad that your sister is living in freedom! Thanks for passing along my blog to your students. I am so honored. Thanks for your kind words. Big hugs xox

  436. Thank you for checking out my recent post, Define Success. Just a few minutes into checking out your blog and reading Battling Insecurities, I sense the desire you have to please the LORD in all areas of life. Exciting and challenging at the same time. Overcoming any addiction is tough! So glad Christ has become your anchor and deliverer, sustainer of life. God bless you as you use your many gifts and talents to help others who face eating disorders and other struggles of the flesh. You have such a creative way of expressing your thoughts!!

  437. I just want to thank you for constantly supporting my blog with the reads and likes you’ve consistently given my posts. It matters a lot to me that somebody on here enjoys what I write, and it’s a vital motivator to keep blogging. Thank you always for your support, and also for the inspiration you provide in your writing!

  438. Congrats on your recovery and the “Top 25” success of your blog! You are clearly an incredible inspiration and help to others. Your light shines bright. Thanks for the like on my “Yes, you can teach an old dog new tricks…” In this life, making a positive difference in other people’s lives is our greatest reward, You go girl!

  439. Thanks for stopping by my blog today. And thank you for sharing your story on this honest blog, which offers an individual’s experience of an eating disorder.

  440. Hello beautybeyondbones,
    My name is Gregory Thomas.
    I’m a creative writer and poet, and post my stories and poems on my blog at:
    Cascadialegends.wordpress.com
    I just wanted to thank you for liking my post,
    “4th Wall and Beyond”
    I always love it when people like my stories, that’s where my best effort is. 😉

  441. Hi there,
    I just wanted to share how much I love your blog! I am also recovering from mental health problems (chronic anxiety, panic attacks and childhood trauma) and I have found so many similarities between your journey to recovery and mine! I just love your way of thinking and your writing.
    You are incredibly beautiful human being inside and out.
    Love xx

  442. Thanks for liking my post- I’m glad it led me to your blog. You are an inspirational writer- looking forward to reading more!

  443. I’m sort of crying at the moment. God bless you.. recovery is the bravest decision you can make for yourself. It’s painful but so is dying a little more each and every day. I’m struggling with anorexia too at the moment, but finding the courage to take the next step is something I’m yet to do..

    • Oh friend, I’m sorry that you can relate so personally. Hang in there. You deserve freedom. You deserve your life back. And i believe in you. Keeping you in my prayers, warrior. Hugs and love xox

  444. Hi there. Thank you for reading and liking “Writing in the Midst of a Flashback.” I’m curious, and if you don’t mind sharing, what resonated with you when you read that post? Look forward to hearing from you soon.

  445. First I want to thank you for visiting my site and liking what I wrote on Habakkuk, I’m new at this. Second, It takes courage and a lot of faith to put yourself out there. We are always changing and growing and to do any of that we need to love God and love ourselves. Judy

  446. dear kindred soul
    how nice to meet you
    I have been on a similar journey and could not have taken one step without God stepping with me
    I love your voice and style
    let me know when your book is out, I want to share it!
    I wrote a couple of books too – about a 25 years process through hell and into the Kingdom – they are in the right menu
    Hooray to us all who don’t give up
    with love
    Leelah Saachi

  447. Thank you for stopping by my blog as I’m still getting mine going and I’m still working on a direction. Mine’s about life – mine – the journey to self-love and self-acceptance with mental illness and alcoholism in remission but yet working on reclaiming a life of truth. At least that WAS the intent. Your site is a glorious site visually but it is also a vital one for a horrendous disease – and it is one. You’re lucky to have lived and it’s obvious God wanted you here for a reason – to tell your stories and to do so with candor and in a way only you could. I look forward to following your blog from here on.

  448. thank you for stepping into my blog, i’ve read through some of your content and very happy i did!

  449. I echo the sentiments of many others. Thanks for stopping by my blog, “Leading with Love,” and liking my post. I’m glad for the opportunity to have found your blog in return. Your vulnerability is admirable and your faith and desire to help others is inspiring. Keep on “Leading with Love” in all you do!

  450. I wanted to thank you for the like. I’m new to all of this. Your posts are visceral, and it sounds like your experiences have been as well. Congratulations on continuing your journey.

  451. […] my silly efforts with a gif had brought my feelings to the surface.I have been reading the blog of Beauty Beyond Bones for a while now. I have found it has given me a window on a world I knew little about. I have been […]

  452. Thanks for reading my post. I never had or known anyone close to me suffer because of anorexia. So I can’t even imagine what you’ve been through. I respect you for being able and willing to be an example for others. It is a rare opportunity and a bold choice.

  453. Hey, thanks for reading my blog. I appreciate your success over anorexia and wish that your book be a success and help and provide companionship in recovery for many.
    🙂

  454. Thanks for liking my post from this morning. Now that I have paid a return visit, I can only say how much I admire your courage. Though I cannot share your belief, I am glad that you are able to find comfort in it.

  455. I think in life we constantly want to be someone else. As beautiful as one friend or as popular as another. What can easily happen is, we spend so much time looking and judging ourselves against others that we never spend the time to truly get to know ourselves.

    I have been reading some of your posts over the last few months and I think you give such an amazing energy out into the world. I wish you all the best, may your blog and writing go from strength to strength.

    Enjoy your weekend.

  456. I don’t know where to leave my comment. I ordered your ebook on Blogging Tips on Thursday. Today is Tuesday. I tried to download it and it didn’t work on my iPad or computer. I tried several different things and troubleshooted with Blurb help facts. I even downloaded and created a Blurb account thinking that would do it. I contacted their support and they didn’t know what to do and said they’d have their technical team look at it. That was three days ago and I’ve heard nothing. I’ve emailed them back several times and they ignore me. I asked for the book to be downloaded or my money back. I didn’t order your last book because money is tight and took a risk on ordering this one. Anyway, I have no book and lost my $4.99 because I was charged for it. I thought you should know since it’s your book being sold. Susan

  457. Hey and thank you for liking my daily post #6 it’s nice to know when someone has read a post and made it known with a comment or a like. 😀 I’m happy to read that you are recovering from what sounds like a tough and interesting journey! I shall try to read through your posts from the beginning every chance I get! Here’s a hug for you too. 🙂 *hug* x

  458. Hello – thank you for reading and liking my blog. With so many choices to read, I truly appreciate your time. Authenticity is not for the faint of heart and your courage is incredibly beautiful. Praying for new, daily revelations of God’s love for you to both encourage you and to lead you onward as you share the hope you have discovered!

  459. Thanks for taking a peek at my blog today, hope to see you back soon. I honestly am not familiar with eating disorders or anything like that but I think what you are doing is very Inspiring x

  460. Thank you for reading my blog about Halloween. I love your blog and plan to follow. Hope you will consider following mine. I believe we may have a lot in common. Have a blessed day.

  461. Hey thanks for dropping by my blog and it’s really cool you stopped by cus it was nice to read your about page. I’m trying to sort out my eating problems too, my relationship with food is complex and unhealthy because I do a lot of emotional and binge eating. Of course work in progress but it’s awesome that we might have more in common than my last post – hope recovery’s going well, I’ll check out some of your other posts, either way remember not to be too hard on yourself food-wise! 😉

  462. Just wanted to says thanks for visiting my blog and liking my posts. I’ve had a look around yours and think it’s great that you are sharing so much. I have a close friend who is struggling with an eating disorder and I will be sharing your blog with her.

  463. Hi! Thanks for “liking” my recent blog, “Advent Calendars!” You’ve liked my stuff before and I really appreciate it. My oldest daughter suffered from an eating disorder in high school and college, so I know what you’ve been through. She was in treatment twice and the second time went much better. She is happily married now and has FOUR children. I had my own demons to face, having been sexually assaulted at gunpoint when I was twenty-five. The man intended to chain me to a tree and leave me in the forest on a mountain in Colorado. I was not a believer, but I said, “In the name of God, please don’t do this to me!” It was like I gut-punched him. He almost collapsed. Because I invoked God’s name, he fled and I survived. It took a long time until I figured out that God had really intervened and saved me. After that, I laid my life down for Christ and never looked back. I wrote a memoir, Then I Am Strong: Moving From My Mother’s Daughter to God’s Child (available on Amazon and on my website, http://www.MegCorrigan.com ). Keep doing what you are doing! You are helping many people, and that makes such a difference! Blessings, Meg.

    • Hi Meg, thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m so glad to hear that your daughter is doing so well. praise be to God. and gosh, I’m so sorry to hear that you had to endure such a horrific event. gosh that just breaks my heart and i am sending you such a big hugs. sounds like an amazing book. Hugs and love xox

  464. Thank you for sharing your story <3 For being vulnerable. For being brave. For creating this community. For letting people know they are not alone. For surrendering to Christ.

  465. Just a quick word to congratulate you on the magnificent development you have achieved. You have come a long way since the first time I checked into your blog.
    It would appear that you have grasped the future.

    Seasons greetings to you.

    I am sure you will continue on your present path during the coming year with even further development and success

    Warmest regards (chilly time of year 😀)

    John

  466. […] Beauty Beyond Bones: Caralyn suffered from severe anorexia for years, and her blog chronicles her path from the lowest moments of her eating disorder to her recovery. The blog is raw, vulnerable, and uplifting in a way you might not expect. She’s fun, quirky, confident, sometimes unsure, and everything else rolled up into one lovely person. Her blog gets an amazing amount of traffic, with comments that number in the hundreds each time she posts, and yet she takes the time to answer each comment individually with thoughtfulness and care. Caralyn has written a book, Bloom, that you can find on her site, and she now also shares healthy recipes each Wednesday as well. I have no relationship with Caralyn outside the blog comment arena, but I’m always moved by her posts and so impressed that she treats each visitor to her blog as if they’re precious and important. I know people who have suffered from anorexia and I understand what a devastating impact it has not only on the person with the eating disorder, but for those who love them. Caralyn touches on all these things within her own life and in the way she sees the world. […]

    • thank you so much for your kind words about my blog! it really means a lot! Hugs and love xox

  467. I’ve just watched a couple of your videos on YouTube as well as read a half dozen of your posts. I’ve noticed that you have liked several of my posts so I figured I’d go check out your blog and boy am I glad I did. I tend to ramble a lot so I’ll just make this short and sweet. You are such a beatutiful person, both inside and out!! I too have health issues and it helps to read other peoples struggles and how they handle them. Looking forward to reading more of your blogs.
    Tim

    • Oh my gosh what a kind thing to say! Thank you so much Tim. I’m so glad you decided to pop on over! Hugs and love xox

  468. I stopped here to say thanks for “liking” my post today, but then I read “Read This First.” I’m blown away with your ministry. We all have something. My cross to bear is chronic pain and because of it, I’m on the other end of the eating spectrum. I eat for comfort. At 73, I doubt I’ll ever lose what I’ve gained in the last two years. But I do know God loves me and so does my wonderful husband. I suppose that should keep me happy, but somehow I don’t always feel happy. But I keep plugging along hoping tomorrow will be better

    • Thank you for sharing your story I’m so sorry that you’re in chronic pain, Sherrey. I will definitely keep you in my prayers. Hang in there friend. Hugs and love xox

      • I don’t know anyone with this condition but I sympathize with anyone suffering and many hugs to those who are. 🙂

  469. I know I’ve recently commented on your “Read Me First” page but I just had to stop by once again to share something with you.

    There comes a point in one’s life where someone will say or do something that can have a tremendous effect on someone. You have become that person to me. I have spent the last several days reading your blog, not all of it but most of it, and I have laughed and I have wept.

    I have a eating disorder, although not like yours. In fact, right the opposite. I have been overweight most if not all of my adult life. I have tried diet after diet and nothing seemed to work. I developed diabeties about twenty years ago which made matters worse. My doctor set me down when I weighed 345 pounds and told me that if I didn’t do something I would not see my kids graduate. This was about ten years ago. Today I weighed in at 278. Don’t applaud just yet. Last year I had gotten down to 255 but I gained a lot of my weight back. But there was a reason, or at least I blame my weight gain on this.

    In 2014, I was diagnosed with CML, a form of Leukemia. I have been on two forms of oral medication both of which caused more issues than my body could handle. I spent most of 2015, 2016 and some of 2017 in the hospital with breathing problems. I started my third form of oral meds today. Of course with all this, I felt like giving up. Depression set in, I started eating junk food and up went my weight.

    I said all that to say this. After reading your blogs, and seeing how you delt with your disorder, you have brought hope that I had lost. I won’t lie to say that I’m not worried about my CML. But with medical technologies the life span had increased 30 percent in the last ten years. Before 1990, if you were diagnosed with CML, they would send you home and tell you to get your funeral plans ready and within six months, well, I’d rather not think about that.

    Keep up the work that you’re doing. You are touching so many lives here, inclulding mine.

    God Bless

    • Gosh, thank you so much for sharing your story. I am so moved by your heart and your experience. You are a warrior for sure. I’m so glad that my blog has been a positive glimmer in your life. that truly brings my so much joy in my heart. thank you for sharing that with me. Know that I will be praying for your CML. Big hugs to you friend xo

  470. Thank you for liking my post. I have enjoyed reading your unique perspective and your journey through anorexia! It is always so amazing to read someone who opens up about their journey!

  471. Great to meet you and ALWAYS great to hear how Jesus Christ is changing lives around the world. There are so many Christians in bondage to addictions and harmful behaviors and ultimately I think most Christians have NO idea what their true identity is as an adopted member of the Royal Family of God. If they truly understood it and replaced the labels society and the enemy has placed on them, with the labels God has placed on them… their self-value would be limitless. I wrote about this here: https://standtallforchrist.com/2017/05/17/what-is-your-secret-identity/

    Thank you for sharing your testimony Sister in Christ.
    Keep walking with Christ and giving all the glory to God.

    Keith

    • Thank you so much Keith, I really appreciate your kind words. Hugs and love xox

  472. Thank you for liking my recent post BBB. I did have a fleeting thought “what interest would someone in ED recovery have with a post from an alcoholic in recovery”. Duhhhh! I then read a number of your posts. The similarities are remarkable! A young lady, in early recovery, led our AA meeting this morning. She shared her life struggle with ED. OMG! I sent her the link to your blog. You’re doing great things!

    • Thanks friend. They are def similar! Thanks for passing along my site 🙂 Hugs and love xox

  473. The very fact that when I read your Roseanne Barr piece and then came to realize you have thousands of followers and well over a thousand comments on this post itself, humbles me, and leaves me extremely grateful when I see your occasional acknowledgement of my own writings. Wow, congrats to you and all of your incredible work and commentary and life growth.

    • Thank you friend. What a kind thing to say. Big hugs to you Thom! Hugs and love xox

  474. Hi Beauty Beyond Bones,

    I found your page because you liked a post I wrote, thank you for that.

    I cannot relate to a person with an eating disorder, I’ve met people over the years with eating disorders and to me it is the most brutal of illnesses, because drugs, alcohol, gambling,even “luxury” items like caffeine or chocolate is not needed to survive and can with help/rehab/therapy… be avoided, but food is needed for our growth, survival, and health. I have a high respect for people who suffer from an eating disorder.

    I like what you say: “However, I chose to be vulnerable and share that utter brokenness — that wreckage — in order for you to truly grasp the gravity of the disease”

    I take this approach with my story, which is very different to yours, but making myself vulnerable, even while semi-anonymous, is important for people not only to understand my experiences, but to hopefully learn to choose a better way than what happened to me and also how I badly/traumatically responded to this.

    Thanks for your courage. I will in time travel through your side and certainly pass on to anyone who suffers from an eating disorder if they wish.

  475. Hi Beauty Beyond Bones.

    Thank you for your like on my post. I’m very new to the blogging scene, but I’m really encouraged at how much positive impact you can bring. I hope to bring encouragements to people as well (on the topic of science and faith).

    Once again, thank you!

  476. Hi.. thank you for your like on my blog.. and a belated thank you also for all the likes you’d given me before in my previous blog.. i’m AK 🙂

    this time i mean to stick around much longer.. and i have a new post that talks about what i’d been through lately, among other things…

  477. Hello! I really appreciate your blog and wanted to let you know that I nominated you for the Mystery Blogger award. You can learn more about it in my latest post 🙂

    • I’m so sorry to hear that. definitely reach out to your treatment team and a trusted adult that you’re struggling. praying for you friend you got this. xoxox

  478. Wow! I don’t even have to read more than this page to know that you are my peeps! 🙂 God healed me from bulimia in college, and those voices try to shout still 20 years later! I can’t wait to read your story! Thanks for telling it!

    • Thank you so much for sharing your story. I appreciate your kind words. Hugs and love xox

  479. Dear BeautyBeyondBones, thank you so much for reading my blog posts and inspiring me to write more. Thank you for being an inspiration for so many.

  480. Hi there,

    Me again,
    Just finished with this Section,
    SERIOUSLY – one of the Most Courageous people I’ve come across on the Internet.

    Sorry if any of my Thoughts created any Issues on the Bad First Date,
    All the Best in Your journey,

    Knowing you help Many more than you could have Imagined,
    Especially when Many more people endure their own Tests and Trails in their Lives.

    You’re Really Awesome for doing this, not that You haven’t heard this by now.

    Keep up the Brilliance which is You!

    Cobus ;- )

  481. Hey,

    You must seriously reply and have a great deal of messages to get through,

    Just so I know – watching your First YouTube video,
    What is the correct spelling of your name, { Caroline } ?
    Knowing there are so many ways Correct and so many not.

    Then as well,
    You’ll have to Really work at it,
    Being a Nerd or even Weird for that matter.

    There are Brilliant other Adjectives I can use and I suspect many other’s did describing you (good ones),
    But I can tell you that Nerd or even Weird do not even come Close to you!
    You do have some Awesome quarks… Which makes your Videos Unique and Yourself very Adorable – Cute,
    So don’t sweat it!

    I can say for a Certain fact that If ever you met me in Person,
    Weird,
    Strange,
    Eccentric
    and Different
    Would be the norm for me – this I’ve been told.

    Not to worry,
    It doesn’t Faze me,
    I do Know myself very well.

    You know as well as I do,
    Putting yourself out there is the Only way of lending a Hand to those who need it,
    AND You’re doing a Brilliant job at it.

    I’ll leave you be,
    You’ve got more Important things to be done,

    The Love I get to send out to so many,
    But I suspect you have well Developed Arms with all the Hugs –
    Just joking.

    Enjoy,

    Cobus

  482. I haven’t read much but was inspired by your intro. Please know that what you are doing definitely has been and is helping other people.

    I pray that you will be blessed abundantly.

    Please keep it up!

  483. BBB, new to your stuff of late. As a christian man, I am very inspired by your physical story equally as much as your spiritual story of redemption and rebirth. Thank you for being a voice of truth and light to many.

  484. Thank you so much for your courage to share and be vulnerable! While I have not suffered from disordered eating, I have known a number people who have. I am grateful that you are sharing your story and the hope that Jesus can bring to any person who simply seeks Him! May God richly bless your ministry!

  485. Hello love! I’m not sure if you remember my name, but I occasionally comment on your posts (I’m a big fan of your blog) and I’d like to make an inquiry. I previously asked for a way I could contact you but unfortunately was not able to follow up. If you are willing, please let me know again how I could possibly contact you privately.

    Respectfully,
    Dainelle

  486. Thank you for liking my post Mystery and suspense in 2019 at my blog Joseph Mark Brewer. I have enjoyed reading the items on your site. Strength and wisdom and great storytelling. Please continue to write and witness. JMB

  487. Thanks for taking the time to look at my blog and liking my post. Your encouragement is a big boost for amateurs like me. Hope to create better posts and receive more feedback in the future.

    The courage you have shown to share your darkest moments and insecurities is admirable. I hope your story will help others to find strength and seek the help that they need.

    Best Wishes.

  488. Thanks for taking the time to look at my blog and liking my post. Your encouragement is a big boost for amateurs like me. Hope to create better posts and receive more feedback in the future.

    The courage you have shown to share your darkest moments and insecurities is admirable. I hope your story will help others to find strength and seek the help they need.

    Best Wishes.

  489. Hi! I am relatively new with “serious” blogging. And I am very grateful to you for being one of the first people to like my posts since June or July. Six months since then, I have been into serious blogging so to speak and the more I find it so wonderful…it’s like paradise maybe when everything is in it. Your blog is one reason I said it so. And I admire your sincerity and courage in saying you are a Christian and a virgin waiting for your prince. You must be a rare gem. Thank you! A blessed day to you!

  490. I’m at a loss for words. that doesn’t happen often. I look at the photos and read. look again and read. I’m going to do as you said and start at the beginning. It may take some time but I feel its going to be worth it.

    • Thank you so much, J – I am so touched and honored that you would take the time to read my story. Big hugs to you xox

      • I usually do not follow other than here but I did follow on Instagram and FB I hope you don’t mind I commented on a photo on Instagram but the look you had reached out to me.

      • I’m not the writer you and others are. that much I know BUT if you want I did post a blog in titled a little more about me

  491. Dear Beauty. Your quest to defeat anorexia is admirable and inspiring. I can imagine that its difficult to invest in the rest of life when battling anorexia. Please don’t forget to build an emergency fund and hopefully a retirement fund. Best wishes, Doug

  492. I have no experience with anyone with anorexia, but reading the posts of the first few months taught me a lot about it. thank you.
    It is not just ED that tells you that you are ugly. My wife had a sister that was prettier than she, so she believed that she was ugly. It took years of constantly telling her that to me she is beautiful before she started believing it. But the thought of her being ugly always was lurking in the shadows

    • Thank you so much for taking the time to read. Yeah we all have those experiences that can shape what we believe about ourselves. Sounds like your wife is blessed to have you!! 🙂 Hugs and love xox

  493. Hi, there darling girl! Thank you for stopping by to read my thoughts on “A Perfect Church.” Each time I visit your blog, I see new and fabulous things happening. You shine and sparkle with blogging talent and lots of encouragement for all your readers. Many blessings <3

    • hello friend! oh gosh thank you so much for saying that — i am so touched! glad you stopped by! hugs xo

  494. It’s so hard, and i feel so alone, like noby understands, which i know is not true, but I feel it to be true. And I’m so scared of the holidays coming up, it gives me so much anxietiy. I guess, I believe that the pain will never go away unless, I make it, by taking me away from life.

    • I’m so sorry you’re experiencing those feelings. holidays can definitely be tough. Just remember to be your own advocate – take the space you need, be in the moment, enjoy your time with others, and remember that you deserve joy!!! i’ll be praying for you, my friend. big big hugs xox

  495. Thanks for liking so of my recent posts. I’m curious to follow you on this journey, starting from the beginning of course. My wife is a LMFT, so I plan to share your site with her!

  496. What you are doing here is so beautiful. Thanks so much for putting your positive story of health and healing out there in the world. We need that so much today! May God continue to bless what you do.

    • Thank you so much Lin for your kind words!! Means a lot. Stay well. Hugs and love xox

  497. Hello! 🙂 I found your site here because you “Liked” my recent post and I wanted to come by. I love your site and your mission here.

    Although I do not currently struggle with eating disorders, I wanted to express my recognition for those who do and truly appreciate your blog and Godly message. Your encouragement and story is amazing. 🙂

    So thank you for sharing your story!! Keep looking up, and many hopes and blessings over to you. <3

    • Aw thank you so much! I’m so touched by your kind words 🙂 so glad you stopped by! Stay well! Hugs and love xox

    • Thank you so much for the link up and for the nomination! it means so much!! 🙂 Hugs and love xox

  498. >However, I chose to be vulnerable

    I’ve been thinking about this of late. I can’t seem to get a grasp on the morality of “selling” yourself. I can’t seem to be able to separate pity from life. Every aspect of it I can handle, but pity fucking sucks. I’d rather have to punch than to feel like a dog. And I’m a dog person, so there’s room in my heart for it, too. Ultimately, it boils down to a great misunderstanding of money.

    Nice post. I may make an introduction for mine, as well. Thanks for liking mine or something.

    • Thank you so much. I’m so glad this resonated with you. I definitely don’t think pity is even part of the equation of this blog. Hugs and love xox

  499. Congratulations on your wonderful website, “best blog” award and the fact that you, thru your own experiences, are helping so many others with their struggles and questions. Truly a thanks giving gift, from you, to the rest of the world, John M

    • Thank you so much John! That’s really kind of you to say! Gosh, I am so touched and humbled by your generous words! Big hugs to you xox

  500. THANK YOU! For liking my writing! I may not have found your site otherwise!
    I am linking your site to my Blog today because you deserve so much the appreciation and your writing was so helpful in my day yesterday! You are appreciated! Thank you for sharing your story out loud. I am also sharing on my blog and have got to do it for myself as Caitlyn. I watched the video of you sharing with the Church and it is GREAT! Thank you so much !
    Caitlyn

  501. BBB, You don’t have to publish this, it’s more of a private message. You liked a few of my posts which got me curious about you. I’ve since read a number of your posts. First of all I am an old, straight, white, male so I come up to bat with four strikes before the first pitch. I want you to know that before I comment.

    I read your work, walked away, read some more, walked away again…. then felt I had to tell you what I thought. The courage it takes to live a life worth living is so misunderstood. You, my lady, are incredible. I don’t know what God has planned for you, but it will be amazing. I absolutely love those that will stand firm in the face of adversity. I love the warrior. I love the champion. I love the person who is committed to God’s call when everyone else says no.

    You girl, are one of those people. Where ever God takes you, whatever God asks of you, know that he finds great joy in your existence. You will never fight alone.

    Thank you for being you,

    Tomme

    • Hi Tomme, oh my gosh, thank you so much for this incredibly beautiful note of encouragement. i can’t tell you how touched i am by your kind words. I have a huge smile on my face right now, and it’s because of you!! humbled and blessed by you! have a wonderful evening! Hugs and love xox

  502. Hi Carolyn!
    Really enjoy your blog and hearing about your lovely adventures. I also greatly appreciate your God-honoring perspective. As a former pastor, I recognize your light and testimony is far-reaching. Thank you.
    Though we’ve chatted via my blog quite a while ago, I wanted to say big congratulations on your marriage to Steven! He seems like a wonderful man. And… on your baby!! This is so exciting! I’m thrilled for you and your family.
    Brenda and I have raised two girls (Ally and Mikayla) are now on their own, both working in full-time ministry with their churches. They’re the joy of our lives.
    I published a book last January (“We’re Going To Make It – What Parents Need and Want To Know”). It’s a short read, but sums up a lot of what I’ve learned as a dad.
    I’d love to send a copy (free of course) to you and Steven if you’d be interested.
    Is there a mailing address or PO Box that’d be good to use?
    Thanks again for your ministry and for being a light to many. I’m grateful for it.
    God’s best for you and Steven!
    – Todd Gaddy (Baltimore area)
    http://www.toddgaddy.com

    • Hi Todd, gosh thank you so much for this wonderful comment! I so appreciate your kind words and for sharing in the joy with us! That is absolutely amazing — congrats on your book! Yes, I would absolutely love to read it! thank you! if you want to email me: beautybeyondbones@yahoo.com, I will send you my contact info! thank you!! Hugs and love xox

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