When the World Laughs

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Not gonna lie, I’m feeling a bit, well, dejected at the moment. Deeply.

Nothing superficial – no boy drama or insecurities about how I look. No, this is character-level.

In the past 24 hours, I feel as though I’ve been the butt end of two very bad jokes.

Episode 1:

Allow me to set the stage:

It doesn’t matter how long you live in NYC, there is always something new and interesting to do. Another pocket of culture to discover. Another hidden gem just waiting to be explored.

And last night, I found myself in one of those places.

I went to a comedy club.

I know. These are not new. News Flash: They’re all over the country.

Yeah, thanks.

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But I’ve actually never been to live stand up comedy before. And, to be completely honest, I was bracing myself for some seriously raunchy material, and I was actually pleasantly surprised. All things considered, it was actually pretty tame. In fact, I would take my mother.

But there was a “bit” that really, well…it hit me….in the gut.

One of the comedians that evening (there were a bunch…it was amateur night…) was this absolutely gorgeous man. Oh my gosh, tall, blonde, well put together. And the first thing out of his mouth was, “So I’m a virgin.”

Silence. Uncomfortable silence. The room didn’t know whether to laugh or scoff or just look at each other and go, “Is he freakin’ serious?”

He went on to poke fun at himself for the next several minutes and, once they realized he was serious, people got more and more boisterous with their laughs .

And, yes, I was laughing too. But I wasn’t laughing at him like the rest of the crowd. I was laughing at just the head-shakingly/eye-rollingly/exasperatingly absurd degree of preoccupation and stigmatization over virginity.

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My virginity, for better or for worse, is no secret on this blog. I’m not ashamed of it. Not that I parade that info around in my day-to-day, but it’s deeply part of who I am, and it’s not something I’m going to compromise. Not until my wedding night.

But I’m just so done with virginity being the butt end of a joke. And here, tonight, I was literally smacked in the face with it being a bit in a stand up set.

It’s not stupid. It’s beautiful.

So that was episode #1 where part of who I deeply am, was just flat out laughed at.

Episode #2….is a little harder to talk about. Because…it’s slightly “political.”

But basically, in the WikiLeaks that came out tonight, it was found that the Clinton’s camp just bashed Christians – and Catholics in particular, calling it a “bastardization of faith” and a “dictatorship” with “severely backwards gender relations.” (And I promise that’s as political as this piece is going to get.)

But in literally the span of less than 24 hours, two of my most deeply identifying characteristics: my faith and my virginity, were blatantly laughed at and touted as moronic and out-of-touch.

And I know, these examples weren’t hurled at me personally, but they might as well have been.

But I’m going to be really honest – I couldn’t shake the feeling of just being all alone.

Like, Am I a huge joke? Am I just a walking freak show? A laughing stock just hanging out to dry? What’s wrong with me? 


But then I remembered this quote from John 18 where Jesus says: “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first…You do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you…If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also.” 

Listen, I’m not trying to do some Beyonce dance about Runnin’ the World, like, “Oh I’m the chosen one, Jesus chose me, I’m holier than thou, blah blah blah.” 

No. Helllll to the no.

What I’m trying to say is that, we were not made for this world.

Everything happening on the news, yeah-it’s pretty bleak. Because this isn’t Heaven.

This world will try us, laugh at us, discourage us, bully us – just look at Jesus.

My virginity is no laughing matter. And my faith is most certainly not a laughing matter.

These deeply held beliefs and values I have do not make me a moron, or someone with “severely backwards” thinking. It doesn’t mean I should be wearing an ankle length skirt with orthopedic shoes, either.

These beliefs and values make me who I am. They make me Whose I am.

And one final note. To address the “severely backwards gender relations” of the church, mentioned in the Clinton camp emails, I would invite you to read my reflection on the Feminine Genius. I just found out it got shared 88 times on Facebook, so apparently it resonated with a few people. Just wanted to set the record straight on the actual gender relations of the “dictatorship” that is Catholicism. *eyeroll*

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Signing off for tonight.

Goodnight loves

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376 thoughts on “When the World Laughs”

  2. I hear you. I cannot stand being laughed at, so I can imagine how you felt having the things you hold dearly both jeered at (even if it was done through someone else) and trashed so disrespectfully.

    We only just “met”, so I don’t know you well enough to offer any real advice. But what I can say, based on what little I know yet, is that you are too lovely to have these issues affecting you so negatively.

    While I understand your hurt, I’d suggest to you that you’ve got a long, beautiful life in front of you in which, unfortunately, these types of insensitive events will always occur. Your life is about you and other peoples’ insensitivity is not, so don’t take them to heart or too personally. It’s just not worth the wrinkles, haha! 🙂

    When you are my age (40), you won’t be as affected by them, I promise. It does get better, believe me. You learn to desensitize without losing your core values. It’s a challenge, but it is a beautiful thing when you get there.

    Good luck, lady! Dream sweetly, you. Hugs…

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    1. Thank you so much for these kind words. It really means a lot and I appreciate you sharing part of your heart! You’re right-definitely NOT worth the wrinkles!! Hahaha thanks again for the affirmation:) so glad you stopped by! Hope you have a beautiful weekend! Hugs and love xox

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  4. While I very much respect the role of the “Mother Church,” I have encountered nuns that rail against its patriarchy, and have at times felt extremely frustrated regarding its claim for religious exemptions from common-sense measures such as provision of reproductive health services. While Pope Francis’ recent encyclicals lean in the direction of moderating the rigid policies of the past, bishops often take an independent line, and I can see in a moment of frustration that some would use harsh language in characterizing their demands for special consideration on religious grounds.

    One of my uncles dropped out of seminary because he found that the Church did not tolerate independent thinking. His experience was disturbing enough that he warned me against association with the Church.

    A bit of perspective, therefore: the Church is a powerful institution with deep resources. Comments such as have been released from the Democratic Party have been made before – and far worse. There are evangelicals, for example, that identify the Catholic Church with the Whore of Babylon in the Book of Revelation. It has thick skin, and the better Popes treat such criticism as a signal that Christian compassion is lacking in some part of its community.

    So I would advise you not to take it too personally. I know that Christ can’t – if he grieved over all of the wrongs done in his name, he would simply walk away in shame.

    More lightly, regarding your virginity: well, it’s a good thing that you know your own worth! I certainly didn’t, and when I finally was devoured by the politics that many people attach to sexual intimacy, I began to wish that I had just gone without. That doesn’t mean that I haven’t had really beautiful experiences of bliss – it’s that they have always been corrupted by people that seek to coopt the power that soul mates generate between themselves. I pray that you find somebody strong enough to affirm your sacred spirit when that pressure arises.

    Hah! Did I say “more lightly.” Life of the party, I am not.

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    1. Hi Brian! Oh i beg to differ! You are definitely the life of the party in my book! 😊😊😊 but seriously, thank you so much for this reflection. I really appreciate the healthy dialogue 🙂 thank you for the prayers-I’ll def keep you in mine as well! But yeah I trust that God is going to bring the right man into my life. I just have to have patience, which is a lot easier said than done! Haha And yeah, I’m also going to be praying for unity and understanding within our faith! 🙂 so glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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    2. I know that the church and clergy are not perfect, I do understand your explanation. However, for every bad priest, I have found 8 really good ones. We really don’t hear about the good they do. The pope when acting ex-cathedra- (inspired by the Holy Spirit) is infallible.The Holy Spirit is the truth. If we are going to question that, then we might as well forget the bible altogether. So, I say, stay true to the gospel according to Jesus Christ. Sure times change, fads come and go but Jesus’ teachings are unchanging and they are for all people and for all times. I look up to Jesus as my hope because the world isn’t giving me any hope. I wish you God’s blessings

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      1. Thank you for affirming the one infallible source of truth, which is love that never turns its eyes away, and seeks always to bring peace and strength, even to those that reject its ministrations. Jesus was the perfect manifestation of that spirit – his actions gave love an insuperable beachhead in this world of pain. And when he returns, even the pope will bend his knee to plead: “Teach me!”

        For as I read the Bible, it is not the story of humans that acted according to God’s will. It is the story of God’s perseverance in redeeming those that disobey. As he is the Father, he suffers with humanity as all good parents do: allowing the law of Natural Consequences to unfold until children learn self-restraint under the lessons learned in the pursuit of the Knowledge of Good and Evil.

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  6. On the political note. People who make fun of the catholic religion don’t really understand it at all. Just look at my blog on TESTIMONIALS (celebrities who are catholics and are now reaping God’s blessings). We live in a time of despair and Jesus Christ is our victory, Jesus is our hope. It is He who comes to collect His faithfuls in the end (see Revelation). You’re either a follower or a fan. We who are united to JC are incorporated into Christ’s victory at the end. Fans of JC don’t get a mention in the book of Revelation. ❤ God bless 😦

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  9. Yes. Jesus is our hope. Not Washington. Not the Democratic or Republican Party. They both utterly fail. We in Jesus, the church, are allied to one political entity, I believe: the grace and kingdom of God come in Jesus, which brings with it, the politics of Jesus. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and convictions on this and on the other issue, also. Well said, sister.

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  11. You are a light in the darkness. A trailblazer. ‘Don’t hide your light under a bushel, set it up on a high public place, for all to see’. That’s what he told us to do, and that’s what you have done and continue to do. 🙂

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  12. I disagree. Jesus chose you and that is what you have against all this but also what must be worked into all this. Jesus, didn’t start at the top with kings he preached in alleys. The top separates itself into its own consciousness and the more homogenous the more, exclusive it becomes. The comedy crowd, you saw a wave of consciousness and an idea that excludes virginity. Therefore, it is something to be laughed at because it is not a shared path of the crowd. I’m Native, we are always laughed at because like virginity it’s not a well worn path. It’s a benefit of exclusion it gains perspective and empathy towards the collective consciousness.

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    1. Thank you so much for this perspective. Some really great food for thought here. You’re right, it’s definitely not a common path, that’s for sure! Haha guess I need to just develop some thicker skin:) haha glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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      1. I wish the world was perfect because our wounds could heal I guess that’s why we write. Keep writing.

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      5. From Beauty and The Beast. You are beautiful and the past will turn to rubble and as a writer you will make new stories like a potter turns clay.

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  13. Humor is the universal stress reliever. It’s different for everyone, sometimes dry and satirical, sometimes raw and uncensored. The important point is that, for the comedian’s virginity, the bit is how he’s choosing to deal with the stigma. There are lots of us (myself included) that have tremendous respect for your choice to save that for your future husband. Regardless of what people do or say around you to the contrary, you should always be proud of that.

    As for the WikiLeaks emails that have been released, there’s a lot of nasty stuff demonstrating the manipulation the DNC and Clinton have orchestrated to create a nation of uninformed and compliant followers. The content, at least to me, isn’t as important as the fact that it happened without anyone being the wiser about it. We’re all free to choose our religion and faith and as with the virginity bit, you should be proud of the fact that you *do* believe. What others say (and believe) is on them to reconcile later in life.

    That’s my $0.02.

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    1. Thank you for this awesome $.02! 😊😊😎 but you’re so right-humor is definitely a way to deal with stresses and insecurities. I definitely have used this coping mechanism many times before. So good on that comic for finding what works for him! And you’re right-there’s a lot going on in Washington that the public is unaware of, unfortunately. Thanks for stopping by! Have a fantastic weekend! Hugs and love xox

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  15. I understand the feeling. I recently moved away from everything familiar and have experienced the same feelings after getting a much bigger dose of “the world” than I suppose I expected to. I hav3 moved far away from all I have known before…and struggled with being different and set apart. But I was overseas and I suppose that I expected it, to a degree. But even within the United states, I have learned…things here in my new home state…cause me to feel even MORE worlds apart. Now that I just typed that, I recall writing about it. Anyhow, my point being…I understand. Clearly I am no longer a virgin (married with 3 teenagers). But I am in such a different place than every person I have met and gotten to know…here…in this new place. Like you, that is when Daddy God reminded me of the same thing. “Sweetheart, precious one, Dodi (my beloved), Daddy’s girl…YOU are my salt & light to this lost community! YOU are the highly-prized one and made in AWE and WONDER! I take GREAT JOY in YOU! Like the humble daughter of a chosen people…that has willingly endured such beautifully – painful refining to become ready for The King! Now… 🙂 … you are ready and being presented to a twisted, corrupt and lost world…in desperate need of truth, love, kindness and a different kind of RARE beauty…that cannot help but demand a presence! Take MY Peace…and soak in it for a while and remember not only WHOSE you are…but HOW I see YOU in that very moment of misplaced shame. Oh, Daughter of The King…Daddy’s got you!” ♡

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    1. Oh my gosh I am wiping a tear from my eye after reading this! This is so beautiful and powerful and wow–thank you. That is truly my favorite way to reflect on our father: as just that: a loving Daddy. Seriously I am so moved by this. Thank you. Have a beautiful weekend friend. Hugs and love xox

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  16. AMEN to that! I’m so tired of having to defend my Catholicism to protestants and nonbelievers. What’s worse is when i tell them that not only am I Catholic, but i am traditionalist Catholic attending a FSSP parish. “What?! You make the women dress modestly and wear veils on their heads?! And the priest doesn’t even look at you much?! What’s wrong with you?!” I’ve learned to take Matthew Chapter 5 Verse 39 to heart, “But I say to you not to resist evil: but if one strike thee on thy right cheek, turn to him also the other:” I smile and pray for them later. I tend to not let the bashing of the one True faith get to me any more like i used to. Keep your head up, my friend! 🙂

    – David

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    1. Thank you So much for this David. That’s such a powerful verse and to be honest, is one of the most difficult for me to personally embrace fullheartedly but it’s one hundred percent true. It’s the absolutely description of Jesus’ life and death and that’s the ultimate example. Have a beautiful weekend. Hugs and love xox

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  17. I wish I read this blog post before I got married. I too felt alone with being a virgin but I did it not only to protect myself but for the Lord. I don’t regret the decision. I had to go through a lot but I eventually found the right man. You will too. Thanks for posting.

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      1. You’re very welcome. It’ll all be worth it in the end. Just put on a smile, it pisses off the enemy.

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  19. I can completely relate to feeling like you are the butt-end of a joke, even when it isn’t personally directed towards you. I LOVE stand up comedy. I watch a lot of it on Netflix, and sometimes, the comedian will make a joke about a particular virus that I have, one that not a lot of people are informed about. So, unfortunately, this virus has a bad social stigma attached to it. When comedians joke about it, it hits me right in the gut. It’s not something anyone asked for, so why must there be such a nasty joke about it? But, I still love stand up comedy (when it’s good) 🙂
    Sticking to your faith and your personal morals is good in situations like these!
    Katelyn xx

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    1. Thank you so much Katelyn:) yeah I love stand up too! And find myself on those Netflix channels a lot too! Haha you’re right though, a lot of times insensitivity is the name of the comedy game. Know that I’ve always got your back:) big hugs xox

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  20. Be encouraged. You are NOT alone, as you can tell from all of the wonderful comments above (well … most of them! lol) Again, you are NOT alone on either point! There are millions upon millions of women and men worldwide who remain virgins until they marry. This may not be true in our particular society, but our particular society is not the only one in the world; besides, there are many women and men even in the good ole U S of A that save themselves for marriage. As for the derogatory comments about Catholicism (and evangelical Protestantism), there are multitudes of accomplished Catholic (and Protestant . . . and Orthodox) scholars and professionals living in every part of the world, including the U.S. They’re not apologizing for their faith, or doing anything to hide it . . . neither should we! Thank you for this open, honest post. As always, God bless you tremendously and keep you ever and always in his tender, loving care! 🙂 🙂 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much for this beautiful encouragement. That’s true, especially living in the very outspoken microcosm that is Manhattan, it’s easy to feel isolated in how I feel but that’s so important to remember. It’s not like that all over the world. And yes! I shouldn’t apologize or hide my faith. Amen! Thanks as always for your friendship:) big hugs xox

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  21. wanting to lose my virginity and the pressure to do so (which sadly as you know I gave into) has left me scarred with an unhealthy attitude towards sex and that’s something I still struggle with (I know God is working in that situation accepts my repentance of it, and will continue to work in it until its changed in me, and I will continue to pray about it) and I will continue to resist the enemy using it against me. Clinton sadly has been misguided by the worlds sight and continuous seeking of promotion, as far as I see, sadly I can’t make a judgement on something that’s out of my hands though I do pray for you and your country about it x. Even Christians are persecuting other Christians is just painful to see anyway this got quite deep and serious and you know me well enough to know I will end this with something silly for you to laugh and smile at, as always sending you lots of love and hugs (and of course butternut squash ice cream) 😀 ❤ xxxxx

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    1. Haha oh yes! The butternut squash ice cream never fails to bring a smile to my face!! Haha seriously though, thank you for this Benjamin. I will definitely keep you in my prayers:) and it’s true. God will take care of us. And yes, gotta keep our countries and their leaders in our prayers! Have a great weekend! Hugs and love xox

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      1. *coughs* even when that leader doesn’t actually have the mandate to represent the country *coughs* please pray for me over my next blog post because its going to need it, it a big deal and it may cause frictions lol

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  22. Two tiny bits of advice, 1.) avoid places that could potentially expose you to unsavory words or actions, 2.) try not to beat the virginity drum so loudly, it can be deafening. Ok three… know that when you are evil spoken of for your faith in Jesus Christ, that the Glory of God rests upon you, it is actually a blessing. 🙂

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    1. This is some great advice. Thank you. Yeah I hesitated to write about the “V”but it literally was thrown at me on the night I was to write, so I just went with it. Haha but you’re right-no lore politics or “v-stuff” for a long time now! I promise! Haha glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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  23. Fantastic post. Thank you for sharing both experiences. Listen: You are not alone. There are more Christians out there than the bubbles, out-of-touch DC elites think.

    Listen: I work in DC. People here think that because religion doesn’t matter to them, it doesn’t matter to anyone.

    Let them laugh. Let them mock. You said it perfectly: “This isn’t heaven.” I know you don’t need the advice, but keep doing your thing.

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  24. I have to disagree about two things, first (and really the only important one) the feeling that you are all alone. You’re not. And that’s coming to you from across the ‘Christian Culture (eye-roll/puke) divide’ because I’m with you.
    The second is, we absolutely were made for this world; it’s older than the hate talks, and I feel for it, deeply. And when it’s all said and done and remade new, I’m coming right back 😉

    But back to the more important things. Something that becomes much more evident to me is that God said, ‘I will destroy the wisdom of the wise and the intelligence of the intelligent I will frustrate.’ And Martin Smith sang, ‘The cross is such foolishness to the perishing / but to those who are being saved / it is the glory of God’,

    They don’t get it. They can’t. Even some Christians don’t get it. And it’s the same case and maybe even more wide-spread for virginity–and what do you want to bet that ‘ameteur’ has drowned in insecurity to the point where his only option is to join the mockers and make fun of his own condition because he doesn’t understand that virginity isn’t a sign of inability or failure to perform so much as a sign of conviction and commitment to your body and the security of your relationships. I feel for him, too, a little bit.

    But it’s okay. We’re a peculiar people. And we hold the hope of eternity where all this nonsense in this world is less than a drop in the bucket. And I can’t wait to meet you and everyone else on the other side of this!

    You know, on a slightly different note, I realized a while back that I’m following a number of Catholic writers (read: writers who also identify as Catholic) and they are the ones I tend to follow more closely for posts (I have a lot of posts in my reader I pass over–oops). I’m plenty open about people, but I was brought up in a denomination (or semi-cult if you will) that has believed and taught for over a hundred years that the Catholic church ultimately historically and prophetically is anti-Christ and in satanic ploy (I won’t get into the doctrines any further than that here) (and don’t chew me out yet, Catholics)

    That being so, for quite a long time I avoided anything Catholic altogether (except, ironically, a Christmas program hosted by our local Catholic church which all the churches in the community take part in) and simply avoided the issue.

    But today I have no denomination–don’t believe in and detest denominationalism. I follow Christ, Holy Spirit lives in me, and I love whoever Holy Spirit gives me love to give to. (Read: anybody, everybody). And it doesn’t matter any more; there isn’t a high fallootin enough Christian person out there to tell me who not to love.

    So I hope the full weight of that (His love) rests on you when I say you’re not alone friend, I love you.

    -hugs- Happy weekend!

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    1. Oh Carson, this is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your heart. I am so with you that I just want to whoever the Holy Spirit puts in my path! I definitely see that in you. It’s funny the paths our lives take, but we’ve ultimately ended up in a place of love. Growing up I never really saw a difference in denominations. I obviously went to mass every week, but I attended a Protestant youth group and a non denominational summer camp for 8 years so for me, I just saw everyone as “on the same team” for Jesus. And I guess that’s how I still see it. You are amazing, Carson and I’m so glad we’re friends! And yes-there will be a big party in Heaven one day! I’ll bring the chips and guacamole:) ahah have a beautiful weekend! Hugs and love xox

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  25. Great piece!! I’ve been reading the Chastity, Purity, and Virginity are making a come back, even among the non religious. Our little hidden STD epidemic is no joke. I pray for those people …. God holds accountable those who lead an entire nation astray.

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  26. I am sorry that you are feeling dejected. Hopefully, after reading all the above comments, you are feeling better and hopeful. As I read about your experiences, a scripture came to mind: Tribulation worketh patience; patience, character (maturity); and character, hope. And hope never fails. In my own experiences, I have found that “suffering” with a chronic illness has deepened my relationship with Christ. Would I choose to have a chronic illness? No. Would Paul have chosen to be imprisoned and crucified? Probably not. However, Paul learned the secret of being content in all situations. Suffering is a tool. We can employ it. God bless.

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    1. Hi Rose, thank you so much for this. Yes, I am definitely feeling incredibly encouraged and grateful for all the support! What a powerful verse. thank you for sharing it. I’m sorry that you’re having to endure chronic illness. that breaks my heart. What an inspiring way to approach it though. I will definitely keep you in my prayers. And i can definitely relate…I have ulcerative colitis. Yes – gotta cling to hope and cling to Christ! big hugs xox

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  29. It’s awesome that you posted this today – recently, I was talking to God about how different I was. And not different in a good way. More like, God, why on earth did you make me this way? Why haven’t I experienced this, or that? I’m too…different.

    And then He talked back. He responded gently, but with sincerity and fatherly sternness: You, my daughter are not called to look like the world. You are different. And that’s exactly what you are striving for.

    It was like, major mind blown moment. Okay, I see you Father. Yea, so I’m proud to stand with you on both front being a virgin and most importantly, a follower of God. We are kind of weird, to the world – actually we are counter cultural. Completely opposite to the world and its standards. And that’s exactly what we’re called to be. Stay strong, lovely and know you are not standing alone.

    “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Romans 12:1-2)

    “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” (1 Peter 2:9)

    Also, not sure if you’ve heard of Mali Music, but in case you haven’t, listen to Royalty – not sure it applies exactly, but it’s what I’m listening to right now and it’s giving me life (and encouragement)!

    -Leigh

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    1. Hi Leigh! Thank you so much for this beautiful encouragement. What a powerful moment with the Father. So true-we are called to live differently. And thanks for sharing those beautiful verses. Hope you have a beautiful weekend! Hugs and love xox

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  31. I don’t like to read the newspapers too much, but of course some things travel off the page, and I heard about those comments made by the Clinton campaign, and I wasn’t surprised, but it’s a reminder in every situation it needs prayer…maybe more people will pray? Anyway, I get the whole virginity thing cause I’m still waiting…But from wha I have read, you seem like you’re well rounded and this will make you stronger in who you are and in Him.

    p.s. I’ll pray you’ll vote for the best person(in God’s will) possible, I am so glad to be a Canadian (always have been!) and that I don’t have to make a very hard decision, not one to be taken lightly either.

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    1. Hi Tamara. So true-every situation needs prayer. Amen to that. Yes, we’ve got to pray for allll of our leaders 🙂 I appreciate your encouragement. It’s nice to know I’m not alone 🙂 hope you’re having a great night. Hugs and love xox

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  33. Dear Sister: you are a great Blessing each time you write. Your honesty, sincerity, genuineness are all good teachers in themselves, and you tie everything together so well.
    I trust this bit of God’s Word may help give you more of Hs Peace. You are a continuing inspiration. God’s Blessings.

    “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.””
    ‭‭John‬ ‭16:33‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    “I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.”
    ‭‭Romans‬ ‭15:13‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    “Now may the Lord of peace himself give you his peace at all times and in every situation. The Lord be with you all.”
    ‭‭2 Thessalonians‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    George.

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  34. I thought this was an awesome piece! And it is absolutely spectacular that you’re SO rooted in who you are and that you stand up for what you believe in. I applaud you, keep up the great work! : D

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  35. There is no shame in being a virgin, I wish so badly I had saved myself for my husband. But I understand how unsettling or disappointing it can be when people poke fun at you for it. I felt so left out in high school because of that. And all I have to say is “ugh” about the political stuff. It’s a mess and really frustrating how there is so much tolerance for literally every other religion than Christianity. 😦 Keep standing firm, God sees your heart.

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  38. This world will push us out on the one hand but on the other hand it will push us further and further into the camp of the saints. –

    Towards people like yourself.

    You are the touch of Love and diligence.

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  39. Wow. You’ve got it going. May God continue to bless you. As I peruse your writings on this site, you’re quite gifted. You’re always one of the first on my BiblicalViewpoint.com site – thanks for your support. Love your stance and public declaration. God is pleased and you will be blessed with a husband someday. My daughter used to feel the same way. (She has 3 children now.) And yes, the previously unknown truths that are coming out on the Clintons are eye-opening. Christians should be very discerning.

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    1. Hey Michael! Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. It seriously means so much! I pray and trust that He will bring the right man into my life. So happy for your daughter! Big hugs xox

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  40. You are a leader among others! We are in this crazy world but we don’t have to be of it. God has his plans. Let them laugh and mock us. We will continue to pray for them.

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  41. I am so proud of your proclamation of your faith and virginity. It is refreshing to hear a woman or man speaking that is living the life God has called them to live. There is a Holy power in that way of living. You have my attention. May God speed you on your journey with him.

    Peace to you Tom

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  42. I met my husband after reclaiming my body and vowing to wait until remarriage to have sex again. If a guy had an issue with my boundary, I had an issue with him and we were done. Stick to your your beautiful truth. Have you read Uninvited? Just finished and loved it. It might be encouraging for your saying season. xo

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  44. I agree that a walk with Jesus is not always a comfortable one, but it is a meaningful one and restorative. I wish to say in reference to the teachings that pertain to the role of women, according to Jesus, it is written in Matthew 12:42 that The queen of the South will rise up at the judgment with this generation and condemn it, for she came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon, and behold, something greater than Solomon is here. The generation he describes is one that in Matthew 12:39 is said to be evil and adulterous (from their relationship with God). There is a function for at least one woman according to the prophecy made by Jesus.
    Maybe those that attack the church, aren’t reading the churches texts as they could.

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  45. I love this post!! Thank you for standing up for what is true and real and eternal. You’ve gotten so many comments, I know you touched on something that means a lot to many people!! Wonderful post. Hugs from here…

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  47. Wow what an excellent post! Possibly my most favourite one from you, to date! I was a virgin when I got married at 24, and I am proud of it. Well done for being proud of something so deeply personal, and standing by it! And the way you stand up for your faith…thank you for using your voice to make a stand! You are an inspiration! Truly! Megan. Xx

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    1. Hi Megan! Oh my gosh thank you so much. This is such a kind note. And thank you for sharing that-it’s nice to know I’m not alone and what a beautiful love story you and your husband have:) thanks for the encouragement! Hugs and love xox

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  48. Good post! You are so right, as Christians we are not of this world. If we find ourselves getting too comfortable here then we have to question the reality of our faith. And virginity is supposed to be normal – before marriage – not at the media believes that’s possible anymore…but it was for me – at 23! Your post also reminded me of the classic Larry Norman album – “I’m only visiting this planet”. I’m thankful you wrote “When the world laughs” – well done.

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  50. Of course, Christianity is at odds with a secular worldview. I mean, Christians are accused of child abuse for teaching the Bible to their children so we all know where this is going.

    But I’m interested in your thoughts about Protestants who disparage your Catholic faith, and how you respond to their criticism.

    Maybe that could be a topic of a future post.

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