Alright, truth time.
There’s an elephant in the room, and it has to do with refeeding in recovery. And that, my friends, is bloating.
This is an uncomfortable topic to talk about, because it has to do with body image. During recovery, we’re working on accepting our new body and learning to love it. We’re overcoming body dysmorphia, and #realtalk: we’re working on weight restoration.
Frankly, bloating makes progress in those departments rather difficult.
My biggest fear during weight restoration was that I was going to wake up one morning and just be massive. I was afraid that my body would just balloon out of control. There was so much anxiety about that allusive “weight range.” I journaled about it a lot:
I am nervous and weary of how my body will be at the end of my stay [at inpatient]. I am scared that if it changes to a point beyond where I am comfortable, that when I get home I will be depressed and unhappy. Lord, please give me the strength, courage and endurance to get through today. I know You will protect me from anything that scares me.
So let’s have some #realtalk about bloating. Spoiler alert: it happens in recovery.
During your eating disorder, you’ve been in a state of starvation. Your body has been feeding off of its own muscles. That’s why you become skeletal: because your muscles are literally deteriorating in order to keep you alive. But here’s what we so often forget: your organs are muscles too. So they deteriorate and shut down too — all in an effort to keep you alive. That’s why your menstrual cycle stops – because your reproductive organs have failed. You’re cold all the time because your circulatory system is shutting down. You can’t sleep because the adrenal and hormonal levels are off, because they’re shutting down. Your digestive system and metabolism as slowed to a halt. Your organs are literally wasting away, day by day, to keep you alive. And that’s why girls die from anorexia: because your heart is a muscle too, and it shuts down. Let that sink in: 1 in 10 people die from eating disorders. It’s nothing to joke about.
But what does all this have to do with bloating?
Well, since your body has been in a state of starvation during your eating disorder, it doesn’t trust you to nourish it. So, when you finally do begin to feed it again, it still thinks you’re going to deprive it in the future. So it holds onto the nutrients. Just think of a cave man, or a prehistoric animal: they would stock up when they could, because they never knew when a famine would hit, or they’d have to hibernate for the winter. That’s what your body is doing. It just thinks that it’s a temporary “feast” period, and that it should hold on to all those nutrients because you’re heading into another famine.
So in an act of self-preservation, your body insulates the most vital organs first, again, in an effort to keep you alive. And where, might you ask, are those vital organs? Around the trunk of your body: your heart, your lungs, your liver, etc. So it initially stores the nutrients around your midsection.
Before you start panicking, “Oh goodness, it’s true. My worst fear is actually a reality. I’m going to get fat!”
PAUSE. Breathe.
NO. YOU’RE. NOT.
After a few weeks of getting consistent calories and adequate rest and restoration, your body will begin to trust you again to nourish it. Then, it will redistribute evenly. You will fill out beautifully, and in all the right places. I promise. 🙂
But here’s the kicker: In order to “beat the bloat,” you have to keep eating. You have to keep nourishing your body with adequate nutrients and sufficient calories consistently, or you body will stay in that starvation mode, and hold on to every nutrient that you consume.
This is very hard for a lot of girls in recovery, and is the moment where the “rubber meets the road,” and your recovery is tested. Your perseverance and will to fight are tested. Will you keep going or will you fall back into old ED habits because of poor body image? Will you continue to banish ED to the fires of hell, or will you let him creep into your mind because you are scared of a temporary bloating phase?
This is where the true warriors rise to the top.
This is where you become gold, refined by fire.
Finally, I’ll leave you with a few tips that I found helpful dealing with my bloating during recovery.
- Wear loose, comfortable clothing. This really goes without saying, but tight clothing is very triggering in recovery. Stick with clothes that give you room to breathe. Yoga pants, hoodies, t-shirts. The stretchier the better.
- Avoid the mirrors. Again, this is something that is intuitive, but scrutinizing your body in the mirror is not going to make the process any easier. In fact, just the opposite. Your body is blooming into the woman you’re meant to be. Trust the process. Learn to love yourself.
- Take a gentle walk. This can be tricky, as a lot of women and girls abuse exercise as a way to purge calories, but I’m not talking about a power walk here. I’m talking about a gentle stroll — Something that will help to take your mind off of a bloated and triggering tummy. Talk a walk in your backyard and take pictures of flowers. Take a stroll through the park and look up the different plants on your phone as you mosey along. Be outside. Surround yourself in the beauty that God created. Remember that you’re also His creation, and are covered in His fingerprints:)
- Drink water! Another aspect of bloating is that your body is holding onto excess water, otherwise known as edema. It’s counterintuitive, but the more water you drink, the less your body will hold on to.
- Be with supportive people. It is so important to surround yourself with supportive people. In your recovery, you need people by your side who lift you up and support you in your recovery, not bring you down.
- Dwell on the Truth. Lastly and most importantly, keep your mind focused on the Truth. Otherwise, ED will find a way back into your head, and this time he’ll bring 7 friends with him. So remain centered on the Truth. These were some thoughts I found to be helpful in recovery.
Hang in there, sweet girl. Bloating comes with the territory, and is only temporary. You’re doing the right thing: you’re sticking with recovery, nourishing your body, and learning to love yourself. The bloating will pass. Keep doing the right thing. One day at a time. One meal at a time.
I believe in you.
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649 responses to “The Truth about Bloating in Recovery”
Thank you so much for this
No prob! I’m glad you found it helpful xx
This was beautifully written.
Thank you so much:) xx
Great article from a very positive perspective!
Reblogged this on Ancien Hippie.
Thank you so much for the reblog!! hugs!
Thank you for dropping such wisdom. Not many people have actually recovered enough to help others. Keep going and trust God.
Thank you for the reblog! Means a lot! God is good! Hugs and love xox
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Thanks for the reblog! 😊😊😊
Great article. Yes, drink water. I sometimes retain water, especially at the ankles. Then I start drinking water to get rid of it. It works.
Thanks for this! Yes kind of goes against what you’d think would reduce bloating, but sure enough, drinking water helps! Thanks for stopping by!
As a paramedic, your posts help me to understand what is happening within the body. Better yet, it also helps me to know what to say and what not to say when I encounter someone with an ED. Keep up the good word.
Thanks Patrick. I’m glad my post could help! Glad you stopped by 😊
Great post – another tip might be “avoid fitspro posts and magazines” so you’re not being bombarded with unrealistic images of what the female body ‘should’ look like.
Hi Emma! Thank you! Oh my gosh you’re so right. I had to unsubscribe to self magazine. Dotson can definitely be very triggering. Thanks for the tip and for stopping by xx
So beautifully written! Although I do not share in this condition, through your writing I can relate. Thank you for sharing. May God bless you, and may you feel His presence throughout your recovery. Have faith!
Thank you so much. I appreciate your kind words and encouragement. Blessings to you friend
Thank you so much for your kind and relieving words! ♥ I’ve been abroad for a month during September to join an intensive recovery program, where I ate around 2200 kcals a day. Until just before I left I had a low and unhealthy intake, but still I didn’t gain a lot of weight (only one kilo in the entire month!) and I didn’t get too bloated though I always encounter (extreme) bloating when I start to eat more. But since last week (I’ve been home for twoo weeks now) my belly looks like it will explode; I’m constantly bloated from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep. I gained more weight since my return than during the entire month. I eat around 1800 kcals a day now but very healthy. This bloating makes me want to throw in the towel because I look twice my size now and I’m afraid to leave the house. How was this not happening last month when I actally ate more? Is this normal or did I get intolerant for certain foods? I’m sorry for al this nagging but I’m so desperate… 🙁 Again, thank you so much for your uplifting words and love, it helps a lot!!
Hugs from the Netherlands!
Thanks so much for stopping by. Good for you for adopting recovery and going to an intensive program. That’s amazing! Bloating is a tough aspect of recovery. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. But the important thing is to just keep nourishing your body and eating through it to “beat the bloat.” I think I would say to make sure you’re getting at least 2000 a day, and if that’s difficult from a volume standpoint, try more calorically dense food – nut butters, avocado, dairy. I know it’s hard when you’re bloated to want to keep eating, but it’s the consistent Intake of nutrition that will get you through it. I hope that helps. Keep fighting, warrior. I believe in you xx
Beautifully expressed and explained!
Thank you James. I appreciate it:) have a wonderful night
Beautifully written and very informative. Thank you for speaking out on this topic. I love your blog. I recently started my own and would love to collaborate sometime and maybe even learn some more about your blog. 🙂
Thank you so much Spencer! I look forward to checking out your blog! hugs ox
Wonderfully written!
Thank you so much Sarah! I appreciate it 😀
EXCELLENT article on the re-feeding process! I only touched briefly on this issue in “Redeemed from the Pit”, but it’s important and you did a superb job of explaining it medically AND how to renew one’s mind from the fear and anxiety a recovering anorexic or bulimic goes through. Mind if I re-post with a link?
Sure thing Marie! Thank you so much:) I appreciate your kind words! Blessings to you
Reblogged this on Juliet Van Heerden: Same Dress, Different Day and commented:
If you love someone who struggles with an eating disorder, perhaps this blog will lend some insight into their thinking.
Thanks so much for the reblog, Juliet! I appreciate it:) hugs to you!
Thank you for an insider’s view of the painful reality of these issues.
Glad you have this website, so many today need this kind of great help.
Thank you so much! Glad you stopped by!
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Great read, I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. I’ve often struggled with my weight thankfully I had supportive people around me helping me to accept my body. Keep up the great job and I’ll say an extra prayer for you. God Bless….
Thank you so much! I appreciate the prayers. Supportive and loving friends and family are so important in life. thanks for stopping by!
Enjoyed reading your blog, and thanks for sharing 🙂
Thank you so much:) I appreciate you stopping by!
Reblogged this on Prism Integrative Acupuncture and commented:
A great article about recovering from eating disorders.
Acupuncture can help get your digestion and other systems back on track again during recovery! Acupuncture helps to return your menstrual cycle, reduce bloating and edema, and restore muscle strength and organ function.
Thank you so much for the reblog! Fascinating information you shared too! Thanks for that! blessings and hugs!
I’m sure this will help a lot of people. Great post.
Blessings, Tricia
Thank you so much Tricia! I appreciate it! That is my true hope! Thanks for stopping by!
Great post! I think it’s so awesome that you are sharing your experience with others. Thanks for following my blog. Although we are recovering from different diseases, I can relate to what you wrote. 🙂
Thank you so much Anne:) I’m glad you stopped by! Blessings to you xx
Reblogged this on Br Andrew's Muses and commented:
This hits below the belt, that is where I feel it – what the mind will do to us and it doesn’t know it is killing itself!
Blessings to you Br Andrew. Thanks again:) glad you stopped by!
https://brandrewmuses.wordpress.com/2015/11/24/the-truth-about-bloating-in-recovery/
I like the way you write – You liked my Theology Post – though I have reblogged you on my general blog – Br Andrew’s Muses
Thank you so much Br Andrew! I really appreciate the reblog! Have a beautiful day!
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This is a very useful article on bloating, something I recently experienced and also had to overcome. My situation is a bit different but the bloating prevented me from eating enough and now that I am ok with the felt sense of a bloating stomach and understanding that my body needs the nourishment, all the anxiety about it has evaporated and I have more energy. I hope lots of people read this blog. Anna
Hi Anna, thank you so much for this feedback. I’m so glad that you found this useful. Sending love and blessings to you on your journey xx
I every time spent my half an hour to read this blog’s articles or reviews everyday along with a cup of
coffee.
Aw, thank you so much Sakila. That really means a lot! Have a great evening! xx
I lost my period last year. What should I do?
Hi love. Thank you for your question. Well, first I think you should talk to your doctor. Losing your period is one of the signs that the body is not receiving adequate nutrition and the hormone levels are off. Exercise plays a factor in this as well. I would just say to make sure you’re meeting your calorie needs sufficiently and being gentle with your body. But definitely talk to your doctor. Fertility is not something to mess around with:) thank you for reading and for asking this question! Sending lots of love and hugs. Stay strong, warrior xx
The truth is I’m currently dealing with bulimia. I talked to a doctor, but he recommended me to take hormone pills and I didn’t. I’m scared of gaining weight and I don’t know. I just want my period back…
I know, it can definitely be scary. But not all hormone pills cause you to gain weight. I’d talk to your doctor about your trepidations about that side effect and see if he has a particular pill or patch that doesn’t have that side effect. Hang in there love. You are strong. You are worth a life free from the bondage of bulimia. Love you Xoxox
Very informative article. Well thought out and organized. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Thanks Richard! I appreciate you reading!
Thank you for liking my post today.
You’re welcome! Thanks for stopping by!
Thank you for liking my post “Christmas on the Creek.” I hope you come back soon. God bless.
Thanks so much! I’m glad you stopped by! Hugs!
Courageous honesty. Thank you.
Thanks so much:) I appreciate you reading. Hugs xx
It’s so amazing what God has programmed into our body system. Your post allows one to appreciate HIM the more. I thank God who has given you the knowledge to do this great job. I’ve learned a lot. I want to thank you for liking my post, “It’s Christmas”. More grace to your elbows!
Hi friend! You’re so right. Our bodies were designed to be well oiled machines! It’s so incredible to think about all the complex systems and make up of our bodies. God is good. Thanks for stopping by! Hugs!
This is so interesting and informative. I have a niece with an eating disorder and I shared your blog with her.
Hi Marie! I’m so sorry to hear your loved one is battling ED. I’m glad you passed this along to her. Thanks for stopping by. Hugs, friend! Xoxo
You liked my post today and I decided to check out your blog. I’ve been praying about how to deal with my 10-year battle with what I’ve finally decided was an eating disorder. Due to lots of health issues and huge amounts of water retention, I never have appeared super skinny/underweight. In fact, just the opposite. I’ve always been over my weight range even when I lived on less than 800 calories a day for years. Still, the struggles are there. Thanks. I needed this today.
Hi friend, Thank you for this reflection. It definitely takes a lot of courage to really confront ourselves. I want to encourage you that there is freedom out there to be found. The body is a well oiled machine and needs adequate fuel to flourish. Eating issues are definitely hard, but the freedom of recovery is truly glorious. Feel free to email me if you want! But know that I am rooting for you. It is amazing how much food the body can process when it trusts itself to nourish it properly. Sending love and prayers your way❤️ thanks for stopping by xx
So thankful for this! Yeah, I’m a guy, 32 years old, and has had an eating disorder as a result of a (too) successful weight loss from a low calorie diet in early 2014. I’m on a constant calorie deficit. 1500 calories and I work full time as a landscaper. My pulse clock showed that I burned over 4000 on a work day. My issused with bloating began when I reached 6.5% body fat. The bloating would come and go, but since November last year it has been constantly bloated. One problem that I’ve had ever since I started, was if I ate a normal size dinner portion, I would get bloated and constipated
Hi Mats, thank you for sharing this. I’m sorry that this common link connects us. Yes, bloating is definitely a bane of existence in recovery, but eventually, it will pass with constant, adequate nourishment. Wishing you all the best on your recovery journey. You got this☺️ thanks for stopping by!
“Since your body has been in a state of starvation during your eating disorder, it doesn’t trust you to nourish it”. I think that is true of those of us who struggle with anything – from joy to happiness to self-confidence. When one gets used to living in poverty of spirit, it can feel quite unnatural to have joy be our regular rhythm. I know for me, I have to “feed” myself constantly. The goal is – when in the future I have an off day – it’s because I am missing the constance of joy and not the other way around. I will pray be praying for you as you journey toward nurturing yourself spiritually, mentally and PHYSICALLY. You are worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh thank you so much Andrea! What a beautiful perspective! I’ve never bought of that before. How incredible. You’re so right. Thank you so much for the prayers. They mean so much. You will definitely be in my heart and prayers as well:) thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love to you friend!
This post was very helpful but very hard for me to read because I’ve been in recovery for a little over a year now eating completely unrestricted and the bloat and constipation is just as bad as day one. So to read that for most people it only lasts a few weeks is extremely discouraging 🙁
Hi friend! Oh I’m so sorry to hear that you’re still experiencing bloating. Keep fighting the good fight. Nourishing yourself is so important. Proud of you:) thanks for reading!
Good job! Keep it up 🙂
Thank you so much Vonnie! I appreciate it 🙂
Wow as someone who has suffered with an Ed, thank you for opening up and sharing your story. Thank you for your tips and tricks. You’re a beautiful person. I love reading about your faith.
Thank you so much Jaclyn. I appreciate your encouragement. A lot❤️ thanks for reading! Have a great weekend!
Thanks for sharing your experience with others. Lots of food for thought. No doubt that one must start at the source of the problem. And that is your inner Self. And as long as you are feeding yourself, the proper nutrition/thoughts, it will begin to show on the outside as well. Unfortunately we must reflect on the innermost mirror, in order to change the image in the mirror on the wall. And you are doing a great job, keep up the good work.
Love your dedication, firstly to yourself, and the sharing of the experience with others. Giving strength to the weary, restoration to the broken hearted. Returning to the former glory. It’s as a cup of cold water, too ease the flame within. And a cool breeze from the blazing heat of the Noon Day Sun.
Hi Day Sun, thank you for this beautiful reflection. Learning to love myself — who I am inside — has really been the ticket to my recovery. I appreciate your response and for taking the time to read! Hugs to you xox
This is exactly what I’ve been suffering from for almost three years- on and off. Thanks for this encouragement!
Thanks for your response, friend! Oh gosh, I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with bloating. Just stick with your plan. It will eventually get better. Hang in there love, I believe in you! ❤️❤️❤️
Good tips. I really enjoyed your post.
Thank you so much Gwendolyn. I appreciate it:) thanks for stopping by! Hugs!
Great advice. I enjoyed reading your post.
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You have a gift when it comes to explaining the mental as well as the physical and how they intertwine. In my opinion, a brilliant post.
Hi Gail! Wow thank you so much for this! I so appreciate your kind and affirming words. Hugs to you xx
Very informative thanks!
Thank you for reading! Hugs:)
Brilliant! Well done indeed! Sound, to the point, positive and helpful, and centered on the One Who can help! Thanks!
Thanks again Stephanie! Jesus was 100% the source of my healing, so it’s GOTTA be centered in Him! Hugs!
Being scared of ones own body and being scared of food is awful.
Hi friend. You’re right. It is. That’s why I’m so grateful for the freedom and healing of recovery. It is possible. ❤️❤️
Reblogged this on ItzMio and commented:
A good thought <3
Thank you so much for the reblog! I really appreciate it:) hugs! Xox
No problem!!! It was a good read!
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What an amazing and honest read! It takes a lot for most people to get to place where they can love their bodies again and feel comfortable in their own skin. I hope they read your blog and get comfort in that fact that it is possible.
Thank you so much. That really means a lot:) loving my body has definitely been a journey. And though I’m not completely 100% there yet, I am in a far far better place than before. Thanks for reading. Hugs xox
Spot on truth! It’s also a great reminder of some scary statistics for those of us further along in recovery. My digestive system is still prone to days where it simply doesn’t want to work. reason #104 to keep up with recovery. Thank you!
Hello again friend! Thanks for this reflection. You’re right-so so so many reasons to stick with recovery! I appreciate you taking the time to read my stuff this morning☺️☺️☺️sending hugs!
You write a lot of sense, and that will carry you through anything. You’re not just sitting back feeling sorry for yourself — you’re finding out WHY and HOW, and that puts you back in control.
Thank you so much Felicity! I so appreciate the encouragement and support:) glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox
Marvelous post, I’m dealing with a colestomy bag over the next 6 months until another abdominal surgery puts my intestines back together and the issue of body image is massive. My family who loves me find it difficult to help with my care because looking at my stoma is gross. And I have the hardest time myself. My body looks mutilated and there’s an overwhelming urge to withdraw frim the world and wallow in self pity. I know I shouldn’t and I’m working at not doing this but it ain’t easy. Your post really helps with its positive attitude towards this period in your life
Hey friend, thank you so much for sharing this. I’m sorry you’re going through that–I will definitely keep you in my prayers for quick healing. So glad you stopped by. Sending you big big hugs.
Reblogged this on JB Group Fitness Blog and commented:
At JB Group Fitness we like to ENJOY getting in shape through fun exercises. Although exercise is important, proper nutrition is a vital part of the equation. The blog post shared here is a beautifully written piece that has an excellent explanation of what the body goes through when we do not get the nutrients our body needs, and the difficulties that our body (and emotions) go through to recover from these circumstances. In order to perform at its best, our bodies need nourishment. Only with proper nourishment and love, can we move forward and reach for new goals.
Very interesting and true. Our body also seeks a homiostates level. “What it is use to” being aware is half the battle and leading to except and enjoy yourself is key to development.
Thanks for this great insight, I really appreciate your encouragement. Thanks for reading! Hugs and love xox
Hey thank for the informative article, it’s really reassuring since I’m about two months into recovery and bloating and elephantine looking body has been bothering me so so so much every single day, until a point I even wish I have not started with my recovery. I’ve always been a tiny person even before I got stupidly anorexic. This stage has been more difficult than ever. Would you mind if I ask whether you have any idea how long the bloating will last and how long does it take to completely go away. I have been eating pretty well constantly despite some regretful thoughts on starting the recovery process. Your reply and help will be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
Hi Serena! Thanks for reaching out. First of all, I’m so happy for you that you’ve embraced recovery. That’s amazing. This is YOUR life and I’m cheering for you that you’ve reclaimed it! You know, it’s hard to say how long the bloating will last. Every body is different. For me, I think it took about 3 months 😬 I’m sorry it that’s not what you want to hear :/ but hang in there. You’re doing the right thing. I believe in you love. You’re a warrior and I couldn’t be more proud of you. What you’re doing is hard. You’re a freaking rock star xox
Hi, thankyou for your super nice write up about the truth about bloating, of course here I was at google experiencing the bloat, I am at those early stages of recovery, on my own this time with supportive people around me and in my life. Seems to be working, not always smooth sailing. I am learning to love my real beauty instead of idolizing those bones. Thank you for your website, I am yet to explore more of your advice and speck with you sometime. I am 32 female from Nelson, New Zealand. Currently live in Picton NZ. My name is Amy.
Hi Amy! Thank you so much for this response. I’m so glad you’ve embraced the freedom of recovery! So awesome. You’re a freakin warrior and deserve it☺️ yeah, the bloating phase is a thorn in your side during the recovery process but hang in there. It gets better! Sending so much love and hugs and prayers! Xoxooxx
hank for the informative article, it’s really reassuring since I’m about two months into recovery and bloating and elephantine looking body has been bothering me so so so much every single day, until a point I even wish I have not started with my recovery. I’ve always been a tiny person even before I got stupidly anorexic. This stage has been more difficult than ever. Would you mind if I ask whether you have any idea how long the bloating will last and how long does it take to completely go away. I have been eating pretty well constantly despite some regretful thoughts on starting the recovery process. Your reply and help will be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
Hi Serena! I’m sorry to just now be getting back to you! For whatever reason, WP filtered this into my spam folder!! But I’m so sorry you’re experiencing bloating. Hang in there. For me the bloating lasted several weeks. But with consistent and adequate caloric intake, the bloating does get better. I’m so proud of you for taking the steps to freedom. You’re a warrior and i believe in you. hugs and love xox
Very inspiring! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much:) I appreciate he encouragement! Hugs and love to you xox
Hi Amy, I just wanted to respond to your post. As a dietitian working with clients with disordered eating, I agree that bloating is really common. The bloating is caused by gas production by the bacteria in the colon (large intestine). When you have been severely restricting what you eat for a prolonged period of time, it affects the balance of the bacteria. When you start nourishing your body there are more gas producing bacteria which feed off some foods, causing the excess gas. There are a number of particular foods that can make the bloating worse. It is possible to reduce bloating by choosing particular foods, but obviously this needs to be done very carefully and cautiously with anyone in recovery. Sarah X
Thanks for this insight Sarah! I appreciate you taking the time to respond 🙂 sending love and hugs! ((And my name is not actually Amy…😬😬 I’m staying anonymous, at least for now ☺️☺️☺️)) have w great day!! Xoxo
Hi Sarah,
I’m just recently into recovery again but the bloating is worse than ever. Do you have some suggestions of food to avoid or to eat more of to help? I know I shouldn’t “avoid” any certain foods, but just during the bloating phase?
Thanks!
Meghan
Thanks for sharing. Very informative article, and it explainns where I almost found myself when I was losing weight because of anemia as a result of heavy menstruation. I started to recover with iron supplements and a diet to gain weight.
Thank you for sharing this. I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond! Sending hugs and love xox
Reblogged this on healthtidbits and commented:
Although I have never had an eating disorder, I have however had bad body image before, and thought I was fat. So often we can become obsessive to the point of becoming ill. For those who are recovering, I found this piece incredibly beautiful in that it encourages people to love themselves and their bodies, and it gives valuable advise to those who were ill and are going through the recovery phase.
Thank you so much for the reblog! I really appreciate your kind words. Glad it resonated with you:) hugs and love xox
This is a beautiful article. I want to encourage people to be as healthy as they can be and to love themselves. I have reblogged it on my blog as it not only helps those in recovery, but reminds all of us to love our bodies. I hope you don’t mind. Thank you for writing this 🙂
Aw thank you again for the reblog. I’m so glad that this spoke to your heart. Sending hugs and love my friend! Have a beautiful day! Xox
This the truth. After years of on again off again recovery I still get bloated after a large meal but I know that tomorrow morning I’ll wake up and look like I did earlier today because you CANT get fat overnight. And besids your nutritionists pick a weight range so it is physically IMPOSSIBLE for you to get fat. Just keep on fighting.
Thanks Jules! You’re so right. Gotta trust the process:) thanks for stopping by! Stay strong warrior! Xox
I’m thankful for the reminder that there are people out there with problems I’ve never even thought about. I have problems, but so do others. In my case, it’s depression. And to what is depression often linked? Self image. So, here’s what I’ve learned by reading your post: We all have problems, and they may all be different, but we are not THAT different. God bless you as you continue on the journey to full recovery.
Hey Anthony! Thank you so much. You’re so right. We’re all in this together. No matter what our “thing” is, we all need encouragement and hope. Hugs and love xox
This literally saved my recovery
Hi friend. Oh my gosh I’m so glad. It seriously brings my heart so much joy to know that this resonated with you and was a little bit of help. Stay strong warrior. Know that I believe in you and your strength and courage. And know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers. You can do this. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I believe your every recovery process is a success that will bring wonder to your kindled spirit.
Thank you so much my friend. That really means a lot. Hugs and love to you this beautiful Tuesday morning!
This is so beautiful… Thank you for the encouragement and tips. Low key crying rn. Thank you.
Thank you so much. Aw I’m so glad it resonated with you:) offering a Kleenex through the comp ☺️ hugs and love xox
No honestly. I needed this today. You’re going to go places & help so many girls. Xoxo
❤️❤️❤️that means more than you know. Thank you xox
I’ve been in recovery for bulimia and anorexia for 2 months now, and perhaps this article is the ONLY thing that reassured me that I am still normal, that all this bloating, indigestion and gas is normal and temporary. This is a beautiful article and I truly appreciate you writing it. You have no idea how much it means to us in recovery. I do however have some concerns if you don’t mind. Is bloating still normal even though I’ve been eating consistently for 2 months? Also, is it normal to ALWAYS be bloated, as in even when I first wake up in the morning? The bloat is just always there. I’ve not had a flat stomach for 2 months now which makes me go into a frenzy that it will constantly be there. I just want it to go away.
Love this – it’s so real and authentic. I also appreciate the gentle kindness I sense with your writing <3
Thank you so much. That really means a lot. Glad this resonated with you. Hugs and love xox
Very powerful…very real. Thank-you for spelling out the facts, illuminating the reasons, and for sharing your own personal journey. Big hugs to you!
Thank you so much! I’m so glad it resonated with you. Hugs and love xox
Thank you for liking my latest post. I want to take this opportunity to congratulate you on the wonderful service you are offfering through this blog.
Thank you so much! That really means a lot. Hugs and love xox
I am enjoying reading your posts. Very commendable how you have explained the fears and how the body responds to being nurtured once again. You are a great example to others to follow and you were supported by God. God helps all to restore their lives. Blessings to you and all you help along the way.
Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoy them! That’s so kind of you to say. God is good! Hugs and love xox
Such good sense and so valuable to so many! Thank you.
Thank you so much 🙂 I appreciate your kind words and encouragement. hugs and love xox
This is an excellent post. It so important for people to talk about their fears without feeling judged. You are helping a lot of people! Keep it up. And thank you for liking my post “Could it be Me?” I am new out at blogging so i appreciate the support. xoxo
Thank you so much! That really means a lot. Welcome to the world of blogging! I look forward to reading more from you! Hugs and love xox
As one who has never had a problem with self-image*, I can still very much relate to this. It should be read by all, those afflicted and caregivers, and innocent bystanders.
* I believe there’s only one opinion of me that matters … and that’s my own. (As defined by me, on my own terms, against my own standards. Think it’s easy? Take a look at my Gravatar—that’s actually an old passport photo …)
Thank you for your reflection and kind words. I’m so glad you have that freedom! I appreciate you taking the time to read. Hugs and love xox
I’m not exaggerating, I’ve been bloated for a over a week now and feeling pretty upset about it. In one of my psychology courses, my professor had said that when you’re stressed, your body thinks its in danger, so it holds on to all the calories it gets. She talked about how it was an evolutionary process that was meant to help us survive (so the purpose of anxiety was to save us in life/death situations, unfortunately that is not the case with most of us) and that meant that anything we ate would make us instantly fatter! That truth frightened me, but reading this article made me feel at such ease. Thank you thank you! It’s so nice to know that the way to get rid of me growing is to continue to eat well and healthy.
Much love for this blog.
Hi Fatimah, thank you so much for sharing this. I’m sorry that you’re experiencing bloating. I know how discouraging that can be. But you’re wh absolutely right-hang in there. Continuing to nourish yourself is the key to get through it. I believe in you love xox
Thanks for your support and kind words 🙂
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I appreciate your kindness in always “liking” my blog. It won’t be long until I post the first, full chapter. Thanks.
Hi friend, you’re so welcome. thanks for stopping by! Hh
I started recovery5 months ago with my pcp he put me on a diet of5 small meals a day breakfast strawberry pop tartYes he let me keep the pop tart snack 3pieces of dried fruit lunch a big size dish of yogartfresh vanilla fresh fruit and granola snack fiber one 90calorie bar supper smaller portion of family dinner snack 12 plain almonds and 3pieces dried fruit then I do 25po laps I have gained 25 pounds all over but a large fat jelly belly I am 55 I was always 99pounds but pcp and me have agreed on 105,why am I gaining so much weight still I am desparate and did not want to relapse and even had desparate moments where I just want to cut it off HELP!!
Hi Rebecca. Thank you for sharing this. I just want to encourage you to keep going. I know it is scary to get to the target range but there really is so much freedom and life to be had in recovery. I know the temptation to deviate from your dietitian’s meal plan, but just keep doing the next right thing. One meal at a time. You CAN do this. You CAN reclaim your life. You are worth it. I believe in you. Hugs and love xox
Very good blog! I must say, I greatly appreciate coming on here and seeing what you have to say… as someone who has come through an eating disorder as well I must say: you are very insightful <3
Thanks Katie! I really appreciate it:) so glad you’ve also found the freedom of recovery! Sending big hugs! Xox
Hi, God bless you for your good works. I just wanted to know if it is normal to still have digestive problems 2 years into recovery. Thanks.
Thanks Sandy for this insight. It really appreciate it! So glad you stopped by. Hugs and love xox
You have such courage to have faced your affliction and worked your way through recovery. Keep it up! I recently read a wonderful book by shame researcher Brene Brown called “I Thought It Was Just Me” about women’s shame issues, a prominent one being body image. Her goal is to teach women (and men) to develop resilience to shame by having the courage to tell their story, having compassion for themselves, and connecting to empathetic listeners and friends. An excellent read that you might enjoy. Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much for this encouraging note. I so appreciate your support and kindness. That sounds like an incredible book. I’ll have to check it out. Thanks for passing it along. Hugs and love xox
You’ll have to let me know what you think. She also has a Ted Talk on YouTube.
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Great article – and so true! Having just finished a 21-day water fast a week ago, I’m going through that period of feeling bloated right now. Believe me, I don’t feel like eating because of the feeling of internal bloating – but I know I have to. One thing I’ve found which can help is to do gentle aerobic exercise like a little running. Physically it doesn’t feel particularly good, but it does help the nutrients to get out from the core of the body to nourish the muscles as well.
Thanks Tallis, for this response. Wow, a 21 day water fast, that sounds pretty extreme. Glad you are okay. hugs and love xox
Loving and forgiving yourself is one of the hardest thing any of us can do, but it is one of the most important things we can do. Here’s my story: https://justbeloveblog.wordpress.com/2016/02/02/one-year-ago-today-everything-changed/
That’s so true. Thanks, Eloisea, for sharing this. I look forward to reading your story. Hugs and love xox
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I love the honesty in your writing. It’s like you reach out and grab hold of your readers hand and say, c’mon, we can do this together. Thank you!
Thanks Jennifer! I really appreciate your encouraging words. So glad you enjoy it! Hugs and love xox
Beautiful. Thank you for helping me understand.
Hi Paula, thank you for this wonderful encouragement. I appreciate you taking the time to read. hugs and love xo
Also check for food allergies that cause bloating!! This was the case with my sister-in-law who has recovered from an eating disorder.
Thanks for this tip! I appreciate it! Hugs and love xox
Ahhh the beast of bloating…. thanks for the subject choice, it definitely resonates with all of us women!
Thank you for the encouragement. So glad you enjoyed it! Hugs and love xox
Thanks for replying back! Happy 4th Darling!
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Forged in the fire. I admire you!
Thanks friend. I appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
Great writing. Clear, compassionate, accessible, supporting. Just wonderful.
Thanks friend glad you enjoyed it Hugs and love xox
I’m starting to think that I might be in recovery too, although it’s not so easy to tell, because I was never anorexic or bulimic. But after my weight loss in 2009, I stopped mensurating, I’m always cold, and even though I eat almost everything I want, it’s been a slow process, but i still feel so guilty after words. Mentality, I haven’t fully recovered. I’m not exactly sure what I should do now. But I’m glad I came across this post and your blog!
Hi Rafia, thank you for sharing this. Yes, there are so many different faces of ED that don’t necessarily fit into a definite category. I’m glad you’re journeying towards full recovery. Thanks for stopping by. Feel free to email me too:) Hugs and love xox
<3 for your loving post, xXx
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The post is so wonderful, keep it up.
Thanks Jide. I really appreciate your encouragement. Hugs and love xox
I appreciate you sharing your journey. Thank you!
Thanks Sue! I appreciate it! Hugs and love xox
Hi, Just a quick thank you as a regular reader of my postings
Came across a quote (By Ralph Noyes) the other day that reminded me of you in particular, but also of all we other mortals who each have his/her own battles (perhaps wrong word?) to challenge them. Here it is: ‘ We are a haunted species. The spectres are among us. They continue to come. They rattle their chains. Yet it is ourselves who have chained them’.
A good deal of truth in that quote.
Keep on fighting! Break the chain. You are actually much stronger than you perhaps consider yourself to be.
Warmest regards
John
Hey john. Thank you for sharing this quote. What a powerful quote. Yes, break the chains indeed! Hugs and love xox
Almost every night, especially in summer, I have this debate with myself before enjoying ice cream. Will it make my stomach stick out too much? Do I care? Will a prospective partner care? Should I care if she cares? Do I care if she’s plump? Do I need the fat in my body for health and maybe psychological reasons (dairy products are chemically calming)? And so it goes… 🙂
Those are all viable questions. Being in dialogue is healthy. Hope you enjoyed that ice cream 🙂 and very interesting about the calming properties! Thanks for stopping by this morning and for your comments! Xx
I think it’s wonderful that you’ve opened up a place to talk about body body image feelings. I don’t know why I didn’t stop by earlier. 🎆🌷
Thanks again:) I’m so glad you did!! ❤️
Wow,eye opening
Thanks friend. I appreciate you taking the time to read and respond. Hugs and love xox
Your posts really hit home with me. I was an anorexic long before I ever heard of Ed. When my middle child was 20 she also suffered with it. Even when I told her what she was doing to her body she ignored me. It took her collapsing at work and becoming unconsciense to realize she needed to do something. Just like a recovering alcoholic someone who has had an eating disorder will from time to time wonder “why did I eat that? ” I guess it comes with the territory but over time it will become less of a worry. I have found out for myself that I just try to eat healthy and avoid foods that make me bloat which a usually some of my favorite veggies. I stil eat them occazsionaly. I live in sweat pants and elastic but then I am 58 years old Keep doing what you are doing and I will keep reading.
Hey again friend. I’m so sorry that Ed is the common denominator of our pasts, but I’m so glad that we’re both living in freedom now. You’re right-we’ve gotta just keep on keepin on ❤️ sending the biggest hugs xox
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Thanks for the link up! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for sharing this information with us in such an honest way!
It’s been close to 30 years since I went into self recovery! (I was twenty pounds under weight.) I turned my inner self talk life around before I became pregnant and now my daughter is 29!
I haven’t owned a scale in all those years! I still avoid owning one! That was the one thing which I obsessed over: the numbers, my weight!
I learned to focus on healthy habits! I still try to keep that as my primary goal!
Sending love out to everyone who is struggling! You are worthy! You are stronger than you know! You deserve to be healthy!
Peace, Tamara
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Thanks Jake. Hugs and love xox
You have a great blog. Thank you for writing it. I can see that it’s helpful for many people. I believe it comes down to loving your body. It’s too fat, it’s too thin, it’s not attractive enough, it doesn’t work right, etc. Will it serve you better if you reject it? Love God and love your body.
Thanks for this great perspective Dr. Whittaker. You’re right- love God. Love your body. Boom! There it is! Hugs and love xox
Great post, my friend, Remember …
“And the Lord shall guide you continually, and satisfy your soul in drought, and make fat your bones: and you shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not.” – Isaiah 58:11
“The light of the eyes rejoices the heart: and a good report makes the bones fat.”
– Proverbs 15:30
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Thanks Handley. I appreciate it. Love those verses. Hugs and love xox
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Thanks friend. Big hugs xox
Great article on bloating and creative illustration!
Thank you! Hugs and love xox
Always wonderful to see someone use there experience and knowledge to help others, keep up the great work 😀
Thanks so much Josiah! I appreciate the support. Hugs and love xox
Thank you for liking my post and thank you for being so courageous and sharing these awesome posts, we all need to lift the mask on the reality of what we feel and experience so that people know they are not alone.You are awesome 🙂
Thanks so much. I appreciate it! Hugs and love xox
Encouraging post, I pray it helps those who struggle with an eating disorder, I can’t imagine what they go through. It’s awesome to see your testimony on this.
Thank you Lamar. I really appreciate it. I hope it does too. Hugs and love xox
Thanks so much for this- i am currently struggling so so badly with my bulimia bloat and feel like a fat whale. I am hating that it makes me feel so fat and uncomfortable and this really helps <3
Hi Emily, I’m sorry you’re dealing with that right now. Know that I am cheering for you in your recovery. It is so worth it. Hang in there, beautiful. It gets better! Hugs and love xox
Thanks for liking my blog post. Our daughter had an eating disorder in 8th grade. She’s doing fine now, helping other people as a nurse at a major hospital. You’ll do fine, too!
Hi Pete, I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m so glad she’s doing well! Thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox
I never had an ED, however, I have dealt with issues from PTSD/abuse issues. The darkest before it’s light is consistent with what I went through too. The closest I’ve ever come to losing the fight against all the behaviors/patterns came at the very end. The defenses, my old “truth” was what I knew and had protected me lo these many years. And they were screaming at me not to hold onto the change, it was harmful. That was possibly the toughest piece of my fight, because it would have been really easy to just let go of the new truth. Great post, thanks for writing it!!!
Thank you for sharing this, teacup:) I’m so glad that you’re fighting that and embracing the freedom of the truth. Thanks for your encouragement. Hugs and love xox
I have dealt with chronic PTSD and there was a time when I was in the skin and bones category. Not because of ED, but usually it was a reflection of what I was battling with deep down inside. I can totally understand what you are saying. I love how you use the term “old truth”!
Thank you for sharing this. I’m so glad you had to go through that. I’m glad you’re living in freedom now! Hugs and love xox
Thank you so much for writing this. Your supportive words and even your experiences and tips are so helpful. I am finally facing my Bulimia head on and entering recovery for the first time. I can’t afford treatment so am doing this on my own and of course freaked out when I started bloating when not engaging in my usual ED behaviours. I’m so glad that I found this, and I’m so glad that it’s so normal. Thank you again for having the bravery to be so open with your story, it will help so many and makes me feel not so alone through this hard journey.
Thank you for this kind note. I’m so glad this resonated with you. Know that I’m cheering you on as your journey towards full recovery! So happy and excited for you that you chose freedom! Woo! Rock on Amy! You got this! Xoxo
Thanks again for the Like, Beauty.
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Reblogged this on penpowersong.
Thank you so much for the reblog! Hugs and love xox
A wonderful post!
Thank you so much:) big hugs xox
Thanks for your courage in sharing this. God continue to bless you, as you help others
Thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words. Big hugs xox
Thanks for following my blog, and for your like of my post on Bible Translations. You are very kind.
no prob! hugs xo
Love it, very encouraging and insiteful!
Thanks friend. I appreciate your kind words! Hugs and love xox
This is a really good post, thanks. I take aloe vera gel to reduce bloating and it really helps my other digestive and anxiety issues too. I’ve got a couple of customers who have found it really helps them get through their ED recovery stage, and have heard some amazing success. Would be nice to know if others have found the same with drinking aloe vera gel too.
Than you so much Phillip! How interesting! Thank you for passing that info along. I’ll have to try it! Hope you’re well. Hugs and love xox
Are you more afraid of bloating or being overweight in general?
Thank you for this question. I am not afraid of either, per se. The bloating is just troublesome to people with body dysmorphia, trying to recover from a life threatening eating disorder. It makes the recovery process difficult from a mental standpoint:)
It’s really reassuring to read this and know that other people experience and have experienced it. Because of my body being in starvation mode for 6 years during my teens and the way my treatment worked, my digestive system is taking literally years to recover. Despite generally eating well for the past 4 years I still suffer a lot with bloating and abdominal distension. It is a total nightmare in terms of body dysmorphia as it just confirms everything I fear, but knowing other people also experience it makes me feel less alone. Thank you for writing this – I wish someone had written those coping strategies when I first started experiencing it!!
Often people forget that some of the really tough times come when recovering from any illness, EDs included, and I think the way the body can respond to refeeding is a perfect example of this. If you are someone who is supporting someone trying to recover from an ED, don’t forget that although things may seem to be improving on the outside and that is great, the person may be struggling with less obvious aspects of recovery like bloating and the conflict between ED urges and the healthy steps to take. Recovery is complex but worth the effort. I am now in a long-term relationship and I’m independent, and I would never have been able to be when I was in the throes of my anorexia.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad that you’ve found the freedom of recovery. You’re so so right-recovery IS worth it. Know that I’m cheering for you. Sending massive hugs xox
Excellent post! I am sure many will find this most helpful.
Thanks friend. I appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
Awesome post!
Aw thank you so much Teena! 🙂 so glad you stopped by! Happy Tuesday xox
continue the connection to your soul – it is far more than skin and bones. In my youth I was thin, but had an emotionally abusive husband and needed to be perfect. As I have aged, time caught up with all the eating issues and I am now a normal older woman (pudgy for me lol) but I know it is right. Keep up the positive!
Thank you so much for the encouragement. In sorry to hear that you had to endure that. Sending hugs xox
Thank you. It’s a tough subject and BDD is tough, even as we age – maybe especially as we age. Thank you for the encouragement.
Thanks for this reflection. Definitely true. Thanks for stopping by 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Beautiful!
Thanks Katherine! Hugs and love xox
Great!
Thanks! Appreciate you stopping by! Hugs and love xox
Rereading your post brings me to greater empathy and understanding. Thanks for liking my post.
Thanns Paula:) I’m so glad you enjoyed the read! Thanks for stopping by! Big hugs xox
I really like the way you’ve addressed this issue. Lovingly and gently with encouragement for your readers who are recovering. Bless you.
Thank you so much Peachy 🙂 I appreciate your kind words! hugs xox
Honestly I really needed to read this! I’m 14 and In my second week of recovery and eating full meals- and my stomach is the size of a whale! I really hope it goes away and I can focus more on this recovery. (It definetly is temporary isn’t it..? Xx)
Thanks Holly. So glad it resonated with you. Definitely temporary! I’m cheering you on in your recovery! You picked life and freedom and that’s so awesome:) stay strong, warrior ❤️ big hugs xox
This is quite beautiful, like its author. You are certainly recovering substantially. Impressive. Thank you for sharing so much.
Thank you so much Ekurie:) what a kind thing to say. So glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox
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You inspired me to write this post when you followed my last one – thank you – sitting here bloated as heck! https://mickirose.com/2016/10/04/recovery-bloating/
Hi Micki! Oh no! I’m sorry you’re bloated right now. That’s the worst. But hang in there. It does get better!! Cheering you on in your recovery! Woo!! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for your honesty and openness. I feel your gentle spirit and quiet strength!
Hi Scotty Jo! Thank you so much:) what a kind thing to say:) I hope you have a great day! Hugs and love xox
This is such important information. Thank you for explaining why the specific body changes occur!
Thanks Dawn. I appreciate it:) big hugs xox
Wonderful truth sister! Great writing!
Thank you so much! So glad you stopped by:) big hugs xox
Thank you for sharing! You are beautiful inside and out.
Thank you so much:) that’s so kind of you to say:) big hugs xox
Thank you for liking my post. And thank you for putting yourself out there to help others. Bless you!
You’re so welcome! Thank YOU for stopping by! Big hugs xox
Great post! And thanks so much for liking mine.
Thanks so much! Hh
Wow. This is really nice and inspiring. Love it
Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it! Hugs and love xox
Hi – I saw you liked something I wrote and it led me to your site. This will probably sound random (and I’ve read some of your more recent work) but my favorite part about this piece your wrote on bloating in recovery is when you call your audience “sweet girl.” I like to collect kind terms to call people, things that try to pack in as much love as they can, and that read like one of the kindest terms I’ve ever heard for people in pain. I love it!
Thank you so much! Yeah I remember I was called sweet girl by my older brother. He is one of my best friends and I had that same reaction to it. So loving and full of compassion and care. Glad you liked it too. Hugs and love xox
A lot of good points and encouragement! Thanks for stopping by my site, too.
Thanks Virginia, I appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
Thanks for giving this invaluable help that so many need. We pray God will use it so that all who need it will get it.
Thank you so much. What a kind thing to say. God is good! Hugs and love xox
Wow this is really awesome, great job being vulnerable about your own struggles and using those as a means to help others.
Thanks Jeremy. I appreciate your encouraging words! Hope you’re having a great week! Hugs and love xox
I’m happy the post I shared on my blog found you and made me aware of your work. Thank you.
Thank you so much for stopping by! Hugs and love xox
Bloating is such an emotional thing especially with dysmorphia. It tricks your mind into thinking, “Oh my heck, I am legitimately fat. It’s never going to go away.” What’s going on inside your body and how you’re feeling in the stomach/intestine region has the power to completely change what you see visibly–even more difficult is bloating often does show outwardly so you now have that reinforcement of the “I feel fat” thought. So hard to realize you have to ride the wave and that it will go down.
Thank you for this Kristina. You’re so right-it presents so many mental obstacles. It’s so important to separate the truth from the lies the dysmorphic brain tries to make us believe. Big hugs to you friend xox
A brave posting, and a service to your fellow women. Thank you for writing here.
Thank you so much. That really means a lot. Just trying to offer a nudge of hope and encouragement. 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Not recovering from anorexia, but you write beautifully. This is a lovely post, thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Big hugs xox
First, thanks for liking my posts!
It really gives me the encouragement to keep writing, since I am just getting started.
This post was very eye opening, and I learned a great deal from it. I will be sending warm wishes your way, and cheering you on! Stay on track, keep working your plan…you are very dear to me. – Cat
Thanks Cat. So glad you enjoyed my post. Yes! Keep writing! And what a kind thing to say. Thanks for making me smile:) Hugs and love xox
Hey thanks for stopping by and thank you for liking 🙂
No prob! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for writing this 🙂
You’re so welcome, Michelle! Big hugs to you xox
it was great reading your straight-forward and honest assessment of the “bloating”, as you call, in ED recovery. I’ve seen the bloating pull some of my friends back into an abyss. but I think if we’re prepared for it and are expecting it, it’s a little easier to handle.
thanks for a great post.
Thanks so much. Yeah, it can be so difficult to deal with, especially during the beginning stages of recovery. Thanks for the encouragement. Hugs and love xox
This is really good. Good write up!
Thanks so much Sista Seiz! hugs xox
I admire your strength in getting well. Best of luck and all support in your efforts to heal…
Hi again Julianne! 🙂 thanks so much. Yeah, quite the journey. But I am so grate for the healing that’s taken place. So glad you stopped by today! Xox
Hello, could you please let me know if this is the case for men also? I have been gaining weight slowly, I was 46kg in December 2015 and am only around 52kg at this current time.
My stomach area seems to swell up or bloat as you’ve put and I was wondering if it will fill out as you’ve mentioned in this post. I haven’t been to any doctors or hospitals, my recovery has been provided by my self and I feel it’s working out alright.
Though I’m not sure if my progress is too slow or if my body will recover the same way as women do based on the information you provided here.
Sorry for the long post and thank you : )
Hi James, I’m sorry you’re also going through this. Yes, I do believe this is the same for men too. Hang in there. Cheering for you in your recovery 🙂 big hugs xox
Wanted to reply to your Like. Thank you. Forgive me if I cannot fully understand everything you write about, I can appreciate almost all suffering but I have so much trouble understanding eating disorder. I can see why…well you know, I think. Of course, I spent the last twenty years trying to kill myself as slowly as possible and then tried a little harder. Thank you for what you are doing and all who can see that, yes in fact, there is a door leading out of this and believe it or not, it’s not locked. Thank you, daniel.
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Hi Daniel, thank you for sharing part of your story. I’m so glad you’ve also found that open door. Sending you big hugs. Xox
I am so glad you have the courage to share your journey. I an sure it will help countless others in their struggles. All the best in the New Year to you.
Thanks Heather. What a kind thing to say. Big hugs xox
Your plain talk takes care of business and offers hope encapsulated in wisdom. So pleased this has been written!
Thanks so much!! What a kind note. Glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox
Wonderfully written, gentle but true!
Thanks Lea:) appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
Just wanted to thank you for reading my stuff! I always get a little nod of support from you! cheers! Julie
You’re welcome Julie! Hugs and love xox
Praise God!!! For the message of hope. Your post was very informative and encouraging. Thanks for taking the time.
Thank you so much! glad it was encouraging 🙂 big hugs xo
It’s crazy to me that doctors and “experts” never tell us that eating too little can lead to weight gain and bloating. My MIL had gut issues and couldn’t eat much, yet she struggled with keeping a healthy weight. She wasn’t underweight as many would think she should be, she was quite the opposite. She went to several doctors and only one told her “eat more, your body is fighting starvation by holding on to all the fat you eat.” She got her gut fixed (gall bladder), started eating normal quantities, and her weight stabilized.
wow, that’s pretty incredible. I’m glad your MIL is doing better now! Yeah, the body’s relationship with food is pretty finicky when we venture into the too-much or too-little categories! thanks for stopping by! hugs xox
This made me want to cry with hope while reading this. I am struggling with intensive bloating at the moment and hanging on by a hair to keep going. Thank you for the bit of hope.
Oh Laic, im giving you such a big hugs right now through the screen. Hang in there. It gets better. Cheering for you ❤ you’re my hero! Hugs and love xox
Have you ever seen the bloated bellies of starving children in Africa? Starvation does bad things to your body. That is why it eventually leads to death. If you become addicted to thinness you will keep “using” more and more thinness until it kills you. This is a strange addiction as the pleasure does not come from taking a substance into your body but rather by keeping a substance (food) out of your body. This addiction to thinness and to control is as difficult to overcome and as deadly as heroin addiction. But if you put every bit of yourself into the fight, if you choose life over death, if you climb this mountain, then the view from the top will be beautiful. Use every tool you can lay your mind on to fight this. Prayer, spiritual growth, physicians, medications, support groups, friends, loved ones all can contribute to your recovery. Do not hesitate to use them all. You are literally fighting for your life. Perhaps you may one day find that God does not care if you are thin or not. He cares about you, not how you look and it is much more important to please God than man. He wants you to be healthy. Jesus is often called “the Great Physician” because He heals body, mind and soul. Grab the hem of His robe and hold on. He will love you through this. He will help you ignore the voice of Satan that tells you you are fat, you are not pretty, you are not good enough, you are out of control. Listen to the voice of Jesus when He tells you that He, the God of the universe, loves you. That love is more important than any reward you can ever find in the mirror or from man.
Oh my goodness, what a beautiful note. i am so encouraged. thank you so much 🙂
This is so true and so beautiful. God knows how much we suffer with EDs. When we can no longer carry our cross, he will give us the strength to let it go and heal us forever. xxxxxx
Thanks for this reflection, Kathy. I think you’re right. He loves to heal. Big hugs xox
Thanks so much Kathy. I think you’re right. He loves to heal. Hhb
This was reeeaaallly helpful! thank you for your transparency and your willingness to share details such as these!
hey again Jamie! oh I’m so glad it was helpful! hope you have a great weekend xox
Very good advice beautybeyondbones and yes we do become gold, as we choose to walk in the Fruit of The Holy Spirit we are refined by His Fire which is gentle and Loving..
Blessings – Anne.
thanks so much Anne. Yes! it is gentle and loving, just as a Father should be. hugs xox
What you are doing is both courageous and inspiring. I don’t believe in coincidences. God knows exactly what you need and when you need it. I have been in recovery for decades but, I still struggle with body image. Lately more than usual. It is my thorn in the flesh. I have to choose not to give into those hurtful thoughts and keep pressing forward and become all that God planned me to be. I look forward to reading your posts and joining you in you journey.
Thanks so much for your encouragement. Amen to that. God is good. Hugs and love xox
What an incredibly sane column on such an insane disease. Eating disorders are something I have never had a particular reference to until I quit drinking. At the point I was in my alcoholism, I was eating maybe, 4-5 meals a week and surviving most on the calories of booze while defeating hunger with cigarettes. Shortly before entering treatment, I quit smoking. A year or so after my last drink, I began eating, not a lot, but all the wrong things. Then I started gaining weight. THEN I started freaking out. Now, I am trying to be as rational and proactive as I can. See a doctor, watch what I’m doing, hang with supportive people (you’d be surprised, tho probably not, by the number of well meaning people who just can’t help themselves when it comes to pointing out the issues another may be suffering), set goals, routines, celebrate little victories, and so on. Still. I have a new respect for anyone who was suffering but is now taking back theirselves. Thanks.
Thanks so much for sharing part of your story. Oh gosh, I feel you there with the well meaning people. Me too. Reclaiming ones life is deserving of a victory dance! Thanks for stopping by and for your encouragement. Hugs and love xox
Great article.
Thanks so much! Hugs and love xox
Reblogged this on Sass Queen.
Thanks for the reblog! hugs xo
You should try drinking Forever Aloe Gel . It’s a miracle plant . Just right for this .
Interesting! Thanks! Hugs and love xox
Really an awesome one .Really loved to read .
Thanks so much 🙂 glad you enjoyed it. Hugs and love xox
Your Welcome “beautybeyondbones” .Thanks for precious inputs that keeps me going
🙂 very grateful for you, my friend. hugs xx
Awww Thanks my friend . God Bless You !!!
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Activated charcoal will usually takes care of bloating.
thanks again
Beauty, activated charcoal will usually take care of bloating.
interesting, thank you so much!
Power and health to you as you continue your journey! Thank you so much for sharing.
Thanks so much Deb. I appreciate that. Hugs and love xox
I found your post very interesting. Informative and easy to read.
Thanks for visiting my blog!
Thanks so much! Glad you enjoyed it. Hugs and love xox
[…] I will trust the innate wisdom of my body to adjust to this and I will be patient and compassionate with my healing body. […]
Thanks for the link up! Hugs and love xox
Great post!
Thanks so much! Big hugs xox
Thank you for the like. The two posts I read so far let’s me know you’re going through a process. I will be lifting you up in prayer.
Thank you so much for your prayers and kind words. it means the world! hugs xox
Reblogged this on My ED and Me.
Thanks for the reblog. Xox
Check out my latest Blog ‘No Mirrors at 55″…I think you’ll find it refreshing that I came to terms with physicality…the space that I take up with this body of mine…..Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much. I look forward to it. Hugs and love xox
You have found your inner strength. That loving core of self. As T.S. Eliot once wrote: “We shall not cease from exploration. And the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.” So stay the coarse, it is guiding you on to an amazing path.
Namaste.
Lynn
oh gosh, thank you so much Lynn. I am so grateful your encouragement. You’re right – gotta just stay the course and trust and have patience:) Thanks for stopping by! hugs xox
Food. It does a body good. If I can be of any assistance on your wellness journey, don’t hesitate to reach out.
thanks again 🙂 xo
Hello I am 15 years old in recovery I been eating more and going to therapy but I been so bloated even after eating a small meal when will it go away ? I just want to be a normal teen
Hi Emily, oh gosh sweet girl, I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Hang in there. You’ve chosen freedom and chosen recovery and that is something to be celebrated! You’re on your way! I know this time is rough when your body is readjusting, but keepdoing the next right thing and nourishing with constant goodness. Everything is going to even out beautifully and in all the right places 🙂 in the meantime, just embrace life and all the “normalness” it has to offer. You’re a warrior. And your courage is inspiring! Love you! Xox
This is very informative and well-written.
Thank you so much. I appreciate your kind words. Hugs and love xox
You are amazing. I have been through this too. So happy to have seen your blog. Xo
Thank you so much Anika. I really appreciate the encouraging words. Hugs and love xox
Absolutely beauriful🙂
Thanks so much! Hugs and love xox
Well done you! Tackling a personal subject and your story helps others. Keep going x
thank you so much Karoline! I appreciate that so much 🙂 hugs to you xox
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Thanks for the link up! Hugs and love xox
I really appreciate this post. During my recovery (last two years), I managed to gain 10kg and size out of all the trousers in my closet. This was quite a dramatic increase in my weight and all throughout my recovery I was worried about how I looked and that I was getting fat. It really was my body readjusting from underweight to normal weight when I started eating healthily, but it is difficult to accept the weight gain. I am now finally starting to accept my new look as the healthy me. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Hi friend, thank you for sharing your journey. yeah, that aspect of recovery is hard…really hard, not going to sugar coat it. But slowly, like you’re seeing now, you will come to realize just how truly sick – as in ill – we looked in our disease, and how beautiful a healthy body is. For me, it really helped to realize that when i was in my disease, my appearance actually repelled people and pushed them away — because it was scary. And it made people uncomfortable. Becoming healthy and at a healthy weight, i realized that people became at ease around me, and the more I got my life back and was focusing on goals and school and friends and being social, those lingering things became less and less. i had to look at myself as a whole person — spiritually, socially, mentally, and yes-physically — but the more i viewed myself as more than just my reflection, the easier it got. but you’re so right, that transition phase is hard. and my biggest piece of advice…those old trousers that (are tiny and not meant to be worn by a thriving, gorgeous and healthy woman) **throw them away!** Because if I saw them, i would honestly long to be that size and get in an unhealthy mind set. So my advice, is to get that shiz outta here! 🙂 Shopping was hard for a while, but find a supportive friend or your mom – someone who makes you feel like a rockstar – and go, and just remember that you’re healthy and gorgeous and that there is no “right or wrong” size of pants. 🙂 Sorry to be rambly, i hope this wasn’t too much. but i just feel for you. what oyu’re going through is really hard, and i just want to cheer you on because you’ve chosen life and you’re embracing recovery and that is just so freaking awesome! you’re a rockstar in my book!! 😉 big hugs to you xoxo
Thanks for liking my blog and hope you’re doing ok these days.
Thanks so much Daralynn! big hugs xo
Love what you’ve got going here, and in your life. Keep on keeping on! xxx
Thank you so much! You’re awesome:) Hugs and love xox
This is so helpful. I didn’t get any professional advice about this for years, and I thought it was ‘just me’. Just like every other body-dysmorphic lie: ‘you are uniquely burdened by shame’. Thank you for this space for lots of people to take heart for the journey. God bless. x
I’m so glad this resonated with you and that you found it helpful. stay strong, warrior 🙂 big hugs xo
wooow great post.
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thank you so much! appreciate it. hugs xo
Wonderful write up.
Thank you so much! i appreciate it 🙂 hugs xox
Thank you for sharing about this. So much of this is just unknown to the public and advocates like you are so important. I’ve struggled with addiction and I know the awfulness of it all. Being vulnerable makes you such a role model.
Thanks so much for your kind words. I’m sorry that you’ve had to walk that road. Big hugs to you xox
Great post. although I don’t have an ED I have a few other mental health disorders( BP1 & PTSD) this helped me to understand what the body does for some of my friends who do suffer with the illness. Hang in there it seems u are on the right track.
thank you so much. I’m glad this resonated with you. thanks for stopping by. big hugs xo
I feel like these tips are true for being pregnancy too! 🙂 I am just now in my second trimester. I have not ready gained much weight at all but my abdominal area looks different like everything is a bit moved up and out. I am definitely wearing loose clothing. 🙂
haha oh my gosh that’s funny! and wow congratulations! that’s so exciting 🙂 🙂 Hang in there! Exciting things are about to happen 🙂 big hugs xox
All I can say is, Wow. Very courageous.
Thanks for your article. It’s a great stand of faith on your part to give God the Glory in all things, even restoration after a hospital stay. I’m not a young girl. I’m a fat old bald white guy from Minnesota with serious heart problems, so I too had to recover from a recent hospital stay. It’s a tough thing to have ‘episodes’ where one might not trust the outcome, but I’m here to praise our Lord and give Him the Glory.
Thank you so much for this 🙂 yes to God be the glory! I’m sorry that you’re going through that. I’ll definitely keep you in my prayers. Big hugs xox
Your heart shows through in your kind words. 🙂 Thank you for your positivity and lifting others up through hard times.
Thank you so much 🙂 gosh, that’s so wonderful of you to say. sending so much love 🙂
Thoughtful, brave post. What an inspiration you are xxxx
Thanks so much Becky. I appreciate that so much. Hugs and love xox
Great post and keep fighting. Our children, teens and women need more role models to help them accept and love themselves for who they are. Human beings.
thank you so much! what a kind thing to say. you’re right, we need more positive influences for teens and young ladies. Thanks for stopping by! big hugs xo
Cancer sufferers often have a similar experience. I lost around a third of my body weight in only a few weeks with lymphoma. The recovery also included having to eat to regain the weight. The problems occur when a part of you does not want to eat once you realise you are gaining weight and you do not want to become overweight. At the same time there is a push in the other direction to keep eating because you worry that if you start to lose weight again the cancer will return.
Thank you so much David, for sharing your story. oh my gosh, that is so scary. I’m so glad that you’re doing better now! Thanks for offering this powerful perspective. big hugs xox
Great post! Thanks for sharing to help others.
Thanks so much Dawn! I appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
Great blog.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. Hugs and love xox
Hi
Can I ask how long the bloating lasts for? Really struggling and only on day 2! 🙁
Hi Tracy, thanks so much for your question. Honestly, it is different for every person. It’s not an overnight fix, but hang in there. Keep doing the next right thing. you got this!! hugs xox
Another thing I discovered if I consume bananas when I am hungry, it will cause bloating especially during pregnancy. So I moderate my consumption of bananas
Thanks for that great tip, Samantha! I appreciate you stopping by! Hugs and love xox
I’ve been eating more these past two weeks almost and all I see is my face getting fatter and I don’t know if it’s only me
I think this is the same person, but again, just hang in there. everything is going to even out. refeeding takes some adjustment to the body. but hang in there. just do the next right thing 🙂 i believe in you xo
I’ve been eating more these past two weeks almost and all I see is my face getting fatter and I don’t know if it’s only me
Hang in there my friend. The process is gradual but over time, things normalize. the body takes a readjustment period where it has to get used to receiving adequate nutrients. You’re doing the right thing. Keep at it. Your courage is inspiring 🙂 big hugs xox
Great text girl. Completely true, every word written.
Thank you for it!
Sending positive vibes 🙂 🙂
Thank you so much!! I appreciate it! Hugs and love xox
Hi i’ve been still suffering with this for over a month now and its still not going away:( all i’ve been doing is eating a lot healthier.
Hi Danielle, oh gosh, I’m so sorry to hear that! I would just say to stick with it. It can take several months as the body readjusts. just hang in there. you’re doing awesome! 🙂 big hugs xo
Thank you, have you got any tips on what food to avoid? Also what food is best to eat when hungry?
Thanks, the most healing for me was giving myself permission to eat anything without restriction. Listen and respect what sounds good to you 🙂 and then enjoy 🙂
I haven’t b&p for 10 days now. Trying really hard to eat what I want and have the full fat version of foods. I’m really scared that once I start eating I’m not going to be able to stop and end up 4 times the size I am now.
thank you so much for sharing this, Tracy. way to go on your b/p sobriety!! I’m so sorry that you’ve been battling the b/p cycle. I’m going to be 100% honest with you: much of the bloating is coming from the binging and the purging. If you imagine a pendulum swinging super high one way during a binge, and then the opposite way during the restrictive period afterwards, your body doesn’t trust itself, and so it bloats, not knowing whether it will be “allowed” to use the nutrients and the fluids in the food. An even keel is what the body needs. And the funny thing is, if you allow yourself some of those “binge foods” in moderation, you won’t feel the need to binge on them. They’ll lose that “danger factor” of eating something “naughty.” Because food is food, and it’s amazing the ability the body has to process food. i just want to encourage you, friend. Because that cycle is tough, and you’re 10 days on the wagon and that is something to celebrate!! I believe that you can beat this! I went through a binge cycle – not a purge, but just binge eating, and there is more than just physical hunger at play. So hang in there. you can do it, and the bloating will subside as your body learns to trust that you are going to consistently nourish it with food and liquid. you got this 🙂 hugs xo
Your text is so motivating, it made me tear up. I’m in recovery and bloating is really hard for me to handle, but I’m trying to see it in a positive way, and be proud that I’m stronger than my ED.
Oh my gosh thank you so much Lea. I’m so glad this hit home with you. I’m sorry you’re going through that but amen to that! You ARE stronger than ed! I believe in you!! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for an informative article. So much to know, so much to grow. Learning not to hide while recovering is a step forward.
Thanks Dan, yes! A big step forward indeed. Thanks for stopping by. Big hugs xox
The things worth doing start with a moment and build from there. Don’t try think to far ahead at first. Just keep it simple and take it one step at a time. I know it is often easy to say but harder to do… but remember a pearl starts out as a grain of sand in a clam shell and It isn’t finished in a day either. It to starts with a moment and builds from there.
amen to that. thanks so much
Your journey has been an inspiration
Thank you so much Paula! Hugs and love xox
if you should gain an extra pound, the world is not over. you just have more to love. Let your extra pounds melt away gradually, one pound at a time. While that happens, love those around you and give them healthy foods.
I appreciate your thoughts! Thanks for stopping by. Hugs and love xox
We all have issues. It is refreshing to read an article that offers real help! Thanks.
Amen to that! Thanks so much! Hugs and love xox
Very informative. My sister was and possibly is still Anorexic. I learned much from this post. thank you, jan
Thanks Jan, I’m so sorry that your sister has gone through that and that you too have had to witness ED’s destruction firsthand. Thanks for stopping by. Hugs and love xox
Nice post !! Enjoyed reading it 🙂
Thanks so much! Hugs and love xox
Caralyn, this is an area of life so unfamiliar to me. God is using you at so many levels – to create awareness for people like me, to strengthen those very familiar and struggling, and to give hope as you point to the hope you found in Christ. “Lord, bless Caralyn. Strengthen her. May her words reach those who need them. Fill and refresh those hurting and needing hope. In Jesus ‘ name, amen.
gosh, your encouragement seriously means so much. thank you. I really appreciate this beautiful prayer. Amen 🙂 big hugs xo
I had a hard time reading this not because it wasn’t good but because it brings you back to that time and feeling you almost relive it and it makes you sad you ever put yourself through that..:( you could only wish what you knew now you knew then so you didn’t do so much damage. It’s great to feel like your in your best place yet since recovery and overcoming something so difficult and to be healthy and happy along with actually feeling like you look the way you always wanted. However so hard to think back and still worry about future health problems it caused…I thought you gave some great trips especially with loose clothes I try to dress for comfort with how I am feeling each and every day which I think helps tremendously along with lots of water and being active but yea you really covered an important topic and gave great tips awesome job! Good luck to your friend in recovery I wish her the best <3
Thanks so much for This thoughtful response. I’m so glad this hit home with you. I’m glad the tips resonated with you! Thanks for taking the time to read!! Big hugs xox
Of course! It’s great to have people to relate to and understand what you went through and are able to support one another. Thank you for writing about these things so important not only for people going through it but people who have been and could go through. Hugs back 🙂
You’re right about that!! Thanks again ✨☀️💛☀️✨
What a great post!
Thanks so much friend! Hugs and love xox
Thanks for taking up this subject. As a 68 year-old woman, I constantly fight ageism, which I hate. Beauty is about so much more than outward appearences.
Thanks so much for sharing that Meghan. You’re right! It’s so much more than the outward appearance! Hugs and love xox
There are so many people I know that I wish could hear you and understand the truth in the things you are saying. You are an inspiration to people on both sides of the spectrum. xoxo
Thank you so much friend. Gosh, I am so touched by your kindness. big hugs x
My biggest fear was putting on weight during recovery. Just eating was such a struggle because my mind kept saying it was too much food. Using your support system to help you through is massive. Great post ❤️
I feel you there. Thanks so much for your reflection. Stay strong warrior 🙂 Hugs and love xox
I never got anorexia trying to lose weight on purpose, it just appeared over time by stressful events. i missed out on so many things in my school life, but thanks to supporting family and boyfriend i overcame it but am still struggling with the bloating. What foods causes bloating most?
Thanks so much for sharing this Abi. I’m so glad you were able to overcome it! It was so long ago for me that I don’t specifically remember. I am sorry I can’t be more helpful! Hugs and love xox
Enjoyed reading this. There are not many, who deal in Honesty. You are to be commended.
Thank you for visiting my blog. The best to you and your.
thanks so much. i really appreciate your encouraging words. big hugs x
Hey, BBB, great post. Guess what? Guys deal with bloating too, and it’s just as distracting from our desire to feel good about ourselves. We feel fat, ugly, and lethargic. Love your opening page pic.
Thanks so much Larry for sharing that. Yeah I guess the bloating monster doesn’t discriminate :/ thanks for stopping by. Hugs and love xox
Glad you made it back, Keep smiling because you have a wonderful smile.
oh gosh, thank you so much Dr. George! Hugs and love xox
You make an excellent point. I’ve been wondering about something similar when it comes to artificial sweeteners. Recent results seem to show they are counter-productive for people trying to lose weight for people who actually are overweight. And, although the situation is quite different, there may be a similar feedback loop in play. I think it possible your body (in effect) says something like, “Gee, I ate all this sweet-tasting food and it wasn’t enough! I didn’t get any calories. I’d better eat a lot more in order to get enough.” Even doctors often fail to see that the body is a set of adaptive systems. It isn’t a “machine” at all but has many feedback loops.
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts Peter. Hugs and love xox
Have you seen to ‘To the Bone’? on netflix?
At my lowest I was 105 but I’m 5’4″, so whenever I have to go to the dr for my post-cancer medications I always keep my jacket on. My Dr hated when I was 160 but when I made it to 130 she said “don’t loose any more weight.”
So now I wear my shoes and jacket when i do my weigh in. I know I am not underweight but i struggle with the fear of my Dr changing my meds.
There was an article about how Drs look at weight before anything else.
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/fat-shaming-doctors-office-harm-patients-study-finds-49025799
I guess all it takes is to be strong. You are an inspiration.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I’m sorry that your going through that. Just keep doing the next right thing. I believe in you. Keep nourishing and loving your body. I have seen it. I wrote a post called The Exploitation by To the Bone. Spoiler: I thought it was an awful movie. Sending big hugs xx
Such a heartwarming and beautiful list. Being on the “other side” of some issues, I struggle with losing weight. Weight loss journeys and personal improvement is such a deep, emotional process and you’ve put it into such wonderful words. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps me see things from another perspective.
thanks so much friend. I’m so glad this resonated with you. Hugs and love xox
Bloating can also be the body’s way to protect itself from threatening emotions, especially when you feel vulnerable in a ‘recovery mode’. Sometimes it’s impossible to figure out what is giving your tummy the heebie-jeebies – just trust your body’s reaction to what it perceives as a threat, it’s a healthy reaction! Give it love and say thank you to it for doing a great job of protecting you the only way it knows how. Also, the more you breathe deeply, whenever you face somthing difficult, whether your own emotions or ‘mind attacks’ or something or someone outside of you, the better off you’ll feel. Breathing is an incredible tool for healing and well-being! My hubby teaches breathing methods and he and I have both healed many things thanks to good old Air and Faith. This is a really nice blog! 🙂 https://pierreiieweraspage.wordpress.com/
Thanks so much for this thoughtful response. That’s some great advice. Hugs and love xox
It’s been a few months now since I started throwing up. I don’t like it but I feel so horrible eating. I feel fat and I have to somehow remember that this isn’t who God wants me to be. Great post. I didn’t know this was why my body was behaving funny this month.
Hi friend, thank you for sharing what you’ve been going through. I’m so sorry you’ve been struggling. Hang in there. Nourish your body. Follow your meal plan. By feeding your body consistently and giving it proper nutrition, the bloat will subside. You’re doing the right thing by sticking to your recovery. You’re a warrior and I believe in you. Hugs and love xox
I admire your courage. Recovery isn’t easy to say the least. The first step is acknowledging that you have a problem and then getting the help that you need. For some poor souls, this doesn’t happen. But you … you did it! Keep up the good work one day at a time. Remember, there is no obstacle that you cannot overcome with determination and the help of God. And always know that you are a terrific person in the eyes of God and in anyone who has eyes to see.
Thanns so much David. You’re right – with God all things are possible! Hugs and love xox
Thank you so much for this article. I really needed to read this ❤❤
Thanks so much Krystal. so glad it resonated with you. Hugs and love xox
I just wanted to let you know I have been poking around your blog and I really admire your honesty. Good for you 🙂 God Bless! And you are absolutely right, we are all recovering from something and need to keep that in mind when dealing with our fellow human beings. Congrats on beating ED! Stay strong!
Thanks so much friend. I really appreciate your kind words and encouragement. it means the world. Hugs and love xox
Way to be a voice for those struggling with eating disorders! Glad to know you are in recovery and proactive in your healing journey…
Thanks so much. Hugs and love xox
Pleased to pass your blog along on my Facebook account. I pray that anyone struggling with an eating disorder will stop by and read it. You are doing a great service for others. (And thank you for stopping by my blog, too.)
Thank you so much 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Thank you for pointing a light on this. It’s important to know what recovery looks like. Hang in there, sweet girl.
thanks so much friend. Hugs and love xox
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve always had such a hard time feeling comfortable when eating as much as I actually need to be eating and struggle with body dysmorphia. Knowing I’m not alone in this makes me feel slightly at ease.
thanks so much for sharing your story. You’re definitely not alone. i believe in you 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Today with my therapy we established a full meal plan for the first time. I get anxious when I think about it and even after just one day of increased food I feel super bloated which was only making me more scared. This article is exactly what I needed today, so thank you ❤️
Thanks for sharing that! I’m so proud of you for taking that awesome step! Hugs and love xox
Thank-you so much for this, you have answered alot of scary questions in my head and gave me piece of mind. Lots of positivity & love 🙂
Thanks so much Em. Hugs and love xox
This post was so raw and real!! It drives home the fact that these issues are real and answers so many unasked questions.
Thanks so much!! Hugs and love xox
I used to care for teen girls in a boarding school, and every year we had at least one girl going into an eating disorder, or trying to recover from one. Wish we’d had your blog to show them some hope from someone on the same journey!
Oh gosh that just breaks my heart. Thanks for your kind words. Hugs and love xox
I loved reading your story …. Thank you for sharing. x
aw, thank you so much!! i appreciate you taking the time to read! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for liking my video poem “Today I’m Depressed”. I love your writing. And I, too, suffered from an eating disorder in high school. I’m still dealing with the fallout 32 years later. <3
Thanks ginger. I feel ya. Sending so much love.
This post certainly resonates with me. Thank you!
aw thanks so much. so glad it hit home with you! Hugs and love xox
Extremely well written article filled with truth about bloating and restoring. This truth is so important for those who suffer from ED and are going through the restoring process. It’s also important to note that those who suffer from ED are not only females, but males as well. Thanks so much for sharing. <3
thank you so much friend. i really appreciate your encouraging words. you’re right, it impacts everyone. hugs x
Hi,
I’m really glad that you connected with my ‘Truth is…’ blog site, as that’s meant I’ve discovered yours!
I too, am recovering from an e.d. and what you write makes a lot of sense. I especially like your ‘Truth about bloating in recovery’ – it’s full of really helpful advice 🙂
Thanks so much. I really appreciate it! Hugs and love xox
Thank you for sharing your journey and great tools for recovery. I still struggle with body image and disordered thinking around eating. Following you will certainly aid in my continuing wellness journey. Love, Lyn xo
Thanks so much Lyn. Hugs and love xox
Well done. I had a friend who did die with anorexia, her lungs collapsed, again, and this time she didn’t recover
Such a waste of lovely wonderful human being.
Oh my gosh I am so incredibly sorry to hear that. How devastating. Hugs xox
Thank you for authentically sharing! I have found in my own struggles that walking in close relationship to Jesus – prayer, reading my Bible, and attending church services helps me tremendously. You are beautiful and are worthy of recovery!!
thank you so much friend. I really appreciate that. God is good 🙂 hugs xox
Inspiring and awareness.
Thank you so much. Hugs and love xox
Beautiful article , very inspiring. Never give up on your journey even through the tough parts. Bless you.
Thank you so much 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Thank you SO much, I needed to hear this. I started recovery as an UP for about a week ago, and I blost like crazy. I have been FREAKING OUT and hating my body more than I ever did, but it us such a relief to hear that it is only temporarily and will go away. Thanks for making me feel better and not trigger a relapse. 🙂
I’m so glad this resonated with you. Thanks for your kind words. Praying for you friend. You got this babe 💪
So this marks the first time you include pictures of yourself in the posts. I like that. While your recent posts include that, anyone going through this part of the journey will be able to put a face to the voice as well. Not that’s it difficult, but you do have a kind smile that shines in a genuine fashion to show display the love of Jesus. 🙂
aw, thank you Derek. Yeah, perhaps I should share one earlier. Honestly, I didn’t really think people would read it, so I haven’t gone back and jazzed them up with pictures, but perhaps I should take a second look at doing that. 🙂 I was also thinking about putting these all together in a book. I’d love to know if you think that’d be worthwhile. 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Would this be something separate from your current book? Would it include more personal accounts of what you defeated? History is written by the victor, and the enemy needs to be seen. Or do you mean the pictures? I don’t think any one would mind seeing pictures of you placed in a book either haha
Bottom line: I think any book written from a place to help people from a personal place is always worthwhile. I love a good story. Stories are my niche, despite my proficiency being fiction/fantasy. I love a good personal story, so I would love to read a autobiography once you feel like you could engage in one. I don’t want you to revisit moments that would cause a triggering effect, but I also think people need to see darkness to realize how bright your light really is. Food for thought.
Thank you Derek. Definitely something to think about 🙂
As a recovering Bulimic, I struggled with bloating for many years. I had used booze to self medicate (drink my dinner so I wouldn’t have to binge/purge) and it was just an awful situation. I finally managed to get the bloating under control once I stopped binge drinking but binge eating/drinking go hand and hand (at least for me) thank you for sharing. I love your blog.
thanks so much for sharing your story. Your strength is truly inspiring 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Good work you are doing. Our culture has put forth a false image of how someone is “suppose to look”. When you buy into this myth it can lead to eating disorders. Keep up the good work.
thanks so much Larry – you’re so right about that. Hugs and love xox
Love this, will pass on to clients struggling with similar issues. I am constantly battling with how to best support clients with Eating Disorders and I do believe that support from those who are battling and doing well is key as well as correct treatment at the start of the process of course. Would you consider allowing me to add you as a guest blogger to my Eating Disorder awareness site here in Cape Town?
Thank you so much. I really appreciate you passing this along! Sure thing 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Thank you so much for this. I’ve recently been experiencing the bloating after having begun to eat healthy amounts of food for recovery and it’s been giving me a bit of anxiety. I decided to look into it a bit and was lucky enough to end up here <3
Hey Bea! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m sorry to hear that you been dealing with bloating. Hang in there. You’re doing the right thing. You got this 🙂 Hugs and love xox
It looks to me like you are doing incredible work with your blog and in your life!!! I applaud you! You are amazing! 🙂
Oh gosh thank you so much. Hugs and love xox
Love this, well done
Thank you so much Susie. Hugs and love xox
Very good advise for those who are struggling. Thank you for reading my blog and hope you will continue to do so.
Blessings from Nancy at Boyer Writes
Thank you so much Nancy. I appreciate your kind words. Hugs and love xox
Great article. I suffered from anorexia in my early 30’s. Wish you had been around then, though with the support; of a wonderful doctor and friends I was able to get back on track fairly quickly. Bless you and others who have struggled with any stress-related illness.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m sorry that our pasts connect us, but I’m so glad that you’re doing well! Thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox
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Thank you so much for this post!
But I still have a question, how long is it going to take for the bloating to go away? Because I started recovering 5 months ago and I still get bloated, of course not as much as when I first started, am I doing something wrong? ❤
Hi Lucia, thank you for your question. Yeah, it can definitely take a while. It did for me. For me, I would bloat when I still wasn’t eating enough. This is definitely the hardest part of the recovery process. hang in there warrior. You’ve got this. Hugs and love xox
Very interesting and informative article!
Thank you 🙂 Hugs and love xox
So glad I found this post! Will share it with someone I know who is struggling with ED. Thank you for all the clarity on a difficult subject!
Thank you friend. I pray it helps and encourages them! Hugs and love xox
Wow, this is lovely
thank you friend Hugs and love xox
Awww, you’re welcome dearie. Awesome thoughts!
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This illuminated an astonishing amount of the nitty-gritty medical details about anorexia and recovery for me; a real eye-opener. You describe it so clearly and thoroughly and compassionately, and though I’ve never struggled with it myself, I know those who have. I feel much better equipped to encourage people on this journey now. Thank you. <3
Thank you. Gosh you’re on a reading roll! But seriously, I’m so glad this she’s some light on this very misunderstood disease! Thank you for reading and caring and seeking to understand 🙂 Hugs and love xox
You have a fantastic blog! Worth digging into. 🙂 Thanks again, and also thanks for visiting my site!
Gosh thank you so much! Hugs and love xox
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I love your strength
My monster is Hemeplegic Migraines Disease (HM)
Specifically – Familia Hemeplegic Migraines – female dominate
(FHM)
It is a genetic glitch in several genetic points
I have it (58yo) my daughter (38yo) and her daughter – my grand daughter (18yo)
I am adopted with no family medical history so we can look forward but not back
I have a couple of posts on it on my blog
There is no magic pill – they aren’t just headaches – one of my biggest triggers is low weather fronts Big Help there
I agree with your comments on Richard Simmons – the number of lives he touches – go on into today and tomorrow
This left over hippie needs some help coping with a body that still goes forward – just not as easy anymore
Gosh thank you so much Dori. I appreciate you sharing your story. I’m so sorry that you’ve had to deal with that. I will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers. Sending so much love and hugs xox
Beautifully written. I struggled with Bulemia for over 10 years, it’s still a daily choice guided by tons of prayer. You’re helping a lot of people, way to go!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m with ya – prayer is a staple of recovery! Big hugs to you xox
My dear, you came back. I was concerned. Thank you for the “like” and Hope it somehow resonated with your spirit. Blessings – David.
Thank you for this beautiful encouragement David. It means so much. Hugs and love xox
Good for you for reaching out to others who’ve been where you were. Keep going. You’re reaching an audience that needs encouragement.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Hugs and love xox
Hey Girl, I have always heard from my Mom since my childhood that starving makes you even fatter, though I always believed every single word of her, now I know why is that so. Good that now I have a written article to share with my friends who are starving to loose weight.
Keep writing & keep sharing the knowledge! All the best!
That’s definitely true. Thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox
So touched by your truth and transparency! My oldest daughter was anorexic. I wish I would have seen something like this back then. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I’ve gone through weight loss surgery. I so appreciate when people are open about their truth and reality and let God use that to encourage others!
Hi, (Sorry I do not know your name)
Thanks for sharing with everyone on your journey and struggles. I have been reading a lot of documentation about it, but could not conclude/relate that the problem definitely relates with it. Kept somewhat thinking that it should be other reasons.
Not that I suggesting that the information is incorrect, but I just could not link them together.
Beautifully put! Thanks for stopping by my blog today. I was surprised to find this post. Someone who’s been where I’ve been! I remember the bloat. There’s one picture of me walking on the beach next to my dad. The bloat is very evident in it. I gained about 50 pounds in six months once I started eating again. Everything evened out eventually but it’s crazy to think what I used to do to myself. It’s been ten years now and I’m just now starting to trust myself to exercise safely.
Thanks friend for sharing your story. You are so strong💛 rock on warrior. Hugs and love xox
Hello! I just entered the refeeding stage about a week ago and it’s been rough (both mentally and physically). I’m doing inpatient at a hospital so I’ve been working with a nutritionist for meal planning and all that stuff. I’ve been bloated for the majority of the time and this article really made me feel better. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU SO MUCH! I do want to ask, about how many weeks do you believe it’ll take for the bloating to go away?
Hang in there Samantha. You’re a rock star and I’m cheering for you. The bloating will subside. (Prob around 2-3 weeks, everyone is different.) You’re reclaiming your life and that is something to celebrate!!
Thank you for this. So informative, yet sensitively written. I will be praying for you.
thank you so much Ro! i appreciate that. Hugs and love xox
I really like this post. It was very informative to me. Our struggles may be different, but they are still so much the same.
Thank you Alicia! Hugs and love xox
how long does bloating take to go down for you? i only restricted for a month dont know if that makes a difference
Thanks Nicole. It’s different for everyone, but it will with continued and adequate nutrition. 🙂 hang in there. I believe in you!! Hugs and love xox
how long did you have an eating disorder? jw if it effects bloating time
About 2 years
you’re really sweet thank you for replying so quickly!
you’re so welcome 🙂 x
thanks for your advice. keep it up. keeping you in my prayers.
Thank you for your prayers, it seriously means the world! hugs ox
Take care… you are special to HIM. He loves you in a personal way…
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Hello!!! I’m eating a normal amounts of food about 2 years, but I’m always bloating, after I eat breakfast my belly is a ballon, I still to control my weight is true but after 2 years of eating normal I can’t undestand if I’m always bloated because my anorexia “past” or can be another reason.
Kiss
Hi Diana, thank you for your question – I definitely dealt with this for a while, and for me, it turned out that I actually wasn’t eating enough! it is absolutely so counter-intuitive — it’s like, I’m bloated, why would I eat more?! — But that’s precisely what helped – the consistent, *adequate* nutrition and it worked itself out. Keep nourishing your body. I know how frustrating it is. But you’re doing the absolute right thing for yourself, and I hope you can hear me cheering for you as you embrace recovery!!! sending the biggest hug. Hang in there. xoxo
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Thanks 🙂 Hugs and love xox
Awesome, blog and nicely descried each thing..
Thank you so much! Hugs and love xox
Kudos for your positive thinking. Keep up the good work!
Thank you Anna! Hugs and love xox
Although I just see this article 4 years later, I would like to share a bit of help to anyone with eating or body-image issues:
medical:
In traditional Chinese medicine (TCM), bloating is a sign of a lack of spleen-energy which together with the stomach is responsible for transforming food.
The problem with dieting in order to look slim is that most deprive themselves of vital energy and slow down their metabolism so they create a catch 22 situation in which they only can loose more, if they deprive themselves further.
The solution there is not to cut out everything, but only the crap like sugar for example, but meanwhile keep the center energy strong.
spiritual:
A strong center is not only beneficial for digestion, but for being centred, so bloating on a mental level is equivalent to worrying – another factor which is crucial in ones self-image:
There is much to much concern about the perception others have about us and a strong center brings us back to our middle (medium in latin), so the best MEDIcine is being in ones own center. The best way to accomplish that is to MEDItate regularly.
religious:
And since this is a religious blog, I want to add that there often is a misunderstanding that being faithful and humble would ensure the bliss of the lord; but that thinking actually can draw one away from oneself into a state of sacrificing ones own destiny for the sake of imposed ethics.
A much more constructive approach is to drop the authoritative image of god and replace it with the divine within which flows through each of your cells. This way very religious people as well as agnostics can benefit from it.
The deeper one travels inside the more of god is revealed and this then explains miraculous healings such as the catholic Bruno Gröning was able to perform.
(there are 3 parts about “the phenomenon bruno groening” on youtube)
Not only miracles are possible when aligning ones center with the divine,
but also a long forgotten self-love arises which renders all external dissatisfactions irrelevant.
“Love your neighbour as yourSELF” <3
Thanks for sharing this info. Hugs and love xox
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I am always so touched by your sharing of yourself, and your insecurities. Your passion to love others and to share hope that you have found in the Lord Jesus Christ, and the tools you have in your recovery are so needed. I know as a recovering alcoholic that it is important to remember where you have come from, in order to keep moving forward. Many Christians fail to remember that they were living a life controlled by the shame of their past sins, locked in a losing struggle against their own isms. It is our remembrance of what the Lord has delivered us from that keeps us looking to him for our hope in salvation. Thanks for caring enough to share yourself. You have a beautiful and lovely heart in Christ.
Gosh thank you for this beautiful encouragement. It really means a lot 🙂 and you’re so spot on – it is vitally important to remember where you come from to keep moving forwards – I love how you put that. So glad you stopped by , and I really appreciate you sharing your story. Hugs and love xox
I have found that enzymes and probiotics work well for me for that horrible bloating feeling. I’m wondering if anybody else uses those? Bless you for this fantastic blog.
Thank you so much Jane for this great advice!! Hugs and love xox
You really had nothing to worry about as you look amazing today. Looking over the comments it is apparent your blogs are appreciated and needed. Keep up the good work. It’s a needed ministry.
Thank you Ian, I so appreciate that!!! Have a wonderful night! Hugs and love xox
Hi I was wondering. with eating disorder recovery, has anyone experienced the swelling of one whole leg? like one leg feeling bigger than the other?
Hi friend, thank you for your question. I have personally dealt with swelling of the ankles due to edema – which I know can effect the legs. But I have not experience just one leg. But yes – this is fluid retention – and it’s important to consult your doctor to ensure your vitals are healthy. Cheering for you and your recovery! Hugs and love xox
You have a beautiful website, and a wonderful subject that
is so important to address, may you be Blessed!
Thank you so much Donna, I appreciate that. Hugs and love xox
A lovely website addressing such a difficult illness,
thank you for sharing to help all of us with
our recovery!
Thank you so much!! Hugs and love xox
Thanks for the like Merry Christmas
no prob! merry christmas! Hugs and love xox
Well written article. Merry Christmas
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thank you so much Kingsley. Hope you had a great Christmas! Hugs and love xox
My stomach is still protruding and I’ve be out of treatment for almost 2 years now… I’m really frustrated that it hasn’t gone down and don’t know what to do.
Hi April, thank you for sharing your journey, i am so sorry that you’re going through that. I am not a doctor, so all I can offer is my own personal experience. BUT – i will say that I was afraid of fat for a long time, and as a result ate a nearly no fat, vegan diet. And this resulted in having to consume a lot of raw veggies and fruit, and due to the sheer volume i had to eat, i too had a protruding stomach. It wasn’t until i introduced “higher calorically dense” foods into my diet — things like avocado, nut butters, eggs, fish, OIL!!!! (Oh my gosh oil is the elixir of life!) But when i introduced those into my diet — while continuing to eat THREE meals a day, meeting my nutritional needs, only then did my bloating subside. Additionally, there were other periods of my recovery where i was only eating one huge meal, or still staying at a calorically deficient standard and then bingeing every couple days…and THAT really REALLY negatively effected my bloating…because my body didn’t trust me. I’m not saying that either of those scenarios are you!!! (just btw 🙂 ) I’m just sharing my experience. I’m sorry that you’re having to deal with that. this is where the rubber meets the road in recovery. My first suggestion – other than seeing your doctor — would be to increase your fat intake. I would say that now, 70% of my diet is from fat…which sounds like a lot, but it has made ALL the difference! 🙂 hang in there April!!! Hugs and love xox
Thanks so much for the follow and your likes we so appreciate you.
absolutely! thanks! Hugs and love xox
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