Oprah and the Golden Globes Sham

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The Golden Globes were last night.

Just in case your phone died, your power was out, or you’ve had no contact with the outside world in the last 24 hours.

And, unpopular opinion alert: watching the whole thing, I kind of felt a little bit, oh, sick to my stomach.

Seeing the uber wealthy celebs don all black, and take public cheap shots, and all but genuflect at Oprah’s altar, the whole evening just left a bad taste in my mouth, if I’m being honest.

It honestly just seemed like a bunch of petulant children, complaining, a la Verruca Salt, that their porridge was too hot or too cold.

I mean, many of these women, who are all publicly “championing” the end to sexual assault and harassment, have literally made their careers off of allowing themselves to be sexually objectified. It’s the reason they’re in those chairs. You want to tell me that your skintight black dress, that has slits UpToHere, or is sheer with strategically placed lace, is protesting sexual assault? Honey, take a look in the mirror. How about you cover your goods, and have a little self-respect and then let’s have the conversation. I’m not saying to wear a turtleneck and orthopedic shoes, but just don’t come at me with your crotch hanging out of your dress and tell me that you’re championing respect for women.

It just seemed a little hypocritical if you ask me. It doesn’t add up.

And not that by wearing provocative clothing is in any way, shape, or form “asking for it,” but there is a certain way to present yourself in public, versus how you present yourself in the bedroom. And that line has all but ceased to exist. I don’t know, maybe that was just how I was raised, but it is an act of love and respect to help our brothers in Christ not fall into the trap of sin, and maybe one way of doing that is, I don’t know…not dressing like you work at a brothel. Just a thought.

And I know, I know. Bring on the criticism. I think deep down, we all know it’s at least part true.

But what got to me more than snide remarks from the presenters, the militant feminism on display, or the choir of men, all visibly uncomfortable at the tone of the evening, was Oprah’s sermon on the mount.

Now, first. The fact that in the 75 year history of the Golden Globes, that there has never been a black woman to win that award, is a fact that we should all be ashamed of. And Oprah is absolutely, 100% deserving of that award.

Next. Oprah is a child of God. She has done tremendous good in the world. She has overcome a lot of challenges in her past and has successfully built a career that is transcendent, influential, and impressive.

However, Oprah is not God.

And should not be worshiped as one.

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Listening to her speech, which, yes – it was powerful, articulate, passionate and incredibly moving – about some very difficult and real topics that need addressing and changing and tackling – listening to it, I felt as though I was being taken to church. Hints of southern baptist preaching came to mind, and I was half expecting to hear a “Can I get an amen?” at some point.

But the degree to Oprah’s revere is truly diety-status. And it makes me sick.

Oprah champions beautiful messages: Believing in yourself. Doing good for others. Overcoming adversity. However, her new age spirituality belongs in the dumpster. Because it is not Christianity, and it should not be touted as such.

To the point that, Christians should fear the mass-sheparding of the flocks of millions to her pasture of false truths and vanilla spirituality.

It’s scary.

But back to her Golden Globes 2018 speech. The “new day” on the horizon for young women and girls.

Granted, I fully realize that I have been blessed with a solid and safe upbringing that, sadly, not everyone is fortunate enough to have. Sure, I had my health challenges, and had one episode of sexual assault, but my life has been incredibly secure. My parents are loving, Christian people who have been married over 40 years. There has been no domestic abuse, no poverty, homelessness, unemployment, racism, or prejudice that I’ve had to personally experience, and for that I am incredibly grateful. And I know that that is not the case for everyone. And that is heartbreaking. And if that’s reason enough to be wearing a black dress, then I guess sign me up.

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But.

This “new day” on the horizon.

Am I missing something?

This life that they’re complaining of….we have it so good. We live such a privileged existence here in the United States. We have health care. We can vote. Drive cars. Marry whomever we choose. Have access to clean food and water. We can go to college. Hold any job we choose — up to and including the President of the United States.

What about in third world countries, where women are still suppressed by men? What about in the middle east, where women are still “kept” by men, and prohibited from driving, or showing anything other than their eyes in public?

Truly, what room do we have to talk?

The sexual abuse that has been coming out recently here, is deplorable. And I am so glad that those predators and creeps are finally being called out and given the consequences they so deserve.

As an actor myself, I too, have been on the receiving end of unwanted advances made by “decision makers,” and have faced the career altering-consequences when I turned down those men.

But I have also, to the detriment of my career, turned down the numerous opportunities I’ve received to play great roles that also happen to involve nudity, sex, or other situations/dialogue that goes against my morals and beliefs.  Why? Because I am actually championing women and the messages that art sends out into the world to young women and men about respect. Respect for others. Respect for oneself. Respect for marriage. Respect for life.

And I think that maybe, in addition to the black dresses and the stirring stump speeches, if Hollywood really wants to make a difference in the climate of respecting one another, they need only to look as far as the content they are creating.

Because truly, and sadly, they are the gatekeepers for the tone in our society. They are the trendsetters in every sense of the word. And much of the filth that comes out of Hollywood and onto our big and little screens across the country consists of nothing more than glorified, soft-porn that mocks God, glorifies unnatural beauty standards, and celebrates infidelity and promiscuity.

So don’t throw on a black outfit and tell me you’re championing women and fighting for respect.

Not with that track record.

It’ll take more than an Oprah sermon to get me to believe any of that.

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558 thoughts on “Oprah and the Golden Globes Sham”

  1. Caralyn…you have officially become one of my “sheroes” 🙌🏽🙌🏽! I absolutely love this post. Gutsy, balanced, and very well thought out.

    You rock, girl!!

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  2. Love it! 🙂 Agree with every word you said (which is rare for me).

    What’s behind all this is indeed the lack of God in their lives. As you said, the new age spirituality doesn’t cut it. But it’s not really new age, just pagan – in the Old Testament there are numerous references to people worshiping elements of nature and engaging in mystic, spiritist, paranormal practices.

    This pagan spirituality does give them the opportunity to engage in a dichotomic existence, with good and evil coexisting in them, so that they can primarily please men.

    When we choose to live a life where we wish to please God, many things become unbearable – and not out of moralism, but simply because they are incompatible with love. And God is love.

    I’m so happy to read you’ve turned down work because they were not aligned with your values. Also rare to find that.

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  4. You do have a point in this topic and yes, being half-naked in public and intentionally is just self-advertisement “here is my number”, a simple flesh-market…
    In public people ought to look in the eyes of each other, instead of checking a fantasy menu…

    On the other hand, at least there are more and more people who start to speak up, that night Natalie Portman also mentioned how all men director nominees were – a little but witty thing.

    It is kind of new for everyone. It took 2000 years and the whole USA to come to the point where not only a few people but masses worldwide started to talk about the very thing: women are not objects.
    The same way as no man should objectify any women, no woman should objectify herself.

    Still hard to believe, but this message how God created man and woman as equal and reciprocal partners to each other with the idea of their unity for their common good is still unknown and non-believed for the most.

    So, as for happy smiles: it started to happen with baby steps and lots of uncertainty how to change a worldwide culture and the whole historical understanding. It is a big undertaking, will take time.
    As for the sadness: more and more takes advantages on this whole thing as it was a new business model.

    And everybody seems to be judgemental in this, or at least many.
    Jesus has never judged anyone. God has never judged any of us.

    He, as any Parent, is waiting for us to grow and be mature, and then discover the world together as co-creators…

    Blessings!

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    1. Thanks friend for sharing your thoughts on this emotional topic. You’re right – Jesus never judged. You make some excellent points here. Thanks for stopping by. Hugs and love xox

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  6. Thank you for what you shared here. When you wrote these words: “And much of the filth that comes out of Hollywood and onto our big and little screens across the country consists of nothing more than glorified, soft-porn that mocks God, glorifies unnatural beauty standards, and celebrates infidelity and promiscuity. So don’t throw on a black outfit and tell me you’re championing women and fighting for respect,” you expressed my feelings exactly.

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  7. Unfortunately (maybe, fortunately!) I missed the golden globes. But your recap certainly hit the spot! I just love your candid honesty — and your willingness to “go against the modern flow.” You are so right… the hypocrisy of Hollywood just astounds me sometimes. Thank you for taking these issues to task. And thanks for taking a stand for what is truly right… it IS about respect… consideration… and treating others as you would want to be treated. Thanks for being a sane and decent voice among all the insanity out there. Love your posts. Love your faithfulness. I know you will keep standing for what is right and true! M. A.

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    1. thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. yeah definitely a bit of an unpopular opinion here… eek! thanks for your encouragement, MA. Means the world. Hugs and love xox

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  8. Your words are so true! It’s refreshing to know that what we religious Jews believe—that the glory of a woman is on the inside (and not for public display)—is shared by many. Even clothes that make a person stand out are discouraged. We can be elegantly dressed without putting our bodies on display. What’s inside, heart, brain, and thoughts, are what makes us worthy of notice. Thank you for liking my post.

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  10. I’m jumping on board a little late, but I greatly enjoyed your point of view, as I always do. This was on the mark. I’ve always puzzled how Hollywood can churn out movie after movie that objectify women and trivialize sex and then claim to be horrified that people behave badly. No one should have to be subject to the abuse that the women who have spoken up have endured, and Weinstein and the lot need to be held accountable. But I’m with those who are tired of Hollywood preaching at us while turning a blind eye for so long. They need to change their actions if they want their message to be believable.

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    1. Hi Rashell, thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. Yeah, we need to demand better quality stuff to come out of Hollywood! glad you stopped by. Hugs and love xox

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  11. I have been thinking about this so much lately and feel so conflicted… is this a trend or will their be real change… Is hollywood the population to facilitate the change… And so many more thoughts… Excellent points all around here and it reinforces to me how complex this all is.

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    1. Thank you so much Sara for sharing your thoughts on this. yeah those are really great questions. it is an extremely difficult and complicated issue that is steeped in emotion too. Hugs and love xox

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  12. We don’t see much self respecting forms of feminism in the West, or East as well, however it is quite refreshing to read such ideas whether i agree with everything or not. Shame that men don’t put the same standards on themselves that they do on women. In any case, great read. Thanks

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  13. It’s a shame how much the sexual harassment scandals have affected so many lives. These are men and women who have lives of their own but can’t move on from the shame and pain that came with being sexually harassed.

    This post reminded me that we are all created equal in God’s eyes. Genesis 1:26 even says that God created man in His image and in His likeness. This post also reminded me of a song by Christian group Mercy Me called, “Beautiful”.

    If you want to check it out; the link is below. This song is a great reminder that we are sacred and beautiful to God. Nothing in this world can surpass God’s love for us.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7C2o0jHNRuU .

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    1. thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. yeah, it is really sad that it has caused so many deep wounds. amen to that – we are all equal in His eyes. thanks for sharing this song! Hugs and love xox

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  14. “…if Hollywood really wants to make a difference in the climate of respecting one another, they need only to look as far as the content they are creating.” YES! I didn’t watch the Golden Globes because I expected it to be politically charged and wasn’t interested, but of course, I’ve caught snippets here and there throughout the day today. I enjoyed your post. Well said and thanks for sharing.

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    1. Thank you so much Cecelia! yep – it was defffffinitely politically charged! Glad you enjoyed the post. big hugs to you xo

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  15. I so agree with you on that! Hollywood and their ungodly influences have inflicted most of the young generations nowadays turning them away from morality! Its such a sad thing but all these are continual signs of the last days in which we are currently living in! Jesus is coming very soon! God bless and keep you my friend! Thank you for sharing this and for being real like KFC! LOL! Mich love and hugs!! Xxoo 😇🙏✨💕💕

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    1. thank you so much Tammy! yeah, it’s so sad how young middle school kids are absorbing all the crap like 50 Shades of Gray that are coming out of Tinsel Town. It makes me sad. Kids need quality things to watch and emulate. thanks for stopping yb and for your encouragement. Hugs and love xox

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      1. You’re welcome!!! Yeah it really is sad!!! May God remove all spiritual blindness and lies that the enemy has veneered their eyes and mind with. You’re most welcome! May we keep them in our prayers also🙏 xxoo

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      3. Fifty shades of gray for adults, Fifty sounds of huh? for children.

        Find it intriguing you take the time to respond to most of the comments, most do not.

        Keep up the good work and may the Lord guide and bless your endeavors.

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  16. Thank you for this; I loved reading it! Yes, I agree that women should uphold better respect – for themselves and the way they decide to present themselves to society. I am a HUGE believer in modest clothing on women, and how women should be careful how they portray themselves in front of the opposite sex. Yes, most of us around the world (yes, even here in South Africa), have it quite good where us women have rights. And I feel that those of us that have the opportunity or are in a position of being a good example/role model to other women should definitely take up that task; and not take it up lightly either. Carry on being an inspiration; hope you have a great day! : )

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    1. Thank you so much for you encouraging words! I’m so glad this resonated with you. And wow South Africa! That’s amazing. Thanks for stopping by and have a beautiful day! Hugs and love xox

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  17. Well-said! I am so joyful knowing that there are writers like you who can stand up for what is dignified and blameless. Keep it up, girl 😊

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  18. As you know, I love your blog and there is a reason why you have such a large following because you have a very fresh honest perspective. I’m not sure I can add anything that hasn’t already been mentioned but I will say this…

    While I do believe that men and women should take personal responsibility for the way they present themselves to the world. Men now have an opportunity to evolve their understanding…it really doesn’t matter what a woman wears, a fashion choice does not mean consent is given nor is it okay to harass a women because she wears a short skirt.

    The plight of celebrity millionaires does nothing for me either BUT this issue would never have gained mainstream attention if it were any other industry and I applaud Hollywood for starting a conversation that would never have been started.

    I wouldn’t want ANY man to believe that he can somehow justify poor behaviour because of what a women chooses to wear. I thank you for for writing such an interesting piece, I may not agree with everything but I understand it and more importantly I respect it.

    Bravo!

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    1. Thank you so much Tyrone. I like that – evolve their understanding. That’s a great point. And I too am glad they started a conversation. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and joining the dialogue! Big hugs xox

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  20. So we’ll said Carolyn!! You took on a touchy topic and explained it beautifully – and as always, not without a touch of your trademark flare and humour 😉

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  21. When a woman bares her naked chest to show off her mammary glands she’s not just exposing the most beautiful organ of the female (as far as the artist in me sees it -it’s the best sculpted by the Creator), she is equally attracting men of rotten minds. She’s asking to be illicitly clawed.

    The predator may not come immediately when you’re aged 20-40 years; he can wait till your 60th to 75th year. The rotundity of the decades past is all his fiendish mind remembers. Yes, it’ll be his fault, under the law. You’ll be equally guilty: morally. When a human craves absolute freedom the enemy had sown tares in the heart of the victim unbeknown to the person involved.

    Do we all not know where the great Oprah Winfrey comes from? This woman has been baptized into the philosophy began by Italian Chancellor, Brunetto Latini (c. 1220-94), The truth, according to the revelation of Divine protocol (HIS story), is that it is a Luciferan proclivity, which he displayed before the throne of the Majesty on high, to proclaim and to establish the spirit of individualism. In the darkened, egoistic resolve of Lucifer, a messenger, we find the location of the genesis of humanism.

    Collins Dictionary defines humanism thus: “1. the denial of any power or moral value superior to that of humanity; the rejection of religion in favour of a belief in the advancement of humanity by its own efforts. 2. A philosophical position that stresses the autonomy of human reason in contradistinction to the authority of the Church. 3. (Often capital) a cultural movement of the Renaissance, based on classical studies.” Basically, humanism is against the worship of Jehovah and His Christ which will invariably jettison the dependence on the Holy Spirit. Lucifer failed in his nefarious attempt to actualize his utopian philosophy of individualism, which was intended to make him another personage of celestial adoration.

    My post, titled: “THE GENESIS OF HUMANISM,” explains more.

    For ‘Secular Humanism’ “Man, in the beginning,” they believe, “made God”.

    In her attempt to be individualistic the first woman, the wife of Adam, added to God’s protocol when she said to her tempter, “neither shall ye touch,” which wasn’t Divine revelation. Does it, then, surprise me that another woman is straying away by her decision to become god or a goddess? Ye shall know them by their fruits, God’s protocol asseverates. Amen!

    Well done BBB, a true feminine Carolyn!

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  22. Ok so I have to admit – I have been away for about a month (computer issues) BUT – I am so glad to see that you are here still posting and writing great pieces. I have to say also – Superb Article and so “On Point” with all of this. It renews my faith in the human race and after alll of the responses – you are not alone. There are so many followers that share your sentiments and agree with you that this “new day” belongs in the trash. Love reading your articles and its nice to be somewhat back in the stream of things.

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  23. Ok, I’ll try again. Oprah. I dunno. It was probably more of a PR spot for her. I can see her being disgruntled over what’s going on in our country right now, but at the same time would she REALLY be a candidate type? Its hard to say; I mean, nobody thought Trump would be a serious candidate and look what happened. I liked her show the most back in the 90s when it seemed to be about really getting the word out about issues and other things to bring the public into “the know”. But then in the 2000s, before she cancelled it, it had gotten into more frivolous things as so many other talk shows. She has a lot of bucks like Trump. Award shows? I’ve never been much of an “OMG I gotta watch” type of fan. As my mom said to me years ago, “they’re just patting each other on the back”. To me, one of the best messages out there is YOURS and I love reading it even if I have to catch up on a few days that I didn’t. Your light is brighter than all the flashes in front of any red carpet! xoxoxoxo

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    1. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. Yeah def PR. I read an interesting piece this morning about how her speech actually didn’t at all call out Weinstein – which it could have and should have. Just an interesting slant. You bring up some great points. Great food for thought. And gosh thanks for your kind words. Much love to you friend xox

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      2. Yeah theres been a lot of stuff being said about how some of these women went to it all dressed in black but then immediately went right back to supporting things that others consider to be slanderous to women and then you have the guy they yacked about on the morning shows who wore the pin, but is also known for abuse. I sometimes think that a majority of Hollywood likes to voice something but not actually practice what they put out They’ll go all awareness over something but then back on the job….. Thats whats awesome about you. You are the genuine!! Its what makes you wonderful!! xoxo

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  24. This.
    It’s everything I want to say, and everything I feel, and everything I HAVEN’T been seeing or reading. Thanks for boldly sharing your thoughts and feelings, even if they aren’t “popular.” It’s truth, and well-said.

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  26. True! I love every point, we truly can not “have it all”, and to star in movies that showcase women as WILLING sex objects and then complain that LIFE is dictating that is truly hypocritical.
    As much as I detest it myself, the fact that we do live in a society that requires us to consider what vibe we are sending the deranged lunatic lurking in the midst, but unfortunately we do have to consider them. I learned this the hard way, even though I knew it, and would not acknowledge the truth of it, until my stint in my early twenties managing a “lingerie boutique” and it ALL does contribute to the violence against women.
    And like you I would NEVER say anything about what anyone wears, but we all know that “life imitates art” and a sure way to bring a thought or attitude to society is to blitz it in movies, music, and the media.
    I agree with you also about Oprah, and she has made some seriously “stern” and questionable comments about God in the past and I see this as just another rung on her ladder and if anyone deserves any credit for the uprising against harassment, it is Megyn Kelly and all those who came forward at the beginning.
    Thankfully, we are finally seeing what should have been long ago, women standing up and against sexism in a country that we do have that right and that we can be an influence the world over! Awesome as always!

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    1. Thank you so much Nina. I appreciate your thoughts on this. I’m glad so much of it resonated with you. Yes! I’m glad women are standing up too. Hugs and love xox

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  27. Well-said. The hypocrisy that Hollywood embodies is more than a little ironic. However, because it’s gone on so long, I fear there is little chance it will change anytime soon. Thank you for your boldness and courage to speak up and to turn down those roles that would have compromised your values.
    Thanks also for reading and liking my posts at
    ZikJackson.wordpress.com. It’s encouraging.

    Zik

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  28. Caralyn,
    I once again commend you for your honesty and humility. Yes, we live in a world where some people feel that they can take advantage of others and use their power and or position to get what they want. Yes, we should stand up for women and others who have been sexually harassed and or assaulted, however, if like you pointed out we are going to stand up, protest and defend these victims then we need to make sure to check ourselves in the mirror. I like Mandy Moore she has a beautiful voice and is very good actress but if by the photo you posted reflects her stance on sexual harassment she is doing a poor job of it. Women should not be harassed or assaulted because “they are asking for it”, but they reflect a character of person that exemplifies sexuality. Hope that I explained it correctly. Men are more likely going to be attracted and go after women who dress in a way that leaves no mystery than a woman who wears a knee length dress that reveals nothing. It is just how our fallen world and our society is. Society a.k.a Satan tells the world what beauty and sexy really are. If your not that then you are nothing. Women should be able to dress however they like and however they feel comfortable and pretty, but there should be some decency. It has been said by Cher and others that if you’ve got it flaunt it but that is not the message to put out there. Final point on those who say or claim that they are standing against sexual harassment- lead by example or stay out of it. It is like our parents would tell us, if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all. If you cannot properly support and morally support this cause, then don’t. You look like hypocrites and frauds. WHICH REMINDS ME OF THE PHARISEES AND SADDUCEE IN THE BIBLE. JESUS DID NOT DRESS LIKE them or the harlots, or the tax collectors or a rich king, he dressed like like the humble, all loving, and pure God that he is. He did not need to be like everyone else to share his love or his message.
    Now for Oprah- ahem. there was a time when I respected her and liked her, but when I heard how she had someone fired at a store in NY City because they would not reopen for her, the respect vanished. She was treating the person as if they were beneath her so when I see or hear acting as of she cares about certain causes, women, etc., I just can’t. My husband cannot stand her. Thinks she is a fraud and liar. I understand that she may have gone through things in her life but don’t be a hypocrite and a fraud. It si not easy I understand that and although she is in the limelight and I’m not I recognize that I have been a hypocrite at times and a fraud when I wasn’t being true to myself and doing things to get acceptance by people in this world. Where did that get me? Nowhere. I am seriously not trying to judge Oprah, I just don’t particularly respect her and I feel in my opinion that those in positions such as herself and other celebrities and people in powerful and noted positions have a responsibility to our world TO LEAD BY EXAMPLE! PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH!
    I am not sure that I can listen to what she said at the awards ceremony. I stopped watching those tv shows a long long time ago in a galaxy not far enough away.
    lol.
    God bless Caralyn.

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    1. Thank you so much for this heartfelt response! I’m with you friend. Yes! Let us lead by example-amen amen! So glad you stopped by! Hugs and love xox

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    1. I think it is just an outward symbol of oppression to some people. As I am not Muslim, I do not know personally. Thanks for stopping by. Hugs and love xox

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  31. I just have to commend you for standing up and saying your piece here. I have been slowly disgusted and disenchanted by the manipulative money machine of Hollywood for some time now. I used to feed into the entire game; especially the awards shows, now I want no part of it. The hypocrisy of it all is disturbing.

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  32. Well said; we are a society of hypocrites. The food companies want us to eat better but produce bad food, the water companies want us to drink better water but bottle sad water. The environment has changed some in Hollywood. Previously, I have seen groups protest the sexism of woman in Hollywood, advertising and such, but they were never the woman actually doing the acting or in the advertising. The change is as you mentioned is the people, the woman, in the industry are now speaking out about the sexism themselves. However, what has not changed, is the people in the industry still do not posses the value or at least demonstrate they have the value, morals and principals to enforce what they have said. God Bless Them – and you too 🙂 – all the time.

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      3. I forgot to complement you on your strength of character and faith, if you accept this, you make me proud to know you.

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  33. Some great points. I had forgotten many of the points you made. And I never did trust Oprah. Some of the points you made could only be stated by another woman. I agree whole heartedly.

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  34. You hit the nail on the head when you talk about the content they create. I think a very valid question would be, “Did Oprah know Weinstein was a pig and chose to look the other way?” I hope not, especially considering she was a victim of sexual abuse herself. I can see women keeping quiet if their lives (or their family’s lives, as in the case if Elizabeth Smart) were threatened, but their careers? Gimme a break. Matt Walsh is right–the real heroines we’ll probably never know, because they didn’t go along to get along.

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  35. The choice is ours. Read sermon on the mount. Everyone will have to face their Maker and account for their lives in the end. Brave post! 🙂

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  36. There are endless thoughts and conversations to be constructed on this subject so I will try to be brief. I appreciate your honesty in exposing Hollywood for the filth and hypocrisy it plagues our society, and unfortunately, the world with on a daily basis. I think the main question that arises is what can Christians do? The main thing is to PRAY FOR HOLLYWOOD- pray for the redemption of your favorite actor and celebrity, pray for Christians to seek out jobs in the entertainment ministry, pray for the people creating and choosing these scripts and costumes and promoting sex scenes because it is great to have a few Christian actors like you who will stand for God and turn down opportunities, but what we need is for the hearts of decision makers to change so no one will ever have to turn down a vulgar opportunity because the products of Hollywood will be life giving instead of the typical rubbish thrown at everyone. It is unfortunate how much Christians complain about media instead of being thankful and bringing that straight to the Lord as an opportunity to seek His Kingdom and come alongside Him in the quest of redemption for influential people in society.
    I appreciate the way you are using this platform to glorify God and bring His truth to light because many people who see Hollywood for what it is don’t know what to do or how to use their voice. Thank you for being bold and using yours. May God bless you and keep you while we are apart and I look forward to seeing you in Heaven.

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    1. Thanks so much for this this thoughtful response. What can Christian’s do – that is a really powerful question to think about. Glad you stopped by, and thank you for all your kind words. Hugs and love xox

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  37. Preach! The only “new day” that we need is the day when Christ will return. Yes, we all face trials. Yes, sexual assault is deplorable. Yes, I want abuse, homelessness, and crime to cease. But our lives (for the most part) are so good in America. We live in a sinful world that will have problems until the Millenial kingdom.

    Thanks for sharing this brave post. You said everything so much better than I could have!

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  38. I was raised as a “Christian” and I still believe in Christian values. These could be logically separated from Christian doctrine and from messages in the Bible. For instance, some Christians look at the Bible and think of it as one source of wisdom but not the only source. I don’t believe everything in it is literally true — such as that God literally created the world in seven ordinary days. I don’t find either the “doubts” or “faith” of others particularly disturbing, but it does seem society has largely abandoned Christian values as well. In business, in the US, it seems “Okay” to do anything as long as it makes more money. And, if someone is rich and famous, they are the new “Saints” — not someone working ethically and quietly to help all of humanity or make the world a better place. I think, sadly, that Christianity has largely been replaced by “Trumpism” — I don’t think he started it (and there are many Democrats and well as Republicans who are Trumpists). I call it that because he epitomizes it. And these values are anything but Christian, IMHO, but they are more consonant with what people find acceptable business practices — lie, cheat, exaggerate, spin the media, pay lawmakers to tilt the playing field, sell your body to advance — “whatever.” I’d be interested in your comments on my earlier post: “Trumpism is a new religion.” You seem to be holding on to and holding out for Christian values rather than “Trumpism.” Thank you for that. https://petersironwood.wordpress.com

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this. What powerful ideas here. Lots to chew on. Thank you. Big hugs to you xox

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  39. I can’t believe you’ve responded to virtually all comments on this post. Kudos!

    My .02: I think calling for more modesty is admirable but it’s not a complete solution to the problem. Jesus condemns men for looking after women to lust for them, and that was a culture where women wore robes (maybe I’m not 100% correct here)… Like maybe prostitutes wore less than robes, I’m not sure.

    So all I’m trying to say is that if people did their part and maintained purity people could dress however they wanted, though it certainly helps to dress modestly. It’s probably one of those, “both and” things.

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    1. Thanks so much. You’re right – it’s not a complete solution for sure. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts! Hugs and love xox

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  42. First of all, thank you for this post and for sharing your thoughts and opinions. I’ve read several of the comments on here and appreciate what others have had to say as well. This is obviously a subject that brings upon many thoughts and opinions. It’s interesting to read all the different points of view. There’s one thing that keeps surfacing in my mind and especially now after what I witnessed during the Golden Globes. Yes, I actually subjected myself to the show. I don’t know why I put myself through it, as I haven’t enjoyed an awards show for quite some years. But for some reason, I decided to give it another try hoping by some miracle this time would be different. Anyways, I don’t want to get off topic here, so I’ll get back to what keeps surfacing in my mind and here it goes…how far will this misconduct/abuse towards women go? What I mean is what will the definition of misconduct or abuse look like in the future? Will there be clear boundaries established or will it be fuzzy, simply defined by whatever each individual declares is inappropriate or abusive? We’ve seen this happen time and time again. Something takes place that SHOULD NOT take place. There’s a victim, or victims, that SHOULD BE protected. Justice SHOULD BE served. But before we know it, a movement gets put into place. And the motive for that movement, at least at the beginning, is to bring awareness in hopes to help stop this kind of unacceptable abusive behavior. But over time, that “movement” turns into an all out war. And the “victims” overtime become the bullies and abusers themselves. They do this by trying to ENFORCE an AGENDA that goes way beyond the original complaint. And anyone who does not agree with this new agenda becomes the victim themselves. We’ve seen this with the Women’s Rights movement, the LGBT movement, and the like. The Gay movement itself originally began because people living a homosexual lifestyle were being bullied, beaten and abused by others. And this in itself is wrong. It wasn’t about Gay marriage at first, that became a part of the agenda much later. But, remember when it did become a part of the agenda what happened to the Christian couple who owned a bakery and refused to bake a wedding cake for a gay couple because it went against their religious beliefs? They hadn’t harmed this gay couple in any way by refusing to bake them a wedding cake. And there were plenty of other bakeries who would’ve been more than willing to bake their wedding cake for them. But that wasn’t the point. This gay couple wanted to make a mockery out of this couple simply because they did not AGREE with their lifestyle. They completely bullied and mistreated this poor couple by their actions. If I remember correctly, they bullied them right out of business! This is just one of many other examples. Don’t even get me started on Women’s Rights and abortions!. After seeing what I witnessed watching at the Golden Globes, I’m just wondering if this is just the beginning of a new movement. If so, all I have to say is, “MEN, WATCH YOUR BACKS!” Don’t get me wrong, I know from experience what it feels like to be mistreated in this way. And it is completely WRONG. But, I’m just wondering how far this wrong will be taken? Will the voice of wrong turn into a completely different voice altogether in the future to serve a completely different agenda?

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    1. Hi friend, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this emotional topic. You have provided some really powerful food for thought. I appreciate you joining the conversation and sharing your perspective! i think only time will tell! big hugs to you xox

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  43. Good on you for being brave enough to post on this topic. I’ve thought about it many times but I never had the courage to do so.

    For me, I’ve found the MeToo movement a little overwhelming. I don’t know if it’s because of my past and I find it all a bit triggering or for some other reason.

    Sometimes the skeptic in me questions if it would be treated like such a big deal if they weren’t rich and famous. Part of me feels like they are still living their fancy lives taking care of themselves. I guess I feel like you have to be one of them to belong–and the rest of us are being left behind, still dealing with our traumas in shame and silence, still unable to speak out for fear of punishment.

    Then part of me feels extremely awful for feeling the way that I do, because it doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor, what your religion, sexuality or skin colour is, you in no way deserve to be sexually harassed, assaulted or shamed.

    My hope is that they use the platform they’ve been given in a good way. They have the opportunity, but I still don’t know if it what they are currently doing will serve anyone except themselves.

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    1. Hi Kerry, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this emotional topic. that is so so so true – no one deserves to receive that violence. it is heartbreaking to think that women are carrying around that trauma in their hearts and bodies. i hope that too. Hugs and love xox

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  44. Really enjoyed your post! Amazing and very true. I am also tired of seeing women flaunting their bodies like common prostitutes….even in the church (to their shame). consider me now to be your biggest fan! keep speaking it. People need to hear it. God bless you. What is your name? Will be following your posts from now on.

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  49. At least the awards night was not only glitz and glamour but has become an avenue to help tackle the issue of sexual harassment which by the way happens to both men and women.

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