Oprah and the Golden Globes Sham

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The Golden Globes were last night.

Just in case your phone died, your power was out, or you’ve had no contact with the outside world in the last 24 hours.

And, unpopular opinion alert: watching the whole thing, I kind of felt a little bit, oh, sick to my stomach.

Seeing the uber wealthy celebs don all black, and take public cheap shots, and all but genuflect at Oprah’s altar, the whole evening just left a bad taste in my mouth, if I’m being honest.

It honestly just seemed like a bunch of petulant children, complaining, a la Verruca Salt, that their porridge was too hot or too cold.

I mean, many of these women, who are all publicly “championing” the end to sexual assault and harassment, have literally made their careers off of allowing themselves to be sexually objectified. It’s the reason they’re in those chairs. You want to tell me that your skintight black dress, that has slits UpToHere, or is sheer with strategically placed lace, is protesting sexual assault? Honey, take a look in the mirror. How about you cover your goods, and have a little self-respect and then let’s have the conversation. I’m not saying to wear a turtleneck and orthopedic shoes, but just don’t come at me with your crotch hanging out of your dress and tell me that you’re championing respect for women.

It just seemed a little hypocritical if you ask me. It doesn’t add up.

And not that by wearing provocative clothing is in any way, shape, or form “asking for it,” but there is a certain way to present yourself in public, versus how you present yourself in the bedroom. And that line has all but ceased to exist. I don’t know, maybe that was just how I was raised, but it is an act of love and respect to help our brothers in Christ not fall into the trap of sin, and maybe one way of doing that is, I don’t know…not dressing like you work at a brothel. Just a thought.

And I know, I know. Bring on the criticism. I think deep down, we all know it’s at least part true.

But what got to me more than snide remarks from the presenters, the militant feminism on display, or the choir of men, all visibly uncomfortable at the tone of the evening, was Oprah’s sermon on the mount.

Now, first. The fact that in the 75 year history of the Golden Globes, that there has never been a black woman to win that award, is a fact that we should all be ashamed of. And Oprah is absolutely, 100% deserving of that award.

Next. Oprah is a child of God. She has done tremendous good in the world. She has overcome a lot of challenges in her past and has successfully built a career that is transcendent, influential, and impressive.

However, Oprah is not God.

And should not be worshiped as one.

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Listening to her speech, which, yes – it was powerful, articulate, passionate and incredibly moving – about some very difficult and real topics that need addressing and changing and tackling – listening to it, I felt as though I was being taken to church. Hints of southern baptist preaching came to mind, and I was half expecting to hear a “Can I get an amen?” at some point.

But the degree to Oprah’s revere is truly diety-status. And it makes me sick.

Oprah champions beautiful messages: Believing in yourself. Doing good for others. Overcoming adversity. However, her new age spirituality belongs in the dumpster. Because it is not Christianity, and it should not be touted as such.

To the point that, Christians should fear the mass-sheparding of the flocks of millions to her pasture of false truths and vanilla spirituality.

It’s scary.

But back to her Golden Globes 2018 speech. The “new day” on the horizon for young women and girls.

Granted, I fully realize that I have been blessed with a solid and safe upbringing that, sadly, not everyone is fortunate enough to have. Sure, I had my health challenges, and had one episode of sexual assault, but my life has been incredibly secure. My parents are loving, Christian people who have been married over 40 years. There has been no domestic abuse, no poverty, homelessness, unemployment, racism, or prejudice that I’ve had to personally experience, and for that I am incredibly grateful. And I know that that is not the case for everyone. And that is heartbreaking. And if that’s reason enough to be wearing a black dress, then I guess sign me up.

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But.

This “new day” on the horizon.

Am I missing something?

This life that they’re complaining of….we have it so good. We live such a privileged existence here in the United States. We have health care. We can vote. Drive cars. Marry whomever we choose. Have access to clean food and water. We can go to college. Hold any job we choose — up to and including the President of the United States.

What about in third world countries, where women are still suppressed by men? What about in the middle east, where women are still “kept” by men, and prohibited from driving, or showing anything other than their eyes in public?

Truly, what room do we have to talk?

The sexual abuse that has been coming out recently here, is deplorable. And I am so glad that those predators and creeps are finally being called out and given the consequences they so deserve.

As an actor myself, I too, have been on the receiving end of unwanted advances made by “decision makers,” and have faced the career altering-consequences when I turned down those men.

But I have also, to the detriment of my career, turned down the numerous opportunities I’ve received to play great roles that also happen to involve nudity, sex, or other situations/dialogue that goes against my morals and beliefs.  Why? Because I am actually championing women and the messages that art sends out into the world to young women and men about respect. Respect for others. Respect for oneself. Respect for marriage. Respect for life.

And I think that maybe, in addition to the black dresses and the stirring stump speeches, if Hollywood really wants to make a difference in the climate of respecting one another, they need only to look as far as the content they are creating.

Because truly, and sadly, they are the gatekeepers for the tone in our society. They are the trendsetters in every sense of the word. And much of the filth that comes out of Hollywood and onto our big and little screens across the country consists of nothing more than glorified, soft-porn that mocks God, glorifies unnatural beauty standards, and celebrates infidelity and promiscuity.

So don’t throw on a black outfit and tell me you’re championing women and fighting for respect.

Not with that track record.

It’ll take more than an Oprah sermon to get me to believe any of that.

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558 thoughts on “Oprah and the Golden Globes Sham”

  1. Hello Caralyn! I join the ranks of those who do not ascribe to watching Celebrity filled events. However, there has been enough chatter and clips throughout the day to understand the ‘space’ your heart was lead to speak from. And on that note I would simply add…a mic drop. Hang in there brave girl. There’s not a mean bone in your body (nor do I think there is one in Oprah’s – even though I do not concur with her statements) and your loyal readers will always value your authenticity. Hugs n’ blessings as you continue to travel through a conversation I do not judge will be soon over.

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    1. hello Dawn! thank you so much for sharing your heart and your thoughts on this. hahah a mic drop – you’re funny 🙂 yeah, this conversation, i feel, is only just beginning – which is a good thing too, because I honestly do appreciate hearing different perspectives and viewpoints, because i have a lot to learn, and i respect everyone’s different beliefs. A healthy, respectful dialogue about important issues, in my opinion, is a good thing 🙂 thanks again for your encouragement and support and positivity! i hope you have a beautiful night!! xox

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  2. Very well said, thank you! I whole heartedly agree. It is good to see another women taking this standpoint. I sometimes feel we are expected to support our ‘sisters’ no matter what, even if we feel they are also in the wrong. Keep being a shining light. Love and blessings.

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  4. Young lady thank you for restoring my faith that there are good people out there that see through all the glitter and glamor of Hollywood. Well written and you have showed me that there are still people with morals left in the world. I pray that God bless you and your work.

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    1. Thank you so much. Gosh what a kind thing to say. I’m glad that it struck a chord with you. Thanks for your prayers! Know that you are in mine too 🙂 Hugs and love xox

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  5. I saw the title of this post and wondered how it would be, thankfully you seem to be on same side as myself watching the news here, what’s worse is if I made similar comments it would be described as sexist, as a child of God I know I pay alot more attention to what comes out of my mouth, also, having to watch what I say out of PC! The only change this is bringing about is that the (hopefully) truth is finally being heard nothing else, I’m sure the harassment doesn’t just happen between male aggressor and female victim, I’m sure there is female aggressor to male victims, male aggressor to male victims and female aggressor to female victims, this really isn’t a battle of the sexes thing (correct me if I’m wrong) and if what people say is true, her speech could even be a PR stunt for her “presidential” bid but please tell me if you don’t agree, as always Caralyn powerful post

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    1. Thank you Benny. I appreciate your thoughts on this. There was so much buzz about her running for President today. Sadly I wouldn’t even be the least bit surprised. So glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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      1. People think this is a new revelation also but the UK police have been investigating for several years, and several well known personalities have served or currently serving prison time, including a favourite of mine but he has now served his time, and honestly I feel for him, think even offer forgiveness for him, if you search operation yewtree you will see what I mean

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  6. Great insight looking at the Hollywood juggernaut from a Christian perspective! I heard one female commentator, secular, here in the UK express the opinion that she is repulsed because it feels like Hollywood is only offended by the abuse of women when it is exposed within it’s own community. The truth is exploitation and abuse of women is international and constant but the black dresses are only worn now! Does she have a point? Does the ‘deifying’ of Oprah have anything to do with the panic that liberals in the States feel as they search for a candidate to take on Trump?

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    1. Thank you so much!! So glad it hit home with you. You bring up some powerful points. You may be onto something there about finding a candidate. Hugs and love xox

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  7. I worked with some prison inmates. I drew some of them. The spark came back after they saw who they are and had an identity beyond their numbers on their chest, the handcuffs. How is it similar? We live in a society of social rituals. The narrative we dislike we created. We must identify the constraints before we could release ourselves from it. Every alcoholic is in fact in rehab when all the booze is gone. Every celebrity bleeds glitter on something and its all better. At least inmates know the difference.

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  8. “But I have also, to the detriment of my career, turned down the numerous opportunities I’ve received to play great roles that also happen to involve nudity, sex, or other situations/dialogue that goes against my morals and beliefs. Why? Because I am actually championing women and the messages that art sends out into the world to young women and men about respect. Respect for others. Respect for oneself. Respect for marriage. Respect for life.”

    Me too.

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  10. Hi there. I must say your blog affected me, if you will. In fact it angered me to the point where I unfollowed you. I could not understand how the words of a black woman who had overcome the odds of being raised in less than desirable circumstances has somehow become the…antichrist. I could identify with Oprah’s speech. I worked in management in manufacturing for about three decades, and I must say the challenges were great. A black woman, myself, in the middle of a industry dominated by white men presented less than desirable situations. Fortunately, I had the courage to say no in many situations. Many women don’t have that courage.

    I write back, not to defend Oprah’s position or yours. I write back because I’m so disheartened that this polarized situation becomes even more polarized when we as Christians take side with one celebrity’s position, whether it be Oprah or Trump, and try to substantiate with scripture. Unfortunately, no on one wins, we just become more polarized. Maybe that’s not the intent, but for some, like me, that’s how it’s perceived.

    I write back not to chastise or scrutinize , although it may appear so. But, I pray that we all, as the apostle Paul said, would understand how wide, long, high and deep God’s love is toward us all, through Christ Jesus…from Trump to Oprah and to everyone in between. It would be so refreshing for The Church to promote more of the truth, which supports neither side. We are one body and I believe our position is to love and edify the believers and do as much as we can to live at peace with each other.

    I love you, my sister, and I pray for you, as I pray for myself, that our penned words are seasoned with love and grace.

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  11. The hardest thing in today’s world is perspective. This is certainly something the media juggernaut and entertainment industry lacks in some countries. In other words where is the balance, where is the respect and where are the values. Until more and more people start to look at the similarities in people instead of their differences, these issues will keep playing out this way. We do know what is right. It seems the meek are the only ones who can do something about it i.e. those who are gentle and kind, but resilient none the less (and not submissive as the term is now taken to mean). Keep making a difference…

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  13. Great posting. Well spoken! It seems that monthly … weekly … daily(?) there is a new and different god that is worshiped. Sadly, we’ve misplaced our foundation regardless of the religious tenets — that continuum from the old religions through monotheism to those new age beliefs — each of us hold dear.

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  14. Because’s God’s timing is perfect, make sure you pay attention to the Epistle lesson at Sunday Mass coming up next. (I checked to make sure your Roman lectionary and our Anglican one are the same that day.) It’s basically St. Paul’s version of Oprah’s speech! 😉 Enjoy…

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    1. Thank you Fr. Brench, I literally cannot wait for Sunday now!! wow – God’s timing truly is amazing. I appreciate your thoughts! have a great week, Father. God bless! x

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  15. I totally agree.
    I think many of these cases where women who participated in the “casting couch” culture to further their careers and NOW want to cry “rape!” Possibly to get more fame, who knows.
    When everything gets tossed under “sexual assault” it horrifically undermines true victims of sexual assault and even makes them look petty.

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    1. Thank you so much Sierra, I really appreciate your thoughtful response. Yeah it is a dangerous train to stop, let’s just say that. thanks for stopping by! Hugs and love xox

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  16. Wow! Even though we are Christians we can’t isolate ourselves from the world in our ‘safe spaces’. We have a responsibility to speak out against what’s wrong too. You’ve garnered quite a response haha. God bless.

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  17. Beautiful! Perfect! I just read your post over and over again! Being a wife and mother of two girls I talk with them of this exact topic. Any celebrity is still a person. Remove the makeup, the dazzled jewels and the expensive attire….and they are just still a person. And like any person…..they can certainly stir the boiling pot for attention. I will be forwarding your blog post to our oldest daughter who is a senior at VT. Thank you!! I’m going to get more coffee and read this post again!

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    1. oh my gosh thank you so much Lisa, what an incredibly kind comment. You’re so right – we are all just people. I appreciate you passing this along! big hugs to you and yours! xox

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  18. Great blog! It definitely is an oxymoron to see women displaying clothing that is deliberately enhancing their sexuality and talking about sexual assault. It seems to me that couture one upmanship has become about how much you can display without doing a Lady Godiva. I agree that Hollywood productions do much to set the tone for our moral sense, They have much to answer for.

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    1. thank you so much friend, for your thoughtful response. Yeah, sadly i think you’re right on the money. much to answer for indeed. Hugs and love xox

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  19. Absolutely outstanding!! I’m giving you a standing ovation at work right now! haha. I couldn’t read too much about the awards the next day, due to feeling sick at the hypocrisy of it all. No way could I have watched it.
    I actually have a unfinished blog of similar fashion pending myself and have been hesitant to finish and release it. I am sure I would be called a misogynist for doing so. Which I am not! However, lets all wear black to promote sexually related violence but, please make sure it shows as much flesh and cleavage as possible!!! hahahaha….. I cant take any of them seriously!

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    1. thank you so much for your encouraging words! you’re too kind. yeah – i felt the same the next day too. My phone kept getting automatic news notifications about it – i kid you not probably 20 of them throughout the day – about the speech and the show — it’s like..okay enough already! Thanks for stopping by and i look forward to reading your post! Hugs and love xox

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  20. My Grandma gave me a very simple piece of advice–dress how you want to be treated, and you will be treated as such. How one dresses is their choice, but as with anything, choices have consequences, good or bad. One doesn’t have to let it all hang out in order to be attractive.

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    1. thank you so much Lisa. Wow – your grandmother was a wise wise woman. that is so true. PREACH!!! 🙂 thanks for stopping by!! Hugs and love xox

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  22. I will say I loved Oprah’s speech, it was so moving, but I love what you say here, its so much on point! Hit em where it hurts my friend! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🤘🏽❤️❤️❤️😀😀😀😀😱😱
    #shotsfired

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    1. haha shots fired, oh my gosh I’m literally laughing out loud. Thank you. Yeah – her speech was incredibly moving, but there was more to the story of the night too. It was a both/and kind of an evening. so glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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  23. Hi,

    A well written posting.

    Oprah became leader of a so called New Age religion through her long running show. So perhaps it is no SECRET that she looks upon herself as high priestess?
    However, to quote part of one of my own blog postings—Organization is one of the major keys to false religion. People will do things in a group that they would never do on their own.
    Once enough people become involved in such quasi religious organizations, a momentum and critical mass is achieved that allows such groups to present to the world a false picture of spirituality Even though in truth God is not in their midst at all.

    Warmest regards
    John

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    1. Hi John, thank you for this thoughtful response. lots of great points here. That’s so true – she created it, so she’s steering the ship, you could say. glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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  25. Here’s my (likely to be unpopular) opinion: Oprah Winfrey is a tax-dodging corporatist jerk who promotes quacks like Drs. Phil and Oz as well as anti-vaccination zealots who sow fear and ignorance using the public platforms afforded them by their celebrity status, and really, if it’s come to the point where fake liberals now think it perfectly acceptable and even desirable to run a deeply unqualified right-wing elitist celebrity of their own to compete against Caligula Drumpf (as opposed to a right-wing elitist career politician), then American politics is truly dead and we are merely replaying the slow disintegration of the Roman Empire.

    As to your argument of hypocrisy as it pertains to women flaunting their bodies while denouncing male reactions…I can see both sides of the problem. We as a society have this attitude toward women and sex that is contradictory to the point of schizophrenia. We denounce sex and anything to do with it as evil, sinful, perverted, but our media from advertisements to music videos sells sex and objectifies women and girls as being almost solely for immediate gratification of physical urges. We decry rape culture, but demand that women be allowed to dress in ways designed to provoke reaction for good or for ill, thus sending a confusing message: “Look at our bodies, but don’t look at our bodies you perverts!” This is not to absolve or excuse males who commit rape and other forms of sexual assault—just the opposite, in fact: it is even more important for males in the 21st century to cease viewing females as sex objects, start looking at them as human beings with their own rights, ambitions, and feelings, and learn to respect boundaries at all times. But those boundaries need to be crystal clear, and unfortunately, all too often they are blurred. And it is this blurring that allows subhuman degenerates predators like Harvey Weinstein and Caligula Drumpf to get away with assault and harassment. It’s what lets savage little boys like Brock Turner get a slap on the wrist for raping an unconscious woman while the victim is blamed for putting herself in a position to be raped.

    What can be done about this social schizophrenia? I’m not asking this question as a rhetorical. I really would appreciate some good ideas, because I don’t know the answer.

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    1. Thank you Michael, for sharing your thoughts on this. Lots of powerful food for thought here. that line is definitely being blurred, and you’re so right- the Brock Turner assault is absolutely despicable. it’s cases like that that reinforce the skewed perception and mindset of rape culture. we need an overhaul of our media and entertainment and rap/music lyrics and advertisements — to promote respect. Hugs and love xox

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  27. Checking in to hear your recent heart beat. I chose not to watch the Golden Globes, knowing I’d have a very similar take on it as your recent post. I am thankful for your courage in speaking the Truth that obviously stems from your personal relationship with Christ, including your Christian upbringing. You definitely have a platform to speak on such matters, being in the professional acting field. I pray that your voice will be heard to not only those in Hollywood, but also to the young generation. Prayers for you to stay close to Jesus and daily in His Word, to protect yourself from the “fiery darts” of the enemy, and the temptation of the flesh. Stay pure in all you do, for His glory and your personal good. Blessings to you in 2018.

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    1. Thank you so much Charme for your prayers and kind words. Those fiery darts – yes, we’ve got to wear our armor 🙂 Hugs to you xox

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  29. I think the new horizon is referring to a time when women don’t have to choose between a career move or being subjected to sexual harassment or assault. And that I am okay with.
    The part I am wondering about are the accusations that Oprah and Harvey Weinstein were/are close and that she knew about his behaviors. If that’s true, that’s where the hypocrisy is.

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  31. I really appreciate this! You have a way of being fair AND truthful in the same breath. And it’s not just Oprah who we shouldn’t be placing on a pedistal or granting diety status. Many believers often do this with their pastors as well! I’ve been in church leadership for over 25 years and I can verify this. Pastors are human too…and we WILL fail from time to time and disappoint people. God is the ONLY ONE who will not disappoint us. Bless you, and continue your blog ministry.

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    1. Thanks so much Brent, for sharing your thoughts. And i really appreciate your kind words. Amen – we are all human. Hugs and love xox

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  32. Very well said! I greatly appreciate your thoughts on this subject. And you, my sister in Christ, are a woman that young ladies should be looking up to. Thanks for sharing your -not so unpopular- opinion.

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  36. I love how your post generated so many different reactions. One way we learn empathy and gain understanding is listening to others who disagree with us.
    Judgement and hypocrisy are two threads that weaved their way throughout many of the comments about your post. Women were judged for wearing provocative clothing or for working with folks like Weinstein. First off, what about Frances McDormand or Elizabeth Moss or Saorise Ronan’s dresses (3 of the night’s big winners)? Or the woman-of-the-hour being judged, Oprah? All of them wore tasteful attire (even by conservative Christian standards). And the idea that everyone we work with has to meet a certain moral standard or we deserve shame for associating with them is crazy. The guy helping us finalize our latest work project could be a wife-beater. Working with someone does not mean we know their dark secrets nor do we condone the evils they have committed in their past.
    Consider this: the celebrities at these awards shows are celebrating their work, and the movies and t.v. shows honored last night had powerful messages most people should celebrate. The Shape of Water masterfully showed the power of love and acceptance over violence and prejudice. Lady Bird cleverly revealed the complex love between mothers and daughters who disagree yet still accept and respect each others’ differences.
    Hollywood has its flaws, but it also gives people stories of hope and redemption and understanding. And the love and respect shown Oprah last night was mainly that – love and respect for the good she has done and supported. When others share their stories both through movies and real life, we all can benefit from their experiences and learn to be more open-minded, especially with those we may disagree with.

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. That’s true – that’s the beauty of a respectful and open dialogue, is that we can gain new perspectives and understanding. Glad you stopped by. Hugs and love xox

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    1. Thank you so much Lee! Yeah I’ve talked to WP about getting my button back and they are working on it! Since I switched to a business profile that feature sadly went away. Thanks for passing this along! Means a lot. Hugs and love xox

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  42. Great post and interesting thoughts! What I love most here is that you are an actress yourself. I love how you keep standing up for what you believe in and choosing respectable roles. Maybe you’re not having “success” in the terms of millions of dollars and people worshipping at your feet, but God will definitely reward you. And I pray that your Godly influence will continue to grow for women everywhere!

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    1. thank you so much Emily! so glad it resonated with you. and thanks for that encouragement and prayer. big hugs to you xx

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  46. I can’t say I agree with you. I’ll demonstrate. You shouldn’t be wearing pants. Long skirts only. You’re showing too much of your form when you wear pants, and tight sweaters. And in acting, you’re pretending to be something you’re not, which is a lie, and you might on occasion hug or kiss or more with a man who is not your husband. That’s an odd profession to choose for someone with your moral values, don’t you think? Actor?
    I don’t really think that. I’m only trying to demonstrate that everyone has their line. You’ve stated yours, but not everyone agrees. The same is true of “Christian” values. Not everyone agrees on what those values are, not to mention, not everyone is Christian. You can’t just insist that everyone adhere to the moral standards that you believe in.

    The idea here is that women’s standard of dress does not mean men get to harass them. It’s not an invitation, and men can restrain themselves and be civil. That you would attack these women, and only give bare mention to the men they are protesting, means you have missed the point.

    I want to take something back. I do actually think that ‘actress’ is an odd profession for your moral position.

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    1. Hi Ward, thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. that’s definitely a great point, and you’ve given me a lot to think about. Hugs and love xox

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  47. YES!! There has been a massive fuss here bc some Oregonian decided to go topless. At Rhythm & Vines, which is a music festival here in NZ. We don’t do topless here. We don’t have a great track record either when you combine alcohol & skimpy outfits, so why she thought this was cool is beyond me. But oh look at the pseudo feminists rising in her defense…IMO you shouldn’t put yourself in a position to be abused. And sadly, too many people of both sexes do. They drink, which loosens inbuilt barriers, & become selfish. To my mind, both parties here show fault.

    Good for you with your choices. I disagree with Will in one way – actress is one way to show God’s light. There are as many ways as grains of sand – it’s all in the execution.

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    1. Hi friend, thank you so much for your encouragement. and thank you for sharing that about being an actor. i see it as a beautiful way to tell a story, and can be a great tool to share a message or hope or make people feel not alone 🙂 it is a responsibility as to how you use it. that’s why i do a lot of kids educational videos haha big hugs to you xox

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  48. I have to agree on many things that you mentioned. I think a lot of people adore Oprah. She’s very passionate and vocal – which people admire. I’m not here to bash her or her intentions, but I am concerned that people do have her on a pedestal – right there with God. I guess that’s our human nature – hoping for a hero to come and save our world. If you’re a believer, then you know there’s only one.

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