YOUR TURN

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Quarantine Day 46, NYC

Tonight’s post is a little different. And I’m really excited about it 🙂

As a country and a world, no one has ever experienced anything like this pandemic before. We are pioneers. Truly. Dressed in day-old athleisure, and armed with Lysol – setting out into the vast unknown of Zoom interfaces and digital birthday parties.

We are survivors. And as with any adversity, we always come out the other side not only having grown tremendously, but also having learned a whole heck of a lot about ourselves, about others, about what matters, what doesn’t matter, etc.

It shifts our perspective in a permanently life-altering way.

SO — my question to you, is what have you learned?

What has this quarantine taught you?

Do you have a surprising love for cooking? A hidden talent for a musical instrument? Do you enjoy video calls more than you thought? Have you and a significant other found that you both like sci-fi movies?

What about your relationships? Have you seen different creative sides of your children? Or an admirable quality in your significant other? How has it impacted your faith? Or where you find security?

Share in the comments what you’ve learned!

And on Thursday I’ll be highlighting some really interesting responses!

We never know how strong we are, until being strong is our only option.

Stay well, and I’ll see ya in the comments section!

xoxo Caralyn

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  5. My dear Caralyn,

    Good questions!

    Here is my response:

    This is the first time in mankind’s history that all nations and people are involved in this pandemic matter – in theory we can learn a lot but much more when experiencing such situation ourselves. I found that this gave me time to think over many things that I have ignored due to a lack of time in the rush of the everyday life. To think about what role man really plays. Why we react with hate and anger in so many situations of our lives, why to judge people who we do not know. Or what is the relationship about towards ourselves and God – are we really so honest as we claim to be? In each person there is good and bad – let us see the good in him or her, not to see just the mistakes. We are first all human beings, no matter which skin colour we have, where we come from, which religion we belong to as we are all born the same way and have to leave the same way. The rebel in us is our mind – which is like a chameleon: in one second we can laugh, next we cry or are angry – this is because we all are under control of this working mind in us. So we have to learn to understand our own thoughts, words and deeds – there is always a motive behind: is it a selfish motive, do we want applause and acknowledge from others, do we do something just to act and pose? This all lives inside us and causes problems from man to man, from country to country, from religion to religion as the root of all what is bad lies in ourselves, but also our good characteristics – so when diving in ourselves, deep enough, we will learn to understand us better, to understand the mind in us better. In doing so, we will become more conscious and aware of all the tricks the mind is playing with us. The coronavirus gives us now the opportunity to improve our own life, to become a better person, not a person that is always doing and acting for itself, but a person that is ready to help other people, even without being proud of it. In bad times we learn to help each other unconditionally, selflessly, and we also become aware that we all sit in the same boat, we share the same air, get the same sunshine, share the same home, our planet earth. Why can’t we forget to think only of ourselves and start to live and do for others, to live and do for the same God (which we call only with different names – but He in fact is the Nameless One). Love indeed unites while hate, anger, greed, ego, mind, attachment separates us. Isn’t it now the highest to time learn? To follow the path of love and sharing for the good of humanity? And when we are honest enough we will see that our whole society system does not go the right way: it is ego-oriented, greed-oriented, money-oriented packed in material wishes. We need new strong values for our society: help and be helped, honour, respect, love and understanding, not sex and crimes shown in films, not violence presented in games for our youth as the younger generation follows the ideals of the society. And these ideals are rotten, full of poison – we need a change for the better and this change starts with every single person who is willing to bear responsibility. Actions speak louder than words! This time is a time of contemplation for all of us, to go within and find what we can improve. An avalanche can be triggered just by tiny stones… as every major change has its beginning in tiny changes… We can all benefit from this coronavirus as it teaches us: that we are all human beings in Him, so let us treat us also as human beings and not like tyrants, power-hungry and selfish people to control others, looking away from own mistakes.

    We cannot change others by words, but by deeds we can become living examples. Are we ready to change ourselves?

    My lesson I have learnt during this isolation: to become more honest, more conscious of my thoughts, deeds and words, to follow the way of serving man and as in each man God is living, to follow the way of serving God.

    May the whole world come out stronger and better and that we all treat us as true brothers and sisters in Him.

    All good wishes to everyone
    Didi

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    1. Hi Didi, thank you so much for this thoughtful response and for sharing your heart. i agree – one of the biggest blessings has been having the luxury of TIME – time to think, to pray, to communicate. it’s a beautiful thing. very inspired by this response. stay well! hugs x

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  6. ♡ Now, I KNOW!!! You Don’t Like Me and NOW!!! You ARE Gonna Like Me Even Less; as a Group We Kadmon Humanoid Etheric Templates have been around for Many Millennia so to say This is The Worst Ever Situation Demonstrates a Lack of Desire to Research Our Development from The Dawn of LadyKind (Lucy?), that some call Mankind (Adam?), to The Present Day

    …♡♡♡…

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  7. I’m very grateful because I finally found the courage to blog. It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a very long and now I’m doing it. My blog has also given me a way to connect with my dad, who is elderly and trapped inside. He calls me almost everyday to chat about it. I love these calls with my father, and truth be told I’ve neglected our relationship for many years and now I look forward to talking to him every day. Also, through my blog I found your blog, and I’m grateful for that. I love your words and message. Finally, because the world has been given the gift of time, I am connecting more with family and friends through phone calls and Zoom calls. I have spoken so much with my family and friends in the past month; it’s been a joy. This quarantine is certainly challenging and so sorrowful, but I also see the grace in it. It’s forced our world to slow down – literally. It’s forcing people to reconnect and allowing our planet to heal. The good Lord doesn’t bring strife but goodness within it. We need to find the goodness and allow ourselves to be blessed and bathe in it.

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    1. Hi Judith, thank you for sharing that! oh that is so awesome! blogging is definitely a therepeutic exercise these days! and it sounds like you and your dad are having a very special and healing connection. that’s so wonderful. i’ll be praying for you all! stay well! hugs oxox

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    1. Hi friend! thank you so much for sharing that. that’s so aweomse – yeah communication comes in all forms, and always a blessing! hugs xox

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  9. What was reinforced for me over and again, is that we, as human beings are meant for community. We are not meant to be alone. When God created Eve and introduced the two of them Adam’s response is the best one liner ever, “here at last is flesh of my flesh, and bone of my bone!” Someone I can be intimate with, and I don’t mean in the physical sense, although this certainly, clearly, dynamically happened. I do mean in the sense that we can share who we are with this person, without reservation and fear. My Sweetie moved to another state for a new job right at the beginning of lent and about 3ish weeks before the shelter-in-place directives happened. I was fine for the first several weeks of this with.

    The other thing is that we all have free-will, that was clear. Beyond the needs for going out to get food (I needed to do this a couple of times) and boxes (again…). Some were going out when they could simply for the need of company. I keep thinking of the loneliness of the Cross when Jesus says, “I thirst”, his thirst was for souls as we know he wasn’t alone with his Mom and the beloved disciple there. There was a loneliness for the physical company of people that couldn’t be satisfied by video calls.

    I also watched a good number of people of faith live in absolute fear. I know from my own reaction after being absolutely alone for 5 weeks that my response was fear based. Fear of being without my husband for a much longer period of time was almost beyond what I could endure. The fear though of death, the fear of contracting this disease, the fear fed by the news cycles, the fear of (insert fear here). I know deep down that my soul is not ready to meet God. There are physical things I must do and it’s not simply going to Confession/Reconciliation. I need to LIVE.

    One of the most beautiful witnessed that you give is that of Living the life God gives you. That is the beauty I see beyond your physical self, that you LIVE. That this virus, or any situation that we’re in calls us to anything, if there is anything we are to learn about this it is to Live in Christ. To LIVE fully and completely whatever that means for us as unique, never to be repeated human beings. Living the Life God gave us, seeking the peace of living in His will, seeking the peace that no matter what happens living as though we are fully, and completely loved.

    To LIFE!

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    1. Hi Teri, wow, thank you so much for this thoughtful response. i am so moved by your words. Yes! we are meant for community – that has been made so crystal clear. also – our need to depend on God! And wow, i am so touched by your kind words — thank you my friend. Praying for you! stay well! hugs xo

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    2. Hi Teri, I just read your response again, and it didn’t hit me the first time that you’re having to quarantine without your husband. Gosh, i am just so sorry to hear that. Being alone in quarantine as well, I definitely feel your pain in needing that physical connection that simply cannot be satisified by a video call. Hang in there, my dear friend. I am praying for you. As the country is beginning to open up, is there any chance you’ll be able to visit to see him? Love you friend. hugs xox

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      1. thank you Caralyn. Tuesday of Holy Week he flew back to NY. We finished packing up the house on Holy Saturday and left Easter Monday. So…we’re together. We’ve been in self-isolation/quarantine (going out only for food) since we arrived here. He gets to go back to work tomorrow on the feast of St. Joseph the Worker. The Sisters will be so happy to have him back and then I get to do some sewing and other work.
        The funny thing is, throughout our 27+ year marriage we’ve joked about giving each other up for Lent. Well…we kinda did. HA! God has a sense of humor, that’s for sure. The last two weeks have been so beautiful.
        You have the sweetest heart.

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      2. Oh praise God, I’m so glad to hear that!! Haha oh gosh – a sense of humor indeed 🙂 love you!

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    1. Hi Jim! thank you for sharing that! yes!! i thrive with a schedule as well! and yes, i am a little toooooo comfortable with the homebody life hahah hugs xo

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  11. I didn’t realize how much I missed talking on the phone to friends and family. Texting and FB messenger are ok but it’s nice to hear known voices! I’m a nurse so I’ve been working in a different area (covid, icu) and it’s nice getting to know new people but it’s even nicer chatting with familiar voices!!

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    1. Hi Rachel! thank you so much for sharing that! i’m with ya! i always thought i hated talking on the phone, but it turns out i actually love it! I eve crave facetimes! and gosh – THANK YOU for being on the front lines of this battle. YOU ARE A HERO AND I SALUTE YOU!!!!! i’m praying for you! big big hugs xo

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  14. What have I learned from the current (and ongoing) situation? Hmmm. Well, when you work from home, as I do, ALL the time, “stay-at-home/work-at-home” orders don’t affect you too much–until you need or want to go somewhere. Such as the library or a library’s archive room. That has been my frustration so far with libraries closed and my needing to do research there. But I’ve learned to keep busy in other ways. I’ve learned that if I am tuned in to media all the time, all the media hysteria does nothing but create worry, so I watch TV for local news only and get my national/world news online from trusted, reliable sources, not MSM. Not only does it leave me worry free but also gives me more time to do what I should be doing all along–working on my research and writing. My wife is a second-grade teacher, and I’m learning about all the new technology she’s having to use to continue teaching her little munchkins that I’m glad I don’t have to learn! (You CAN teach an old dog new tricks, but it sure is hard on the old dog!) It’s given me a greater appreciation for all she does for those kids, but I sure miss having her while she’s starting her work in the wee hours of the morning and working until late at night. Thankfully, here in SC we have only about 2-3 more weeks of school left before summer break, so I’ll soon have my wife back! And I’m resting in the knowledge that God is still in charge and I’m not, and He knows what He’s doing even when I don’t. That knowledge makes it easier to sleep at night or go through the day that follows. I’ve enjoyed reading your posts during this ordeal. Stay healthy, and keep looking upward!

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    1. Thanks so much for sharing that! yeah i have so much respect for how teachers ahve had to adapt on the fly like that! amen – God is in charge! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  15. I have gained more appreciation for all the little things I took for granted before.
    2. I have also learned that the world goes in a circles. When some people are suffering, some others are smiling and vice verse. The odds change constantly.
    3. I took up playing piano too
    4. I learnt to pay better attention to people and check in more often.
    5. Finally, I learnt that family is everything. They would always be with us in absence or presence.
    💙

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    1. oh wow this is such a powerful list! i love it, thanks for sharing! yes! family is everything! Hugs and love xox

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  16. I have also learned about my passion for blogging and connecting with others during this lockdown. I have always been shy but I have found a way to meet awesome friends like you through this platform.

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    1. yes! that’s so great! yeah, connecting with others – even digitally – is so important! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  17. Where to start Caralyn. As far as faith goes, I’ve learned that there is only one thing that matters; am I in a state of grace? I can run to the top of the mountains proclaiming God this and Jesus that but if my soul is not in a state of grace, it’s all for nothing. I’ve seen the ugly side of Catholicism during this time and to put it bluntly, it sucks! But I trust that there is a reason that God wants me to see it. Which leads me to the next thing I’ve learned. When you place you trust in man, man will let you down. I’ve placed my trust in priests, deacons, self-proclaimed Catholic evangelist only to be let down time and time again. My focus has turned solely on the Crucifix for that is where the Catholic faith resides. Don’t get me wrong; there are a few priests out there who still make a difference, who still proclaim the words of Christ, the truth. It is they who I feel are saints among us.

    On a personal note, my business may not survive this shut down but this is where my faith comes in. My faith in God is the most important part of my life. That is how I know that whether our business remains open after it’s all said and done or we close our doors for good, God has my back.

    My prayers to you and everyone who reads this. May God keep you all safe, may the precious blood of Jesus cover you all and protect you from all evil out there, and may he lift you up in times of despair, amen.

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    1. Hi John! thanks so much for sharing your perspective. oh i’m so sorry to hear that. yes – the Catholic church – as will all churches, are run by humans, and no human is perfect – only Jesus. And therefore, churches will always have some issues. but you’re right – we place our trust in Christ. I’ll be praying for your business, i’m sorry to hear that! this is such a difficult time for so many. hang in there! Hugs and love xox

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  18. This time has allowed me to self-reflect and write more, which has been nice! I’ve learned so much more about the world of blogging! At the same time, there has been a lot of fear with everything going on in the world. When I’m worried, I look to God. I think one of the most important things I’ve learned is to have faith, especially in times of uncertainty.

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    1. Hi Rachel, thank you so much for sharing that ! yes! looking to Him in times of trouble is truly the best way to go 🙂 praying for you! Hugs and love xox

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  19. I’m learning what matters most. Wedding plans may change, but the wedding isn’t what matters. I’m after the marriage, so even if it’s not what I have planned, it’ll be beautiful. At the end of the day, I’ll be spending forever with the one I love, and that’s all that really matters.

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    1. Thanks so much Elizabeth – oh gosh, i’m so sorry this has impacted your wedding plans. gosh, my heart goes out to you. that’s such an important and powerful perspective you have. thats. the. truth!! sending you so much love!!! hang in there! Hugs and love xox

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  20. It has been a special time…

    I have been doing some academic writing, toward my first book. So, my mind has been occupied. Much, much more than I want. I look forward to completing the book, and to moving on to other things…

    Relationships… yes, wow… and it means being steady in faith, and yes also… changes to where I find security…

    Keep well,

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      1. Yes, I have two more weeks to complete the book on Rom 1. 🤨 I started it in mid-2018…

        And, small steps…

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  21. Doing more writing and praying for sure, along with studying and reading more. Time to think more and more space to do it in. Also enhancing hope and faith during this troublesome time. This will be a true life lesson for us all.

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    1. thanks so much for sharing that! yeah i love how this has allowed more time for reflection! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  22. Since being quarantined with both my mother and grandmother, we have so many more jokes and laughter together more days than I had imagined before. It is a lot more fun at my home. 🙂

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  23. Me and my hubby have grown closer to each other. 😊 Perhaps the lack of stress from work is the r,eason behind the added laughter and good vibes that have been felt throughout my home. I’ve truly enjoyed this close time with my family. 💕

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    1. oh that is just so wonderful! I love that 🙂 so glad you’ve been enjoying the time together! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  26. Its built relationship with family – at home with my wife and children, but also with those I can’t see. You realise all the things taken for granted.

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  27. I have learned to slow down and truly appreciate what I have. I have been taking more time simply playing on the floor with my little one. We pray with her every night and I have felt a lot of my anxieties go away. 💗 I also have been baking again and love it!

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    1. Thank you so much Carly! that’s so beautiful – you’re right, it’s allowed the beautiful luxury of time to spend with those we love! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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      1. Indeed, hanging as the suspense builds! Can I take it? Of course I can, what choice do I have after-all! But, what it comes down to is faith in Him, He has this all covered for sure! Big Hugs!

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  29. I learned that even though I’m an introvert, I need people more than I thought. I miss that connection more than I would have expected.

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    1. Thanks for sharing that, Stephanie. That is definitely a lesson I have been learning too! hang in there my friend! Hugs and love xox

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  30. Caralyn!!!
    Oh almost forgot, I love Sci-Fi movies, biggest part of my collection aside from Adventure ones like Brave Heart and a few Epic War movies.! When I was a kid that was a pastime of mine drawing robots and monsters or making my own sound effects of them! But, don’t most geeks! 🙂 I’ve been caught up in them over the last few days too!
    Thank you again. 🙏 🤩
    Lawrence

    Big Hugs OOX

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      1. Isn’t it though! Glad you mentioned it Caralyn!
        So many awesome ones to choose from too, doesn’t matter how many times I’ve seen some of them, always fun for me! As a kid I would sit with the family watching one and practically narrate the upcoming scary or thrilling part as it approached, even to my siblings cries of; quiet you’re going to spoil it, LOL! 🤣 👍 🙏 🙏

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  31. My sisters and I discovered Marco Polo which allows us to leave short video messages for each other. It has been great to see their faces and hear their voices, fun and encouraging!

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    1. oh that’s so fun! i’ve heard great things about that ap!! i may have to check it out! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  32. Oh, I have learned quite a lot when thinking of it. Patience, the value of Zoom and online courses, finding joy in the small things, how much I value my colleagues (haven’t met for a long time) and how great God is that carries through all waters.

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    1. finding the joy in the small things – YES! I love that so much 🙂 and amen amen amen – God carries us through ALL waters!! thanks for sharing that! Hugs and love xox

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  33. Hi Caralyn!

    What a perfect post. I’ve loved seeing so many responses.

    As someone who is an ambivert and has Generalized Anxiety Disorder, I was initially very unsettled about working from home. I said many prayers! Then, I bucked up, finally cleaned out my home office space, bought my dream sit-stand desk, and have grown to actually enjoy working at home. I say enjoy loosely, knowing that so many are on the front lines and continue to be vulnerable. Example: My sister-in-law graduates from nursing school in a week. She’s been hired to work at the same hospital system where she’s completed her clinicals. We are thrilled that she has a job right out of the gate, but it’s a strange time to celebrate. With that said, I have also learned to listen to the birds in my yard, slow down, and just be in the moment with my husband and our dogs. I’ve also helped my parents navigate their smartphones, the worlds of Zoom and Facebook, and helping from a distance now that my 94-year-old Grandpa has moved in with them.

    Sending all the love and hugs to you!

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    1. Aw thank you so much Laura Beth! And I really appreciate you sharing that. I’m so glad that this WFH time has been enjoyable for you! A sit stand desk sounds amazing! And I feel you there. Stay well!!! Hang in there! Hugs and love xox

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  34. I love how God has given you the gift of being positive. I have learned a lot about myself during this time. I enjoy and value rest a great deal more. I have learned I enjoy cooking a lot more than I realize. I have made new dishes and enjoy eating a lot more. I have learned to pause and pray a lot more. I have made myself more of a priority and it is showing up in all areas of my life. I continue to keep you and NYC in prayer. I pray you will continue to stay strong and healthy.

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    1. Thank you so much Ada! Oh that’s so wonderful! I think that’s a beautiful thing to come out of this: learning to embrace self care and making ourselves a priority! Thank you for your prayers. Know that you’re in mine too! Hugs and love xox

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  36. I’ve learned that I always live a quarantined life.

    Meaning, other than having the kids home all day, my life hasn’t changed. I still work from home. I still don’t eat out as much as I’d want. I still have no hobby to miss. Oh well, makes this whole pandemic thing easier to handle.

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    1. Thanks for sharing that KJ. I’m glad this hasn’t been too big of a life overhaul for you!! Hang in there! Hugs and love xox

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  38. Just appreciating what I have. The inner circle which is family and meaningful friends who are there for you no matter what. That support means everything. Of course, all the appreciation to the emergency medical workers and dedicated essential workers who keep things moving and as sane as possible in a trying situation. My renewed passion for writing and music along with podcasts helps.

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  39. I’m a better cook than I thought, and my son and I have had some bonding time. I learned to make ice cream, and he is learning a lot about nature since we have time to go on long walks together.

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    1. Thanks so much for sharing that, Lindsay! That’s so awesome that you guys have that special time in nature together. And ice cream!? YUM!!! Stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  40. I’ve learned that I can handle the whole “stay-at-home” thing so much better than I ever thought I could. It’s eye-opening how how much stress contributes to our well being and takes its toll. I’ve learning again how gracious God is to me, and that he carries us through with his peace.

    You have an awesome blog! very impressive! I’ve meant to thank you for stopping by mine so much. Keep up the great work! God is good.

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  41. There are a few things I have learned during this quarantine time. Cooking more entrées that we would’ve purchased. I was able to catch up on my binge-watching. Even, though I was stuck in the house with our two daughters we manage. It was a good thing we had a two-story house. They were able to go into their rooms peacefully. I started to focus more on my faith studies. Before this virus, there were times I wasn’t able to attend the services. Since they started utilizing zoom for services it became easy for me to attend. I can attend the meetings regularly through the phone.

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    1. thanks friend for sharing these! you’re so right about that – technology has been such a blessing and game changer! yay for homemade cooking! Hugs and love xox

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  42. Having to suddenly become my autistic son’s educational support and shadow has taught me a lot about his strengths and weaknesses with the academics. School never sends homework home, so I never had a first hand understanding of where he was at, only what they shared at the annual meetings as far as goals set and goals met for the year. I may be pursuing more of this interaction with him, even when he goes back to school. I’m going to explore music and other possible interests with him. He will be going to high school in September and I hope he will have an awakening and become passionate for something he may be able to pursue for his future life. I pray…

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    1. thank you for sharing that – know that i am keeping you close in prayer. Yeah, the new roles that we’ve been thrown into are very eye opening for sure. it sounds like you and your son have a special bond, and i’m very inspired by your strength 🙂 Praying with you! God has something very special in store for your son!!! 🙂 Hugs and love xox

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  44. I’ve learned to count on myself. One thing this experience has shown me is that I believe enough in myself and my goals to set a routine for writing and taking time for myself–and sticking to it. When I’m out and about day after day (pre-quarantine), I often ignore my own needs. Now, with time to reflect on what’s important, I’m putting my needs and aspirations first.

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    1. Oh I love that so much. And gosh what truth! What’s important has become crystal clear! Hugs and love xox

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  46. To be thankful for what you have. I feel like I have to much stuff, so I have been going through my belongings. I plan to give it to a local charity when they open up again.

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    1. Oh I love that so much Amanda, thank you for sharing! Being thankful is so important for getting through these quarantine days. I think that’s beautiful! stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  47. I have learnt that in Australia, it seems that certain elements of society, ie, business, conservatives, and unfortunately young people, seem to not put as much value on human life as others do, and that apparently money is so much more important. It’s really sad to see society like this.

    On the flip side, I have enjoyed doing the home schooling thing, with work provided through my son’s school so much, that now I am registering to be his teacher, at home on a full time basis. Firstly, because we have a mixed generational household, we need to keep the more vulnerable members of our family safe, but also, my son doesn’t have to put up with bullies and other BS that is inflicted upon kids at school. He is happier, and doing far better academically as well. I have just completed a 12 month Education Support Qualification (one of those ironic coincidences that seem to follow me through life) so now, even though I was already fully capable of teaching my son the curriculum at home, I am now officially able to as well. Yes, I have to provide the lessons and learning materials, there is absolutely loads of lessons available online for free, and I have purchased a number of workbooks in specific subject areas that are fully aligned with the curriculum, and am using a online resource called Studyladder, which is brilliant and helps with assessment, but it is actually costing me less overall, I mean, it’s cheaper than the school uniforms alone, let alone any of the other education expenses. My life has changed significantly because of COVID-19, yes there are the negatives, I am high risk myself, so having to be a bit more confined and having to wear masks every time I go out is a bit of an inconvenience, but most of it is really positive, and I will never return to life as it was before.There are always silver linings.

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing these lessons! I’m so glad that you and your son are having such a great home schooling experience!! Congrats on your qualification! Hugs and love xox

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  48. Thanks for visiting my blog where I’m learning quite much about God working behind the scenes in tough times through the eyes of the book of Esther.
    I love your blog, it’s so engaging

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  49. Thanks for visiting my blog. During this lockdown, l learnt l can do more with what l already have. I have since held two seminars online using whatsapp and zoom to help people facing Trauma, l started to write a devotional as my blog and am able to reach people from different nations. Ministry for me has a global perspective more now than before. We are truly one large family on earth, what hurts anyone in China can have adverse effects on the remotest villages in another continent. Its time to pray more for other nations and their leaders, their decisions good or bad affects us all.

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    1. Hi Ada, thank you so much for sharing this! amen – i have learned this too. And wow what a beautiful ministry you’re doing! cheering for you!! 🙂 stay well! Hugs and love xox

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  50. I learned that:
    I am adaptable to change
    I can learn several different applications “on the fly”
    I am Resilient
    To communicate with extended family better
    Prayer is powerful
    Being alone is not the same as loneliness.
    I am blessed to have my faith, to have my family, to have my community

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